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Modest Exposure #4Thoughts_Fiction and #wickedwednesday

Modestly Exposed at 4Thoughts

Some of you may have seen my “Update March 2021” note on my OnlyFans page here recently, so the current prompt at 4 Thoughts of “Exposed” rings especially true at the moment, and I just couldn’t resist joining in.

And … as the current prompt at Wicked Wednesday just happens to be “Two Truths and a Lie” … I thought it would be fun to tease you with my answers to the Questions being asked below:


1) Have you exposed yourselves in word or picture and did you chose to do so, as an act of exhibitionism or subservience to another’s will, or perhaps as an act of self humiliation?


2) What was behind your act of exposure? Was it something you did of your own volition or were you told to do it?


3) How did it leave you feeling? Excited perhaps? Guilty? Horny or perhaps, sadly; in some way compromised?
?


And … my answers???

1) Yes, I have … just once or twice … exposed myself in some Nude In A Public Place exhibitionism pictures.


2) Yes … I’m ashamed to say … that on each occasion it was completely of my own volition.

3) It always leaves me feeling Excited, Guilty, Horny and … Compromised.

So … to play 
Marie’s Wicked Wednesday “Two Truths and a Lie” game … can you guess the Truths and Lies amongst my answers above???

For more ‘Exposures’ at 4 Thoughts … and ‘Truths and Lies’ at Wicked Wednesday … simply click on the buttons below!

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P.s.: There are some clues to my “Truths and Lies” answers above >here<
and >here<

Xxx- K

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Modestly Shadowed #Boobday Friday

Modestly Shadowed Boobday Friday

In all the years we’ve been visiting our beach we’ve never had to buy an umbrella. We’d usually find one left behind from previous holiday-makers the week before. But last summer was different … in so many ways … and it was clear that there had been few visitors on the beach before us.

We found just one, wedged between some rocks at the far end of the beach, tattered and torn. Perhaps it was even a relic from the summer before? But it still opened … and made for some lovely patterns in the mid-day sun!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modestly MWILF … #wickedwednesday

My Cougar Moment - Cover from The Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife

Fifteen, or perhaps even ten years ago, I was probably uncomfortable with the term MILF. And even now I would still prefer to be thought of as MWILF (Mature Women I’d Like to …), rather than without the W.

But back in those heady, thrilling and fun times of amazing evenings at our favourite “Club” … almost every Saturday night during what Hubby calls “your nymphatic period” … it was actually quite flattering and empowering to have so many young suitors telling me I was their “most I’d like to”

I have posted about one such evening here before … as an extract from My Cougar Moment from Part 5 of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife … but as the theme at this week’s Wicked Wednesday is “MILF”, I thought I would add a few more paragraphs, that I haven’t included here before, from the first part of what was a wonderful evening.


As we entered the room and Hubby turned to lock the door behind us, it was as though all the adrenalin overcame my nerves completely in an instant. I wanted him so much . . . and I wanted him to want me. I flopped down onto the bed and reached down to unbuckle, and kick-off my shoes. I lifted my sheer dress up over my shoulders and tossed it over to Hubby who was standing leaning back against the door, grinning at me like a Cheshire cat. (“Normally you wait for them to undress you” he told me later). I did keep my thong and hold-ups on, but shuffled myself back over the bed towards the cushions as I watched J undressing himself.

His body was even more stunning than I could have ever imagined. A wonderfully tight muscular chest seemed to just glisten in the dim light, but I could clearly see every ripple, and that he was completely smooth all over. I shuddered and gasped from the first touch of his hand on my knee as he knelt down on the bed next to me.

Our first kiss sent tingles through every nerve of my body and I knew I was already dripping wet minutes before his hand slid down between my legs. That kiss lingered, and lingered, our lips and tongues exploring each others mouth, tasting each others hot breath. I moaned loudly and arched my back against the cushions as our mouths parted and I felt his tongue sliding down over my neck and onto my nipple. I was running my hands up through his hair, pulling his mouth across my breasts from one nipple to the other and groaning loudly as his fingers were already rubbing round and round over my pussy.

I slid my own hand down over his tummy and gasped as I reached his erection. God, it felt so hard. And so thick! I just had to push him over onto his side for a moment, just to look at what I was grasping in my hand. And it was just as thick as it felt. “God, that’s lovely,” I gasped.

I had to have him in my mouth and plunged myself down over him trying to fondle under his clean-shaven balls with my fingers as I sucked it into me. I’d never had a lover who felt as thick as this inside my mouth. I was getting so carried away in my excitement that I suddenly realised I was sucking up and down so feverishly I was almost biting his shaft. I consciously slowed myself down, lifting my mouth away and grasping him again with my fingers and licking up and down his length with my tongue and then flicking it around the head of his wonderful cock.

He pushed me back down with his hands on my shoulders, sucking at my nipples again before pulling away from me completely to pry my legs apart.

“Oh” I moaned, partly in disappointment that he’d taken that lovely cock away from me, but partly in a different pleasure as he pulled off my thong and then slid his mouth down over me.

