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A Modest Examination #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Examination Chair

“Yes, I did have a lovely holiday . . . and no, I’m not happy to be back.
In fact I’m quite unhappy actually. Unhappy and grumpy!

“So let’s see if you’re still looking so smug and pleased with yourself in
an hour shall we ???”

To see what lots of other Sinful people have been up to this weekend,
simply scratch the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly On Top #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty on top

“You did say Edging was on your list didn’t you?” I asked as I settled down to make myself comfortable.

“What’s that . . . I can’t hear you when you mumble.” I laughed.

“You know what your next lesson is going to be, don’t you??”
“Not to speak with your mouth full !!!”

This month’s theme at Sinful Sunday is for views from Down Low,
and I am sure there will lots more looking-up and down to be discovered
by licking the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Mistresses Lights On ??? #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Flogger 1

Do you prefer your Playtime Fun with the lights off . . . or the lights on ???

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Flogger 2

Well . . . I usually prefer them on . . . so that I can see more clearly exactly what I’m doing, and how I’m doing it!!!

But there will be lots more answers about “One Shot Two Ways” to be discovered by slapping the Sinful Sunday rub lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly In To Bat #Boobday Friday


Modesty Ablaze Boobday Cricket

Despite my “Modest Run Ratesinful post last month, I’m not really a fan of cricket . . . but I do so enjoy playing with Bat and Balls !!!

So . . . I was wondering . . . is there such a thing in Cricket as a “Boobly” ???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Communicating @F4TFriday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Bottom Licker

“Further and faster . . . I thought you said you knew how to please !!!”

In my view, communication should always be a “two way thing”. On the one hand, clear and concise instruction . . . and on the other hand, clear and concise acknowledgement


For more tips and advice on Good Communication Habits, visit this week’s F4TF by . . . licking . . . the F4TF play-button below!

#F4TFriday


Xxx- K

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Modestly Grown Up @F4TFriday

The questions at this week’s Food For Thought did make me giggle when
I saw them. The first of which I hadn’t thought about for years, the second of which I think about all the time.

1) What did you want to be when you were little?

I wanted to be either, an Astronaut . . . the first woman in space . . . Yes,
I really, really did!!!

Modesty Ablaze in Space

But the closest I came to that, was a visit to The Space Observatory a few years ago with the lovely Curvaceous Dee.

Modesty Ablaze The Nurse

Or . . . I wanted to be a Nurse . . . helping people relieve their aches and pains
. . . which I have had much more experience with over the past few years!

And that second question?

2) As an adult what would you most like to get paid to do?

Well the answer to that is easy. I’d like to be paid to be . . . permanently
on Holiday !!!


For more thoughts on “Careers and Aspirations” just stroke
the F4TF play-button below!

#F4TFriday


Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump from @Bestvibe1

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 1

I always enjoy being asked to review what many people would normally regard as “men’s sex toys” because it gives me the fun opportunity to test them out during one of my sessions.

So I was particularly thrilled to receive the Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump from Bestvibe as the majority (not all LOL!!!) of the submissives that arrive at my dungeon door, can usually do with some “enlargement”.

And I can immediately tell you that in every case, the Bestvibes Penis Pump, definitely did work . . . and was definitely fun to use.

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 2

It arrived in the post, neatly packed and wrapped in plain outer packaging . . . and I do like Bestvibes pledge regarding post and packaging, “With completely plain and boring packaging, you will receive your package discreetly. Our shipper name appears as “Mr X” on the return address. Neither Bestvibe nor our logo will appear on the outside of the package and there will be no mention of the nature of the contents. We also will state it contains Novelty and Gift on Customs Declaration form to avoid custom charges”.

And once unwrapped, even the internal product box itself is quite plain and tastefully branded with just the “Fondlove” logo. But as you will see from the accompanying photos here, the enlarger is certainly not a small item that can be discretely packed away in one’s bedside cabinet drawer. But then you wouldn’t expect it to be would you.

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 3

There are four main, detachable, parts to the Pump and these are quite easily and quickly connected and pushed into place in order to have it ready for action.

The main cylinder itself is made from a firm, clear ABS plastic, 2.5 inches in diameter and 11 inches in length from the base to the curved top with the impressive looking pressure gauge.

The 9 inch hose connecting the cylinder to the operating handle is made from quite a strong black plastic, and I must say that all of the components feel strong, well made and would appear to be quite durable. I have used the pump on quite a number of occasions now without any problems at all . . . and as I mentioned earlier, with complete success every time.

The assembly is completed by a flexible, thin black rubber cap that fits tightly over the bottom of the cylinder. It has an insertion hole in it’s middle, through which the subject pushes his member. The application of a little lube abound the hole, and over the penis, will help ease it through the hole whilst keeping it airtight to allow the vacuum suction to begin.

Now . . . this is the bit I particularly enjoyed . . . squeezing the handle!!!

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 4

The pumping, or squeezing action of the trigger-like handle, is actually quite easy and one can immediately see the effect of the suction beginning to work it’s magic as the penis inside starts to grow with each squeeze.

The pressure gauge dial shows the pressure increasing . . . and is quite addictive to keep checking actually, as I strive to better my previous readings! LOL !!!

But it is actually fun to see the penis swelling and enlarging inside the cylinder, as well.

One does have to be conscious of not squeezing too much too quickly though. I tend to squeeze and pause . . . squeeze and pause . . . and check with my “subject” that he is not feeling any discomfort. If he does, or if he feels he has reached his enlargeable limit, there is a “quick release, safety valve” located at the base of the handle which quickly deflates the pressure . . . but hopefully not the erection!

