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March 30, 2020 · 5:42 pm

Modesty Ablaze reviews the 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit at Cloud 9

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“But, but, it’s massive Mistress” he stammered nervously.

“You told me you could take much bigger the last time!” I reminded him as I pushed him back onto the bench. “In fact, as I recall, you begged me. ‘Bigger, deeper Mistress’ you said. So . . . now we shall see, won’t we !!!”

The Cloud 9 – 8inch Premium Starter Kit – had, co-incidentally, happened to arrive in my postbox just a week or so after that last time. So . . .

Well, it is rather large actually. Larger than it looks on the Cloud 9 website page. In fact, I did struggle to attach it into my strap-on harness at first. But once clipped into place it does feel fun to wear. Much heavier than my “normal dick” and I love the swing of it as I swivel my hips, and walk across the floor.

But, first things first. The purpose of this post is to actually tell you all about the Cloud 9 Premium Starter Kit . . . and then, after that, how it felt for me.
And of course for my, not-so-willing, assistant.

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So, the 8 inch Dong Starter Kit is supplied in a triangular shaped, clear plastic fold-out holder. The sort of packaging made to hang in rows from those wall racks at your local toy shop. (Well possibly not your “toy-shop” down the road, but you know the sort of wall display racks I mean). The plastic is shape-moulded to perfectly contain the 8 inch dong itself, as well as the accompanying Medium Butt Plug and the two Power-Stretch Cock Rings. (Which my assistant insisted “look too small” when he first saw them.
But they are super-stretchy and do work just fine! LOL !!!)

Modesty Ablaze 8 inch Cock Rings

The base of the pack contains a small “use and care” folded leaflet and, thankfully, a black fabric travel-pouch. I say thankfully because I did find the pack itself rather difficult. Not difficult to open or close, because it does open and snap back in position quite easily . . . but rather difficult to easily store in one’s wardrobe or cabinet. So the pouch is certainly a welcome accessory, though it would benefit from being a couple of inches deeper as, when pushing the Dong inside, along with the Butt Plug as well, it’s difficult to pull the draw-string of the pouch completely closed without showing a little of the base of the Dong itself. (Or the head, depending which way you insert the items into the pouch).

Modesty Ablaze Dong Travel Pouch

Now, I must confess that on first touch I found the Dong, and the Plug, rather sticky and yucky to pick up and hold. I love, and am most used to, silicone for most of my usual toys. So the PVC plastic of both toys, but particularly the Dong, probably because of it’s size and weight, feels rather . . . well “tacky” . . . I suppose is the best way of describing it. However a liberal coating of lube when applying a condom, which of course is always necessary with any insertable, soon overcame that first reaction. And I actually do like the feel of the veined-shaft when I rub the palms of my hand over it. So, coupled with the way the weight of it “hangs” in my harness, I have come to enjoy the feel of my 8-inch Dong.

Modesty Ablaze Dong and Strap On Harness

I’m not quite so keen on the testicle-shaped moulding at the base of it though. I know it is supposed to convey the notion of realism but it neither feels, nor looks, realistic in my view. So that part of the design doesn’t do anything for me . . . though it may appeal to others of course.

The dong is not exclusively a strap-on appendage as it’s suction-cupped base is designed to also be used for solo-play, (more of that later). So this base, and the make-believe balls, make the dong 9.5 inches in length. The 8-inch in it’s name refers to the actual “insertable” length, so with a circumference of 6 inches (1.9 inches in diameter) it certainly is an impressive toy.

The accompanying Butt Plug has, as you can see from my photos, a flat-flanged shaped base to ensure it’s 1.5 inch diameter, and 5 inch insertable length, doesn’t get lost inside the wearer’s bottom. I found it quite useful as I “warmed-up” my assistant. And he certainly found it quite manageable . . . and the tapered shaft comfortable . . . and quite enjoyable as well apparently.

Modesty Ablaze Dong Butt Plug

So . . . I hear you asking, how was the dong? . . . in practice so to speak?

Well I always get rather excited on first receiving a new toy in the post. So, notwithstanding those first feelings of “yucky-ness”, I was soon experimenting with my lube . . . and that suction-cup base. No . . . not anally . . . that’s just not my thing. Well, not normally anyway, and certainly not for something as big as the 8-inch Dong. Rather I wanted to try to sit down, gently gently, front ways on . . . if you know what I mean.