He rubbed around and around my pussy with his fingers again and then as his tongue started flicking over me he stretched both his hands up over my tummy to fondle and squeeze at my breasts as he quickened the pace of his tongue … first swirling, and then plunging in and out. I could feel his mouth slapping against my lips and heard myself urging him to “eat me, eat me.”


The above is an extract from “My Cougar Moment” – Part 5 of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife”.
Visit my E-Books page, or my new The Modesty Ablaze Diaries Twitter feed for more information and links!!!


And I’m absolutely sure there are lots more thoughts and observations on “MILF” to discover this Wicked Wednesday, by tapping gently
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Xxx- K

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A Modest 200th #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday 200

I posted my first Boobday Friday back in September 2015 … picture and link below. And over the years since, whenever I’ve missed a Friday, I almost always receive messages or emails asking why?

And I always reply that I will try my very, very best to post a new Boobday
photo “next Friday”.

On looking back through my posts-archive yesterday afternoon, I was astonished to discover that last Friday’s had been my 199th … so I could hardly miss the 200 milestone now could I.

Hence the hastily-composed photo above from, very very late, last night.
I shall have to be much better prepared for my 300th !!!

That Modest Virginial #Boobday Friday photo, from September 2015,
is reposted below.

Modesty Ablaze Virginial Boobday Friday 2015

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add your own celebrations here too, from my Contact Modesty page >here< !!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Mouth Wide Open Eyes Tightly Shut … #wickedwednesday

Trigger Warning: The following post uses terminology that some may find offensive, but which is simply used within the context and norms of the event in which it happened.

Mistress Modesty's Black Studded Boots

I counted five semi-naked slaves laying prone on the floor, three face-down on their stomachs and two between them on their back, whilst three ladies above were gleefully walking back and forth across them, each using the curled ropes secured to the roof of the cage to steady themselves as they walked. In fact, instead of walking, one woman was actually jumping up and down across the bodies below her.

There were more slaves of varying sizes, heights and shapes lining-up near the entrance to the cage, waiting to be motioned forward by a tall blonde figure wearing a flame-red jacket, black net stockings and wonderful thigh-length red boots. She was bending forwards at regular intervals prodding the five figures already on the floor, with her long cane.

As I moved closer I realised she was instructing the figures to turn over in succession so that the pattern of three backs and two fronts was like a rolling carpet of different textures for the ladies to trample across.

She noticed my interest and waved me forward, I pulled Subby1’s leash along with me. “Hi, I’m Mistress TV8” she called-out loudly above the music. From her deep voice, and the wobbling of flesh dangling impressively from the front of her stockings, I realised the relevance of her name.

She’d noticed my glance downwards as I’d stepped forward. “That’s the 8” she laughed as she swayed her hips from side-to-side with exaggerated wiggles.
“Do you think he’d like some of it?” she nodded towards Subby1 standing at my side now.

“I think probably not” I laughed, “but I’d like to walk across your floor if I may”, pointing down at the human carpet which was just being eagerly refreshed as two of the previous occupants had crawled away from the other end.

One of the ladies had also stepped off at the other end of the cage, so Mistress TV8 offered me a hand to step-up onto the first back naked below my heels, as I reached forward to pull myself up on the first rope.

I swayed, and walked, uneasily at first … using one hand after the other to steady myself from each rope to the next.

I followed the domme in front of me but couldn’t bring myself to stamp down on the flesh below us quite as forcefully as she was. She turned around when she got to the end of the cage, to come back past me again and laughed as she manoeuvred past. “Don’t be gentle” she laughed. “They love it. Look”. She pulled herself up on the rope next to me, and then bounced up and down with both of her sharp heels pummelling into the chest of the figure beneath her. “Don’t you slave!” she hissed down at him as she bounced.

“Yes Mistress … more Mistress … harder Mistress” he was gasping in reply.

The slave beneath my own feet was face down so I couldn’t see his face, but he was arching his back up and down in obvious encouragement for me to be more forceful in my stepping.

I managed several “laps” of the cage … becoming bolder and more heavy footed as I gained more confidence in my balance … and as I became more comfortable with the obvious signs of enjoyment beneath me.

As I reached the end of what I’d decided was to be my last lap, I recognised that the smiling face of the figure now immediately below me, had been the first or second slave I’d walked across when I’d begun my uncertain steps a few minutes or so earlier. (Subby1 later told me I’d been “walking” for at least 10 minutes)!!!

I recognised him from his mop of bright-white bleached spiky hair that had made him look as though he was in a constant state of electric shock with each passing foot-print.

“Please Mistress” he smiled up at me and lifted his hips to pull his black shorts down to expose his quite erect and upstanding cock. He flattened it against himself with one hand and pushed up against his balls with the other hand, making a target of the puffed-up bauble of flesh.

“No I couldn’t, not with these heels” I told him. I was wearing my black suede ankle boots, so not stilettos, but they do have a hard-flat heel and brass studs which I was worried might cause painful damage if caught across a not-flat surface. And that bauble was hardly flat!

