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April 24, 2015 · 3:00 pm

Modesty’s all arms & elbows @ #afterrealworldsexselfies No.5

Arms&ElbowsYou know those moments . . . those amazing, all-consuming, seconds in the immediate aftermath!!!

Sometimes I twist and turn and bury myself into the pillows and sheets . . . sometimes I pull my knees up to my tummy into a slowly rocking back and forth fetal cocoon . . . sometimes I’m all thrashing arms and elbows!!!

And then I always need a few minutes to recover . . . when I can’t be touched . . . can’t move . . . can’t speak.

Those wonderful #afterrealworldsex moments that I’m sure we all have in different ways . . . and I thought I would share another of my own here and for the MLNP,  #afterrealworldsexselfies theme.

Because . . . to quote Madam Curator Sarah from MLNP . . . #afterrealworldsexselfies are:

“a great way to spark a healthy dialogue around sex and to celebrate the fact that #realworldsex isn’t exactly over as soon as everyone’s had their orgasm. We truly believe that the cuddling, eating, showering, or whatever it is that you do after #realworldsex is also part of the fun!”

So why not join in with some #afterrealworldsexselfies of your own. You can find out more at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

It will make me smile (and tingle) if you do !!! – Xxx – K

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**P.S. Oh and don’t miss the exciting NEW MakeLoveNotPorn.tv post updates of some wonderfully fun, and REAL, #realworldsex.

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April 14, 2015 · 8:09 am

Modesty’s “Cane Love” #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

ModestyCaneLoveVideoEven though Caning & Spanking is talked about more openly than ever before, I think a lot of people still feel that it is always about trying to hurt someone.

Well, I’ve always enjoyed spanking and bondage play in my relationships as a way of introducing FUN and extra excitement. Something different that I never take too seriously. And whether I am the one giving, or the one receiving, I actually find it to be a really strong, loving and sharing experience. And that can be a huge and wonderfully all-consuming emotion. And I hope you will agree that my new “Cane Love” video at  MakeLoveNotPorn.tv illustrates that perfectly.

It is from a lovely hotel-evening early in March, with Lover No.1. Starting out with some gentle caning with my new Manila Cane from Uberkinky . . . and a spanking-induced orgasm for my submissive . . . I soon commanded him to give me those deep loving kisses I do so really, really love.

Urging him on with my Riding Crop and then my throbbing Doxy Wand . . . more multi-orgasms for us both followed, before a wonderful finale of a loving and relaxing foot massage.

And I was so thrilled when the lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn mentioned “Cane Love” in their latest blog post:

“In this delicious new video, Modesty Ablaze showcases something we’d love to see even more of – a woman turning the tables and dominating her man in the context of a loving relationship! Excited to try out her brand new cane on her more than willing sub, Modesty teases her husband, allowing the whacks to build in intensity, much to his delight. Continuing to steer the action and ‘get hers’ by way of lover no. 1’s tongue and fingers (operating a Doxie wand) Modesty comes and comes before proceeding to pass out completely. I just love that she left in the gentle snoring at the end of this video, and I think you will too!”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Cane Love”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . or, you can view my introductory video >here<.

“Cane Love” is my sixteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 16 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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March 25, 2015 · 8:33 pm

Spreading the MakeLoveNotPorn Love #wickedwednesday

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Spreading The Love” . . . so I thought it appropriate to mention my favourite “love-spreading” website MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

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Some may argue that a pay-for-rental, “adult content” website, couldn’t possibly be included under the heading of spreading, or sharing, love. And . . . they would probably say . . . the fact that you have to register, and then actually pay to view the available content, makes MLNP no different from all of the other on-line “porn” providers. But I would completely disagree!!!

Why? Well because for me, MakeLoveNotPorn shows real people . . . people like you and I . . . indulging in . . . and sharing . . . their love and experiences. And most importantly, sharing them in a fun and completely natural and real way.

All of the videos at MakeLoveNotPorn are curated (or vetted) by the organisation itself, before they are accepted for publishing. And all require validation from all of the participants involved.

Yes there is sex, yes there are naughty bits . . . and yes, the different people indulging in different scenarios may not be to everyone’s taste. But the fact that they are all sharing their own loving and passionate moments, in a completely consensual and natural way, is what makes MakeLoveNotPorn so special.

