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Modest Landmarks to Laugh at #wickedwednesday #F4TFriday

Modesty Ablaze Curtains 1988
Modesty Ablaze Curtains – 1988

This week’s prompt of “Laughter” at Wicked Wednesday . . . and of “Landmarks” at Food For Thought Friday . . . just seem to fit so well together that I couldn’t resist re-posting my thoughts from a previous Wicked Wednesday post a few years ago.

I’ve always thought it’s important to be able to laugh at oneself from time-to-time, and I always try to not take things too seriously. And memories from many of those landmark moments often bring giggles and laughter.

So, recalling personal landmarks from my Modesty Ablaze timeline over the years:

From my Seventy-Teenies:
Rebelling from Catholic school tie and gymslips by day, to punk rocker by night down in deepest darkest Soho. I will never be old. Meet a boy with strange accent . . . a little older? Just a little. But . . . he works in the bar at the Marquee club in Wardour Street. Free tickets, free drinks at the bar! He likes me! The Clash, Siouxsie, The Damned, The Jam . . . wild times, wild nights. I’ll never grow old!

To my Eighty-Twenties:
I’ll never grow old. Leaving school. New job. Same boy, think he likes me. Summer holidays, island hopping Greek Islands. Different job. Same boy, think I like him. Flying to the bottom half of the world. I’ll never grow old! Returning home. Leaving home. Sinful living, same boy, we like each other. I’m never growing old, in fact I’m feeling younger.

And my Eighty-MidTwenties (almost):
Same boy. He loves me, I love him. White Wedding. Route 66, Everglades, Sunsets over Key West. I’ll never grow old! In fact, I’m feeling younger.

To my Ninety-Twenties:
New home. Same boy. Children. Love them. Suddenly . . . I’m getting older.

And my Two Thousand Thirties:
School run mornings. Back to work. Office affair. Oh God, what’s happening? I’m a wife, a mother, I should be being responsible, I’m not a youngster anymore. What to do? Must stop, can’t stop. Come clean to same boy. He says he knows already! He understands, he loves me. He thinks it’s fun. He doesn’t mind. I love him. I’m never growing old, in fact I’m feeling younger.

Oh suddenly it’s Two Thousand Forties:
Same boy. New job. New affair(s). Oh God. Can’t stop. Never growing old, in fact feeling younger.

And my Two Thousand Mid-Forties:
Same boy. Swinging fun, such fun. Three-somes, Four-somes, More-somes.
Oh God. Can’t stop. Never growing old, in fact feeling even younger.

To my Two Thousand Fifties:
Same boy. More fun, such fun. FemDom, Mistressing, Crops & Canes. Can’t stop. Won’t stop. Too much fun to stop.
I can’t possibly be getting old, in fact I’m feeling younger, ever younger.

To the years flying by to Two Thousand Mid-Fifties:
Same boy. Lots more fun, new friends, more whips & strap-ons. Don’t want to stop. Hoping it won’t stop. Too much fun to stop. Years seem to pass ever quicker . . . but I’m still feeling younger, wanting younger!

Do I have any goals / landmarks still to achieve?

Oooh . . . never to let an opportunity pass by !!!

Modesty Ablaze Curtains 2019
Modesty Ablaze Curtains – 2019

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Xxx- K

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A Modest Read #sinfulsunday

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“You’re late!” I growled to Sub T as he scrambled into the chambers mumbling apologies and excuses. “I’ve had to sit here entertaining myself browsing through the bookshelf”.

“Now get over here and let’s see how you measure up with some of these!”

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“Mmm . . . well perhaps I can work with that . . . but you’ll have to learn that I never tolerate lateness.”

“So let’s just see if you’re still so confident after I’ve got my slapper out . . . and of course . . . if you can take my own Big Penis !!!”

And if you slap the Sinful Sunday lips below, I’m sure there will lot’s more confidence on show!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Print News #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Newsprint

“Well I did tell you not to lie there and wallow in it!” I told him. “What do you expect from wet newspaper on a marble floor!!!”

An outtake photo from later in the evening of my Mopping Up last year . . . though this wet wasn’t from the rain!!!

“Outtake Photos” is the theme at this week’s Sinful Sunday . . . so slide over the lips below, to read more news and view more prints!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Anticipation #sinfulsunday

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Isn’t anticipation such a powerful and strong sensory emotion?

Mistress Modesty Red Strap-on Two

For both . . . Sub and Domme . . . of course!!!

And I’m anticipating more strong sensory emotions at this week’s
Sinful Sunday. So just gently push the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Grushing #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Gripping

Yes . . . Grushing . . . Mistresses Grushing . . . like crushing with a G !!!

Normally accompanied with loud Gasping . . . Grunting . . . and eventually, only if I allow it . . . some Gushing !!!!

For lots more G’s . . . and probably lots more Gasping and Grunting at this week’s Sinful Sunday just Grush the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Pegging #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Pegging

“Hold still !!!” I told him as he thrashed from side-to-side with every new pinch. “It will be better if you just stay still !!!”

Mistress Modesty Cock and Ball Pegging

“What’s that? You thought I was meaning my Strap-On when I said Pegging!”

“Well no, that’s for later! . . . After I’ve threaded my string and . . .
pulled these off !!!”

For lots more Sinful fun this Sunday just squeeze the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Pierced #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze pinching Pierced Nipples

Not mine . . . as Hy would say . . . but they did belong to me for the Session,
as I teased and pinched Luscious’s lovely pierced nipples!

And it was such fun that I couldn’t resist sharing at Hy’s wonderful
Boobday Friday, because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Hands-On #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Fingering Bi-sub

I do so like to be “hands-on” . . . in absolutely everything I do !!!

And on this occasion, it was even more fun watching Luscious’s own hands and fingers twitching . . . and hearing her rising moans . . . as my probing stirred us both to a lovely session finale !!!

For more “Hands-on” experiences at this week’s
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Xxx- K

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A Modest Double #sinfulsunday

I always struggle with the photo prompts at Sinful Sunday. And I’ve been angst-ing all week . . . well not all week actually . . . but you know . . . in-between appointments . . . when I had the time to pause and think!

I mean, for goodness sake . . . what do I know about Double Exposure ???

Then, reading Molly’s instructions over again . . . “exposing twice to capture two different shots, one on top of the other” . . . it suddenly struck me !!!

Mistress Modesty Double Exposure 1

Last Saturday’s fun session with Mistress Luscious . . . when there really was lots of Double Exposure(s) . . . one on top of the other!

Mistress Modesty Double Exposure 2

Lots and lots . . . one after the other . . . in fact, you could say there was an abundance of Multi Exposures . . . with quite a High Dynamic Range !!!

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With frequent pauses of course . . . just to check that everything had . . . well you know . . . Developed successfully!!!

For more, properly technical, explanations of Double Exposure just click this week’s  Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Signing Out #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Signing Out 1

I always think that one should make a lasting impression when sessioning for the first time with a new submissive!!!

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Signing Out 2

Just to ensure his time in one’s chambers will be remembered with warmth and tingles for several days . . . or more !!!

For more Memorable Impressions at this week’s  Sinful Sunday
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Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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