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The Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug . . .

Experiencing the pleasures of anal play is reasonably new for me. It’s only been over the past year or so that I’ve opened-up enough . . . so to speak . . . to be able to fully enjoy the different sensations this sort of stimulation brings.

So I hadn’t really thought about trying a butt plug until quite recently when one of my Lovers mentioned them in conversation and I thought to myself “Hmm, that would be a nice treat to surprise him with for our next meeting!”

The range and styles and sizes of plugs available, as I searched my favourite on-line store Sh! was quite overwhelming though . . . so for this rather special purchase I decided to pop-into Sh! HQ at their Hoxton shop here in London so that I could see and feel the options for myself . . . and of course, ask the wonderfully helpful Sh! girls on the counter for their own advice and recommendations.

I’d seen the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug as I’d browsed on-line and it had already aroused my interest . . . but as soon as I saw and handled the real thing I immediately fell in love with it.

Holding the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug

The surgical-steel material it is made from just feels so lovely and smooth to the touch . . . and of course I just loved the Swarovski crystal inlay on the base.

ModestyButtShBeing a “beginner” the lovely Rene at Sh! suggested that the 25mm-sized Diogol was probably the perfect starting point for me . . . and as I rolled it about in my hand I didn’t need any further convincing. I loved the feel of it (if only, for the moment at least, between my fingers!)

Available in Red or Purple, I chose the Purple option and was already tingling as the girls lovingly wrapped my new toy (and an accompanying tube of lube) in the Sh! signature pink tissue . . . I just couldn’t wait to get it home.

Diogol Butt Plug PackagingAs well as being lovely to hold and to look at, the Plug comes perfectly packaged in it’s own sturdy presentation box. Mine was in a clear plastic base and lid, but I understand the newest boxes are black.

Once at home I was straight upstairs, anxious and excited to try my new toy . . . it felt so lovely again in the palm of my hand as I twirled it round and showed Hubby the sparkling crystal. Whilst it could hardly be described as heavy it does feel more “substantial” than some of the other plugs I’d looked at in the shop . . . and that made my anticipation even greater.

Being made from non-porous steel the Diogol can be used with any lubricant . . . oil, silicone or water-based . . . and it’s smooth and gently tapered design made it actually very easy to insert. LOL!!!

I immediately purred as I stood up and walked slowly around the room. I’d imagined that it might feel uncomfortable, even painful, to move around with something permanently in my bottom. But actually it felt wonderful and I became more and more aroused as I bent over and posed for Hubby, and then for myself in the mirror. “Mmm . . . I really do love that crystal!!!”.

I didn’t actually keep it in for too long on that first occasion . . . **more on this later . . . but come the next morning I teasingly told Hubby I was going to wear it “all day”.

No, I didn’t wear it into work on the Tube! I was too worried I’d lose control and it would fall out. Can you imagine, in the middle of rush hour, my jewelled Diogol rolling around on the floor of the carriage between the feet of my fellow commuters??? But once in my office I slipped off to the washroom and excitingly applied a gentle coating of lube and slid it in for a second time. Oh God, it felt so arousing walking back into the office and over to my desk! The lovely, petite shape and design, and it’s unobtrusive end-piece, means it is completely invisible beneath my skirt so only I knew it was there. And, oh did I know it was there! So much so that I only managed a few hours . . . not because of any discomfort . . . but just because I couldn’t actually concentrate properly on all the “normal” things I should have been doing.

Since then I have worn my plug on a number of occasions (no, not back into work) but around the house for Hubby . . . and, of course, as a special treat for that Lover of mine who enjoys playing with my bottom so much.

So, if like me, you consider yourself to be a beginner and are a little unsure of where to start, I would heartily recommend the Diogol. The size and gentle taper and girth make it nice to fit and comfortable to wear and the feel of it inside as you move about, make it for me at least, arousing both physically and mentally as that “feel” keeps reminding me of my intimate occupant. And that jewelled end-piece gives you the peace of mind that your plug won’t accidentally slide all the way in!!! (Yes, I was actually worried about that at first! LOL!!!)

