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Modesty Ablaze “A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introducing "A Very Naughty Tease" video

I’ve just published my latest #realworldsex video “A Very Naughty Teasing” on my profile page at Make Love Not Porn.

After Hubby’s arousing Oral Entree had ended so prematurely, when he came too quickly, I was so aroused that I just had to carry on satisfying myself.

But, as he’d climaxed without my permission, I decided to tease him by slowly … and precisely … showing him, just how my tingling clit and really juicy cunt should be treated.

I made him sit in the naughty corner, whilst I told him exactly what I needed, and where I needed it … cupping my breasts … tweaking my nipples and sliding my fingers in and out of my wanton, wet pussy!!!

Now please excuse my language in this video .… I know it is a bit extreme … but I got so carried away with my arousal, and Hubby’s poor performance, that I really wanted to emphasise his contrition … and submission … that I couldn’t help myself. I just wanted to tease him with everything he’d missed out on … because he’d come too quickly.

And, for my part, I didn’t want it to be quick. I wanted it to be long and sensual … and naughty and teasing … very teasing!!!

Modesty Ablaze Very Naughty Tease 1

You can view my introduction to “A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020  is my 89th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020 with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Modesty Ablaze A Very Naughty Tease 2

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest Handball … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Handball 1

“Handball !!! … you’re the second one to question My Rules this week!”
“I’m the umpire here … you’re the sub … so just remember that!!!”

Mistress Modesty Handball 2

“Referee … I’ll give you Referee!!! … I’m the Umpire, Line Judge … AND … the Fourth Official. My decision is the only one that matters … Agreed???”

There will be more Twists and Turns this weekend I’m sure.
Just flick the Sinful lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly 40 Love #BoobDay #217

Mistress Modesty Boobday Tennis

“It’s my Court … my Tournament … and I set the rules! So YES I think this is perfectly acceptable attire!”

“You’ll just have to concentrate a little harder won’t you!”
“Now … Match-Point I believe!!!”

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modest Dungeons #KOTW #wickedwednesday & #4Thoughts

Mistress Modesty Wicked Dungeons

For last week’s Sinful Sunday post Something beginning with … I mentioned how my journey here at Modesty Ablaze had sent me in many new directions and on many new exciting adventures.

And in fact I’m not ashamed to admit that I became almost addicted to embracing every new opportunity, and every new path, that Modesty led me on. Some that I would never ever have imagined, or some that had perhaps been a fantasy that I’d never thought I would dare to indulge.

And certainly one of the latter, was the unfolding evolution of Mistress Modesty into what I’d once perceived as a dark world of dungeons and damp cellars, leather and chains.

But I was intrigued, and entranced, by the thought of willing submissives, begging to be caged and beaten, blindfolded and gagged, presenting their naked and humbled bodies to the will and whim of a powerful Dominatrix.

Possibly it was the thoughts of having that power, that control, so unusual in my “normal, real” world.
Possibly it was the arousing thoughts of being worshipped and adored, without the expectation or need of reciprocation.
Perhaps it was a little of both those things.

But as my journey, and connections … and bookings … grew, it actually became more about the fun of the different experiences and different people involved.

And that is how it has continued over the years since. An overwhelming sense of fun and satisfaction with every new session … and every new sensation.

And hopefully it is an addiction that I can continue to enjoy for many years still to come.

For more experiences of Addiction … and Gagging … and Medieval Dungeons … visit the current editions of Wicked Wednesday, 4 Thoughts and Kink of The Week … by smacking the buttons below!

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Xxx- K

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A Modest K … #sinfulsunday

A Modest K at Sinful Sunday

I was very Modest when I made my Dot Com debut in January 2012. I still am of course … but was even more so back then … covering my Modesty with my masks and nom de plume.

So, as this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is “something beginning with K”, it seems appropriate to look back over my shoulder to how my postings here have changed from just being a place to publish extracts from myModesty Ablaze Diaries, to embrace all my journeys travelled since.

And one of those journeys was to the studio of the wonderful John Tisbury who took the above, and many more, photos subsequently featured here and there over the years.

For many more things beginning with K just kiss the Sinful lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Purple Netting #BoobDay #216

Modesty Ablaze Purple Netting Boobday 216

Although I was gifted this lovely Bodystocking from my Wishlist page several months ago, today is the first time I’ve actually tried it on.
That’s because I’ve decided to wear it … in earnest so-to-speak … for the first time this weekend!!!

And I’m hoping it will be making a favourable impression other than just here at Boobday Friday. Wish me luck!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Do as I say, not as I do … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Do as 1

“Now I’m hoping you can recall all of your lines from your last visit!”

Mistress Modesty Do as 2

“Do you remember the tasks you promised you would complete for me?”

Mistress Modesty Do as 3

“And … how many strokes did we agree on, if you failed to achieve them all?”

“Because you know who it is that sets the rules in my Chambers, don’t you!!!”