Well, the suction-cup certainly works on my bathroom floor . . . but as much as I wanted to, I found that I wasn’t able to achieve the depth I had thought I would . . . or wished I could!!! So it was a quick retreat to the bedroom and a more comfortable position of laying back and, re-affirming my confidence and control.

But, as I say, the suction-cup did affix easily and firmly to my tiled floor, so if that sounds a fun and workable position for you, then I’m sure you will have a lot of fun. Just have a lot of lube close to hand and . . . don’t lose your balance!

So, a few days later, how would my assistant fare once the Dong was carefully inserted into my strap-on . . . and with a different point of entry?

Modesty Ablaze Dong Strap-On

“No . . . Red Mistress. Red. It’s too wide!” he whimpered, and twisted and turned. And pleaded! Despite all my own twisting and turning . . . and coaxing and commanding . . . it was just not going to work for him. It really is just too big, and too tight a fit for him at least.

However all is not lost for keeping the 8 inch Dong attached to my harness, at least not in the long-term, because I have several more “assistants” whom I suspect may well wish to offer themselves to . . . “assist” in the future.

And yes you can be sure that I will be then be adding updates to my pages here just as soon as I have those opportunities.

The Cloud 9 – 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit
Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10
Pros: The Dong itself is impressively Big (lol!!!) and fun to hold and tease with. The cock rings are easily stretchable and when applied to Assistant No.1 are pleasant to look at and certainly have the desired affect!
Cons: I find PVC is always sticky and “tacky” to the touch.
Material: PVC. 100% phthalate free
Dong Measurements: 9.5 inches long (8 inches insertable), 1.9 inches diameter, 6 inches circumference. 1.1lb weight. Colour: White.
Butt Plug Measurements: 5.5 inches long, 1.57 inches diameter, 4.9 inches circumference. .34lb weight. Colour: Black.
Batteries: None required.
Waterproof: Yes.
Lubricant recommendation: Water based pvc friendly.
After-care: I would always clean before and after use with warm water and mild soap, and dried with a soft, lint-free cloth.
Supplied with: Black fabric, drawstring, travel pouch.

Supplier Product Link: www.cloud9novelties.com


NB: Important Notification – Just as I have published my review, Cloud 9 have informed me that due to the Covid-19 related closure of all non-essential businesses by the Governor in their home state, Cloud 9 have temporarily suspended product and ordering links on their website. Things will return to normal once the current situation is over.

I will update this review, and the necessary product-links, immediately that happens. So do please keep checking back !!!


The Cloud 9 – 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx- K

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February 3, 2020 · 1:33 pm

Couples that Play Together – Stay Together

Besides emotional intimacy and mental intimacy, physical intimacy is an extremely important pillar of any worthwhile and healthy relationship. The bond shared between two people as they offer their bodies to each other is completely unmatched. Most couples delight in being able to shed their calculated masks necessary for daily life and enjoy some raw, carnal pleasure in the bedroom (or anywhere else for that matter). One way couples can further increase their amount of sexual intimacy is by bringing sex toys into the fray and exploiting everything they have to offer.

If you aren’t aware of these benefits, don’t worry! I’ll go over some of the most pertinent ones right here, right now.

A Focus On Sexual Pleasure
According to sex therapist and sex blogger Angela Watson, who blogs over at doctorclimax.com, sex toys in many ways are actually better than traditional intercourse.

She wrote the following:
No matter how skilled any one person is at sex, there are definite limitations to what someone can do with their body. Compared to a vibrator, a penis is always relatively the same shape, can only go for so long before needing a rest, and of course can’t do things like rotate or vibrate in action. Similar attributes apply to the vagina, there’s just only so much possible due to our biology. When you bring in a worthwhile sex toy all of that goes out the window which allows both of you to instead focus on the sheer amount of pleasure possible. Sex toys are designed to exploit our biology in very imaginative ways, to the point where some toys even use things like sonic waves to increase bloodflow and sensation to the clitoris. By focusing on each of your subjective satisfaction levels, sex toys bring you both much closer together.

