Originally posted for Kink of the Week around the beginning of 2022, but subsequently lost from my pages here during my “semi-retirement”. (SeeModestly Returningfrom April 2024).
You may be surprised when I tell you that I’ve always believed in following “the rules” … I was brought up a good Catholic girl after all. So ones conduct and adhering to the principles and codes of acceptable behaviour was ingrained, and in my younger years at least, unquestioned.
As was the notion that should one stray, chastisement and punishment was always bound to follow … in some form or another.
And so of course, it was almost second-nature for me to carry those principles forward as part of my Mistress Modesty persona.
And yet, such is the incongruous nature of the world of kink and fetish that one often finds oneself in, that “punishment” turns out to be a much sought after … and most enjoyable of passions … for all of those involved!!!
So my rule today is to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by smacking the lovely lips below!
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
I am delighted to have my recent “Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10” posting, included within the Erotic Non-Fiction Category of the latest edition of Elust … the monthly online compilation of sex-positive articles from the blogging community from all around the world.
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P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
Happy, warming #boobday memories from this past summer lounging on our garden patio.
Oh how I wish I could be out there, enjoying some warming-sun right now!!!
And please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!
Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
P.s. Thank you for all your messages about myBoobDay postings. Do let me know from my “Contact” page if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!
And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
It’s been a long, long time since I last posted a Product Review here on my blog pages, especially of Vibrators and Dildos. I’d actually decided that I’d probably found my ideal, preferred and most regular “go-to” favourite toy for whenever I needed a special “me-time” indulgence session. So searching for another option wasn’t a high priority!
But late last year I received an email request from a … new-to-me anyway … company whom I’d not heard of before, with the rather unusual name of “Tracy’s Dog”.
“Unusual, and not a particularly, enticing name for a Sex Toy Company” I thought to myself.
But nevertheless, I was intrigued. So I duly followed the slightly Art-Deco looking logo and link, and began to browse … and read further as I scrolled through the easy to navigate, and quite visually interesting website.
And as I’ve often found in the past that a new Lover can add a little difference and spice to one’s life, why not try a new “me-time” toy too?
So … I subsequently replied to the email and several weeks later received their Double-E Vibrator G Spot toy in my post box.
Opening the discrete outer packaging, revealed an attractively designed sturdy matt-black cardboard box with a slide-off smooth pink sleeve, (pictured above).
And, as also pictured, lifting off the lid revealed the stylish looking vibrator itself, resting snugly in a black foam bed, along with the USB charging cable, a small folding leaflet/manual, and a nice fabric holding bag.
As I mentioned, the product leaflet is small, very small. And in fact, as my eye-sight is not what it used to be, even reaching for my reading glasses, still made the instructions and small illustrative pictures frustratingly difficult to investigate with any enthusiasm.
However, the vibrator itself felt wonderfully inviting to lift and stroke over the palms of my hand. The silicon body is beautifully silky smooth to the touch and is remarkably light and comfortable to handle.
It has a firm, and penis-shaped main shaft, with a lovely head-shaped tip. The two control buttons, slightly inset in a chrome shield shaped cover, are at the bottom curve of the vibrator where the bendy flexible curving stem continues round to the secondary, smaller flanged tip collared in a narrow chrome band around it’s circumference. And that bendable curve had me quite excited about it’s positional capability and possibilities.
Charging with the magnetic-connecting cable was surprisingly quick for a first charge (about an hour), and my first explorations … and trusted “tip-of-the-nose” test … as I worked through the button settings, were quite encouraging. So I was looking forward to making some appropriate “me-time” to relax and put the Double-E to the test.
That appropriate time didn’t come until some days later … though I had it charged, and ready, on my bedside cabinet, and picked it up for the next few mornings to enjoy it’s feel and silkiness before having to put it aside and carry on with my “normal” week-day activities.
So the anticipation level was quite high … perhaps too high. Because, come that opportunity, my “me-time” didn’t go quite as I’d hoped.
Because … the control buttons, whilst seemingly quite straightforward previously … proved to be not quite so easy “in practice” so to speak.
Now I’m a clit-girl really because, whilst I used to love and crave penetration in situations with one of my lovers, as time has moved-on I now find it is my clitoris which now drives my most passionate and engulfing moments. Especially during my “me-time” moments.
And I found that the strength of the vibrations that had seemed quite strong and interesting on my nose, wasn’t giving me quite that same sensation where I really needed it. And trying to position myself, and the tip(s) of the vibrator, for the most effective contact, was difficult to control. Especially as on the vibration-only setting, there are only three different power-levels of intensity. Pushing on the button so as to try to combine the highest intensity setting, with one of the 10 different levels of pulsing, or throbbing-rotation, does increase the intensity. So despite preferring the calmer, vibration-only setting, I persevered with trying the heavier “feel” of the pulsing/throbbing selection(s) to try to achieve the arousal I desired.
