A few weeks ago I had a comment submitted to one of my posts along the lines of “Your blog is always all about you, you, you. Always flashing your tiny tits, never discussing serious women’s issues”. I can’t remember the exact wording.
It was whilst I was away on holiday, with very little wi-fi . . . oh and very little time to try to find any. Yes, I admit I WAS having too much fun (yes it really was just all about “me, me, me”).
I didn’t give the comment much thought and just hit the “bin” button on the moderator panel.
I don’t normally receive negative comments, the occasional “hair-loss” and “erectile dysfunction” spam yes, but nothing negative . . . but as I lay back on the beach afterwards, it did get me thinking . . . just for a little while at least!!!
But, as I rolled over onto my back and Hubby rubbed on a little more sun-lotion (on to those ‘tiny tits’), he said “You don’t do ‘serious’ do you. What ‘serious’ things do you want to talk about? There’s already loads of people doing that!”
And he is right of course . . . people such as the daily, non-stop topical news and views of all things sexual from Violet Blue;
AND Molly’s wonderful round-up of must-read “sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice and kinky discussion” at e[lust] ;
AND simply the most arousing Erotic novels I’ve ever read from Kay Jaybee;
AND the most stylish and classiest curator of erotic snapshots (and I mean words AND pictures) from fdotleonora . . .
AND the entertainingly informative daily sextra-snippets from Bobbie Morgan’s A Good Womans Dirty Mind
AND . . . well, I could go on and on and on of course . . . so many people, posting so many important and serious things, so much better and more eloquently and more regularly than I ever could.
So should I apologise to my anonymous (there was an email address obviously but my hurried deletion means she is now anonymous to me) commenter?
Is she right? Should I apologise, I wondered, for my posts always being about just “me, me, me”???
And then I thought . . . “Well no actually!!!” Surely all blogs, in some way or other, are all about “me, me, me”. Perhaps some more subtly, or subconsciously, than others . . . but isn’t that what blogging is all about? Sharing one’s thoughts, one’s views, one’s experiences with other (interested???) People?
And . . . ANYWAY . . . I actually DO think that “flashing my tiny tits”does (for me at least) have a positive side. “Because why?”
Well . . . BECAUSE . . . indulging in the lovely Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt meme has actually made me feel better about myself. It’s all about having a bit of fun and simply celebrating the fact that we are all different, all have different shapes and sizes and knowing that there will always be someone, somewhere who will enjoy us and love us for what and who we are.
AND . . . making people smile and giggle occasionally, IS surely something worthwhile . . . and genuine . . . and nice!
So although I realise lots of people may find Scavenger Hunting boring and frivolous, I often look around at people on the bus or the tube, or see politicians and celebrities talking on the TV . . . and I want to lean over and say “You know what, YOU could learn a LOT by trying a Scavenger Hunt!”
It’s certainly made my morning walks much more fun!!! . . . So why not join in !!!
Come on, it is such fun – Let’s all Dare to Bare !!!
Just click the button below to have fun . . . Seriously!!!
Xxx – K
And when I came across this skateboard park recently, I was tempted to ask one of the young skaters who were just finishing their fun, if I could borrow one of their boards and try for myself.
