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You should be on #Boobday Friday

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You will probably already know that I think everything about #realworldsex and MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is such fun!

Even the Business Cards given out by Cindy at the  recently, allow for a number of uniquely fun ways of grabbing ones attention . . .

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Appropriately that MLNPstarLondonGetTogether was on a Friday . . .
so I just couldn’t resist wearing them this morning for a #boobday friday standing-to-attention post.

Because, as Hyacinth says on her Boobday page:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure there will be lots more different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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MLNPstar London Get Together #realworldsex

ModestyAblazeCindyGallopIf you have visited me here occasionally in the past, you will already know how much I love the message of . . . and the #realworldsex videos on . . . MakeLoveNotPorn.tv. And chances are, especially as you are reading this page, you will also possibly share my view about just how important an open and honest discussion about our sexuality really is.

Because, whilst I never felt ashamed of my lifestyle, I suppose that up until a few years ago I did sometimes feel a little . . . well not guilty about it exactly . . . but awkward or “unusual” I suppose is a better way of describing it. I knew that the sort of relationship I share with my husband worked wonderfully for us, but wouldn’t necessarily work for everyone.

So it was something . . . you’ll probably laugh out loud now . . . that I would never have wanted to share in public.

But then I happened across Cindy Gallop’s wonderful and inspirational video-speeches at the TedConference (omg from 2009!!!) and (a little-more recently) at TEDxOxford2012. Those videos had me hanging-on, AND agreeing with, every word. I knew just how much difference embracing my sexuality, and sharing every desire, every feeling and every fantasy with my husband had changed, and enhanced, our lives together. And how we’d often both wished . . . usually in the wonderfully loving and winding-down post real-world-sex moments . . . that others could share and enjoy the same sort of feelings of fun, and fulfilment, as we did.

So discovering Cindy’s MakeLoveNotPorn.tv and lots and lots of other like-minded people, sharing and . . . most importantly of all . . . celebrating their own real-world-sex moments was, quite simply . . . a revelation!!!

Because . . . as makelovenotporn.tv so simply puts it:

MLNP is of the people, by the people, and for the people who believe that the sex we have in our everyday life is the hottest sex there is.
We are not porn – porn is performance (often an exceedingly delicious performance, but a performance nonetheless).
We are not ‘amateur’ – a label that implies that the only people doing it right are the professionals and the rest of us are bumbling idiots. (Honey, please.)
We are #realworldpeople, #realworldsex, #realworldfeelings, #realworldrelationships, #realworldbodies, #realworldhotness, #realworldeverything.

So I was really thrilled to be invited along for cocktails one evening last week for the MLNPstar London Get Together hosted by Cindy and the lovely Madam Curator Sarah.

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And it was also so lovely meeting fellow MLNP-stars lovesurfing and Mr&Mrs Lau and enjoying some wonderfully exotic looking, and tasting, cocktails . . . and chatting for several hours not just about sex and MakeLoveNotPorn, but all those other things that #realworldpeople in #realworldrelationships talk about. Family, travel, work . . . and well, yes . . . play!

And in a way this evening like, any other evening sharing fun-company and lots and lots of fun-cocktails, encapsulated just what MakeLoveNotPorn is all about . . . RealWorldPeople.

That, for me, is the importantly wonderful . . . and wonderfully important . . . difference to any other adult-content-video-site. It is not just about sex, it is about communicating, educating, accepting and celebrating how different we all are and how natural and fulfilling our real relationships should be.

I urge you to follow all the little underlined-links in the paragraphs above in the hope that reading, watching and listening may inspire you just as much as it has inspired me.

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Holiday Me Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

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“Holiday Me Time” is my second video from a simply wonderful summer vacation in the Greek Islands recently. And as I mentioned in my first holiday video . . . Sex On The Beach . . . being on holiday always makes me horny. Even hornier than normal!

That, of course, gets Hubby even more aroused as well. But  sometimes I just want to have some special “me time” . . . especially after a hot day at the beach, or around the pool. And “Me Time” means just being able to lie back and enjoy a long, indulging unwinding session with my favourite vibrator.

But . . . as you will see after my first orgasm . . . not even the amazing Doxy was enough to satisfy my arousal on this occasion and I had to improvise with a lube bottle . . . and surprise, surprise . . . another toy I suddenly remembered that I’d packed away in my drawer.