A Way To Stay Connected

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Technology has always had a close relationship with sexuality. Everyone has heard the stories about how the porn industry championed VHS over Betamax as well as DVDs over laserdisc. That’s not quite what I’m getting at here, but it is somewhat related. New wireless technologies such as Bluetooth as well as smartphone integration has come to the world of sex toys in a big way. There are now many toys available that allow you to remotely control your partner’s sex toy anywhere in the world that has a reliable internet connection. Even on those long business trips or quick stops to visit family, having your partner involved in your sexual gratification is as easy as pushing a few buttons and getting to work. Loneliness, begone!

Keep Things Spicy In The Bedroom

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It can be far too easy to fall into a predictable and ultimately boring routine sexually. Our brains aren’t always the most cooperative with what we really want deep down, we are novelty seeking creatures by design. When you decide to add sex toys into your bedroom routine, many more avenues open up an you both get to share in new sensations and experiences. Even underwhelming sex toys can help bring you together as you laugh and giggle at how poorly they managed to live up to expectations, but obviously the toys that change how both of you conceptualize sex are the real winners here. If you think your sex life is starting to get a little dull, I’d seriously suggest introducing a toy or two into the mix to shake things up a bit.

Help Accept Each Other’s Sexuality

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We’re still somewhat weird about sex as a society, we all enjoy it to some degree and recognize ourselves as sexual beings, but we don’t always feel like we can share those intimate feelings. Between two people who care about each other, that can be a serious detriment in the long term. By choosing to introduce sex toys both of you are acknowleding each other’s sexuality and overall sexual needs. If your partner had an itch that needed to be scratched, you’d scratch it no problem, right? In my opinion, sexual itches should be treated in the exact same manner.

Sex Is A Team Sport

I’ve always been of the opinion that sex is a team sport. Two people are coming together to help achieve some shared goals and have as much fun as possible while doing it. Sometimes the challenges are entirely physical, while others are entirely mental. Sex toys are a fantastic way to help overcome these challenges so you can continue to grow together as human beings.

In short: couples that play together, stay together.

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January 27, 2020 · 9:00 am

Sex In Las Vegas … Does It Stay There

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Las Vegas is hands down among the most outrageous if not the most outrageous city within the United States. The infamous slogan ‘what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas’ lends itself to that reputation. People travel from far and wide to go there and let go of all of their inhibitions without fear of judgment or retribution. Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever your dream is yours when you’re in Vegas. What about the people who live and work there? Does this concept apply to them too?

Throughout many parts of Nevada, state laws have had sex work legalized except in Las Vegas. The state has developed a reputation for its porn, prostitution, and strippers. This market could not flourish if it were not for the willing women out there selling sex. The women in the industry make good money and seem content with their lives in Nevada. What is this life like selling sex in Las Vegas?

Life For Sex Workers In Las Vegas

Escort workers who sell sex in Las Vegas indicate some aspects of their work may not surprise many people, but then some parts may shock you.

  • Many women turn to prostitution in Las Vegas because it pays more than video work, webcam, or things of that nature. Some webcam sites will keep a majority of the proceeds from the work being done with the girls making very little at the end of the day. This leads the ladies to turn away from those mediums and go where the money is…prostitution.
  • There’s more to it than just sexing. There is a difference between being an escort and being a prostitute in Las Vegas. When you’re with a prostitute, you have sex, and they leave with no communication being exchanged. An escort has the responsibility to pose as a faux girlfriend or a friend. They refer to this as the ‘GFE’ or the ‘Girlfriend Experience’.

The escort interacts and socializes with the client. They will have drinks at the bar, perhaps go to dinner and see a show. She may act as a guide around town for the man, basically a companion. There are times that they never even have sex in the escort scenario.

The escort industry is extremely competitive in Las Vegas meaning women have to work harder in this type of role. They have the added benefit of advertising when they’re an escort because the men are paying for companionship as opposed to prostitution. Read here to learn the legalities of nudity in Las Vegas.

