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July 19, 2021 · 7:58 am

Pour Me More – July 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Cover for Special Massage with Lavender Lover Part 2

My first mid-month update for July follows on directly from my simply wonderfully fun evening with the lovely Lavender Lover which I posted earlier this month especially for Super Fan Sally.

And watching this “Special Massage Part Two” of that evening has reminded me of just how wonderful it actually was. His lovely, special finger massage, turned me into a self-juicing, squirting, squirming frenzy and hearing my giggling orgasmic instructions to him of what I wanted next, makes me tingle and squirm again now just typing it here.

I can honestly say it was one of the most amazing times I have ever had … with any of my Lovers … and I think this video captures our fun, and my total abandonment, perfectly.

I hope you will all enjoy watching as much as we both, obviously, did … but do remember that if perhaps you would prefer more of my London Dominatrix fun or perhaps more of my Naked Exhibitionism excursions, instead of my Swinging fun, then you only have to ask …

Because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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July 17, 2021 · 5:21 pm

Modestly Calm … #sinfulsunday

No I’m not standing here … not yet … though I so, so wish I was. But whenever I know I need a change of pace, a moment to relax, a moment of calm … I wriggle my toes, tilt my head … and imagine I’m standing just here, just like this!!!

Find out what others are thinking of and pining for this weekend, just tap the Sinful lips below!!!

Xxx – K

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July 12, 2021 · 11:55 am

Modesty Ablaze “A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introducing "A Very Naughty Tease" video

I’ve just published my latest #realworldsex video “A Very Naughty Teasing” on my profile page at Make Love Not Porn.

After Hubby’s arousing Oral Entree had ended so prematurely, when he came too quickly, I was so aroused that I just had to carry on satisfying myself.

But, as he’d climaxed without my permission, I decided to tease him by slowly … and precisely … showing him, just how my tingling clit and really juicy cunt should be treated.

I made him sit in the naughty corner, whilst I told him exactly what I needed, and where I needed it … cupping my breasts … tweaking my nipples and sliding my fingers in and out of my wanton, wet pussy!!!

Now please excuse my language in this video .… I know it is a bit extreme … but I got so carried away with my arousal, and Hubby’s poor performance, that I really wanted to emphasise his contrition … and submission … that I couldn’t help myself. I just wanted to tease him with everything he’d missed out on … because he’d come too quickly.

And, for my part, I didn’t want it to be quick. I wanted it to be long and sensual … and naughty and teasing … very teasing!!!

You can view my introduction to “A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >her e< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” is my 89th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Xxx – K

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July 11, 2021 · 8:35 am

A Modest Handball … #sinfulsunday

“Handball !!! … you’re the second one to question My Rules this week!”
“I’m the umpire here … you’re the sub … so just remember that!!!”

“Referee … I’ll give you Referee!!! … I’m the Umpire, Line Judge … AND … the Fourth Official. My decision is the only one that matters … Agreed???”

There will be more Twists and Turns this weekend I’m sure.
Just flick the Sinful lips below!!!

Xxx – K

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July 7, 2021 · 6:24 pm

Modest Dungeons #KOTW #wickedwednesday & #4Thoughts

For last week’s Sinful Sunday post “Something beginning with …” I mentioned how my journey here at Modesty Ablaze had sent me in many new directions and on many new exciting adventures.

And in fact I’m not ashamed to admit that I became almost addicted to embracing every new opportunity, and every new path, that Modesty led me on. Some that I would never ever have imagined, or some that had perhaps been a fantasy that I’d never thought I would dare to indulge.

And certainly one of the latter, was the unfolding evolution of Mistress Modesty into what I’d once perceived as a dark world of dungeons and damp cellars, leather and chains.

But I was intrigued, and entranced, by the thought of willing submissives, begging to be caged and beaten, blindfolded and gagged, presenting their naked and humbled bodies to the will and whim of a powerful Dominatrix.

Possibly it was the thoughts of having that power, that control, so unusual in my “normal, real” world.
Possibly it was the arousing thoughts of being worshipped and adored, without the expectation or need of reciprocation.
Perhaps it was a little of both those things.

But as my journey, and connections … and bookings … grew, it actually became more about the fun of the different experiences and different people involved.

And that is how it has continued over the years since. An overwhelming sense of fun and satisfaction with every new session … and every new sensation.

And hopefully it is an addiction that I can continue to enjoy for many years still to come.

For more experiences of Addiction … and Gagging … and Medieval Dungeons … visit the current editions of Wicked Wednesday, 4 Thoughts and Kink of The Week … by smacking the buttons below!

