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Lovely Latex from Honour.co.uk & Lacey Lingerie @ Buttress & Snatch

I know we are all comfortable with buying clothes and accessories on the internet nowadays, but I still find it’s nice to have a personal recommendation or to physically see and touch and feel something. At least it is for me . . . and especially so when it comes to my latex and lingerie.

ModestyHonour1So I was really excited to discover two new (to me anyway) companies during my visit to The Great British Tatoo Exhibition recently.

I love latex, but for me it is just one of those items that I just have to see and feel so that I know it is right for me. It always looks so pretty and stylish in those on-line photographs with all those slim and shapely young models. But however much I may like the look,  I am never confident if it would actually be “right” for me. So it was wonderful to discover that Honour had a booth at the show . . . and this “Glamour Corselette” immediately caught my eye.

Lilly, one of the charming young Honour girls, was extremely helpful and suggested a size that she assured me would be the perfect fit. And I’m happy to say she was right . . . it just felt so wonderful to slide into and I just loved the stylish little bow-tie. Sometimes latex can be difficult for me to easily get in and out of (my bumps are not in the right places!) but with a liberal sprinkling of talcum powder, or my “special latex-friendly body moisturiser”, I’ve never had any problems when I’ve worn it since. The shoulder straps are adjustable and it has underwired bust cups which just seem to fit so comfortably and make it feel as though it could have been custom-made especially for me.

ModestyHonour4Hubby was transfixed by lots of the other items on display . . . but I told him I WANTED “this one” . . . and I  received lots of nice compliments when I wore it out to one of our club-visits recently. It has suspender clips attached at the hem (I have them tucked-up here for these photographs) so I wore it with simple black stockings.

And then imagine my delight when just two stalls along from Honour, I discovered the absolutely wonderful lingerie and swimwear of Buttress & Snatch.

ModestyStairsSnatchBumI just LOVE clothing that is different, and fun, and stylish!!! And it’s not very often that I find all three of those elements combined. But finding the Buttress & Snatch stall was like discovering a treasure trove of all sorts of wonderfully colourful and intriguing garments that made me just want to stop and feel them all.

Buttress and Snatch Tassle Skirt Knickers

Hubby’s initial reaction was that the clothing seemed “out-of-place” at such an event and he wanted to lead me straight past. But I exclaimed that they “were all so sexy” . . . and I immediately fell in love with a pair of beautiful black lace knickers with a tassel-skirt attachment. “These are lovely, so unusual” I showed him.

Rachel, the wonderfully friendly owner, explained that the garments were all custom-made . . . normally to order, and that this was the first time she had exhibited at a show of this nature.

I was completely enthralled and enchanted by so many of the unique items hanging from her stall . . . they had an almost vintage, retro look about them, yet every item seemed to exclaim “I am a one-off, I am yours, no-one else will look like this”. Rachel explained that her company had been making lingerie for almost 15 years and that her garments had been worn by people like Madonna, Neneh Cherry, Kate Upton and Kate Moss.

But I wanted those knickers . . . before any other Kates (or Katies) came along!

And they are so lovely. They have this wonderful tassle-skirt which can be worn at the front (see my picture above) for those more “modest” moments . . . or reversed to cover one’s bottom (as in my photo below) and display the delightful sheer black lace at the front, and . . . encourage me to wiggle my bottom more!

Buttress and Snatch Lingerie

I just LOVE them . . . they make me feel special . . . and unique, whenever I wear them.

And even better for me having met Rachel, albeit very briefly, I immediately felt at ease in her company and knew I was talking to someone who has a passion for what they do. I love her story (Our Way) and the history of her Buttress and Snatch.

I’m sure I will ordering more from Rachel’s sewing machine very soon.

So, if like me, you like something a little different and unusual . . . I certainly do recommend you explore both of these exciting Latex and Lingerie companies.

