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Modest Sinful Splash … #sinfulsunday

Modest Sinful Splash Tulips Red Ass

As I mentioned in my Members Newsletter a few days ago, I always try to post at Sinful Sunday every week, and this week’s theme is “Colour Splash”.

But it’s been such a busy, busy week, that I knew I just wouldn’t have the time to be properly creative enough to comply properly with the theme.

So, instead … I’m hoping that this “splash” of my favourite colour from some of yesterday’s “busy-ness” … might be acceptable?

But don’t despair … because if it doesn’t quite Full-Fill the theme … I’m sure there will be much more creative imagery to be enjoyed by, pushing gently, on the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Taking Mistresses Strap On Part 2

A few weeks ago I uploaded one of my Femdom Role-Play videos to my profile at Make Love Not Porn … after I’d received several emails asking if I had any “pegging” content to share there.

Well of course I do have lots of “Strap-On” videos from my “Mistressing Sessions” … so I thought it would be fun to add one of them, “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” which featured “SubbyBoy” who, as well as being one of my favourite Submissive play-partners, also loves receiving a good old fashioned pegging.

And I’m delighted to say that I soon received a number of emails asking to see more of that session … and how “far” … that particular Strap-On actually went.

So … I’ve just uploaded “Part Two” of our fun which will show just how far, and how intense, our play-time actually was!

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt2 One

Now as I mentioned in my introduction to “Part One”, I suppose you could say that some of my language in the video is rather aggressive and forceful. But my teasing humiliation is just how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions, because it adds to the intensity of his emotions and enjoyment.

And I think you will be able to see just how much he’s enjoying himself, when you watch the video.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two”  is my 92nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt.2 Two

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety Two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Tease & Denial … #sinfulsunday

Modest Tease and Denial Sinful Sunday

“So let’s just see shall we. It could be double-the-pleasure couldn’t it!!!”

For lot’s more Teasing Pleasure this Sinful Sunday just squeeze and pinch the lovely lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Motion … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Motion Blur

“You know how you said our sessions seem to just race by in a blur? Well, today I thought we’d spend the whole hour just in this position … and just with this particular paddle”.

“Then perhaps you might remember every stroke and every word … don’t you think! Shall we try?”

This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is all about Motion Blur … for more clarity just swipe the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Question of Balance … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 1

As I mentioned in my Boobday Friday post during the week, I became almost obsessed on our summer holidays this year, with building new Rock Sculptures on the beach each day.

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 2

It was all a question of balance of course … placing one stone at a time …

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 3

Knowing one’s limits and when to stop … before moving onto the next ...

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 4

I found it very calming and therapeutic actually. And the fact that they all seem to have a “phallic” appearance is … obviously … purely coincidental.

More more calming therapeutic coincidences this Sinful Sunday just tap the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap On"

You may recall that last year I published a series of Stand To Attention videos … on my Make Love Not Porn profile … that I’d filmed with Lover 83 at my favourite London Dungeon.

Well those videos certainly generated quite a lot of interest in my “Mistressing hobby” … as I’ve been regularly receiving emails and messages on my social sites ever since, asking for more similar-themed videos from those chambers.

So … as my Femdom Sessions are always based around Role Play and Sensual Teasing Fun … and, as many of the most recent emails I’ve received have been asking if I do any “Pegging or Strap-On” sessions … I thought it would be fun to addTaking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On to my collection here.

It features my favourite Strap-On Submissive, whom as well as being a lovely play-partner who simply loves receiving, also has a very impressive appendage of his own … which I absolutely love playing with!

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Part 1

Now you may find some of my language rather unbecoming of a “mature lady” such as myself … but as I said, this session is just as much about Role Play and Fun Teasing as it is about my Strap-On-ing … so my language and humiliation-teasing is exactly how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On  is my 91st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Five

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Black Net … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Black Net Stockings

As I mentioned in my October Newsletter, September was a record month for new Subscribers to my Pour Me A Glass Members pages.

And it was also a record month for session appointments as I sought to fulfill postponed sessions from the past year.

So I thought I would include a screen-snap, from my most recent appointment, to also fulfill a request from new subscriber Phil who has a thing for Black Net Stockings.

There’s sure to be more sinful appointments to be had this weekend, by stroking the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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No Modest Regrets #wickedwednesday

Modest No Regrets Wicked Wednesday

We all have regrets don’t we. Things we wish we’d done and didn’t … or things we did and wish we hadn’t … or at least had done differently.

But what I have learnt during my Modest hobbies over the past three decades is not to regret ones adventures, but rather, to learn from them and let the experience(s) shape future situations and choices.

And to try to see the positives in every experience, and with every individual we meet along the way.


This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Regrets” … just click the button below for more thoughts and reflections!

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Xxx- K

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Maid-to-Motivate … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Caning Sissy Maid

“I told you didn’t I? … I said that I expect all of my nooks and crannies to be thoroughly cleaned … outside and in!!!”.

“It’s no excuse to say you kept getting distracted and couldn’t concentrate!”

There’s sure to be more sinful distractions to be had this weekend, by stroking the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty at the Movies #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze introduces MakeLoveNotPorn

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.

In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.

So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.

But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!


First posted in December 2013 It’s Been A Marvellous Year

Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.


So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!

For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!

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Xxx- K

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