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  • Typically, if you’re working out of a brothel, that’s also where you live. The brothel has a structured regimen that you’re to follow when you live there. There is time for the gym, having their hair done and outfit selection, and then the day starts. The system used for booking appointments as well as negotiating/collecting payments is very sophisticated, complete with a computer program and a hostess ensuring that everything went well, with the client having a good time.
  • Among those managing the brothels and the escorts, the most critical aspect for the men is discretion. None of the men want to be found out by their families or with their jobs as having received services from a sex worker. This is also the case with many of the sex workers who are also married with jobs of their own during the day. It is just as important for the ladies that things be kept quiet. It’s not unheard of for clients to be asked to sign a non-disclosure agreement.
  • Brothels offer safety and security that the girls wouldn’t have if they were out on their own. In a different situation as with a pimp, they wouldn’t get to pick who they sleep with and most often they are abused. Brothels mandate that the girls go through STD screenings and there are strict rules which protect and benefit the girls who work there. They maintain a weekly shift schedule while living there. The girls have a contractual obligation once they arrive at the brothel and are bound to that contract until the end date. Go to https://thenevadaindependent.com/article/the-indy-explains-how-legal-prostitution-works-in-nevada to read more about legalized prostitution within Nevada.
  • The escorts are busy providing companionship to a wide variety of different men which sounds like they’re being wined and dined consistently. But the fact is they indicate that this is actually among the loneliest of lives to be involved in. Prostitutes bond with each other because the industry has a stigma that brings them together.

A majority of men will not publicly date a prostitute if they find out what she does. Even developing true friendships within the industry becomes difficult based on the level of competition. Not being able to fully communicate the life that you live with those around you makes becoming close with people very difficult. That’s their reality.

Sometimes they see their lifestyle as a good thing, and then there are other times that they’re sorry they got involved. It can be extremely dangerous, but if you were to ask them, most would say it’s what they want. People are going to buy and sell sex, so really, we need to get rid of the stigma. It’s happening all around us and not necessarily just in Vegas. But what is happening in Vegas, stays in Vegas.

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January 11, 2020 · 1:24 pm

More than just a Modest Discount at @LoveSecrexy

Just a quick . . . tingling . . . Sexy Saturday update post today to let you all know of a Super Sexy Discount being offered by one of my sponsors Secrexy.

Secrexy offer a huge . . . HUGE . . . range of vibrating, thrusting, tingling, tickling and sucking sexual products and lubricants.

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As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post. But if you are a regular visitor here you will know just how much I LOVE testing new sex toys . . . so I’m sure to be visiting Secrexy regularly from now on! – Xxx – K

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January 6, 2020 · 9:00 am

Sex Toys Review: How Do I Know Which Sex Toy Is Right For Me?

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Owning a sex toy can improve your sex life in so many different ways. Even for those people who are ashamed or shy to use them, they are definitely worth a try. Owning a sex toy is like having your own garage to park your car, it saves you the hassle of looking for on-street parking each and every time.

Sex toys are great, and everyone should have one. In today’s day and age, they have become a normal part of our daily lives and popular culture as a whole. Sex shops have sprung up in every corner with a variety of different ones to choose from, in all shapes and sizes and colours to match! The movie industry has taken the idea and made something of it too, enter ‘Fifty-Shades-of-Grey’, possibly the one movie that comes to mind and fits this topic (not to mention has its own sex toy collection).

If you are too embarrassed to go into a sex shop, there is always the option of purchasing one online and get it delivered to you, online shops like Anastasia Sex Toys makes this a no-brainer. It is that simple and accessible. The two-way advantage of having one is that not only does it improve your sex life, but it also helps you figure out a thing or two about your own body.

Advantages of getting a sex toy:

  • If things are getting boring in your relationship, it can add some pizazz to it.
  • Masturbation is said to lower prostate cancer in men.
  • It is also shown to reduce menstrual cramps in women.
  • It gives you a good night’s sleep.
  • You can turn it into a shopping-bonding adventure with your girlfriends.
  • Your partner may now know the exact spots that turn you on which makes it less stressful for him.
  • It accommodates both single people and people in relationships.
  • The chances of having more than one orgasm using a sex toy are higher.
  • Some people fantasize about it, now they make it a reality.

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The stigma behind sex toys is that women’s varieties are sensual and erotic, whereas men’s toys are horrible and gross. It shouldn’t be that way, and some specialist erotic stores strive to help customers see that there is no difference between sex toys for men and women and this stigma is all in our heads or influenced by what people tell you or what the media portrays.