Modesty Ablaze grips the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug

NB: A Cautionary Tale Update – September 2015 !!!
For a recent meeting with one of my Lovers . . . who loves my bottom, and does seem able to so easily do wonderful things down there . . . I’d decided to wear my Jewelled Butt Plug for him as a special surprise. However, I inserted it before I set off for the journey to the hotel. Due to traffic problems, the drive took almost two hours. Perhaps because I’d been concentrating, perhaps because I was quite excited, I hadn’t felt any discomfort or movement during the trip. BUT, after checking into our room and starting to run myself a shower, I suddenly realised the plug had slipped completely inside me!!! Some minutes of panic followed . . . but luckily (incredibly luckily) with some awkward pulling and twisting I was able to get a grip on the end of the plug and pull it back out. But it was a quite frightening few minutes and . . . understandably I’m sure you’d agree . . . I haven’t worn it since!
It may have just been me, it may have been my moving about on the car seat, it may have been the excitement and anticipation of seeing my Lover, and it may have been simply that I had it in for far too long . . . BUT . . . I can only advise that one should take extreme care with this toy. I now always make sure that any plug-play involves a plug with a much larger flared-base (I can recommend some if you’d like to message me directly for more information).
So . . . anyway . . .

There is more “technical” information about the Diogol below . . . and from clicking directly on the image beneath.

Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10
Pros: Smooth and lovely shape, feel and fit. Gorgeous to look at!!!
Cons: Doesn’t “stay-in” during intercourse** (so perhaps I need a slightly larger size?)
Material: Surgical Steel
Phthalate Alert: None
Actual Length: 56mm / 2.2 in.
Insertable Length: 50mm / 2.0 in.
Diameter (at widest): 25mm / 0.99 in.
Weight: 38g
Ease of Use: Nice and Easy!
Waterproof: Yes
Lube: Any
Cleaning of the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug: Hand-wash with warm water and mild soap. Sterilize with mild antibacterial soap. Rinse warm water and polish with lint-free cloth
Care of the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug: Keep away from heat / sunlight. Store in a dry, fluff-free place. I keep mine in it’s presentation box which makes it easy to find in my, rather crowded, toy-drawer as well as keeping it clean.

Pricing Info: The Diogol is currently out of stock at Sh! However I can thoroughly recommend >this similar plug< as a wonderful alternative!!!

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P.S. Important Rider: I purchased this toy from Sh! . . . well actually I made Hubby buy it for me! . . .  so my review is based completely on my own, unbiased, experiences of this toy.

P.P.S.  (for my Balcony Members) . . . there will soon be some more “personal” photographs of the Diogol on my “Feeling Naughty” page.

Xxx – K

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Book Review – “The Retreat” by Kay Jaybee

We’re all familiar with Fairytales . . . whether from distant memories of wonder and enchantment from our own childhood, or attempting to stimulate imagination and excitement in reading to our own children at bedtime.

But never . . . ever . . . could Hans Christian or the Grim Brothers have imagined such tales as those told between the covers of “The Retreat”.

TheRetreatNewRopeRegular readers here will remember that I’ve previously described authoress Kay Jaybee’s first instalment in her trilogy of submission and dominance, “The Perfect Submissive”, as “the most arousing and inspiring” book I’ve ever read. So I’d awaited this second instalment with huge anticipation . . . and expectation.

I’d wondered what the future held for Jess and what fearsome, and exciting, tasks she’d be asked to perform. Surely the imagination of her mistress had already reached the limit of all bounds of reasonable possibility?

But Kay Jaybee is clearly a woman apart . . . and the new scenarios and surroundings of a mysterious castle in the Scottish highlands seems the perfect setting to unleash yet more of her wild and wicked imagination.

My heroine Jess finds herself caught in a whirlwind of new masters and new submissive partners . . . and set a series of new tasks and new challenges at every twist and turn of the castles cold and unwelcoming corridors.

Just as with “The Perfect Submissive” each new chapter of “The Retreat” had me tingling with wonder and excitement (rather than enchantment in this instance) at Ms Jaybee’s extremely vivid imagination.

The tension builds throughout towards Fairtasias climatic finale-ball . . . quite unlike those bedtime stories of times long gone by!!!

