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September 25, 2021 · 6:30 pm

Waterwheel Revisited #sinfulsunday

Modest Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - One

I first created my Exposé Vŭ pages back in 2017 because, as I mentioned then standing on my Special Stairs, there are just so many places on my favourite holiday island that I enjoy re-visiting again and again.

Modest Water Wheel 2021 - Two

Maybe for a morning coffee, an afternoon wine … or evening cocktail.

Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - Three

And this lovely, peaceful Waterwheel is one of those places. So it was simply wonderful to be able to return once again this summer!

For more fun images at this week’s Sinful Sunday kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – There are lots more of my Re-visited Adventures at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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September 22, 2021 · 2:28 pm

Modesty at the Movies #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze introduces MakeLoveNotPorn

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.

In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.

So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.

But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!

First posted in December 2013 – It’s Been A Marvellous Year

Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.

So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!

For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!

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Xxx- K

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September 20, 2021 · 8:55 am

Pour Me Again – September 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Subby1s Holiday Tasks Cover

Whilst on our 3 week Summer 2021 Vacation I expected to have my every whim fulfilled and obeyed by Subby1. From pouring me ice cold beers on the beach, adjusting my sun umbrella and re-applying my sun tan lotion.

Then constantly topping up my wine glass when we got back to the apartment, giving me an after-sun full body massage and taking me out every evening for cocktails and a special meal.

And, of course, I instructed him to make sure he had his camera charged and ready at all times to keep a video diary of every fun moment … day and night … that I desired.

Which is good news for all you Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members, because that means I have lots and lots of candid … very candid in some cases … fun, silly and sexy videos to share.

Such as today’s new Members update “Subby1’s Holiday Tasks” which I hope you will all enjoy.

Or perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered**.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms,

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from September by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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September 18, 2021 · 4:48 pm

A Modestly Ticking C(l)ock … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty's Ticking Clock

“Now just stand still … I always set my alarm to remind me how long you booked for … and when your time is due to end”.

“And, I find it also helps remind you … that your clock is ticking … starting now!”

For more pleasant alarms at this week’s Sinful Sunday just stroke the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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September 15, 2021 · 8:54 am

Modestly Shameless #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix

This week’s prompt at Wicked Wednesday is “Shameless Promotion” … so, of course, I just couldn’t resist … because, as I’ve mentioned before, Marie’s wonderful meme was one of the prime motivators in me beginning my online journey here as Modesty Ablaze.

And finding a place that gave me weekly editions of a wide range of erotic stories was inspirational in my deciding to share excerpts from the “home” diaries that I’d compiled over the years.

The surprising response I received from those first “words only” blog-posts, motivated me further to “cut-and-paste” selected entries from my diaries into the first “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” with “Part 1 – The Journey” Ebook which I published at Amazon.

I was quite astonished to quickly begin receiving lots of messages asking for more. So, in the years since, I have uploaded a further five diary compilations to my Amazon Kindle collection, and … as downloadable PDFs … to my Gumroad page, where I have also added several more shorter “chapter” excerpts.

And, as the sharing of more of my different, and expanding, “hobbies” on my blog pages here grew and grew … I started to receive an increasing amount of requests for much more “personal” items than just excerpts from my diaries.

Hence … my own Used Clothing range, and mini-blog, at: mistresseslace.com … Used Toys, Perfume and Accessories at my Mistress Modesty’s Fun Store … Poster prints and PDFs at my Etsy page … and lots (over 270 now) of fun videos at Clips4Sale … or fulfilling exclusive video or photo requests and personalised messages at my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members page.

Or of course at my AVN Fans page where for a very “modest” subscription you can enjoy FREE-2-View access of my daily Video and Photo updates.

But wherever or however you may find me, I hope you will enjoy my indulgences … and always leave with a smile and feeling happier than when you first arrived.

Discover more Shameless Promotion at this week’s Wicked Wednesday by tapping the button below!

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Xxx- K

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September 13, 2021 · 8:59 am

Pour Me More – September 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Lavender Lover Part 4 Cover

Super Fan Sally has been following me here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com for as long as I can remember, and was certainly one of the very first Subscribers when I launched my Pour Me A Glass Members page over three years ago now.

And she has been messaging me quite a lot (LOL !!!) over the past few months about how much she has been enjoying my “Lavender Lover” videos. I think she has a thing for him … as I certainly do as well.

So my first Members Update for September is especially for Sally, and carries on with more from my wonderful evening with Lavender Lover, and his amazing tongue and fingers.

There is still more video content from our fun time together that night, so do let me know if you would like me to share more. Or perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Nude-in-Public or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from September by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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September 11, 2021 · 4:49 pm

Modestly Wrecked #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 1

We’ve been driving past this Wreckers Yard on our holidays for years now. But Hubby would never stop because it’s on such a busy road, and there were always lots of mechaniccy gentlemen …

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 2

opening and closing things … and probing and pulling things apart … as mechaniccy gentlemen always seem to enjoy doing!