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 5

During my initial “testing” I was pulling the pump, with it’s rubber-sealed base, too quickly off the subject’s penis once he told me he had reached his limit.

But I soon found it easier, and more effective in maintaining the erection, to lift the edges of the black rubber seal away from around the base of the cylinder itself, thus leaving the seal impaled on his dick, where it can be more easily, and tenderly, slid off with some gentle massaging actions.

As I say, I found that doing it this way, especially when combined with some more lube in the palm of one’s hand, tended to help maintain his excitement at seeing his unusually enlarged erection.

So, in summary, the Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump certainly works . . . though of course, putting it to good use is, as always, down to those involved.

And although I said myself at the beginning of this review that it is probably considered a “for him” toy, I really do feel that this device is much more fun for two, rather than just for playing “solo”. It certainly has been for me anyway!!

More “technical descriptions” and all the important information, and browsing links, are as below:

Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump:
Modesty Rating:
10 out of 10
Pros: Strong, sturdy and very easy to hold and operate.
Cons: I haven’t found any at all so far.
Packaging: Tastefully packaged in a strong, black cardboard box in three detachable main items, plus the black rubber seal and a small printed instructions leaflet!
Material: Firm and strong Plastic.
Measurements: Overall length, from the bottom of the cylinder to the tip of the pressure gauge dial = 11 inches. Cylinder diameter = 2.5 inches. Handle = 6 inches. Connecting hose (including the release valve) = 9 inches.
Operation: Manual squeezing of trigger-type handle.
Use Time: Dependent on the participants.
Colour: Clear plastic with black attachments.
Waterproof: Would be difficult to operate underwater, though would probably work in the shower.
Lubricants: Use with water-based lubricants (not oil).
Cleaning: Clean immediately after use with warm soapy water, a damp cloth or a water-soluble cleaning agent.
Noise level: Nice air-suction sounds, and accompanying gasps of pleasure from the recipient.
Country of Manufacture: China.
Supplier Product Link: Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump
Supplier Website: bestvibe.com
Twitter:
@Bestvibe1
The Modesty Video Review:
You can view this fun Penis Pump in action from my Clips store >here<.

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 6

The Fondlove Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump was sent to me, free-of-charge by Bestvibe.com,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modest Appointments #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix flogging

It’s been a frantic, busy, busy week. But what better way to soothe one’s tensions than a nice, calming, Saturday afternoon workout!

And I have another appointment this afternoon . . . so won’t get back to my normal Sunday reading until very late this evening.

But I’m positive there will be many more fun and calming images to be found at
this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently flogging the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Run Rate #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 1

As you may remember, I’ve begun to familiarise myself with the game of cricket over the past year. Especially after being told so many times how skilled I am with bats and balls. And, as we are presently hosting the Cricket World Cup,
I thought I would explain some of the basic rules and procedures necessary for one to enjoy the game to it’s fullest extent.

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 2

Firstly, let’s practice in the nets. I normally prefer mine in black of course, but that would hardly be appropriate apparel . . . and would definitely be considered as un-sportsmanlike behaviour . . . which I always try to avoid.

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 3

However, one’s stance can often be used to upset the bowlers concentration,
and try to put him off his stride . . . referred to as “sledging” !!! Mmm . . .

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 4

Which may have the affect of him bowling a “wide”, which the umpire (that quiet gentleman standing nearby in a hat and white blazer), will signal by making a gesture like this . . . well not exactly like this! (He always keeps his blazer on).

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 5

Or, if he makes a gesture like this, it means the bowler has taken one step too far
. . . and it’s ruled as a “no ball” . . . or a “free hit” to you and me . . . and I always enjoy free-hits!

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 6

And both arms held wide like this, signifies that the bats-person has whacked the ball so hard . . . and I do love whacking balls really, really hard . . . that it has scored a “six” (so obviously, that’s where “six of the best” has come from then!)

By the way, these white-boards-on-wheels that I’m standing in front of, are called Sight Screens and are to help us bats-people see the bowlers balls more clearly . . . they’ve cleverly thought of everything haven’t they!

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 7

So let’s leave the boundary and stroll out into the middle . . . as you can see, the covers are completely off . . . so they are not expecting a “sticky wicket” today.

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 8

But let me tell you . . . once I’ve enjoyed a few overs . . . things may get just a little sticky later on. And I don’t mean if rain stops play!!!

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 9

So there you have it . . . I do hope that my short introduction has given a
better appreciation of what is happening when you hear that wonderful sharp smacking sound . . . of bat on balls . . . whether it is on the local village green, or on this summer’s television screens.

There will probably be lots more whacking sights and sounds, to be found at
this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently smacking the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – I don’t think there is a “Cricket Pitch” category at
Jade’s fun Scavenger Hunt pages just yet, so I’m hoping that this may
start something new.

There are lots more of my Scavenger Hunt excursions at my
Listings page . . . where there are now over 120 different locations.
Most of which are on my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Hunt pages

Xxx – K

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Modestly Twisted #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty twisting

“You are far too young to remember the dance” I giggled as my sub begged me to Twist ‘more and more please Mistress’ !!!

“Of course, it was well before my time too !!!” I laughed as I rotated further.
“But I do remember seeing people enjoying themselves on the television. Swivelling and Twisting their hips from side to side . . . much like you are doing right now. They all seemed to enjoy it as well”.

And I do seem to recall the song was sung by someone called Chubby . . .
quite appropriate really . . . don’t you think?”

For more “Twisted” thoughts this Wicked Wednesday, gently
twist the button below !!!

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Xxx- K

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