For more Tasks and Achievements just swipe the Sinful lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Beer #BoobDay #215

I do get so annoyed when “someone” deprives me of my Beer on the Beach!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Cucking #KOTW #wickedwednesday & #4Thoughts

Modesty Ablaze on Cuckolding at #KOTW

The current theme at Kink of the Week is “Cuckolding” … so although our relationship is not, strictly speaking, exclusively a Cuckolding one … how could I possibly not join in?

Because, as I explained in an earlier post this week, Hubby does actually quite often get to join-in the fun!!!

But the “idea” of Cuckolding is definitely a Kink … for the both of us.

It started from my confession to Hubby all those years ago of my office affair.

His revelation that he actually enjoyed knowing I was experiencing the thrills and excitement of sex with another man, started us on a wonderful journey of sharing each of our kinks and desires … one of which was Hubby’s fantasy of watching me with another man.

It didn’t happen immediately of course. Neither I, nor that particular lover, were ready for that sort of inclusion straight away! Rather my affair continued, (awkwardly at first as my lover found the knowledge that my husband knew of our relationship, disconcerting and “weird”), with me returning home each evening to relive all the details to an excited Hubby expectantly waiting-up for me on the sofa.

Unexpectedly I soon realised I was as excited as Hubby was in recounting the where’s, how’s and what’s of each nights encounter. And, even more unexpectedly, I actually found myself excited during the evening, knowing that I would be returning home and reliving every kiss and touch … and thrust!

Slowly my lover’s unease about the situation began to change. He started asking lots of questions about Hubby’s reactions, and eventually, he agreed for the three of us to meet. That’s all it was at first, just meeting for drinks, and for my two men to get to know one another. And they actually got along very well.

It still took several months after that first social meeting however, for my lover to become comfortable enough to agree for Hubby to join us in our hotel room, after I promised he would be made to sit quietly in the corner and not speak or move. And so our first Cuckolding experience was christened.

There were nervous flutters for all of us … but I did feel quite a thrill from my mock “headmistress” finger pointing instruction to Hubby “sit on that chair, not a peep until you’re spoken to”. And Hubby told me later he felt the same way. (And this was decades before morphing into my Mistress Modesty persona).

It started slowly, and differently, as it was bound to I suppose. But once we were lost in our embraces the normal lust and passion returned. Hubby was allowed to speak of course … during our natural breaks … and dutifully topped-up our glasses and fed us both grapes and melon slices.

For my part I found it all wonderfully exciting and arousing, and it made the evening even more thrilling and empowering than before. My lover however, didn’t feel the same way, telling me later that sharing didn’t give him the same thrill that it obviously did for Hubby and myself.

But Hubby loved his “role-play” mode of the humiliated Cuckold, and I absolutely loved playing along to his kink (and now mine) of the lustful Hotwife.

That first affair eventually fizzled out as office affairs generally do. And though all of my subsequent lovers were always told of our “open-relationship” lifestyle from the outset, not many felt comfortable enough to join in with Hubby’s “loves to watch” kink. But happily … very happily … for us, we have been lucky enough over the years, to meet several other gentlemen who have enjoyed, and benefitted from, our Cuckold fetish. (One of whom appears above!)

For lots more experiences of Cuckolding … and Mischievous and Improvement lifestyles … visit the current editions of Wicked Wednesday, 4 Thoughts and Kink of The Week … by tapping the buttons below!

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze"

Do you know I’ve now been sharing my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn for over Eight Years!!!

Goodness, eight years, doesn’t time fly when one’s enjoying oneself … and having #realworldsex fun!!!

And it’s been simply wonderful to receive lots and lots of emails and messages from people all over the world telling me how much they’ve enjoyed my different videos and different fun adventures.

But just recently I received a message from a gentleman who seemed quite concerned that although I quite regularly mention “Hubby” in all my posts and introductions, he doesn’t seem to feature in the videos very often. This gentleman was worried that my husband seemed to be “missing out” on the fun, as he put it.

I did, of course, message him back and explain that, as well as Hubby being my camera-man, one of the biggest thrills for us is that I “love to play” and Hubby “loves to watch”.

But I did also point out that in fact Hubby does feature in quite a number of my Make Love Not Porn videos, especially in the earlier ones.

Obviously with lock-down and everything that has happened over the past year, it has made meeting and playing with our other friends absolutely impossible. So that has meant that lots of my more recent videos at MLNP have featured my “me-time” playtimes. But thankfully things are slowly beginning to change … and I hope that soon our fun three-somes, and more-somes, can begin once again.

But in the meantime I thought this was the perfect opportunity to celebrate our Eight Years of Real World Sex fun at Make Love Not Porn with a reminder-compilation of just a few of the … many … occasions when I, or one of our lovers, have actually taken over the camera and Hubby has appeared in our videos.

Modesty Ablaze sucking Hubby Ablaze

You can view my introduction to “Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze  is my 88th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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