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No Modest Regrets #wickedwednesday

Modest No Regrets Wicked Wednesday

We all have regrets don’t we. Things we wish we’d done and didn’t … or things we did and wish we hadn’t … or at least had done differently.

But what I have learnt during my Modest hobbies over the past three decades is not to regret ones adventures, but rather, to learn from them and let the experience(s) shape future situations and choices.

And to try to see the positives in every experience, and with every individual we meet along the way.


This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Regrets” … just click the button below for more thoughts and reflections!

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Xxx- K

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Modesty at the Movies #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze introduces MakeLoveNotPorn

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.

In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.

So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.

But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!


First posted in December 2013 It’s Been A Marvellous Year

Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.


So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!

For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "The Teasing Finale"

As you may have expected if you’ve watched my previous video A Very Naughty Teasing … and I certainly hope you have … this Finale follows on directly from that Naughty Teasing!

I had been really enjoying teasing Hubby, and chastising and humiliating him, for putting his own pleasure before mine!

But, as I continued with my fingering and gentle smacking of my very, very, wet lips … I was also becoming more and more aroused and really, really, needing to come myself.

So I just had to reach for my lube and vibrating banana dildo … because as much as I love having a real cock inside me … sometimes only I know how I REALLY need to be fucked. Just how deep, how fast, how slow, when to push in … and when to, slowly, pull out.

And this was one of those occasions … when only my self-fucking … favourite smooth vibrating dildo would do!!

Modesty Ablaze self-fucking Banana Vibrator 1

So I hope you will enjoy my teasing and edging … and wanton clenching and twisting … myself to a huge energy-sapping cum as much as I did.

You can view my introduction to “The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020  is my 90th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020 with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Modesty Ablaze self-fucking Teasing Finale 2

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introducing "A Very Naughty Tease" video

I’ve just published my latest #realworldsex video “A Very Naughty Teasing” on my profile page at Make Love Not Porn.

After Hubby’s arousing Oral Entree had ended so prematurely, when he came too quickly, I was so aroused that I just had to carry on satisfying myself.

But, as he’d climaxed without my permission, I decided to tease him by slowly … and precisely … showing him, just how my tingling clit and really juicy cunt should be treated.

I made him sit in the naughty corner, whilst I told him exactly what I needed, and where I needed it … cupping my breasts … tweaking my nipples and sliding my fingers in and out of my wanton, wet pussy!!!

Now please excuse my language in this video .… I know it is a bit extreme … but I got so carried away with my arousal, and Hubby’s poor performance, that I really wanted to emphasise his contrition … and submission … that I couldn’t help myself. I just wanted to tease him with everything he’d missed out on … because he’d come too quickly.

And, for my part, I didn’t want it to be quick. I wanted it to be long and sensual … and naughty and teasing … very teasing!!!

Modesty Ablaze Very Naughty Tease 1

You can view my introduction to “A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020  is my 89th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Very Naughty Teasing – Summer 2020 with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Modesty Ablaze A Very Naughty Tease 2

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze"

Do you know I’ve now been sharing my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn for over Eight Years!!!

Goodness, eight years, doesn’t time fly when one’s enjoying oneself … and having #realworldsex fun!!!

And it’s been simply wonderful to receive lots and lots of emails and messages from people all over the world telling me how much they’ve enjoyed my different videos and different fun adventures.

But just recently I received a message from a gentleman who seemed quite concerned that although I quite regularly mention “Hubby” in all my posts and introductions, he doesn’t seem to feature in the videos very often. This gentleman was worried that my husband seemed to be “missing out” on the fun, as he put it.

I did, of course, message him back and explain that, as well as Hubby being my camera-man, one of the biggest thrills for us is that I “love to play” and Hubby “loves to watch”.

But I did also point out that in fact Hubby does feature in quite a number of my Make Love Not Porn videos, especially in the earlier ones.

Obviously with lock-down and everything that has happened over the past year, it has made meeting and playing with our other friends absolutely impossible. So that has meant that lots of my more recent videos at MLNP have featured my “me-time” playtimes. But thankfully things are slowly beginning to change … and I hope that soon our fun three-somes, and more-somes, can begin once again.

But in the meantime I thought this was the perfect opportunity to celebrate our Eight Years of Real World Sex fun at Make Love Not Porn with a reminder-compilation of just a few of the … many … occasions when I, or one of our lovers, have actually taken over the camera and Hubby has appeared in our videos.