Honour.co.uk

and

Buttress and Snatch.co.uk

 

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adapt at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me sexy clothes and lingerie . . . and sexy toys . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

 

Xxx – Katie

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Modesty at the Hoxton Dungeon

If you are a regular visitor here you will know that I have always been interested in erotic fetish and bondage art and photography. But over the past year or so I have gradually discovered that I actually enjoy some of the physical aspects of fetish and bondage as well.

Lover 14 was the first of my lovers to talk quite openly about his interests and experiences in the lifestyle and my curiosity and my own desire was immediately aroused by his encouragement . . . and ever present bag of tricks!

Initially Hubby wasn’t quite so keen to indulge as I was, but after watching and videoing those first few experimental occasions he surprised both of us by becoming more and involved as time went by. And we were soon enjoying our own spanking and bondage sessions at home alone!

At first I was the submissive in my adventures with Lover 14, but I soon found I also enjoyed “switching” and playing the dominatrix role as well. So much so, that after meeting Madame Caramel late last year I instructed Hubby to book the Hoxton Dungeon Suite for an evening . . . and invited Lover 14 as a special guest.

So, late in February, for my Valentines gift, we booked ourselves in . . . and the three of us had an absolutely amazing, and exhausting, fun time!!!

The Dungeon Suite is a little difficult to find, but then “you would expect it to be that way” I chastised Hubby as he struggled with the chattering and confused Satnav directions! However, a quick phone call to the contact number we’d been given quickly resolved our problems.

We were pleasantly surprised to be welcomed by Madame Caramel herself and she gave us a short tour of the rooms . . . and an explanation of some of the quite incredible array of implements and toys.

The suite itself comprises of a “normal” bathroom and small kitchen area with microwave, hob and oven, and a well-stocked fridge . . . and a bedroom with a comfortable double-bed. But it was, of course, the playrooms that we were most interested in!!!

Modesty Ablaze at Hoxton Dungeon

Welcome to The Red Room!!!

Madame described the The Red Room as “Mistresses waiting room” where the submissives should begin their worship and attending to their preparations. We glanced across at the Standing Cage already thinking of possibilities . . . and then with incredulity at the glass cabinet full of clamps, weights, screws and apparatus of all shapes, sizes and materials. The Red Room also has an exciting selection of garments and outfits, from rubber suits, maids outfits and dresses that had me making a mental note to return to browse further!!!

We were then, excitingly, led through to the dungeons Main Room . . . a jaw-dropping panorama of the sort of bondage equipment, whips, chains, restraints and toys, the like of which I had probably imagined, but never expected to see, or touch or feel!!!

Madame explained the “house rules” and the safety aspects of some of the more unfamiliar toys and equipment, pointed out the condom containers (we had brought our own, but “just in case we run-out”) and explained how we must place all the toys we used into a large container so that they may be properly cleaned after our departure. Then with flourishing kisses and farewells . . . we were left to our own devices.

Oh, and what devices!!! . . . there were so many choices it was difficult to know just where to start, but of course, it didn’t take us too long at all . . .

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The St. Andrews Cross

I’d often fantasised about a St. Andrews Cross but never thought I’d have the opportunity of trying the real thing. But over the next few hours, all three of us found ourselves strapped in position, for varying lengths of time (LOL!!!) and experiencing the delights (???) of being both master and submissive.

I was chosen to be the first though! Gently teased with soft strokes from canes and paddles . . . feeling the tightness and grip of nipple clamps and weights, and then the rising crescendo of a flogging whip. Before being caressed and stroked . . . and then pumped and pounded . . . to the first of countless orgasms.

After which I needed time to recover the feeling in my arms and legs . . . and what better way to unwind than by sitting on the Queening Box and ordering my submissives to enjoy and share in my relieving relaxation! (And guess who was the first???)

Modesty's Queening Stool

Resting, relaxing and unwinding on the Queening Box . . .

Then it was Lover 14’s turn to be strapped to the Cross so that I could enjoy administering some fun of my own. Of course he coped admirably! By the time we released him I was glowing and tingling almost as much as he was and couldn’t wait to offer myself to be strapped over the whipping bench for the next round of pampering, teasing, spanking and fucking from both of my attentive and willing dommes.