What do people say about them? Let’s take a look at a few options that have been reviewed by popular sources:

  • Lovelife Rev Finger Vibrator: This handy vibrator is the first of its kind and was specially designed to make the toy easier to grab for anyone. It’s rechargeable, waterproof and has seven pre-set patterns.
  • Moxie Remote Control Panty Vibrator: This is a remote-controlled vibrator, with a magnetic attachment so you can wear it with any underwear. The rest is up to the push of a button.
  • Compact Point Vibrator: This is a brand-new sex toy from a company called Le Wand. It is one of the better-looking ones to date. It has a contour design that is meant to fit in the palm of your hand comfortably. And has a soft silicone tip with ridges designed on it for extra stimulation. It’s also rechargeable, has an LED Light and once charged you can use it for up to an hour.
  • Rippler Mini Silicone Dildo: The idea of the Dildo was one of the first ever designs of a sex toy. This idea has come a long way in harnessing compatibility, adding more options like a strap-on and waterproof versions which are all battery-operated and fit all shapes and sizes.
  • Mini Wand Massager: It’s cordless! It is one of the very powerful ones and has a mini head that can turn towards different angles, giving your wrists a break from doing all the work. This one is also waterproof and has up to 10 speeds and patterns. Sounds like the ideal toy for anyone’s expectations.
  • Bougie Bullet Vibrator: A more sleek looking design with a metallic look to it. This ‘bullet’ vibrator looks more like a lipstick (or bullet) than a sex toy. This design possibly has the most options of any vibrators out there, with 20 different settings to choose from. But you won’t lose where you stopped because it keeps it in memory. It is also waterproof and has an additional feature – a power boost option, for a little something extra.
  • Pineapple Delight Plug: Is a ‘gorgina’ butt plug that has an artistic look to it, looks like a pineapple (hence the name) It is adorned with jewels for aesthetic purposes. And the butt plug itself is textured.
  • Sona 2: Has a range of products to choose from and the latest one, the Sona 2, has been updated as one of the best sellers on the market. It works by a slight gentle sucking sensation. This vibe has a battery life of up to 1 hour.
  • Soraya 2: Is part of a series of vibrators called the ‘rabbit-vibes’. They are dual ended with front and back options. It is smooth and a bit more flexible than the first version to ensure clitoral stimulation to give you multiple orgasms.

There are tons more to choose from and other varieties of suction vibes to different vibration options and penis rings. Some toys have also been specifically reviewed as the best ones for couples: https://www.independent.co.uk/extras/indybest/valentines/best-sex-toys-for-couples-a6846301.html

If you are not sure on which one to buy check out all the online reviews, and if you are in the store don’t hesitate to talk to the salespeople who would possibly know a lot more about them than you do. Happy vibing!

As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post. But if you are a regular visitor here you will know just how much I LOVE testing new sex toys . . . So I will be sure to visiting Anastasia Sex Toys regularly from now on! – Xxx – K

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December 16, 2019 · 11:17 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Dragon’s Tail Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

The spanking and Kinky Wartenberg Wheel play of “Dragon’s Tail Pt.1” . . . my previous realworld sex video here at my MakeLoveNotPorn pages . . . did of course, lead to much more “intimate” fun as our playtime continued.

Which is why I’ve nick-named this new video . . . “Taking The Dragon”.
It begins with Lover 83 and I having some fun deciding which would be the right size of condom for him to use. But, once he slides it on, our joking and teasing stops, for some lovely slow and gentle passionate teasing of a completely different kind.

As our embracing builds, the “slow and gentle” becomes much more energetic, and turns into the most intense work-out fucking, I’ve had in a long, long time.

And after an exhausting, collapsing climax . . . I just about manage to recover enough to give him some “special” kissing thank you’s . . . just where he enjoys them the most!

You can view my introduction to “Dragon’s Tail Part 2” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Dragon’s Tail Part 2”  is my 64th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Dragon’s Tail Part 2” with tags such as:

BLOWJOB / LOUD / TATTOOED / FACETIME / SUCCLENT / LICKJOB / HANDY / COMMUNICATIVE / ILUBEU / HOTELROOM / GIGGLY / PLAYFUL / CHATTY FRONTDOOR / YES!YES!YES! / ENCORE / CONDOMHOT SAFERSEX

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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November 27, 2019 · 7:55 am

Machines You Can Have Sex With

FULL THRUST – MACHINES YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH

The future is here, and it’s horny! Pop culture is full of references to sex robots of the future, but they are not in the future, they are in stores right now. While the range of vibrators and dildos has been increasing over the years, with silicon sleeves multiple vibration patterns and remote access (wired and with capabilities that span the world), other options have been pretty limited.
There has been a lot of media attention around dolls or even virtual reality masturbation sleeves, but good old-fashioned thrusting has been left as a predominantly manual affair.