And it is that sharing that . . . for me . . . makes MLNP the perfect vehicle for Spreading the Love. It shows us all how sex really is, or really should be. Loving, fun, giving and sharing with our lovers, partners . . . and friends! And it challenges all those myths and stereotypes of how sex is portrayed in those “mainstream” on-line porn sites with their plastic Stepford Wives actors, plastic sets and plastic storylines.

I can honestly say that my own fun times have been even more enhanced and emboldened since discovering MLNP. Finding and sharing with like-minded people and feeling part of that community in much the same way that we share here at Wicked Wednesday, makes us all feel more complete and fulfilled. More of my own thoughts and “Spreading the MakeLoveNotPorn Love” is available from my own pages >here< . . .

But FIRST and FOREMOST I would recommend everyone investigate MakeLoveNotPorn for themselves . . . and perhaps the perfect starting point is from this recent interview with MLNP’s inspirational co-founder Cindy Gallop >here< or from Cindy’s presentation at the 2012 TEDxConference >here< as she explains the ethos of MakeLoveNotPorn far more eloquently than I ever could.

So come on . . . “Spread the Love”

AND a very important PS: If you are in London this Friday, March 27th, don’t miss your chance to hear Cindy Gallop talking about MakeLoveNotPorn in person at an aftershow event at the Theatre 503 performance of “Wink”.

Friday 27 March – An Audience With – Cindy Gallop of Make Love Not Porn click >here< for more information. I hope to see you there!

 

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 Xxx – K

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March 16, 2015 · 2:26 pm

Modesty’s “Passionate Kisses” newest #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

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New experiences, new situations and new passions are always fun for me. And my brand new video . . . with a brand new lover . . . at  MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is a wonderful example of that.

Discovering new touches, new smells, new caresses and letting that “new-ness” just develop naturally, feeling happy that you can enjoy such new emotions through a lovers touch . . . and that you can give that same joy and happiness back to someone in return.

And I think it will be obvious from this video just how much fun we both had . . . and I hope you will be able to feel part of our evening together.

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Passionate Kisses”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . or, you can view my introductory video >here<.

“Passionate Kisses” is my fifteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 15 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K

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March 7, 2015 · 10:59 am

Modesty and #realworldsex @makelovenotporn

After my Wicked Wednesday post last week, I received several emails asking just why I think the message and ethos of #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . is so important.

So I thought it would be useful to replay my video from March of last year . . . gosh, where has the year gone???  You can >click< on the screen below to hear my thoughts on MLNP and why I love it so much.

Modesty Ablaze on MLNP

I always tell anyone who asks me that, from a women’s point of view, I find MLNP so empowering because it is so real and portrays sex as I feel it should be portrayed. Completely consensual, fun and loving and yet still arousing and erotic. And yes, I really do think that #realworldsex can still be exciting and “naughty” and stimulating . . . in fact much, much more so than what you see on those “other” on-line sites.

I like watching sex that is erotic . . . BUT . . . I want it to be real and respectful and fun. Something that I can relate to on my own, personal, level. And, as I say in the video, that is why since discovering MakeLoveNotPorn.tv , I haven’t watched any of those other sites at all!!! Because I want my adventures to be fun, and respectful and . . . real, not forced, not staged or choreographed . . . just wonderfully indulgent, fun and enjoyable as the best sex should always be!!!

And I hope you might be able to enjoy and experience some of that fun by discovering the huge and growing variety of MLNP-porn stars and their videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . I urge you to investigate!!!

**It is FREE to register at MakeLoveNotPorn and FREE to view >**Free Peeks< of all the videos available for rental at this wonderful #realworldsex-positive website. I hope you will register your support for the message . . . and FUN . . . of this truly wonderful concept.

I currently have FOURTEEN #realworldsex videos at MLNP, (and hope to have several new ones cumming shortly):

1) Modesty Ablaze Toytime – Playing with several of my toys, (mainly solo with just a brief cameo appearance from Hubby!!!)

>** Toytime Free Peek Pictures<

2) Modesty Unmasked – Introducing our wonderful friend, Lover.14, along with his whips and canes . . . and yes, I am not wearing my mask!!!

>** Unmasked Free Peek Pictures<                   

3) Modesty Bound & Unbound – Over 40 minutes of an amazing multi-orgasmic session . . . again with Lover.14 who this time brought along his ropes to have me Bound and then slowly, and delightfully, Unbound . . . whilst he and Hubby played with me!!!