Without wishing to divulge too much of the plot and positions required, and enacted here, there are some arousingly descriptive moments which had my pulse racing to the sort of dangerous levels I’ve not experienced since reading . . . and re-reading . . . the pages of “TPS”.

But, more than just simple lust and eroticism, Kay Jaybee’s story has that unusual skill of engaging her characters somehow into ones pysche . . . I wanted to share each new challenge with Jess, worried for her strength of will, worried just how that final chapter would unravel. A Fairytale end to the ball . . . or will the wicked Witchtress prevail???

And that, quite simply, is something that I don’t often find in my other reading, not just in erotica (and you know how much I enjoy reading naughty stories! LOL!!!), but in “normal” books . . . or normal media.

I remember thinking as I shuddered through the final pages of “TPS” that someone, somewhere, somehow should make it into a movie (and that I wanted to be in it! LOL!!!)

“The Retreat” may well be a more difficult movie to make (I still want a part though Kay!!!), but I urge you to read the real words . . . as they were first written . . . before this book, and “TPS”, and the now eagerly awaited final “Knowing Her Place” find their way to Holly(or Pine)Wood.

And, whilst you are at it, and in the mood . . . as I’m confident you surely will find yourself . . . visit Kay Jaybee on-line to marvel at and devour some of the most arousing erotica I think you will ever find!!!

Xxx – K

Modesty Ablaze & The Retreat

P.S. – Just couldn’t resist – Even 12,000 miles from home I found that “The Retreat” was never far from my mind!!!

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The Doxy Wand Massager . . . OMG !!!

Oh My God !!! . . . Oh My Bod !!! . . . This is one instance where you REALLY CAN believe what the marketing blurb says!!! . . . “The world’s most powerful wand massager”!!!!

ModestyDoxyBareWhilst I have to admit I haven’t tried them all, I have tried quite a few (LOL!!!) but the Doxy Massager is by far and away the most powerful, rumbling, pulsing, vibrating wand I have ever, ever had near my private bits!

It arrived securely packed in an attractive glossy outer sleeve which slides off to reveal a strong, heavy-duty brown cardboard box. Inside the wand itself is sealed within a strong plastic bag with it’s 3-metre long cable and plug permanently attached. The Doxy is mains-powered only and once you push the “on” button you’ll know why! Even the strongest of batteries would never be able to maintain the power that drives this wand for very long.

The Doxy feels quite heavy at first (compared with my other wands), but actually I have come to feel that the weight only enhances my pleasure as I drift-off into my own world of tingling . . . and in this case, throbbing . . . delight, whilst tightly grasping that thick and heavy handle. It is available in three colours: White, Black and Pink. When I was asked by William at Doxy which colour I’d prefer for my review I chose the Black one (of course!!!)

I know I need to tell you all about the technical details (and please do read all that important information below), but for me it is the “feel” of the wand in my hands . . . and all over my body . . . that stands the Doxy Wand Massager apart!

ModestyAndDoxyWandThe plus and minus buttons on the “shaft” are easy to operate (and find when you’ve got your eyes closed, deep in concentration and relying on just your instinct and feel for position) and are as you would imagine for increasing, or decreasing, the power and intensity of the vibrating head. I certainly have to hold down the minus button to lower the setting and slow down the vibrations actually, otherwise the speed of the firm head would quickly numb my clit. But after some minutes of experimentation, and lots of giggles and gasps, I was able to find a setting that was comfortable . . . and intensely tingling!!!

And THEN there is the pulsing setting . . . and OMG that is when I really lose all control !!! . . . I must admit I found it a little difficult at first. That’s just me and my lo-tech capabilities probably. But you have to push the power button to turn off, and then on again by pressing and holding it down. After a few seconds the wand starts again, but this time rippling and whirring with an increasing tempo of pulses before stopping for a split-second and starting the cycle again. Using the Plus or Minus buttons as before also adjusts the speed and intensity of the pulsing. As I said, it did take me several attempts to work out my rhythm with the “turn-off, turn-on and hold” sequence . . . but once I mastered it, OMG . . . it really does throw me into shuddering convulsions and I have to hold-on with both hands, throw my head back and just let-go (not of the wand though!!!)

