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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Attention

I’m so delighted to tell you all about my newest #realworldsex video at my profile pages on Make Love Not Porn.


Because, after my last meeting with Lover 83 … he had asked if we could meet again at my favourite dungeon … as he really wanted to experience one of my “spanking sessions” that he’d heard all about.


As you will probably already know from some of my previous Make Love Not Porn videos … I do enjoy some kinky-fun from time-to-time … and, of course, I always enjoy fulfilling any special requests or fantasies that my lovers may have.


So when No.83 arrived at my chambers with a lovely bottle of chilled champagne … AND some proper champagne glasses … we sat and sipped and chatted for a while … as I always like to do … to discuss what he would most like to experience from all of the fixtures and accessories at our disposal.

But as I was relaxing and enjoying the wonderful bubbly he had brought me … I noticed the rather large bulge protruding from beneath his pants.

And when I asked him to stand, and present himself before me, I began feeling more and more aroused … and more like reaching for HIM … rather than for my floggers or canes.

Especially when I instructed him to step out of his straining thong !!!

Modesty Ablaze flicking Lover 83's balls.

“Standing To Attention” is my 71st Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “Stand To Attention”  is my 71st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Standing To Attention” with tags such as:

inthedungeon / #afternoon / #chatty / #communicative / #dressy / #drinkresponsibly / #flirty / #footsy / #happy / #joyful / #kinky / #playful / #roleplay / #sensual / #spirited!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Nibbles #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Piercing Nibbles

I always enjoy new experiences and new sensations . . . and these lovely piercings gave a whole new dimension to my “nibbling and sucking” session !!!

And there will be many more new experiences and sensations to enjoy,
by licking the Sinful Sunday lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Taking Stock #sinfulsunday

After my Throned post at Sinful Sunday last weekend, I received several emails asking just what my punishment for latecomers would be???

Well, it would start with a good caning in my stocks . . . of course!!!

And there’s bound to be lots more punishments, or otherwise, dealt at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Just gently spank those lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Throned #sinfulsunday

If you are lucky enough to be summoned . . . you had better not be late!!!

For more important instructions this Sinful Sunday you have
my permission to smack the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Boobs in Black #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Boobday Friday Dress

I received a new dress from one of my Wishlists last week . . . and it does feel rather lovely against my nipples when I first zip it on.
And, when I move about in it !!!

It also seems perfect for a Boobday Friday photo as well, don’t you think?

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly Tapping #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Tapping

It often gets quite stuffy in one’s Dungeon during a session . . . especially
when I’m giving a prolonged “tapping” . . . so I find it’s always important to
have adequate ventilation.

And this is one of my favourite outfits, which this rather excited gentleman suggested I should share for a Boobday post.
I don’t often follow the advice of one of my submissives, but on this occasion . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly Piercing #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Red Dildo Strap On

Whilst I do enjoy the look of piercings, and am always in awe of those who have them, I am just not brave enough to have one of my own.

Instead . . . I much prefer to be the one actually giving the piercing !!!

But as “Piercings” is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, you will find lots of information . . . and photos I’m sure . . . on wearable jewellery of just
that kind, by pushing at the button below.

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “The Dungeon Swing” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "The Dungeon Swing"

If you’ve visited my pages here before . . . you will probably know that I enjoy a little bit of BDSM fun from time-to-time.

And I do stress the word “fun” . . . because like everything I do . . . I always want all of my friends to be having fun and completely enjoying themselves as much as I am.

But I think that many people assume that BDSM, or FemDom play . . . has to involve pain or some sort of extreme physical treatment . . . but from my point-of-view, that is simply not what domination and submission is all about.

For me both of those things are about being able to completely release one-self in the company of like-minded people . . . and share each-other’s desires and kinks
. . . and . . . just have fun !!!

And quite often there may not even be any physical contact at all . . .

But, I do admit that whether I am actually touching someone or not . . . I usually find myself becoming more “tingly” . . . and more aroused as the session goes on.

And that is exactly what happens in my newest video at Make Love Not Porn. It is from a recent session at one of my favourite dungeons . . . which just so happens to have a very interesting leather swing.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Dungeon Swing 1

I’d been . . . gently, of course . . . teasing Hubby with my soft-leather flogger . . . when his rather obvious arousal led to me becoming very tingly and very aroused as well.

So I instructed Hubby, and another of my “submissive” gentlemen friends present . . . to worship at my feet as I reclined . . . and gently rocked back and forth on that kinky swing.

Well gently at least for a little while . . . you’ll just have to watch my “Dungeon Swing” to see what I mean . . . but at least being in the company of two willing gentlemen I was able to instruct one to clean up the other’s mess.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Dungeon Swing 2

You can view my introduction to “The Dungeon Swing” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“The Dungeon Swing”  is my 58th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Rubber Top #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Honour Rubber Top

As I mentioned in my Modesty Visits Honour post earlier in the week,
I had quite a number of lovely items purchased for me. This lovely Rubber Top was one of them . . . a perfect addition to my Boobday Friday collection
don’t you  think?