Modesty Ablaze sucking Hubby Ablaze

You can view my introduction to “Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze  is my 88th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Eight Years of Sharing Hubby Ablaze with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Very Naughty Entrée – Summer 2020” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Very Naughty Entree"

I know I’ve mentioned before how being away on vacation always makes me horny … well even hornier than normal that is !!!

And … on one of the days of our lovely holiday last summer … after we’d had to return to our apartment earlier than normal as a tropical storm suddenly swept across our normally tranquil beach … I was feeling very very horny, and very, VERY naughty.

Now … Hubby knows that his main duty on EVERY day of our holiday is to always attend to my every whim … and every command.

And on this occasion I demanded he carry out some very naughty cleaning duties. But, as you will see, his lapping attentions didn’t last long enough to fulfill my needs!.

So I had to reprimand him and send him to the naughty corner … whilst I resigned myself to finishing things off myself …

Modesty Ablaze A Very Naughty Entree 1

You can view my introduction to “A Very Naughty Entrée – Summer 2020” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Very Naughty Entree 1a

A Very Naughty Entrée – Summer 2020  is my 87th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Very Naughty Entrée – Summer 2020 with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Eat Before Beer Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Eat Before Beer Time"

It’s been so lovely recently to have received lots of messages telling me how much you’ve all been enjoying my Videos from my holiday last summer.

We were so lucky to have such a relaxing, lovely time, and perfect weather on my favourite beach. And usually after an early morning swim and then a few hours of lying back enjoying the amazing, warming rays from that lovely Grecian sun, I’d begin to get a little peckish.

Of course, we’d always take drinks and watermelon and snacks to the beach with us … but quite often … as well as feeling peckish, I’d usually start feeling horny as well. There’s just something about being naked in that sun, sea and sand that always gets me going.

So once things begin to get a little TOO hot and sticky … and juicy … I insist that we adjourn back to the cool of the apartment for a few hours, and for my first fun “Me-Time” orgasm of the day.  And that is just what happened in this video !!!

Modesty Ablaze "Eat Before Beer Time" Photo 1

But we were both so worked up the moment we walked in the door, that in the passion of the moment, Hubby’s camera got knocked slightly askew.

So when I first viewed this video afterwards, the awkward positioning and rather unflattering angles, left me feeling that it wouldn’t be interesting or usable.

But then awkward camera positions and unflattering angles are not what #realworldsex at Make Love Not Porn is about is it? The important thing is the love and passion of the moment … and there is certainly lots of that in this video … as I hope you will see for yourself.

You can view my introduction to “Eat Before Beer Time” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Eat Before Beer Time  is my 86th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Eat Before Beer Time with tags such as:

#bisexual #blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Post-Session Wind Down” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Post-Session Wind Down" video at MakeLoveNotPorn

As some of you will already know, one of my most enjoyable “hobbies”, is my Mistress Modesty Sessioning fun. And I particularly enjoy administering some fun hand-spanking … or perhaps a light caning to the bottoms of my … always willing, spanking-submissives.

And quite often, I enjoy those sessions so much that I find myself becoming quite aroused and sometimes even really, really horny!!!

And that was certainly the case after my most recent spanking session when … having warmed and reddened my happy submissives bottom to his complete satisfaction … I just had to retire to my boudoir and lay back with my favourite Doxy Wand for some complete satisfaction of my own.

Now if you’ve viewed my Doxy Wand in action before … or if you have one of your own … you will know how quickly it can drive one over the edge.

And despite me trying to slow things down and tease myself along more slowly, it wasn’t very long before I completely lost control of my emotions.

You will just have to watch the full video to see exactly what I mean …

Modesty Ablaze and her Doxy Wand in "A Post-Session Wind Down" RealWorldSex video

So I hope you will enjoy my Post-Session Wind Down fun. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

You can view my introduction to “A Post-Session Wind Down” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Post-Session Wind Down  is my 85th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Post-Session Wind Down with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #clitastic #hotelroom #intense #joyful #kinky #loud #married #metime #playful #quickie #samsung #sensual #spirited #toytime #wand-erfull

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Me-Time Garage Quickie"

Welcome to the “Back Seat of my Car” … I’m sitting here because I want to tell you about my latest “Real World Sex” video at Make Love Not Porn.