But what I clearly HADN’T remembered was that although we’d drawn the curtains, we’d left the balcony doors wide open. And it wasn’t until we came to watch this video at home for the first time . . . that I realised how clearly we could hear all the voices and splashing about from the pool below.
So it’s no wonder that we got a few funny smiles when we wandered back down for a cooling dip later that afternoon!

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Tying Hubby in a chastity ribbon

Anyway . . . at the very beginning of this video you will probably think I’m being rather selfish, because I wanted to tease Hubby by tie-ing a little chastity lock on him and making him stand in the corner and watch whilst I indulged in my play.

Now you will probably already know that Hubby just loves watching me playing . . . usually with another lover . . . but also when I’m playing all by myself.

But you will be happy to see that on this occasion I get so carried away with my arousal that I allow Hubby not just one, but two orgasms of his own. Because I do so love watching a man shooting his cum . . . especially when I know that he’s been watching me cum too.

So as you will see . . . we both ended up being happy . . . very, very happy . . . and I hope that watching my . . . “Holiday Me Time” . . . will bring you “loads” of happiness as well. Loads and loads!!!

You can view my short introduction to “Holiday Me Time” by clicking the preview screen above . . . . . . and if you register and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free-Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.

There’s lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Holiday Me Time” is my 22nd video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you will enjoy watching “Holiday Me Time” as much as I enjoyed myself!!!

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “New Red Rope” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

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If you’ve been following my video channel aMakeLoveNotPorn.tv you will already know just how much I absolutely LOVE every rope-play session with Lover No.14

Well “New Red Rope”, is my eighth MLNP-Lover No.14 video, and as usual one always has to expect the unexpected whenever he is involved.

He is one of the most patient, and creative, lovers that I have ever met. And this video is just Part One of a wonderfully fun evening that was full of waves of orgasms, as well as lots and lots of fun and laughter, which I think perfectly illustrates just what #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is all about.

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The MakeLoveNotPorn.tv MakeEndlessSummerLove post recently previewed “New Red Rope” as:

“Lover No. 14 shows off his mastery of rope bondage as he puts Modesty in an impressive full body harness. Employing her favorite toy, the Doxy wand, to lovingly torture her to a sweet climax, this video is full of communication, giggles and of course, steamy #realworldsex.

You can view my short introduction to “New Red Rope” by clicking the preview screen above . . . . . . and if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.

There lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

. . . and then gloriously teased

“New Red Rope” is my 21st video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-one #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you will enjoy watching “New Red Rope” as much as I enjoyed being involved!!!

Xxx – K

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A “Sex On The Beach” Summer Cocktale #wickedwednesday

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For this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, Marie asked us  “to share stories about summer loves, summer sexiness, summer hotness, summer holidays”.

So . . . I just couldn’t resist joining-in as all-of-the-above coincides so, so perfectly with my new #realworldsex video published at the weekend on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

ModestyAblazeSexBeach2I’d just returned from a simply fabulous summer holiday on my favourite Greek Island.
And as well as enjoying some lovely Sun and Sea, I most definitely enjoyed some Summer Love, Summer Hotness . . . AND Summer Sexiness . . . because being on holiday, always makes me extra, sextra, horny!

And ever since I first saw the lovely MsQuote & Parrot enjoying their #realworldsexpicnic at MLNP I’d wanted to have some #realworldoutdoors fun of my own.

So, finally, on this holiday I had the opportunity to enjoy some sexy fun I’d never indulged in before – Sex On the Beach!!!

Well actually not Sex on the Beach as such – I just couldn’t stand all that sand getting stuck in my private bits . . . but Sex in the Sea! And it was such sexy fun that I just had to share it at MLNP.

The MakeLoveNotPorn.tv MakeEndlessSummerLove post at the weekeend previewed “Sex On The Beach” as:

“As if Modesty couldn’t get any more #lifegoals, her new video this week shows off the #inthesea #realworldsex that she and hubby had on vacation! Balancing on a ball and shot under water (!!!), this impressive merge with nature is a first for MLNP and I sure hope it’s not the last!”

And the lovely Ariel tweeted “holy shit- as if @ablazingmodesty wasn’t already my role model, this new #inthesea#realworldsex video has cemented her as epic sex goddess

ModestyAblazeSexBeach1You can view my short introduction to “Sex On The Beach” by clicking >here<, or on the preview screen at the top of this post . . . and if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.