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze visits . . . @HonourClothing in Waterloo

Honour Clothing shop in Waterloo

I’ve had a lot of fun over the past few weekends wearing-in the set of Rubber Wrist and Ankle Cuffs, from Honour.co.uk, that I reviewed here several weeks ago. By “wearing-in” I don’t mean that I’ve been wearing them myself of course . . . rather I’ve used them on several of my subs during some fun sessions at my favourite chambers . . . and they’ve proved very useful indeed!

Now I’ve always loved the fabulous range of clothing and accessories available from Honour, particularly their amazingly priced latex range and their wonderful selection of body-stockings. And over the past four years or so I’ve purchased, or had purchased for me, lots of clothing items, and even my wonderful thigh-high red boots which I am so often asked about . . . from the fabulous Honour website.

So when I was invited to visit their Central London shop in Waterloo recently,
I just couldn’t resist !!!

Located in a lovely little street called Lower Marsh, it is literally just around the corner from Waterloo station, so really easy to get to by tube, rail or bus. Instantly recognisable from the distinctive Honour logo above the display window, one has to ring the bell to enter, but don’t be put-off, that just adds to the intimacy and personal-nature of the shop. We were immediately greeted by a lovely smiling young lady who opened the door for us and welcomed us in.

Honour Clothing Waterloo Shoes

The shop was Honour’s founding store, opened 30 years ago, and inside is like an Aladdin’s cave of wall-to-wall garments, neatly displayed on impressive hanger-racks on each side of the long galley-shaped ground-floor. The actual sight of so many wonderful and colourful items was almost overwhelming at first, but actually everything is so neatly arranged in size and style . . . and the two lovely young ladies Amy and Anita so charming and helpful . . . that I quickly felt completely at ease, and able to indulge myself in browsing from rack to rack.

The ground-floor largely features Honour’s Women’s Wear with a wonderful array of PVC and Leather, Latex and Wetlook, Basques & Corsets, Dresses, Tops, Skirts, Bras, Catsuits, Leggings & Trousers, Jackets, Stockings & Suspenders, Body-Stockings, Knickers and Lingerie.

I was in my element . . . and soon had several hangers-worth of items that I simply had to try on.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Waterloo changing rooms

The changing rooms have been cleverly and stylishly designed to make the best of the available space with ample mirrors and lighting . . . and Amy and Anita were both wonderfully patient in taking turns with helping me with the zips and buttons,
in-between serving and helping other customers at the same time, and advising on the most suitable size to best fit my bumps and curves.

Putting my preferred selections to one side . . . so that I could come back to them and be sure that I had made the right choices . . . I then led Hubby upstairs which houses the Men’s Wear and Bondage items and “toys”.

Honour Clothing Bondage items

Now as you can probably imagine, I already have quite an extensive collection of restraints and impact implements, but a fabulous thorny-stemmed Riding Crop (see below) quickly caught my eye, and a few short gulps from Hubby as I tapped it gently against the palm of his hand.

Just like the ground floor every space is, stylishly, packed with an amazing array of clothing and some very interesting dildos, vibrators and accessories.

I enjoyed browsing . . . and teasing Hubby with some rather large insertables . . . but decided to stick with my new crop, and instructed him to follow me back downstairs.

As I mentioned earlier, Honour do have a fabulous website which is perfectly laid-out, easy to use and categorizes their complete and comprehensive range of wonderful items. And there is a helpful touch-screen tablet on a stand near the downstairs counter, which makes it easy to search for specific items one may be interested in, or have seen on the website earlier.

But for me, as you might imagine, I much prefer being “hands-on” in everything I do . . . so nothing beats being able to browse in a real shop, to touch and feel . . . and of course to try things on. And it was nice to see other couples, browsing and purchasing whilst we were there, who obviously felt the same way.

And of course, the helpful and knowledgeable attention and advice from Amy and Anita made my shopping feel even more special . . . so I really do recommend you visit and experience some Honour for yourself.

Amy and Modesty at Honour clothing Waterloo

The shop at Lower Marsh (SE1 7AB) is open Monday to Friday from 10.30 a.m. to 7 p.m. and on Saturdays from 10.30 a.m. to 5 p.m. (closed on Sundays). There is also a store in Watford (WD18 7EN), with directions to both on their website.

Modesty Ablaze at Honour Clothing

The Modesty Disclaimer: I was given a voucher for my honest and un-biased review here. But I loved my time in the shop so much that I spent much more . . . or should I say, I made Hubby spend much more . . . because after-all a lady deserves spoiling occasionally doesn’t she !!!

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