Not anymore.

The Joys Of A Good Thrusting

Picture a woman on all fours, cock in mouth, being fucked so hard from behind with every thrust her whole body is send forward, swallowing that large cock whole.

While threesomes are amazingly good fun, they often come with all sorts of social complications after the fact. If you’re a couple, do you pay for a neutral third party, do you see if one of your friends wants to join in, do you pick up someone from a bar? What happens the day after? Or if you want a repeat performance, particularly if they’re not so keen, or vice versa.

Being able to create that fantasy, whenever you both want, without the annoying baggage that comes from bringing in a third person is one of the greatest reasons to look at investing in a thrusting fuck machine.

Like everything, there are a lot of different varieties depending on your needs, desires and budget. From completely standalone, fully programable and with multiple attachment options through to sleeves that work with your standard hardware model buzz saw. This is where you need to have a look at somewhere like Tempting Alice sex toys for reviews and ideas on what exactly is likely to work for you.

Riding The Bull Like A Pro

If you’re wanting to have a bit more control over your body, what goes in it, and when, then you might prefer to have a look at one of the many options for ride-on’s. These are generally machines where you sit on top of them and then either glide forwards and back, or rise up and down, with a dildo attachment that will vibrate or move in very interesting ways.

There are a lot of games that can be played as a couple while one person is riding, but it is also a fun exercise when you are by yourself.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that these are vagina exclusive, as many have attachments that are perfectly designed to bring all your anal fantasies to life as well.

What To Look For In A Sex Machine

Whether you are looking for something to spice up a relationship, or to create your own pleasure will have a bearing on which machine is going to be best for you. So, let your imagine go wild for a bit and picture yourself being fucked by a machine (you’re not alone, see here ). How would you like it to happen? Are you just lying there or are you actively engaged in the act?

In your sexual fantasy do you see yourself in a bedroom, or is this something you are going to be taking on holiday with you? Will noise matter? What about size? (size matters). Some of the machines are actually lightweight and portable, others should be floor mounted in pride of place as the ultimate conversation starter.

It is ok to start small and see how it goes before changing models or adding something new, but if you start with something that really isn’t what you want then you are unlikely to use it, so be open and honest with yourself and your partner about your sexual fantasies and how buying a sex machine could really help those be fulfilled. https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/d344vj/theres-no-wrong-way-to-use-a-vibrator-researchers-say

The more attachments they have usually the more you are looking at paying, but if you want a great machine with lots of variety suitable for different purposes then you may be stuck with that. If you are a hetero couple you might want to look at something that comes with both dildo and sleeve, or different options for speed and level of control.

You could also look at something that uses current sex toys but in different ways.

As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post. But if you are a regular visitor here you will know just how much I LOVE testing new sex toys . . . So I will be visiting Testing Alice Best Sex Machines quite often from now on!!! – Xxx – K

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September 27, 2019 · 8:20 am

Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Yummy Sunshine Vibes” @SatisfyerCOM

Modesty Ablaze Sunshine Satisfyer

In my view Modest view, Satisfyer are the most pro-active, innovative and . . . well yes, Satisfy-ing . . . adult product manufacturer, it has been my pleasure to have ever encountered.

And I do mean pleasure . . . because I have been tingling along to lots, and lots of their wonderful vibrating and air-pulsing stimulators for over two years now.

Because we are all of us different, with differing pleasure-points and stimulus, not all of the Satisfyer range works for me. But when they do . . . oh my goodness . . . and for that reason, I always look forward to “road-testing” a new Satisfyer product whenever they become available.

So I was delighted to receive three new vibrators just days before I left on my summer hols. And immediately casting aside Hubby’s protestations about yet “more things” eating into our baggage allowance, I insisted they each be packed neatly between our beach towels. And, as they all use the same sort of charging cable, that he was allowed to slide just one cable into his shaving kit.

Now as I’ve mentioned many times before when talking about my vibrating experiences, I almost always need 3 or 4 different occasions, and different situations, to really decide if I would like to keep on pushing those buttons again and again.

And of course, being away on holiday and away from all the normal distractions
. . . I had the perfect opportunity to give all three of my new toys my undivided attention. But for one of them, I knew immediately that I would be returning for more and more.

And that “special one” was the wonderfully yellow “Yummy Sunshine”.

Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine Vibrator 2

Now don’t be put off by the colour, or the name. I know some people don’t like their toys to be a brightly coloured (although I actually think this one is fun and perfectly themed for summer). But, of course, it’s always the performance that really matters. And in that respect this vibe certainly does it for me.

It has a long, wonderfully curved and firm shaft. Made from skin-friendly silicone which is silky smooth and tactile. And it does seem to warm to one’s body temperature quite quickly and feels perfectly natural and comfortable to the touch.

I just love stroking it actually . . . and even just wrapping my fingers around it and squeezing it’s firmness in the palm of my hand makes me quite horny . . . even before pushing the “on” button to begin it’s lovely rumbly vibrations. And those vibrations rumble away all the way down from the lovely, slightly flanged tip, to the subtly-ridged base where the shaft meets the retaining ring “handle” housing the control buttons.

Satisfyer Yummy Yellow Sunshine Vibrator 3

And I really do love that “handle-grip” as well. I’ve never had a vibrator before which I can slide my thumb or fingers into and more easily grip and guide the twists and turns . . . and ins and outs.

But as far as vibrators are concerned, I have always been more of a clit-person
. . . rather than going for too much of the ins-and-outs . . . and the powerful tingles this vibe gives, gets me going every time.

Satisfyer Yummy Yellow 2

There are 6 different levels of tingling intensity . . . and 6 different rhythms . . . which one can cycle through by pressing the easy to control buttons on that grip.

Now I’m actually not really one for wanting to change the rhythm during my playtime. I just prefer to find my favourite setting and just use the intensity button to increase, and teasingly decrease, the power as I work the vibrator up and down and over my sensitive bits. And as the vibrations run down the entire length of the shaft, and not just at the top tip, it does feel wonderful to slide its rumbling firmness up and down between my lips . . . pressing all of it against my, by now, completely tingling clit.

As I said, I’m not really too much of a fan of deeply inserting my vibrators, but for those who do enjoy internal vibrating stimulus, the Yummy has a slightly bulbous and ridged head, which may well give extra pleasure to those so inclined. There is a similar curved and extending “ridging” at the bottom of the shaft where it meets the “handle” too. And I do quite enjoy pressing and rubbing this against me as part of my playtime as the change from smooth to bumpy . . . and back to smooth again . . . adds to the intensity of my stroking. And I have, even since my return back home, given myself lots and lots of stroking.

But I’m happy to report that despite all my stroking, the Yummy does actually hold it’s charge remarkably well and seems to just last and last. And when it is, finally, time to re-power it’s internal re-chargeable batteries, this is done quickly and easily by the button shaped USB cable which attaches magnetically to the charging points on the handle, as you can see below.

Satisfyer Yummy Yellow Vibrator with easy charging point.

I will be reviewing both the “Power Flower” and “Petting Hippo” vibes, that were included in the same delivery as my “Yummy”, in the coming weeks. But this lovely, firm and fun banana-yellow vibrator is certainly my favourite of the three. More technical details are listed beneath the special-action photo below:

Modesty Ablaze and the Satisfyer Yummy Vibrator

The Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine
Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Firm, silky smooth and comfortable to hold. Easy to find and use, control buttons to select 6 different intensity and 6 different rhythm levels.
Cons: Absolutely none.
Material: Skin-friendly silky satin silicone and scratch-resistant ABS Plastic.
Measurements: 226mm in length, 57mm in depth and 42mm approx. diameter width.
Colour: Bright Yellow and White.
Power: Rechargeable with supplied USB Cable.
Waterproof: Yes.
Lubricant recommendation: Water based silicone friendly please.
Noise level: Surprisingly quiet for such powerful vibrations.
After-care: Should be cleaned with damp cloth, lukewarm water and mild soap, or one of the specialist sex-toy cleaners and dried with a soft, lint-free cloth.
Supplier Product Link: The Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine
Additional Supplier Links: www.satisfyer.com

Additional links: Satisfyer at Twitter

The Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx- K

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August 12, 2019 · 8:00 am

Top Tips on How to Meet Other Swingers

Tips on how to meet other swingers

Having exciting and satisfying sex is one of the most important things in a person’s life. Not only does it help people feel better about themselves but also increases their chances of being successful in other areas of their life. Swingers seem to understand this perfectly and that’s why they lead such an interesting lifestyle. However, men and women from the swingers dating scene sometimes have a hard time finding couples who might be interested in swinging. Therefore, if you and your lover can’t find other swingers, these top tips are bound to help you with that challenge.