There are also some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Sex On The Beach”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from another, different hemisphere, Summer Holiday in March 2014) >here<.

“Sex On The Beach” is my 20th video released on Make Love Not Porn and, as well as fitting in perfectly with today’s Wicked Wednesday Summer theme, I think it also highlights just how #realworldsex is so completely different (and therefore completely REAL) from the mainstream perception of how most online-porn is normally portrayed.

Just like Summer . . . it can still be hot and sexy and fun . . . but also loving . . . Summer Loving !!!

And I’m certain that you’ll find lots more Summer Loving by tap, tap, tapping on the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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More Modesty Ablaze @mlnp soon . . . promise!!!

Yes, I know it has been a little while since my last #realworldsex video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . but I haven’t retired!

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Quite the opposite in fact . . . I have been so, so busy having fun that I just haven’t had the time to post some of my latest adventures at my favourite on-line movie-site.

But, as I  was so sweetly reminded recently, the past two summers have been the time when I’ve introduced new videos with one of my favourite lovers, No.14.  (Of course, ALL of my lovers are favourites, but new videos with No.14 always seem to inspire a flurry of messages into my in-box!)

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So . . . in the spirit of Completely Hooked from 2014 . . . and Bound and Unbound (above) from 2013, I am excited to tell you that I will have some new videos . . . with No.14 published soon!!!

So check back here over the next few weeks and I’m sure you won’t be disappointed . . . but in the meantime do visit my MakeLoveNotPorn page >here< for a complete list of the nineteen #realworldsex videos currently available from my @mlnp profile page!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Retribution & Reward” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

ModestyRetribution4HeartI’ve always enjoyed a little role-play in my play sessions, especially if it involves bringing out my Fem-Dom tendencies. And in this latest video my No.1 submissive had told me he wished to be spanked and flogged up against the wall by a Mystery Masked Dominatrix.

So, as long as it is fun and completely consensual, I always try to fulfil my submissives desires and fantasies. And as you will see, my slave got very excited at receiving my flogger and riding crop . . . and that got me excited too.

So, what started out as a fun FemDom spanking session . . . with lot’s of blushing red consequences . . . eventually turned into much, much more. Retribution AND Reward for the both of us!!!

My previous Mistress Modesty #realworldsex video has been one of my most popular films at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . so if you enjoyed the role-play fun and deep-throated milking passion then . . . I am sure you will enjoy “Retribution & Reward” just as much!!! 

The recent “Behind Closed Doors” post on  MakeLoveNotPorn previews “Retribution & Reward” as:

“Ever wonder what kind of sexy fun your neighbors are up to behind closed doors? One minute they’re out front trimming the hedges or walking the dog, and the next they could be inside with the curtains drawn, having the best #realworldsex of their lives!

If you’re familiar with MLNPsuperstar, Modesty Ablaze, then you’ll know she’s the perfect example of a professional by day who turns into a sexual adventurer at night. In this brand new video, shot in her bedroom while the lights are low, Modesty explores her dominant side.”

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You can view my short introduction to “Retribution & Reward” by clicking the screen above . . . and there are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Retribution & Reward”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Retribution & Reward” is my 19th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my nineteen #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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“A Gentler Squeeze” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

GentlerSqueezeCoverMay1615I like sex . . . in fact I LOVE sex . . . and it is always especially sexy and exciting sharing new experiences and sensations with a different lover.

But I also have to feel comfortable with that person . . . I can’t just jump into bed with anyone I meet . . . there has to be a connection, a chemistry if you like, before I can become intimate with someone new.

I have been incredibly privileged over the years to have met some wonderful lovers and had some amazingly fun times. And I have “connected” with several people who have not only become regular lovers, but regular friends as well. Lovers I may occasionally meet not just for sex . . . but for lunchtime coffee or after work drinks . . . as well.

And luckily for me several of those lovers share my excitement and enjoyment at sharing my videos of our meetings on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

No silly, not videos of our meetings for coffee or drinks, but videos of our wonderful “real world sex”. Those times when we really do just let ourselves go and indulge ourselves in each others company . . . and each others passions . . . and just see where our emotions take us.

And that’s what makes these “real world sex” videos at Make Love Not Porn, so special for me. They are just that . . . just REAL WORLD in REAL TIME . . . like a video diary of our lovemaking. There is no plan, no script for what we are going to do. We quickly forget about the camera and just . . . MAKE LOVE . . . and not make Porn!!!