>** Bound & Unbound Free Peek Pictures<         

4) Modesty Winding Up & Then Winding Down – The first video where Hubby really comes out from behind the camera and Lover.14 takes over the filming . . . well just for awhile, as he then gives me a wonderful “relaxing” full massage!!!

>** Winding Up & Winding Down Free Peek Pictures<

5) Modesty Hubby Gets a Beating – Hubby really does “come out” in this video (in more ways than one! – LOL). I loved helping giving him a tender beating . . . but don’t worry, he certainly gets his reward !!!

>** Hubby Gets a Beating Free Peek Pictures<

6) More Fun with Rope – Another session with Lover 14 and his ropes and cane . . . and another multi-orgasmic scene climaxing with some passionate kissing of the kind I really, really love!!!

>** More Fun With Rope Free Peek Pictures<     

7) The Main Squeeze – Featuring one of my newest lovers, Lover No.36. And I think you’ll understand why I’ve called this session “The Main Squeeze“ when you view it. You can see a snap-shot of Lover 36 at one of my Sinful Sunday posts from August of last year . . . but only the video can completely reveal the real fun of an amazing evening!!!!

>** The Main Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<      

8) With She Lover – This is a really very, very special video for me. I’ve tried to explain just how special in my “Special Edition“ post . . . but suffice to say it shows a wonderful moment sharing some “girly fun” with my friend, and lover She Lover. I hope you will be able to see how easy it is for me to just completely let myself go in her company!!!

>** She Lover Free Peek Pictures<                  

9) Mistress Modesty – Normally I’m the one being spanked, but in this video I am the one in complete control . . . and I really enjoyed it. AND, my “mystery submissive” enjoyed it too. I loved being Mistress Modesty, using my strap-on, and I loved using my cane and whip. But, despite all the caning and flogging, there is a happy (if rather messy) ending!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     

10) Modesty & The St. Andrews Cross – I was recently given the opportunity to enjoy an evening at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite with Lover No.14 and Hubby.
This 20 minute video is just part of our wonderful evening, and following morning, of naughty fun. I will, perhaps, post more if you let me know you’ve enjoyed my “Modesty and The St. Andrews Cross” !!!!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     

11) Modesty & The Secondary Squeeze – After just a few minutes to recover after “The Main Squeeze” (No. 7 above), Lover No.36 was ready to start again!
And, of course, I find his attentions so irresistible that . . . well, what’s a girl to do???

>** The Secondary Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<    

12) Completely Hooked – The Dungeon Part Two – Featuring a return to The Hoxton Dungeon with Lover No.14 for more multi-orgasmic fun. But this time experiencing completely new, and different, sensations of rope and anal-play . . . and even gentle hook-suspension!!!

>** Completely Hooked Free Peek Pictures< 

13) Sunburnt – The Movie – From a simply amazing holiday Hubby and I had in the summer on a beautiful Greek Island. We both got quite sunburnt, as you will see, but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times even with the balcony doors open to the pool below!!!

>** Sunburnt Free Peek Pictures< 

14) A Touch Of Glass – Possibly my most “personal” movie at MLNP yet. Just me alone with my Diamond Dream Glass Dildo, lost in my own private cocoon for 15 minutes of rippling, swirling, multiple orgasms!!! (And yes, there are some glimpses of my Diogol Plug as well!)

>** A Touch of Glass Free Peek Pictures< 

As I said, I hope to have several completely new videos published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv shortly . . . but in the meantime I really do urge you to investigate not just my own, but all of the growing number of MLNP-porn stars all of whom are sharing their own #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv .

Xxx – K

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March 4, 2015 · 7:47 pm

Sunday Morning Coming Down #afterrealworldsexselfies No.4 @ #wickedwednesday

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Don’t you find that very often it is the unexpected that makes for the most wonderful and memorable moments . . . I know that I do!!!

And that was certainly the case this Sunday morning past . . . snapped (above) by Hubby in the aftermath of an unexpectedly massive orgasm.  Unexpected, uncontrollable . . . spontaneous and, apparently, incredibly LOUD!!!

So my Sunday morning coming down moment . . . and truly an #afterrealwordsex moment as well.

You are sure to find more “unexpected” moments at this week’s
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And you can find out more about #afterrealworldsexselfies . . . and perhaps share some of your own . . . at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

It will make me smile (and tingle) if you do !!! – Xxx – K

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February 8, 2015 · 9:16 pm

Modesty’s “A Touch Of Glass” #realwordsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

ModestyATouchOfGlass2The joy of sharing my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv has always been about showing how, for me, the best sex is always about having fun.