Of course I realise that everyone has different thresholds, tolerances and levels of what works for them. And as I have said in the past I actually will always prefer “the real thing . . . real penetration and real skin-and-bone”. But for a surging, shuddering, different-kind-of, relief, the Doxy just completely takes my breath . . . and all my senses . . . away.

ModestyDoxyShouldersAnd for me there is an extra bonus!!! I don’t know about you, but often if I have a really, really intense orgasm I just have to roll over onto my side and curl-up into a ball and just not want to move. And that is exactly what happened after my first play with my Doxy. I just dropped the wand onto the bed and curled myself up, still shuddering and shaking. Hubby, who had been watching (and snapping some of the attached photos), came over to pick up the wand . I was still in those very first moments of physically relaxing, and mentally uncoiling myself but heard him say “You know how this is supposed to be a sports massager?” and he began rolling the still pulsing and vibrating head across my shoulders. Suddenly I started experiencing a wonderfully relaxing massaging-sensation across my neck and upper back. He turned the setting back to normal (I mean non-pulsing as the Doxy could hardly be described as “normal”) and I stretched myself out completely onto my tummy as he slowly moved the Doxy’s head back and forth across my back. It was just lovely and I instructed him to continue right down to my bottom and then slowly down each leg. Of course he was soon trying to open my legs and move it back to my play-spots (men!!!) but I told him I was completely spent there and was just loving having a relaxing and calming massage. It may not be what everyone looks for in a wand, but Dual-Purpose-Doxy !!! Mmm . . .

ModestyDoxyBackOf course whichever purpose you may wish to use it for, the Doxy may not be to everyone’s taste. Even at the lower speeds and settings the vibrations are quite intense . . . so much so that on subsequent occasions I have found that I do have to be in the right frame of mind, otherwise it’s power can be more numbing than arousing. But, for me that is true for all occasions and experiences . . . I have to be in the right frame of mind to receive the right amount of pleasure.

So if you’re looking for more power and more pulse in your wand, the Doxy (Sports!!!) Massager may well be just exactly what you need.

You can view my Video Review here to see (and hear) more about how much I enjoy my playtimes with the Doxy Wand Massager.

And it’s available NOW at my favourite shop on-line supplier at a simply AMAZING SALE PRICE of just £65 !!! The cheapest price I’ve seen ANYWHERE!  (So, don’t delay Click on my wand below to order directly today!!!)
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Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Material: The head-covering of the Doxy is made from hypoallergenic medical-grade material that contains no phthalate or latex. The inside of the head itself is made from Aluminium cast at the Doxy factory in Cornwall. (The Doxy is designed and manufactured in the UK!!!)
Phthalate Alert: None
Actual Length: 31 cm long and 7 cm in diameter
Batteries: None. It is mains-plug operated only.
Plugs Supplied: Yes the lead is permanently attached.
Intensity: OMG !!!
Volume: Loud, especially at the highest settting . . . but for something as powerful as Doxy, that is only to be expected.
Ease of Use: Easy to increase and decrease the speed and intensity level. The pulsation setting requires a little more practice and patience to get used to.
Speeds: 10
Offers: Escalating speeds & different pulsing.
Waterproof: No – The Doxy is mains-powered, so please keep away from water . . . and don’t use in the shower!!!
Lube: Water-Based, or Silicone-Based only . . . don’t use Oil Based lubes!!!
Buy Link: The Doxy Wand Massager.

**The Doxy Wand Massager was sent to me by Doxy for an honest and un-biased review.**

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To watch my Video Review of the Doxy Wand Massager in action >Click< on the picture below!!!

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Xxx – K

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The “G-Spot Pleaser” Magic Wand Attachment from Lovehoney

As much as I love my Magic Wand (see my review <here>) for those occasional quick, “just need-it” moments, I do much prefer having something inside me. It just seems to make things feel more complete, and therefore, more fulfilling. So my curiosity was immediately aroused when, quite by chance, I stumbled across a mention of the Lovehoney G-Spot Pleaser Magic Wand Attachment.