Over the course of the next few hours we indulged in just a tiny few of the available ropes and chains, cuffs and restraints, canes, paddles, whips and masks. We moved from the bench, to bondage chair and then onto the top of the padded cage and suspension frame . . . playing, with various rest and recovery breaks of course, until well into the early hours of the morning, each of us collapsing exhausted but completely satiated.

Until the morning! When, after refreshing and revitalising croissants and juices, we returned to the Main Room for several more hours indulgence and discovering new toys we’d missed the night before.

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Browsing one of the racks in the Main Room!!!

And we STILL didn’t even scratch the surface of all the things that are available. Not that everything there was of interest of course! It is always a case of personal preference isn’t it . . . and there were some instruments on display that looked positively scary and definitely not for us.

But if you have even just a passing interest in bondage and fetish you will know that it is often the expectation and the anticipation of trying something new that can be the strongest and most exciting emotion. And just being sensible and respectful of each of our interests and desires . . . and ones “safe words” . . . is the most important point to remember amidst all of the excitement.

Modesty Ablaze at Hoxton Dungeon

Ooohh . . . Spoilt for choice!!!

I hope our pictures will give a flavour of just how much we all enjoyed ourselves . . . (and there will be some more private pictures at my Balcony Members page in the next few days) . . . but there is also a plethora of information on the Dungeon and a complete list of all the equipment and toys, including a floor-plan and Picture Gallery at their excellent website. All the equipment is professionally made, clean and maintained to the highest standard . . . and the sheer number and range of toys and accessories simply has to be seen to be believed.

So, if you’ve ever dreamed about exploring the wilder side of your bondage fantasies, or wondered what it really feels like to be strapped onto a St. Andrews Cross, or locked into a submissives cage . . . or indulge in almost any naughty play you could possibly imagine . . . then I am sure you would love The Hoxton Dungeon Suite. We will definitely be returning . . . just to try all the things we didn’t have the time to experience on this occasion!

There is more information about the Dungeon Suite from the official link below . . . and just so you know . . . I actually ordered Hubby to pay for our booking . . .  so my review is based completely on my own, unbiased, experiences!!!

July 2014 Update: I do now have a new video at MakeLoveNotPorn featuring just some of the fun, and some of the toys, at the Hoxton Dungeon. More information at my MLNP page (just scroll down to Video  No. 10) . . . plus I have a little video teaser >here<!!!

Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
When: February 2014
Pros: The perfect place to actually experience all of your wildest fantasies.
Cons: Completely exhausting!!! (So glad we booked a Friday evening as I couldn’t possibly have worked the next day).
Location: London
Transport: Close to overground rail and London Underground Tube stations. If travelling by car (as we did) you can request a parking permit for close, localised parking.
Official Website: The Hoxton Dungeon Suite

P.S. You can find out more about me at my Mistress Modesty Ablaze page >here<.

Important Rider:  Please play Safely and Responsibly !!!

Xxx – K

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Wishing you all a Happy, Fun . . . and Sexy, New Year . . .

2013 really was a marvellous year for me . . . and I hope for you as well . . .

I’d like to thank you all for visiting me here, now over 69,000 visits!!! . . . (you know 69 is my FAVOURITE number) . . . and I’d like to wish you all a Happy, Fun and Sexy, 2014.

. . . here’s hoping we can all start the New Year with a Bang!!!

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I’m looking forward to even more fun in 2014 . . .

Best wishes – Xxx –  Katie

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It’s been a Marvellous Year – Part 4 – Have a loving, fun & sexy Christmas!

As I’ve been mentioning in my previous posts, Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3, it really has been a marvellous year for me, marvellous milestones . . . marvellous moments . . . and marvellous meetings . . . and one of my “Marvellous Mmm’s” was instructing Hubby to book me a session with erotic-photography maestro John Tisbury.

So, marvellous milestone . . . marvellous John Tisbury . . .