When I’m having fun I know that my partner(s) are having fun as well . . . and those occasions are always fulfilling and exciting.

But occasionally I also enjoy that different, special kind of thrill, of playing alone and this video, my newest at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is of one of those occasions . . . 15 minutes of rippling and exhausting orgasms, and probably the most “personal” of the videos that I have ever submitted to MLNP. Just me, all on my own, with my Diamond Dream Glass Dildo from the glass dildo specialists A Touch of Glass (you can find out more about them and read my recent review of The Diamond Dream >here<).

As I think you will see, I quickly forgot all about the camera as I became completely lost in my own thoughts and desires, and that private cocoon of sensations and emotions.

I hope you will be able to feel and share those emotions with me . . . and yes, there are some glimpses of my butt plug as well!!!

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “A Touch Of Glass”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“A Touch Of Glass” is my fourteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from the Modesty Ablaze page >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 14 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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December 29, 2014 · 4:53 pm

Modesty’s “Sunburnt – The Movie” #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

It’s turned very cold here in London at the moment, but watching my newest #realworldsex video just released at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, has been making me “hot and bothered” all over again . . . remembering, and
re-living, an amazing summer holiday on a beautiful Greek Island last August.

Sunburnt The MovieWe had a wonderful balcony room overlooking the pool and beach below . . . and it was very, very hot . . . in more ways than one!

Especially as such a relaxing, unwinding holiday seemed to make both Hubby and I feel even more amorous than usual!!!

We both got quite sunburnt . . . as you will see . . . but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times. And as each day seemed to get even hotter than the last, we just had to retire to our room each afternoon for cooling shade, cooling drinks and lots and lots of fun . . . some of which you might think a little “unusual” . . . but I hope you will still be able to enjoy along with us in “Sunburnt – The Movie“.

I just loved it . . . as I’m sure you will be able to tell!!!

Modesty Ablaze Holiday Photos

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Sunburnt”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Sunburnt – The Movie” is my thirteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from the Modesty Ablaze page >here<.
It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 13 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K

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December 2, 2014 · 3:45 pm

Modesty “Completely Hooked” #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

I delighted to tell you that my latest #realworldsex video “Completely Hooked (The Dungeon – Part Two)” has just been published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv. And, as I mention in my introduction video below, (click the screen to view), it is my 12th video . . . and just over 12 months . . . since I submitted my first film to MLNP.

CompletelyHooked600x370FinalDec114It features a return to The Hoxton Dungeon, the scene of “Modesty & The St Andrews Cross“ (my most popular video to date) with Lover No.14

“Completely Hooked” is . . . even for me . . . not your average sort-of erotic video. But it was an absolutely fun and amazing, multi-orgasmic time, with lots of giggles, pop-corn(???), rope and bondage play, anal stimulation, gentle hook-suspension, wands . . . and oh, did I say . . . multi-orgasms?

And even though it probably isn’t the sort of film one would normally see on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, for me at least . . . it really is what #realworldsex is all about. Just having a wonderfully fun and arousing time, experiencing something completely different with people you feel happy and comfortable to be with.

I simply loved it . . . as I think you will be able to tell . . . and I hope you will too.

You can rent “Completely Hooked” from my Modesty Ablaze MakeLoveNotPorn page >here<. It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 12 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to this, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

So . . . I hope you will enjoy not just my naughty fun with Lover No.14, but lots more of the #realworld sex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv !!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K

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November 8, 2014 · 9:30 pm

Modesty & The Secondary Squeeze #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

My #realworldsex video “The Main Squeeze“ has been one of my most popular films at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv  . . . and I am delighted to say that a completely new video with Lover No.36 has just been published at MLNP.

I’ve called it “The Secondary Squeeze“ and I think you will probably be able to hear the excitement in my voice remembering that wonderful evening from my intro video below.

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Lover No.36‘s energy always seems endless . . . and my pauses for breath, to try to regain my composure, always seem (wonderfully) short . . . and I’m sure you’ll see why from the full video!!!

You can rent “The Secondary Squeeze” from my Modesty Ablaze MakeLoveNotPorn page >here<. It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 11 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to this, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

So . . . I hope you will enjoy not just my (exhausting) fun with Lover No.36, but lots more of the #realworld sex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv !!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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