“A Gentler Squeeze” . . . my latest video at MLNP.tv . . . is exactly one of those occasions.  It is from a new meeting a few weeks ago with Lover No.36. Although we had met for coffees on several occasions . . . we hadn’t been able to get together “intimately” . . . since the evening of our “Secondary Squeeze” video late last year. So it was really lovely to be able to arrange a new meeting . . . back at our favourite hotel . . . and make up for lost time.

GentlerSqueeze1If you’ve watchedThe Main Squeeze andSecondary Squeeze . . . my two previous videos with Lover 36 . . . you’ll know that he is one of the most “energetic” of lovers I have ever been with.

But in this new video, I think you will see a different side to our relationship . . . gentler, calmer moments of just how much we’d missed each other. Almost like getting to know one another all over again, with some sensual kissing and re-acquainting myself with his . . . rather MAHOOSIVELY thick manhood . . . and then some lovely slow fucking . . . building up to a wonderfully fulfilling ending.

“A Gentler Squeeze” is just part of our time together and perhaps if you enjoy it . . . and let me know that you would like to see more . . . I could upload a “Part 2” from the rest of the evening.

But . . . in the meantime . . . I hope you will enjoy Lover 36 and his Gentler Squeeze !!!

The recent “Make Radiant Love Not Porn” post on the MakeLoveNotPorn-blog previews “A Gentler Squeeze” as:

“Is it just me or does Modesty just get better and better? In this video, Modesty meets up with a lover that she hadn’t been able to rendez-vous with seen since late last year. Maybe there’s some truth to the statement that absence makes the heart grow fonder ’cause once they were given the opportunity, these two sure couldn’t keep their hands off of each other! Filmed by lover no. 1, hubby, this sweet reunion is filled with all sorts of ecstatic moments and a surprising downtown adventure that you’ll have to rent to see!”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “A Gentler Squeeze”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Gentler Squeeze” is my 18th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my seventeen #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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“Steamy Kisses” #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

ModestyAblazeSteamierKissesI had such a wonderful night of “Passionate Kisses” with Lover No.50 on our first evening together, that I just couldn’t wait to arrange another meeting. And I was so thrilled when he said he felt the same way! And that second meeting . . . on International Happiness Day . . .  was even more passionate than the first!

Starting with a steamy, soapy shower together, this is the longest of any of my MLNP videos . . . fifty minutes long in fact! But it was all so lovely that I just didn’t want to leave anything out. With multiple orgasms from all three of us (yes Hubby comes out from behind the camera on several occasions) I think the wonderful, fun, #realworldsex we all enjoyed, will be obvious throughout our Steamy Kisses“.

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The latest “MakeCheekyLove” post on the MakeLoveNotPorn-blog previews “Steamy Kisses” as:

“Modesty Ablaze’s longest MLNP submission to date starts out with some #showertime fun. Because, as we’re sure Modesty knows, getting someone nice and slippery in the shower also provides great lubrication for some steamy #handy action! Things then heat up on the bed between her and Lover No. 50, with hubby filming the entire rendezvous. He eventually joins in, much to everyone’s delight, leading to a menage-a-trois filled with giggles, orgasms, and a raw candidness that’s incredibly real, hot and mesmerizing to watch.”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Steamy Kisses”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Steamy Kisses” is my seventeenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my seventeen #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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An acquired taste @ #wickedwednesday

I do find that one can acquire a taste for things . . . over time . . . that may not have appealed years and years ago.

ModestyTaste1Like a lovers cum for example.  If I had been asked in my younger days if the thought of swallowing, had ever entered my head,
I would have said “No thank you!”

ModestyTaste2But, as time has passed . . . and my experiences have developed . . .

ModestyTaste3I actually have found . . . on certain occasions . . . that I can sometimes enjoy the “fruits” of my endeavour!!!

ModestyTaste4It’s not something that, for me, can be planned, or requested. But if the mood takes me, and the occasion is right . . . and the special aroma is sweet . . . I do love that feeling of achievement and satisfaction at my lovers obvious joy and release . . . and I have been known to savour and lick every last drop clean!!!

For more thoughts and experiences of “Taste”, this week’s theme at
Wicked Wednesday, simply lick the sweet button below!!!

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Xxx – K

P.S. – These pictures are screenshots from my Mistress Modesty video from a few months ago.

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