But what I was finding most frustrating was not having a button, or option, to go-back one setting to find the previous setting I’d just found, and possibly enjoyed a little more than this next sequence I now had. Instead, what I was having to do, was to hold down the main “power” button to turn the vibrator off, and then have to turn it on again and try to remember how many “presses” on the buttons I’d have to make to find the one I wanted to try for a little longer. To see if perhaps it could work for me.
Now, of course, like all things, with “me-time” fun … or any activity … trial and error is key isn’t it. So over the past two weeks I have “trialled and errored” several times since. Including experimenting with various positions and angles … and, with the help of lots of my favourite lube (always a necessity nowadays), several insertable positions. With both ends at the same time too. And I have found that the smoothness and flexibility of what can go where … and how deep … has been quite “interesting” and fun. And different and arousing in it’s own way too!
But unfortunately for me anyway, despite the arousal and excitement of those attempts, I haven’t been able to achieve the orgasm I had been hoping for.
And I think that the one single factor in my failure, has been that inability for me to easily find, and settle, on an intensity level that I need, to allow me to concentrate just on my pleasure and needs … and really close my eyes and let myself go.
But all this is just my experience, and my preference for clitoris-stimulation, and not so much for penetrative or G spot, or anal, stimulation. AND of course it may be completely different for someone else.
BUT … it has been such fun to play with … AND if you know that your preferences are different to mine … then I do recommend that you explore the links below and investigate for yourselves, because there is so much to like about this Double-E Vibrator G Spot Toy.
Tracy’s Dog Double-E Vibrator G Spot toy Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10 Pros: Silky smooth texture, light and easy to hold and operate. Flexible and easy to bend and manipulate for the most comfortable use. Cons: One-directional Control buttons. Lacks power at even the most intense vibration setting. Material: Body-safe Silicone. Measurements: Insertable length of main shaft = 6 inches, circumference = 3.75 inches. Smaller, bendy-flexible bulbous tapered shaft = 4 inch insertable length. Width at widest point 1.25 inches. Charging: Re-chargeable. USB cable supplied. Power Level: Lacks power for the vibration-only setting. But very powerful for combined pulsing / throbbing settings. Noise Level: Extremely quiet. Waterproof: Yes. Cleaning: As normal, wash before and after use with warm soapy water. Use with water-based lube. Supplier Product Link:Double-E Vibrator G Spot toy Supplier Website:Tracy’s Dog Additional links:Blog X:@tracydog_Update
TheDouble-E Vibrator G Spot toy was sent to me, free-of-charge, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider: I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
“Yes, it is a swatch watch actually!” I told him as I tightened the strap around his shaft. “And I’m going to activate the stop-watch to time how long it stays on before you drop-it”.
“Perhaps if you try to concentrate on what sort of reward may be in store, then you may be able to hold it on for longer”!!!
And I hope you will all take the time to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by stroking the lovely lips below!
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
For last Friday’s #boobday posting I shared a photo of myself and my lovely friend SheLover.
And … what could be better than the two of us enjoying some sexy-soapy-fun you may have asked?
Well … being joined by the equally lovelyHeLoveras well of course!!!
And if you use the Search Button here on my site and type-in HeLover … you may well find several more occasions that he’s joined us for some 3-some fun as well!!!
Don’t forget to let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!
Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
P.s. Thank you for all your messages about myBoobDay postings. Do let me know from my “Contact” page if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!
And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
I think it’s been sometime since I last celebrated a New Years morning with a proper toast!
And as it was … surprisingly … mild this New Year’s morning, I thought I’d pop out into the garden and do it again!!!
Especially as this weekend’s prompt at Sinful Sunday just happens to be “Good Morning” … so take a sip from the lovely lips below to view some other morning celebrations!
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
Two weeks ago I enjoyed a solo#boobday shower. But for today’s #boobday Friday I thought I’d share that same shower with my beautiful friend, the wonderful SheLover!!!
She’s been featured here on my blog many, many times before of course … including recently showing off her Full Denim Jacket.
And if you use the Search Button here on my site and type-in SheLover … you’ll find many more fun occasions as well!!!
Do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!
Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
P.s. Thank you for all your messages about myBoobDay postings. Do let me know from my “Contact” page if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!
And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
I’d like to take this moment to wish you all a happy, healthy, and fun New Year’s … let’s hope that 2025 will be a huge improvement and bring better times FOR EVERYONE across the world, than has been the case during the last 12 months.