Go to Swingers Dating Sites

If you and your lover are new to all this, you are probably too shy to meet other swingers in person. Newbie couples usually choose this option because they don’t know how to approach other swinger couples and because they don’t want to be seen enjoying this lifestyle in public. If you have the same problems, make sure you create an account on a dating site for swingers and thus meet other like-minded couples. Once you find an interesting couple, you can meet them in person. Don’t worry; these people are very discreet.

Visit Local Swingers Clubs

In case you are not that shy, you should probably visit some of the swingers clubs in your town. People who go there are looking for the same things as you. Therefore, it’s safe to say that visiting these clubs is your best chance to meet the perfect swinger couple. All you have to do is dress nicely, be confident, and show people that you know how to have fun. This is the best way to impress other swinger couples.

Approach the Couple Casually

The best way to approach a swinger couple is by ordering them drinks and introducing yourself. However, make sure you do that casually without even mentioning sex. First of all, you want to know what they are like and whether or not you are good for each other. If you decide that you’re a good match, you can talk about the things you want to do with them.

Know How to Respectfully Bring Up the Lifestyle

Bringing up the swinger lifestyle and sex is the most important thing in this conversation. This is why you have to do it in a respectful and decent way. You can’t just say “Hey, we like you, we want to have sex with you tonight. Are you interested?” You have to be smooth about it. Say that you are new to this and ask them something along the lines of “Are you also newbies? How long have you been in the lifestyle?” This is the best way to bring up the topic without making anyone feel uncomfortable. Then, when everyone is relaxed enough, you can talk about what you like to do in bed. Also, if you want to have sex with them, you need to ask them nicely. “Hey guys, do you want to come to our home and play?” This simple invitation usually works.

As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post,
but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE Swinging . . . and it has certainly worked for me. LOL !!!
So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K

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August 5, 2019 · 8:12 am

A Beginner’s Guide to Swinging_REALSWINGERS

A Swingers Guide to Realswingers
Swinger hookups are not for everyone, but those who like the idea and believe in open relationships can enjoy sex with other people without feeling the guilt that follows cheating. Also, many people out there fantasize about watching their partner have sex with someone else, and swinging is perfect in this case because this fantasy can be fulfilled with a clear conscience. Check out our beginner’s guide before you enter the world of swinging so you get a better sense of what to expect.

Who Can Get Into Swinging?

Singles and couples alike are welcome to join a swinging community of their choice, while it’s important to note that single women are the most popular. Couples can find other couples to swap partners, but you should keep in mind that inviting a single girl to join you is also a form of swinging and the most popular one. The biggest challenge for newbies, in general, is to figure out what they like and how far they can go. Then and only then can they start looking for partners to swing with.

Soft Swing to Dip Your Toes In

A soft swing is perfect for first timers as it involves kissing and touching without going too far. You can do it with your partner present or watch him or her kiss another person or multiple people. This is a very gentle introduction into the world of swinging that is recommended as the first step before you can be sure what you’re comfortable with and what’s off the table.

Voyeurism and Exhibitionism

Lots of people fantasize about having sex in front of someone else or watching their partner sleep with another person. Swinging fulfills this fantasy and allows couples to watch each other get it on with someone else or have someone watch them in bed. The rules to these scenes are established beforehand and must be agreed upon by every person involved.

Peak Swap

Peak swap is what most people think swinging actually is – having sex with anyone but your partner. Certain variations are allowed, but the point is to engage in sexual activity with a new person or a regular swinging partner, just not your significant other.

Same-Sex Swinging

Same-sex swinging is more popular among women than men, but obviously, that doesn’t mean all gay women partake in swinging. They’re rather good at setting the boundaries and are open-minded to a point unimaginable by most straight couples.

Threesomes

So many men have this fantasy of having sex with two girls at a time, and swinging allows them to live out their dreams. This is precisely why single women are more sought after than single men, and this is the activity of choice of many couples who like to spice things up a little every once in a while. Others use threesomes to explore how far they want to go with swinging, watching as their partner takes another person. Alternatively, you can try having sex with someone else with your partner watching, and see if you feel comfortable enough to pursue swinging on a more regular basis.

As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post,
but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE Swinging! And it’s certainly worked for me . . . LOL !!!
So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K

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