Xxx- K

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July 3, 2021 · 4:52 pm

A Modest K … #sinfulsunday

I was very Modest when I made my Dot Com debut in January 2012. I still am of course … but was even more so back then … covering my Modesty with my masks and nom de plume.

So, as this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is “something beginning with K”, it seems appropriate to look back over my shoulder to how my postings here have changed from just being a place to publish extracts from my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries”, to embrace all my journeys travelled since.

And one of those journeys was to the studio of the wonderful John Tisbury who took the above, and many more, photos subsequently featured here and there over the years.

For many more things beginning with K just kiss the Sinful lips below!!!

Xxx – K

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July 1, 2021 · 7:27 am

Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – July 2021 #PMAGW

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for July 2021 … with a round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery. 

Super Fan Sally was one of my very first Pour Me A Glass Subscribers when I first started my Sexclusive Members pages here, over two years ago. I always enjoy reading her flattering comments and so am especially thrilled to be able to fulfill her request for my first Members Video of the Month.

Sally messaged me to say “I like all of your videos because you always make them fun, but I especially love your Hotwife videos with one of your lovers” … so this video is from several years ago, featuring the wonderful Lavender Lover … who always does lovely things with his fingers.

I hope you will enjoy it Sally … I certainly did … as I’m sure you will be able to see in this “very intimate” video.

This month’s Members Photo Gallery is especially for a new Member … FDR from Spain … “ola FDR”. Now you have said you’d like to see some of my “Mistressing” photos. I have featured lots of these in my Galleries here in the past, but unlike my videos, they don’t stay live on the page longer than a month. I have asked my technical man to do something about that … but in the meantime July’s Gallery will feature a dozen photos from my Dungeon Archives that have never been posted on my blog here before. So I hope you will enjoy them …

… because as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them.

So … looking back at my most popular posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com … 

I once again published another four Boobday posts … my personal favourite being “Modestly Pinching” which featured the very lovely She … and … He Lover … during some fun Dungeon Playtime !!!!
>>> Read more >>>

I was also delighted to share another two Make Love Not Porn Real World Sex videos during the month, both actually featuring Hubby Ablaze. “A Very Naught Entree” was from our summer holidays last year, whilst “Eight Years of Sharing at Make Love Not Porn” was a compilation of just some of Hubby’s “starring” contributions to our videos there. >>> Read more >>>

My most visited post during the month though was “Sinfully Sealed” at Sinful Sunday. Once again it features my special, special friend SheLover having fun posing together in front of a rather large mirror in my favourite Dungeon. >>> Read more >>>

My Kink of the Week post “Modestly Cucking” was also very popular … probably because of the rather nice bottom I was presenting to the camera … but the text of which concerned my thoughts and experiences on “Cuckolding”.
>>> Read more >>>

Now you know that I always avoid Current Affairs and politicians in my posts here at Modesty Ablaze … but my last Sinful Sunday post of the month “Do As I Say, Not as I …” was almost an exception to that rule. I say “almost”, because I changed my mind at the very last minute and actually went back and altered the wording … but not the pictures. So I wonder if you can perhaps guess the subject matter of my original intentions !!! >>> Read more>>>

So thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my glass full.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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June 26, 2021 · 6:24 pm

Do as I say, not as I do … #sinfulsunday

“Now I’m hoping you can recall all of your lines from your last visit!”

“Do you remember the tasks you promised you would complete for me?”

“And … how many strokes did we agree on, if you failed to achieve them all?”

“Because you know who it is that sets the rules in my Chambers, don’t you!!!”

For more Tasks and Achievements just swipe the Sinful lips below!!!

Xxx – K

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June 24, 2021 · 7:24 am

Modestly Cucking #KOTW #wickedwednesday & #4Thoughts

The current theme at Kink of the Week is “Cuckolding” … so although our relationship is not, strictly speaking, exclusively a Cuckolding one … how could I possibly not join in?

Because, as I explained in an earlier post this week, Hubby does actually quite often get to join-in the fun!!!

But the “idea” of Cuckolding is definitely a Kink … for the both of us.

It started from my confession to Hubby all those years ago of my office affair.

His revelation that he actually enjoyed knowing I was experiencing the thrills and excitement of sex with another man, started us on a wonderful journey of sharing each of our kinks and desires … one of which was Hubby’s fantasy of watching me with another man.