ModestyAblazeDarkChairI’d met John at the Eroticon 2013 Conference here in London . . . and so loved his presentation of Erotic Photography that I just had to ask if we could book a private session with him! And, come on be honest, how many of you have often fantasized about having your own, private . . . glamour, erotic, nude . . . call it what you will . . . photo session with a real top-notch professional erotic photographer???

It was an opportunity I just didn’t want to miss . . . and I had a marvellous few hours with the wonderful, charming John at his studios. And afterwards an amazing DVD of images, some of which I would love to share with you here as my way of wishing you all the Happiest, Healthiest, and of course . . . SEXIEST . . . of Christmas and New Years.

Xxx – K

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Oh, and P.S. don’t forget to visit John’s portfolio from the link in my side-bar to the right . . . I recommend you book your own session with John for your own special occasion!!!

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Yes Mistress Fetish & Photography tonight at Hundred Years Gallery

ModestyYesMistressCuffsI’m excited to be visiting an evening of Photography and Fetish at the Hundred Years Gallery in Hoxton here in London tonight . . . November 29th from 6.30 til 9.30 p.m.

It’s the first in a series of collaborations between the art world and the secret world of the Dominatrix and features some wonderful photographs by the lovely Kate Peters.

There will also be a “Deviant Corner” where professional Dominatrix Miss Deviant and some of her colleagues from Madame Caramel’s Erotic Art Collective will be giving demonstrations . . . oohhh can’t wait!!!

The theme of the night is Female Dominance and is open to all. Visit Hundred Years Gallery for much, much more information. I will definitely be there . . . so please come over and say hello . . .

. . . Or possibly even join me later in the evening at the 10th Anniversary of Club Pedestal the “playground for the dominant women and those who worship her” . . . I hope to see you there later this evening!!!

Xxx – K

P.S. The picture of me above with my “Wrist Studs”, is not being exhitibed, but is from a session with the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar link) from earlier this year.

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Madame Caramel . . . the London Mistress of BDSM

MadameOneI’ve always had an inquisitive interest in the Fetish side of sex . . . especially in loving some of the fabulous fashion apparel and shoes and accessories . . . but also, of course, in that “other” side of things!

So when I heard that Dominatrix Madame Caramel was presenting an Erotic Class on BDSM and female domination at my favourite toyshop Sh! last week, I knew I just had to be there.

And, in the company of a special friend, it was the most fun and enjoyably entertaining class I’ve ever attended.

Madame Caramel’s presentation was so engaging and motivating that I felt immediately intrigued to learn more about Mistress herself, and the services she provides . . . and to share it all with you here.

Madame’s clients cover the whole spectrum of ages, professions and backgrounds . . . AND, as she explained to the delight of all of us, a whole spectrum of requests!!!

As we all giggled and gasped at her delivery and expressive descriptions, we were left in no doubt that Madame enjoyed her work, and her position as one of the most experienced, and respected of Mistresses in her field. She eloquently described that her BDSM services included all forms of domination, bondage, punishment, humiliation, bi-sexual play and rubber and fetish equipment . . . BUT that those services did not include “personal services” – domination is NOT prostitution.

MadameCaramelI was also excited to learn that as well as travelling the world visiting her slaves and submissives, Madame also has her own fully-equipped London Dungeon Apartment for hire for couples (details at: Hoxton Dungeon Suite) and runs her own London FemDom Club (details at: Club Black Whip).

AND ladies you’ll be even more delighted to learn that Mistress also offers coaching in the Art of Female Domination (details at Mistress Coaching) . . . something that I may just investigate further, especially her description of having her slaves do all her domestic cleaning and housework, LOL!!!

I had so much fun at Madame Caramel’s Erotic Class that I really do urge you all to discover more about both Mistress herself . . . and her exciting world of Female Domination.

You can watch and listen to Madame Caramel . . . in her own words . . . at her You Tube Channel.

And learn more about her services at: madamecaramel.com

Oh, and don’t forget Club Black Whip !!! I’m certainly interested . . . so much so that I may even drag Hubby along, (collar and leash and all!) to the very next Club Black Whip night in East London. LOL !!!

Xxx – K

 

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