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Making Modest Dates #F4T

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I’ve never really got on with organising dates in any of those computer spreadsheet programs, or even on the calendar in my phone.

I realise that in this day and age it will be considered as terribly old-fashioned, but I much prefer to enter all my sessioning appointments, and important dates, in hand-written form into my diary. It’s what I always did before computers and mobile phones . . . and it’s what I shall very probably continue to do, for the foreseeable future.

So, rather than having to awkwardly scroll through my phone screen or turn-on a computer, I just reach into my handbag and turn to the appropriate page and entries in my diary. It’s quicker and easier to note my appointments and session bookings . . . and means I won’t forget.

But woe betide if you do . . . or if you are late. I can’t abide late-comers.
It makes me cross and impatient . . . and . . . over-excitable !!!

There will be lots more thoughts on “Dates” and “Dating” at this week’s
Food For Thought. Just thumb-through the button below.

Food For Thought Friday

Xxx- K

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Modest Dribbles #sinfulsunday

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“Will you just stand still . . . and stop your dribbling” !!!

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Dribbles 2

“I’m trying to get a photo for tomorrow’s theme at Sinful Sunday

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Dribbles 3

“I know it’s about spilling the whole image out of the picture . . . but if you don’t stop right now you’ll reach the floor!!!”

I realise this isn’t the type of spilling-out-of-the-frame that Molly had in mind for this week’s Sinful Sunday . . . but I know there will be lots and lots of
far more creative “Frames” to be discovered, by clicking the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Tassled #Boobday Friday

I normally prefer to use my own Canes and Floggers whenever I’m sessioning.

However I discovered this lovely new Tassled Flogger at my favourite Chambers last weekend.

You probably want to know if I actually used it, don’t you? Well, do keep checking back and perhaps you will see. But first of all I just had to feel for myself how it felt . . . skin-to-skin . . . if you know what I mean!!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

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Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Caught On A Swing” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces her Real World Sex Video "Caught on a Swing"

Now you probably know that the Hashtag for my favourite video-sharing website . . . MakeLoveNotPorn dot TV . . . is “#realworldsex” . . . with the emphasis on “Real World”.

That’s because the videos show Real People having their Real Fun . . . in Real Situations.

But, as I’m sure we all know, in the Real World things can often not quite go the way one would hope.

And that was, rather disappointingly, the case in my newest video at Make Love Not Porn . . . Caught On A Swing.

You see Lover 83 and I had been indulging in some role-play-fun in my favourite chambers, on their new Swing.

It’s fun to indulge in a little role-play from time to time . . . and I’d decided our theme would involve him kneeling before me and aurally exciting me by describing the view he saw in front of him . . . and what he’d like to do from the position he was in.

Modesty Ablaze on the Dungeon Swing

I had fun teasing him as his story progressed, and I really did begin to get quite aroused . . . as I encouraged him to turn his aural skills into . . . well, an even more enjoyable oral experience.

But that’s when my twisting and swinging motions, began to cause us a slight, positional problem, shall we say

You’ll just have to watch our fun . . . as it unfolds, to see exactly what I mean.

“Caught On A Swing” is my 67th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch this Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Caught On A Swing” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “Caught On A Swing”  is my 67th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Caught On A Swing” with tags such as:

ROLEPLAY / ILUBEU / YUMMY / RAVENOUS / COMMUNICATIVE / NIPSY / HANDY / INTHEDUNGEON / CLITASTIC / DRESSY / KINKY

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Oh, and P.S. – Just because I said our fun didn’t end in quite the way I’d hoped . . . it was still lots, and lots, of fun !!!

Modesty Ablaze fingering herself in her #realworldsex Video "Caught On A Swing"
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Xxx – K

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Modestly Spent #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty relaxes after a long caning session

Phew !!! . . . at the end of such a long and exhausting afternoon, it’s nice
to finally sit down and take the weight off one’s feet.

For more Sinful experiences this weekend gently smack the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Netting #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Cuffs and Nets

Once you are, Modestly, entrapped . . . you must beg loudly for release!!!

Visit this week’s Wicked Wednesday by snapping the button below,
to discover more Netting tales, and imagery.

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NB: The photo above was taken by the marvellous John Tisbury !!!

Xxx- K

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Set your Modesty . . . Ablaze !!!

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix

Be who you really . . . really . . . want to be.
Be who you really . . . really . . . are !!!

For more Sinful Sunday sinners,
smack the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Cupped #KOTW

Modesty Ablaze Cupped

I know I’ve mentioned here many times before that there is only one gentleman whom I will switch for . . . Lover No. 14. And even then . . . only if I’m in the mood . . . and usually only for some of his lovely rope-work fun.

But for one of our meetings he brought along some plastic “suction cuppers” in his toy bag. And I must admit that we had such fun with them that I’ve added them to my own sessioning implements, as they do leave such lovely marks!

Modesty Ablaze Cupped 2

But . . . as I said . . . I only switch for one gentleman. So if you request them during a session be warned . . . they could end-up anywhere !!!

Modesty Ablaze Cupped 3

And whilst being lots of fun to “apply” – they are even more fun to pull-off !!!

For lots more “Cupping” and “Plucking” just suck on the KOTW lips below.

Kink of the Week

Xxx- K

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A Modestly Grey #sinfulsunday

A grey, grey day in London, but just stepping-out to add some
colour to my afternoon.

As always though, one must be prepared in case the afternoon
should turn-out a little wet!!!

Find out how all the other lovely sinners have been approaching this
Sinful Sunday by smacking those lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Trying to Manage My Modest Appointments #wickedwednesday

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I used to assume that efficiently managing one’s life, would become easier with the passing of time. That I would become more organised and focussed in planning and arranging my day-to-day routines.

But actually the opposite has been true as, certainly over the past few years, every week seems to race by quicker than the last.

That’s not to say that I’m not enjoying that racing . . . in fact I’m having more fun now in my 50’s than I did in my 25’s . . . especially as my domme play-hobby is testing my time-management skills more and more. (And lots and lots of other “skills” as well!!!)

But, consequently, my postings here at Wicked Wednesday have suffered over the past year or so as I haven’t managed anywhere near as many contributions as I used to.

So . . . as I sit down for a moment to relax between sessions . . . with a freshly poured glass of course . . . I couldn’t possibly miss this week as it marks the 400th edition of Marie’s wonderfully fun meme.

You can read many more thoughts on Time Management from tapping on the Wicked Wednesday button below.

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Xxx- K

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