It didn’t happen immediately of course. Neither I, nor that particular lover, were ready for that sort of inclusion straight away! Rather my affair continued, (awkwardly at first as my lover found the knowledge that my husband knew of our relationship, disconcerting and “weird”), with me returning home each evening to relive all the details to an excited Hubby expectantly waiting-up for me on the sofa.

Unexpectedly I soon realised I was as excited as Hubby was in recounting the where’s, how’s and what’s of each nights encounter. And, even more unexpectedly, I actually found myself excited during the evening, knowing that I would be returning home and reliving every kiss and touch … and thrust!

Slowly my lover’s unease about the situation began to change. He started asking lots of questions about Hubby’s reactions, and eventually, he agreed for the three of us to meet. That’s all it was at first, just meeting for drinks, and for my two men to get to know one another. And they actually got along very well.

It still took several months after that first social meeting however, for my lover to become comfortable enough to agree for Hubby to join us in our hotel room, after I promised he would be made to sit quietly in the corner and not speak or move. And so our first Cuckolding experience was christened.

There were nervous flutters for all of us … but I did feel quite a thrill from my mock “headmistress” finger pointing instruction to Hubby “sit on that chair, not a peep until you’re spoken to”. And Hubby told me later he felt the same way. (And this was decades before morphing into my Mistress Modesty persona).

It started slowly, and differently, as it was bound to I suppose. But once we were lost in our embraces the normal lust and passion returned. Hubby was allowed to speak of course … during our natural breaks … and dutifully topped-up our glasses and fed us both grapes and melon slices.

For my part I found it all wonderfully exciting and arousing, and it made the evening even more thrilling and empowering than before. My lover however, didn’t feel the same way, telling me later that sharing didn’t give him the same thrill that it obviously did for Hubby and myself.

But Hubby loved his “role-play” mode of the humiliated Cuckold, and I absolutely loved playing along to his kink (and now mine) of the lustful Hotwife.

That first affair eventually fizzled out as office affairs generally do. And though all of my subsequent lovers were always told of our “open-relationship” lifestyle from the outset, not many felt comfortable enough to join in with Hubby’s “loves to watch” kink. But happily … very happily … for us, we have been lucky enough over the years, to meet several other gentlemen who have enjoyed, and benefitted from, our Cuckold fetish. (One of whom appears above!)

For lots more experiences of Cuckolding … and Mischievous and Improvement lifestyles … visit the current editions of Wicked Wednesday, 4 Thoughts and Kink of The Week … by tapping the buttons below!

Xxx- K

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June 22, 2021 · 10:37 am

Modesty Ablaze “Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze"

Do you know I’ve now been sharing my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn for over Eight Years!!!

Goodness, eight years, doesn’t time fly when one’s enjoying oneself … and having #realworldsex fun!!!

And it’s been simply wonderful to receive lots and lots of emails and messages from people all over the world telling me how much they’ve enjoyed my different videos and different fun adventures.

But just recently I received a message from a gentleman who seemed quite concerned that although I quite regularly mention “Hubby” in all my posts and introductions, he doesn’t seem to feature in the videos very often. This gentleman was worried that my husband seemed to be “missing out” on the fun, as he put it.

I did, of course, message him back and explain that, as well as Hubby being my camera-man, one of the biggest thrills for us is that I “love to play” and Hubby “loves to watch”.

But I did also point out that in fact Hubby does feature in quite a number of my Make Love Not Porn videos, especially in the earlier ones.

Obviously with lock-down and everything that has happened over the past year, it has made meeting and playing with our other friends absolutely impossible. So that has meant that lots of my more recent videos at MLNP have featured my “me-time” playtimes. But thankfully things are slowly beginning to change … and I hope that soon our fun three-somes, and more-somes, can begin once again.

But in the meantime I thought this was the perfect opportunity to celebrate our Eight Years of Real World Sex fun at Make Love Not Porn with a reminder-compilation of just a few of the … many … occasions when I, or one of our lovers, have actually taken over the camera and Hubby has appeared in our videos.

You can view my introduction to “Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >her e< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

“Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” is my 88th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Xxx – K

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Category Archives: Sex and Relationship

Pour Me More – July 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modestly Calm … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze “A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

A Modest Handball … #sinfulsunday

Modest Dungeons #KOTW #wickedwednesday & #4Thoughts

A Modest K … #sinfulsunday

Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – July 2021 #PMAGW

Do as I say, not as I do … #sinfulsunday

Modestly Cucking #KOTW #wickedwednesday & #4Thoughts

Modesty Ablaze “Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

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