ModestyLoveHoney3Watching the excellent Guide Video on the Lovehoney product page  was enough to convince me to make my first* purchase from the Lovehoney site . . . and I was certainly pleasantly surprised with the results, on all fronts.

The Wand Attachment arrived just two days after I placed my order, discreetly delivered in a plain external cardboard box. The internal box though is wonderfully colourful and glossy with a separate “How to use” guide leaflet.

ModestyLoveHoney4The bright pink attachment is made from a TPE skin-safe rubber material and despite feeling quite light and flexible, the curved g-spot stimulator shaft itself is actually quite firm when I squeeze it between my fingers. (And when I “squeeze” it inside as well! LOL!!!)

Attaching it over the head of my Wand did prove difficult at first, even following the perfectly clear instructions of applying my (water-based) lube liberally around the opening of the attachment. Like everything though, it’s become much easier with practice, and there is no need to worry about it becoming loose, or vibrating off, during use.

The attachment is designed to fit any 7.5 inch head-circumference Magic Wand (mine is actually a Sh! Magic Wand Vibrator) and the excellent Lovehoney Guides are the perfect way to check your wand compatibility if, like me, you are buying the G-Spot Pleaser separately.

ModestyLoveHoney2Once fitted I immediately found myself getting excited even as I was applying more lubricant to the shaft of The Pleaser. The leaflet instructed me to “start slowly” and “gently trail the head along the inside of my thighs” . . . but the anticipation of my “first test” had me directing the shaft between my lips within a few seconds (LOL!!!). And with just a few adjustments of position and pressure . . . and some adjustments to the speed and pulse-settings of my wand . . . I was soon coming with the first of several orgasms. The insertable length is 4 inches and the circumference 3.5 inches around, but I certainly didn’t feel any sense of needing “more”.

I’ve enjoyed several more “plays” since that first occasion two weeks ago, both on my own and also sharing the fun with Hubby. The Pleaser can be used as an anal stimulator as well, and I’ve also discovered that just holding the rubber base itself against my lips is a wonderful alternative to the normal clitoral stimulations of my wand.

I have found that after use, the rubber does seem to attract fluff from the bedsheets, but a quick clean and then popping it straight back into the box means it’s perfectly ready for next time. And I’m sure there will be lots and lots of next-times.

*Highly recommended, and the Lovehoney site is so easy to use, and find one’s way around, that I will certainly be buying more from them in the future.

ModestyLoveHoney1Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Material: TPE skin-safe rubber
Flexibility: Flexible
Phthalate Alert: None
Contains latex: No
Waterproof:  Submersible
Length: 6 inches
Insertable Length: 4 inches
Circumference: 7.5 inches (Shaft girth = 3.5 inches)
Ease of Use: Easy
Lube: Water-Based Only

Buy Link: Lovehoney

Xxx – K

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Modesty says Yes to natural lubricants

yes_logo_organic_lubricants_darkerAlthough it’s true to say that everyone is more aware of, and finds it far easier to buy, lubricants nowadays . . . I’m sure that many people still take for granted the actual content of what they are spreading all over their most delicate, and sensitive, bits.

I’m now ashamed to admit, that I probably did !!! . . .

That was until I met the lovely Lavinia and Susi of Yes Natural Lubricants at their stand at Eroticon 2013.

YesWater25SideOf course what first caught my eye was the wonderfully stylish and attractive packaging . . . but after just a few minutes listening to Lavinia explaining the ingredients and technology involved in producing what was inside those lovely bottles, I was convinced I just had to try.

And now, nine months later, I just wouldn’t use anything else.

For me the Water-based Yes is my preferred option, as (like all Oil-based lubricants), the Oil-based Yes is not condom-compatible. However, when I’m playing with just Hubby, I love using Yes’s “Double-Glide” suggestion of applying the Oil-based first, and then stroking the Water-based lube on top. It does indeed give lovely, long-lasting, ‘double-gliding’ satisfaction!!

Of course if you are confident that you are in a completely monogamous, relationship . . . (unlike yours truly! LOL!!!) . . . the Yes Oil-based lubricants may be all you need. And you can rest assured that unlike many other oil-based lubricants, which are often made from petro-chemical bi-products (like Vaseline) and simply coat the skin making a barrier underneath which bacteria can get trapped, Yes’s oil-based lube is made from natural vegetable oils. Their sweet almond and sunflower oils will slowly get absorbed into the mucosal tissue leaving your personals nourished and wonderfully soft.