I began my own version earlier this monthwith my answers from1 to 5… though I preferred to re-title my own version as Fifty “Sexy” Questions rather than the “Dirty” connotation. Just because I’ve always wanted to push the view that sex is not“dirty”, I’d rather think of sex as just … “sexy”.
As I said then, I’m not sure how far along I’ll get in keeping-up with my answers … but I thought it might be fun … and would certainly re-kindle some lovely memories.
So … here are my answers to Questions 6 to 10:
Question 6: What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favourite types, Best Experiences, Wishes? On a personal / emotional level … if I have become sufficiently interested in a potential partner to develop the relationship “further” … then foreplay is always hugely important, and an essential part of every meeting. Even with SubbyHubby!!! And for me that could just start as cuddling and kissing … leading to teasing and tantalising … leading to fondling and stroking. And then usually to oral and physical stimulation which always heightens the arousal and desire for “more”. Having said all that, I must admit that in our early swinging-club days there were certainly many occasions when just the general “atmosphere”, or perhaps what had gone on earlier in the evening, had left me aroused and excited enough to forgo the necessity for any foreplay at all!!!
Question 7: What parts of your lover’s body are you most drawn to? If you don’t currently have a lover, consider past or future lovers. I’m not ashamed to say that I love cocks. I love observing all the different shapes and sizes and skin textures and colouring. And it doesn’t have to be just that of a lover … just seeing a naked man, any naked man, it is always the first thing my eyes are drawn to. Even when we may be on one of our naturist beaches, or club events. Even if I have absolutely no desire to engage with them physically, or emotionally, in any way what-so-ever … I just can’t help but look. I simply love to watch the way it may move, or jiggle, as they walk or move about. And, of course, when it is in a more physical, personal and sexual encounter … then I love to watch, and feel, the way it grows as it becomes aroused. So … as you can tell, I have absolutely no shame in admitting my enjoyment of, and interest in, the male penis!!
Question 8: Consider a moment in your life of great sensuality, eroticism or sexuality. Then answer the questions that Mary Oliver does in her poem “Gratitude” as they apply to that moment? For those unfamiliar with the poem, her questioning points are those in italics below) If I had to think of one specific moment in my experiences … and as I was just mentioning our swinging-club days in Question 7 above … it would possibly be remembering my first “unexpectedly explosive” evening at the Club. Because it was so unexpected … and certainly sensual, erotic AND most definitely sexual!!! So …What did you notice? Everything about the environment, the people, and the situation as we first began to explore and wandered into the “main open play” area to witness a mass of bodies on a huge padded mattress in the centre of that room. What did you hear? The sound of sex … and enjoyment … and release … of people enjoying their bodies, and each other. What did you admire? Everything about what was happening in front of us. What astonished you? How amazingly aroused I instantly was. What would you like to see again? I saw those situations … and joined-in with them … on many occasions in the months that followed. What was most tender? I’m not sure it could be described as “tender” in a physical sense … but it was certainly tender and special for me in every other way. What was most wonderful? The obvious passion and enjoyment and sexual release of every person involved. What did you think was happening? Oh … it was quite obvious what was happening for all those involved at that moment. For myself, I was just amazed at how instantly aroused and overwhelmed with sexual desire I was.
Question 9: If you were to recreate the early days of your favourite sexy relationship, what would they look like? Would you change anything? As I say, that moment was recreated … and indulged in … on many occasions over the next few months. And I certainly wouldn’t want to change anything about that occasion and the many empowering moments it gave to me from that moment on.
Question 10: What would you want more of in your sex life? I have been incredibly, amazingly, lucky to have enjoyed some wonderfully exciting and empowering experiences over the last two decades or more. And have met some wonderful, and life-long, friends in the process. But as we change and “mature” over the years … (and I mean “mature” in a more physical sense as our bodies change and age, because I hope I never “mature” emotionally or personally!!!) … then much of those particular moments may now be in the past. BUT I know I could certainly never ask for anything more in my sexual life. And I certainly will never regret any of those wonderful experiences.
So … if you’ve read this far … perhaps you would like me to continue? Let me know your own thoughts … and opinions. Because, I do truly believe that “great or awesome” anything comes from great or awesome communication.
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
As I mentioned in my#boobdayposting yesterday, I’m a “virgin cruiser” … but Hubby and I are, surprisingly, thoroughly enjoying our new experiences!!!
Especially returning to our cabin each day to find a new, and wonderfully creative, towel arrangement waiting for us at the foot of our bed.
For lots more sinfully fun arrangementsat this week’s Sinful Sunday, just kiss the lovely lips below!
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
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