“Please Mistress” he begged again, thrusting his hips upward.

I squashed, rather than stamped, downwards and had to hold onto the rope above me with both hands as he swivelled from side-to-side beneath my weight.

I was looking straight down at him as I pushed downwards again, holding tightly onto my rope to keep my balance as he bucked up and down against my shoes. His eyes were rolling and his enjoyment obvious from his throaty gasps, clearly audible above the music. I prodded down again with my heel. His mouth was open … wide open … with no sound this time. His eyelids tightly squeezed shut … and a sudden jet of creamy whiteness spurting from between his fingers …


The above is an extract from the chapter “Foot Worship and Toilet Duties” from my upcoming “Modesty Unleashed” – Part 8 of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife”.
Visit my E-Books page, or my new The Modesty Ablaze Diaries Twitter feed for future updates!!!


But if my Mistress Modesty memories are not to your liking, there is lots more about the “Mouth” to discover this Wicked Wednesday, by tapping gently on the rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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A Gift Netting #Boobday Friday

Gifted White Net top

This lovely surprise from a forgotten Wishlist arrived yesterday, and whilst I certainly couldn’t wear it out-and-about at the moment … it’s turned far too cold again for that … I thought it would make for a lovely Boobday Friday.

I hope you all agree … and it’s such a nice fit too !!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add your own celebrations here too, from my Contact Modesty page >here< !!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Modest Workout – Part 3” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Modest Workout Part 3"

After receiving so many lovely messages about my two previous … “Modest Workout” videos … I’m delighted to tell you all 
that “A Modest Workout Part Three” is now available for viewing at my pages at Make Love Not Porn.


The film is from a simply amazing evening with Lover 36 and begins not long after I’d just collapsed on to the bed from sheer exhaustion from the most incredible fucking I think I’d ever experienced.


But Lover 36 is not only the most “energetic” of my Lovers, but also the quickest at being ready to start all over again, seemingly just a few minutes after he’d just filled his second condom of the night.


And even though I was used to his energy and stamina, I was still amazed to sense him putting on a third one, whilst I was still tingling and shuddering from my orgasmic climax just minutes before!

"From behind" - Modesty Ablaze with Lover No.36

So … I was lifted back up onto my knees, with my head resting on the pillow beneath me … to feel him starting all over again. And “feel” is certainly the right word, because he was soon thrusting and pumping into me with even more energy than before!!!


After another incredible, engulfing, climax … I collapsed back down onto the bed telling him that I had “floppy doll” syndrome … and didn’t know when, or even if, I’d ever be able to move again.

You can view my introduction to “A Modest Workout Part 3” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Modest Workout – Part 3  is my 83rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Modest Workout – Part 3” with tags such as:

#condomhot #ilubeu #joyful #loud #passionate #playful #spirited !!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Spring #Boobday Friday

Modest Boobday Tulips

Can you smell the first blooms of spring? New hopes and new beginnings!

Let’s hope for an even brighter, more special Spring for this year of all years.
And what better day to start, and better way to celebrate, than on a
blooming Boobday Friday !!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add your own celebrations here too, from my Contact Modesty page >here< !!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modestly Distracted #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Topless Boobday Photo Feb2021

As is often the way with one’s hobbies … it’s easy to sometimes get distracted from the task at hand!

Perhaps you can guess what is distracting me this Boobday Friday !!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

So … I urge you all to join-in by clicking on the new BoobDay badge below!

BoobDay Badge for Boobday Friday

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Cooling Cucumber – Part 2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty introduces Cooling Cucumber Pt.2

If you’ve watched my last video at Make Love Not PornA Cooling Apartment Cucumber … which I hope you have … you will know that my phone kept pinging … trying to interrupt my “Me-Time” fun with that cool cucumber I’d taken from our fridge.


Well, you’ll be happy to know, that I was far too excited to let that phone distract me … and I just HAD to carry on with my humping fun.

I do so love my Fruit and Vedge … and that thick cucumber just felt so lovely … and FULL-filling.


But, actually, I’m a bit of a greedy clit-girl really … especially when I’m feeling so relaxed, and aroused … as I was on this occasion.

So, I just had to reach for my favourite “Banana” toy that I always bring away with me on every vacation.
 Because, although the ridges on the skin of that Cucumber certainly had got me going, I just needed that extra bit of “buzz” that my Banana always gives me.

So you know what they say … fruit and vedge is always good for you … and I think you will see how much I enjoyed my naughty, delicious, fruity fun!

And I hope that you will enjoy it too !!!

Modesty Ablaze Cooling Cucumber toys part 2

You can view my introduction to the video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Cooling Holiday Apartment Cucumber – Part 2  is my 82nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Cooling Cucumber – Part 2” with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #handson #handy #happy #holiday #hotelroom #ilubeu #intimate #joyful #loud #married #metime #onthebeach #playful #relaxing #sensual #toytime #vacationtime #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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