“A Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” was actually filmed last summer … before our island-vacation … but with everything going on in the world at the time, I didn’t really think it was appropriate to upload it to my Make Love Not Porn pages at that particular moment.

But looking back through my archives these past few weeks I actually thought … well “why not ???” It was, after all, just a little bit of much-needed, enjoyable, indulgent fun. 
And that is simply what my videos are all about … just trying to have some enjoyable, sometimes silly, sometimes self-indulgent … but always for me at least, relieving “Real World” fun moments.

So I hope you will feel the same, and enjoy it too. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

Modesty Ablaze in the backseat of her car.

You can view my introduction to “Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage  is my 84th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #blissful #clitastic #intense #intimate #joyful #married #metime #quickie #relaxing #sensual #toytime
#vanlife #wand-erful

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly MWILF … #wickedwednesday

My Cougar Moment - Cover from The Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife

Fifteen, or perhaps even ten years ago, I was probably uncomfortable with the term MILF. And even now I would still prefer to be thought of as MWILF (Mature Women I’d Like to …), rather than without the W.

But back in those heady, thrilling and fun times of amazing evenings at our favourite “Club” … almost every Saturday night during what Hubby calls “your nymphatic period” … it was actually quite flattering and empowering to have so many young suitors telling me I was their “most I’d like to”

I have posted about one such evening here before … as an extract from My Cougar Moment from Part 5 of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife … but as the theme at this week’s Wicked Wednesday is “MILF”, I thought I would add a few more paragraphs, that I haven’t included here before, from the first part of what was a wonderful evening.


As we entered the room and Hubby turned to lock the door behind us, it was as though all the adrenalin overcame my nerves completely in an instant. I wanted him so much . . . and I wanted him to want me. I flopped down onto the bed and reached down to unbuckle, and kick-off my shoes. I lifted my sheer dress up over my shoulders and tossed it over to Hubby who was standing leaning back against the door, grinning at me like a Cheshire cat. (“Normally you wait for them to undress you” he told me later). I did keep my thong and hold-ups on, but shuffled myself back over the bed towards the cushions as I watched J undressing himself.

His body was even more stunning than I could have ever imagined. A wonderfully tight muscular chest seemed to just glisten in the dim light, but I could clearly see every ripple, and that he was completely smooth all over. I shuddered and gasped from the first touch of his hand on my knee as he knelt down on the bed next to me.

Our first kiss sent tingles through every nerve of my body and I knew I was already dripping wet minutes before his hand slid down between my legs. That kiss lingered, and lingered, our lips and tongues exploring each others mouth, tasting each others hot breath. I moaned loudly and arched my back against the cushions as our mouths parted and I felt his tongue sliding down over my neck and onto my nipple. I was running my hands up through his hair, pulling his mouth across my breasts from one nipple to the other and groaning loudly as his fingers were already rubbing round and round over my pussy.

I slid my own hand down over his tummy and gasped as I reached his erection. God, it felt so hard. And so thick! I just had to push him over onto his side for a moment, just to look at what I was grasping in my hand. And it was just as thick as it felt. “God, that’s lovely,” I gasped.

I had to have him in my mouth and plunged myself down over him trying to fondle under his clean-shaven balls with my fingers as I sucked it into me. I’d never had a lover who felt as thick as this inside my mouth. I was getting so carried away in my excitement that I suddenly realised I was sucking up and down so feverishly I was almost biting his shaft. I consciously slowed myself down, lifting my mouth away and grasping him again with my fingers and licking up and down his length with my tongue and then flicking it around the head of his wonderful cock.

He pushed me back down with his hands on my shoulders, sucking at my nipples again before pulling away from me completely to pry my legs apart.

“Oh” I moaned, partly in disappointment that he’d taken that lovely cock away from me, but partly in a different pleasure as he pulled off my thong and then slid his mouth down over me.

He rubbed around and around my pussy with his fingers again and then as his tongue started flicking over me he stretched both his hands up over my tummy to fondle and squeeze at my breasts as he quickened the pace of his tongue … first swirling, and then plunging in and out. I could feel his mouth slapping against my lips and heard myself urging him to “eat me, eat me.”


The above is an extract from “My Cougar Moment” – Part 5 of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife”.
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Xxx- K

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