And, which-ever your personal preference or the circumstances in which you are playing, both products are great for use with toys and the oil based lube is fine for use with Silicone toys. So, as I do enjoy toy-play . . . in company, and solo, from time-to-time . . . I always have both bottles handy in my make-up bag.

yes_water_groupOh, and that’s another big plus point! – you’ll never need to feel embarrassed at carrying a bottle of Yes in your everyday-bag. The design and look of the bottles and tubes are SO stylish and subtle, it will never be immediately apparent to the uninitiated just what wonderful contents are bottled within. And the Yes products are available in a wonderful array of sizes (from 25ml, 75ml, 125ml) and different packs and multibuy options.

So if . . . like me . . . you like to say “Yes” often . . . say Yes with the comfort and safety of Yes Natural Lubricants . . .

ModestySaysYesI have done a little product-demonstration video for my Video page >here< (or click the video screen above) . . . but you can find out more information about the complete Yes range of Natural Organic** Lubricants (and purchase them directly on-line) by clicking on any of the product pictures above . . . or from Sh! Women’s Emporium on-line >here< . . . or,  if you prefer, you can actually buy in person at the Sh! store in Hoxton, here in London.

Oh, by-the-way, I haven’t been paid for saying any of the above . . . I really do genuinely feel that more people should know about, and be using, products like Yes as their first choice of personal lubricant. And, in fact, I have bought and re-bought my Yes bottles from Sh! on a number of occasions since that original “Yes moment” in March . . .

OVERVIEW

Yes WATER-BASED Lubricant
Ingredients:
Water, Aloe vera*, Flax Extract*, Guar Gum*, Locust Bean Gum*, Xanthan Gum, Citric Acid, Potassium Sorbate, Salt, Phenoxyethanol.
*Organically grown indredients.

Description:
– Natural plant-based intimate moisturiser and lubricant to alleviate vaginal dryness.
– Free from fragrances, colour, taste and residue.
– pH balanced for the vagina.
– Latex compatible.
– Certified Organic by the Soil Association (UK).
– A soft, clear bio-adhesive gel which adheres to the vaginal walls to lubricate and protect the tissues.
– Guaranteed purity through its certified organic status.
– Free of all known skin irritants (No glycerin, no petrochemicals, no parabens).
– Hypoallergenic: formulated to minimise the risk of allergies.

Yes OIL-BASED Lubricant
Ingredients:
Sunflower Seed Oil*, Shea Butter*, Sweet Almond Oil*, Bees Wax*, Cocoa Seed Butter*, Vitamin E.
(Also available with organic Madagascan vanilla extract).
*Organically grown indredients.

Description:
– Natural plant-based intimate lubricant to alleviate vaginal dryness.
– Lasting lubricity and glide, with a velvety sensuous feel.
– The natural plant-based alternative to silicone lubricants.
– No known side effects.
NOT compatible with condoms.
– Safe for use with silicone toys but not latex compatible.
– Plant oils and butters condition the skin with no need to wash off.
– Certified Organic by the Soil Association (UK) and approved by The Vegetarian Society.

So . . . all of the above makes me even happier to always say “Yes” . . . but don’t just take my word for it, visit the Yestimonials page for lots of personal recommendations from lots (and lots!!!) of other happy Yes-people.

**AND, finally, don’t miss the YesGarden for much, much more information on some of the delightful ingredients that are used in making my favourite lubricant!!!

I ALWAYS say “Yes” . . . Xxx – K

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The Cordless Magic Wand Massager . . . from Sh! Women’s Store!

1) THE MAGIC WAND MASSAGER: CORDLESS – from Sh! Women’s Store!

Though, of course, I do prefer the REAL THING, I do occasionally feel the need for some quick relief . . . most usually in the morning relaxing with the memories of a recent liaison with one of my lovers . . . and so find myself reaching for my Toy Drawer.