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 3

But on one of the day’s this year, it just happened to be a public holiday … and there didn’t appear to be any mechaniccy gentlemen about.

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 4

So … I convinced Hubby to turn around and drive back … so that we could take a closer look.

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After all … I think there’s often something quite interesting, and worth closer investigation, when things are …

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 6

… stripped back to the bare-essentials. Wouldn’t you agree???

And I’m sure there will be more bare-essentials on display at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Let’s tap the lips below to investigate shall we!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

P.S. – I shall have to ask Bee at the Naughty Scavenger Hunt page if Wrecker’s Yard might qualify as category. But, if not I will add it to my Exposé Vŭ memories below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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September 4, 2021 · 4:45 pm

Modest Vibrations … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Vibrations

Gotta keep those lovin’ vibrations a-happening with her … and
Gotta keep those lovin’ vibrations a-happening with her … and
Gotta keep those lovin’ vibrations a-happening … (repeat to climax)!!!

For more Sing-a-long fun at this weekends Sinful Sunday theme of “Lyrics”, just tap, tap, tap the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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September 1, 2021 · 7:55 am

Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – September 2021 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members Bath September 2021

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for September 2021 … with a round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.


As you may have gathered from some of my most recent posts … I was incredibly lucky to have been able to get away to my favourite Grecian Island once again this summer.

And, because of the last minute rush to organise and pack … the few clothes and essentials that I needed … I wasn’t able to record a Modcast for August.

But … the good news for you all, is that I was able to record lots of fun videos and photos … which I will be sharing on my blog pages … AND Members pages … in the coming weeks and months.

However, lots of you messaged whilst I was away … to say that you really, really, wanted to see more of my wonderful evening with “Lavender Lover” which I’d featured as my main Members Video in July.

So … as the juicy-ness and smacking … had continued on from where I’d left you all in suspense … I’m happy to post “Part Three” from that amazing evening as my first video for September. And I think you will be able to tell just how much I was enjoying receiving all of his wonderful attention!!!

For this month’s Members Photo Gallery though … I thought I would give you a first glimpse of some summer beach and balcony photos from my holiday. And I certainly hope you will enjoy viewing them as much as I enjoyed posing for them …

… because as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them. 

Now … although I was away for the first three weeks of the month … I had got Hubby to pre-schedule some August posts … just so you wouldn’t think I’d disappeared completely! So … looking back at those posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com …


Wilderness at Wicked Wednesday

My first post for August was remembering
some fun exercises in my local
woodland for my “Wilderness”
posting at Wicked Wednesday.


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My first Sinful Sunday post of the month celebrated how “Happy” I was to be able to enjoy some fun sessions again in my favourite Dungeon during July.
And there will be some future videos to share from those sessions in the near future.

>>> Read more >>>

Silence at Wicked Wednesday

But I was able to post a photo
from one of those sessions for the
“Silence” theme at Wicked Wednesday
in the second week of August.

Shhh now !!!

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Mistress Modesty Sinfully Riding

The photos for my “Sinful Riding” post for that weekends Sinful Sunday … were some fun memories from my archives though, which I hadn’t used before.
And … as I’m sure you can imagine … I do have thousands of photos and videos in my archives … which it’s often fun to return to whenever the mood takes me. >>> Read more >>>

Modesty Ablaze Boob

But my overwhelming mood at the moment, is one of lots of joyful memories from my holiday … which I hinted at on my return for my “No Words To Describe” post at Sinful Sunday. And I’m hoping to be able to share lots more of those memories on my blog here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com in the months to come. >>> Read more>>>

But … in the meantime … thank you once again for spoiling me here and helping to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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August 25, 2021 · 7:19 am

Short Audio Reading from my “London Hotwife Diaries” #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze "Not Looking Forward to Being Back" cover

As I’ve mentioned before, I don’t like hearing the sound of my own voice. But I do receive lots of requests for more audio-readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze London Hotwife Diaries.

So, as being away on holiday allowed for more relaxed opportunities … and more “free” time on the beach or balcony … I managed to record several short extracts from my Diaries on this summer’s vacation.

And as “Not Looking Forward To Being Back” has a sort-of holiday theme, I thought it would be quite appropriate to share at this week’s Wicked Wednesday theme of “Diary”. It is from “Further Adventures“ Part 6 of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries.

Just to clarify for those of you who may not be familiar with the “pen names” and “initials” I’ve allocated to all of my lovers featured in my diaries, “J” is actually “Hubby”. And “V” was a lovely young gentleman whom was on secondment here from the Paris office for a wonderful 18 months in 2008 (yes that long ago!!!).

This is just a short reading … for a much longer, and more professionally read extract from another of my Diaries, I recommend listening to the wonderful Zak Jane Keir reading earlier this year. But if you would like to hear more from this summer’s break, just let me know and I will pluck up the courage (and close my ears) and upload more.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to “Not Looking Forward to Being Back” by clicking the “Play” arrow from the screen below . . .

For lots more Diary extracts and stories, visit the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday meme by tapping on the rainbow button below!

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Xxx – K

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