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The Cordless Magic Wand Massager is my newest Toy . . . bought recently from Sh! (where else!!! . . . and it most certainly fits the bill for “quick relief”.

I still prefer my toys to be portable and not restricted to having to find the nearest plug point. There’s nothing more frustrating, and passion killing, for me than having to unplug lamps or radio-alarm clocks etc when I do get that sudden urge for a solo-play. So, if like me, you buy the Cordless, rechargeable Wand, you will have to be prepared for a long, patient, first-time charging schedule. The lovely Rene at Sh! had warned me it needed 10 hours to charge . . . and it did . . . but then for something so powerful, I suppose it is only to be expected that it would need a lot of energizing.

It is certainly not discreet in size (but then I do like “large”), measuring just over 12″ in length from the bottom of it’s long and firm handle to the top of it’s lovely head (LOL!!!). In fact the pliable-silicone “head” is not just nice to feel, but at two-and-a-half inches in diameter, is a wonderful size as well. No fiddling around to find “just the right spot” with this throbbing and pulsing beast – it is the perfect size to roll and rub all over my sensitive bits. And I love to do just that . . . I’m not just a clit-sensitive lady . . . I like to be stimulated all-over so the wand’s extra-large head is certainly Magic for me.

I also love the weight, and feel, of holding it in my hand. It may be just be a psychological thing for me, but wrapping my fingers around it’s solid girth helps transport me to that “other place” where I start to glide and float into my own world of strong, and firm, and slow and passionate thrusting and stroking.

There are just two control buttons on the handle. One to turn on and, eventually, off (LOL!!!) and the other to control, with just one push at a time, the 10 different speeds and pulses. It really does have a mind-boggling, and senses-tingling, mixture of pulsing and throbbing patterns. In fact, I did find it slightly off-putting at first as I experimented with the different settings. (See my own interpretation of the different sensation-ratings below!) But after several excursions with my Magic Wand, I now find the variety of stimulation zones can be quite fun depending on what mind-set I am in at that particular moment. In fact pushing the button at a given moment in my “play-dream” can change the path of my imaginary situation to an unexpected direction . . . and climax.

There are times though (and this is really my only criticism of the Magic Wand) when I find myself squeezing the button to the next setting and then suddenly feeling that I want to return to the throbbing and pulsing I was just experiencing, BUT there is no “back” button . . . so it is a question of having to, quickly, push-push-push through the next 6 settings to get back to the start, and find my rhythm again . . . and sometimes . . . !!!

It is not exactly a quiet toy either. Of course, once again, you would have to expect that something with so much “power and speed” in it’s engine would not run without a little operating-noise. And certainly when I held it against my nose (my “touch test”) on the shop floor when I first tried it out at Sh!, I didn’t feel the buzz was excessive. But for some it may take a little getting used to at first . . . though, as Hubby always points-out, I am NEVER quiet when I am playing . . . so I don’t find it interferes with my concentration level.

So, if you think you are sometimes in need of something a little extra, something a little stronger . . . and something a little more intense in your vibrations . . . I would certainly recommend The Magic Wand Massager.

Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10
Material: Plastic, Silicone
Phthalate Alert: None
Actual Length: 311 mm / 12.25″
Diameter (at widest): 61 mm / 2.42″ (massage head)
Batteries: Available as Rechargeable or Mains plug operated.
Plugs Supplied with Toy: Yes
Intensity: Wowser!
Volume: Can’t be heard above music
Weight: 315g
Ease of Use: Easy
Speeds: 10 (Modesty Rate 1 = Continous nice; 2 = high intensity speed increase; 3 = intensity then 3 pulses, then intensity, then repeating; 4 = fast and slow vibrations: 5 = slower pulsating; 6 = stop start pulsating with fast vibrations, then repeating stop start etc.; 7 = pulsating rapid vibrations; 8 = slow 20 pulses and then quick burst of vibrations, then repeating slow etc.; 9 = mixed combination of pulsing & vibrations; 10 = pulsing shudders!!!)
Offers: Escalating speeds & different pulse patterns (see my Modesty Rates above)
Waterproof: Splashproof
Lube: Water-Based Only

Buy Link: Sh! Women’s Emporium
Wand Massager: Cordless

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