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Modestly Thrifty #sinfulsunday

You might be surprised to know that my biggest fetish is for . . . shoes !!!

Yes, I do so LOVE shoes . . . and, over the past few years I’ve probably collected, and been “tributed”, enough pairs of shoes to make over a years
worth of Sinful Sunday posts.

But . . . in this age of austerity, and responsible management of one’s finances . . . I am always conscious of being careful, and thrifty, about my fetish.

So, I was delighted when I recently came across this lovely pair of shoes at my local charity shop for just an amazing . . . £10 !!!

And, as I strut across the dungeon floor for my latest session, I just know that I will be wondering just who did they last belong to, where were they last worn? and . . . what exactly happened on the last occasion they were used??? 

Stamp, gently, on the Sinful lips below for more questions . . . and answers
this Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Red #Boobday Friday

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We all have a favourite outfit don’t we? You know . . . one we just have to wear for that “special occasion”.

And although I can’t possibly wear it all day today, I am planning on wearing my favourite red dress out this evening for another “special occasion”.

But then Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, is also always a special occasion,
because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt from @UberKinky

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We all enjoy having new additions to our wardrobes occasionally don’t we . . . well, actually not just occasionally for me, I enjoy new additions all the time!!!

Because new clothes always make one feel special, and sexy . . . and this lovely new Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt certainly makes me feel like that, and has quickly become one of my favourites when opening my wardrobe for a kinky evening out.

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It arrived from my favourite on-line Kink store, Uberkinky, a few weeks ago and I was instantly captivated by the naughty, open-back look . . . and feel . . . as I slid it on.   It felt just lovely, sexy and clingy without being tight or uncomfortable. In fact the fit was absolutely perfect and the front zip fastening makes it so quick and simple to put on . . . and to take off  LOL!!!

The double-stitched shiny PVC waistband is 2¼ inches wide and adds a stylish look to the trim, whilst the skirt itself is made from that lovely polyester-spandex-type material which seems to just stretch and cling in all the right places, complimenting one’s curves rather than squeezing them tightly and making my bumps too obvious. I like wearing tight rubber and latex, but often feel my curves are being pushed and squeezed out of shape. But this skirt just feels so comfortable and shapely to wear and I’ve always, ALWAYS got such lovely comments whenever I’ve worn it.

But, of course, a lot of those lovely comments are about the look when I turn-around because, this Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt has the most wonderfully naughty open-back to show off one’s bottom. The open-cut shape just seems to perfectly accommodate my cheeks. It’s almost as though that “handmade” feature was in fact made-to-measure . . . but I’m sure that’s just because of the way the material stretches and clings so naturally.

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The skirt arrives with the three removeable straps attached of course. They are secured in place with popper studs on each side of the perfectly hemmed “openness”. The straps are each 1¼ inches wide . . . my “modesty straps” I call them . . . and are spaced equally apart to allow for teasing and tantalising glimpses of lots of one’s bare bottom. And, should you decide to display even more bare skin, as I have on the several occasions I’ve worn them out, the straps are easily and effortlessly detached from their studs.

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I’ve started my evening with the straps on, and then as I’ve become a little more daring (naughty???), I’ve discretely removed them and popped them into my handbag. Perhaps starting out by leaving just the middle one attached . . . and then, later in the evening, removing that one too!

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And I can certainly tell you I’ve then had even more attention . . . and nice comments . . . as the evening has gone on!!!

The whole skirt is so lovely and light, that it can be easily folded and carried in your bag if you’re travelling to a club or event and planning to change on arrival, and you prefer not to wear it on the way there!

The skirt is supplied with a complete spare set of studs, and another thoughtful and lovely touch, are the hanger-loops stitched into the PVC waistband. In fact the quality and whole “feel” of this lovely skirt is just wonderful, and the sizing chart . . . available from the product-link below . . . offers one of the most comprehensive and descriptive size ranges I’ve ever come across.

So, needless to say, I shall definitely be adding more from the Noir Handmade range. And if you are looking for some new stylish, sexy . . . and kinky . . . apparel for yourself, or your kinky partner in fact, . . . I suggest you make the Noir Handmade page at Uberkinky >here< your very next click!!!

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details:
Modesty Rating:
 10 out of 10
Pros: Stylish, sexy, slinky, sexy, kinky. Lovely to feel and wear, curve-hugging but in just the “right” way. Lovely quality stitching. Oh . . . and did I say “sexy”!!!
Cons: I’ve been having too much fun wearing it to notice any.
Material: Polyester Spandex (elastane) skirt with PVC trim and detail.
Sizing: Available from X-Small to 10XL (see the sizing chart from the product link below!).
Colour: Black.
After-care: Handwash separately in cold water.
Supplier Product Link: Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details
More from Noir at Uberkinky: Noir Handmade
The Modesty Video Review: Now you are being naughty! But ask me nicely and you just never know!

 

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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A Modest Thank You #sinfulsunday

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It’s always lovely to receive a surprise gift in the post . . . it makes one feel special and nice . . . especially when the gift is as lovely as this Black Net Body Stocking!!!

Normally the gifts are followed, or even preceded, by an email message from the sender. But this lovely present arrived recently without any notification before
. . . or since . . . from the person who sent it.

So, as it as made me feel very sinful whenever I’ve slipped it on, I thought I would model it here today by way of a “thank you”.

To see lot’s more sinfulness this Sunday just gently, and respectfully please,
kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s.More “thank you’s” await for the sender of this lovely gift. Just email to let me know if it was you . . . and I shall reply by return!!!

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A Modest Fetish #Boobday Friday

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It’s London Fetish Weekend this weekend . . . so I’ll be very busy!
Very, very busy LOL!!!

But as today is  #Boobday Friday I thought I would share one of the outfits that I will be wearing at some point over the next three days and nights.

And if you tap Hyacinth’s #boobday logo below, you are sure to see lots more boobs on display this weekend, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Humble #sinfulsunday

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Sometimes one stumbles across something that makes one just want to . . .

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Slap ones hands together and . . .

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Stamp ones feet . . . in excitement, happiness and joy!

Today was a day just like that . . . and I’m sure there will be lots more exciting happiness and joy to be found this Sinful Sunday from slapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews “The Breathable Ball Gag” at pinkbob.com

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It’s always nice to discover new people and new organisations entering the Fetish market-place, particularly so when the company concerned is female-focussed, female run and female staffed!!! So I was delighted to hear about Pink B.O.B. and the fledgling Kink-side of their business, Masterkink . . . after-all, we all have a kink-side don’t we? (Well I know I do !!!).

Pink B.O.B. is a small, but growing company based in New Hampshire in the USA (close-ish to the bottom of the state line with Massachusetts, so not too far from Boston). The B.O.B. part of the Pink name stands for Battery Operated Boyfriend which always makes me smile warmly when I repeat it to myself as I’m sure we’d all like our “boyfriends” to be battery-operated from time to time!

But Pink B.O.B. has so much more than just battery-operated toys in their growing product range and I really do recommend my American readers especially, to visit their website as I think all of their products are extremely reasonably priced.

Earlier this year I reviewed theirFlexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy” and am currently having their vibrating cock-ring “road-tested” for me by one of my trusted “colleagues” . . . but for the purpose of this post I am especially excited to focus on two items from their Master Kink range. Two separate items which can, of course, be used together if the mood should take you . . . as it often does for me!

Firstly the Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag . . .

ModestyAblazeGagBoxNow, I do quite frequently come across this item hanging from the “utensils” rack at various dungeons I use for my mistress sessions. But I have always been reticent to “re-use” them with my own companion(s) at the time. Almost all of the “toys” I use, or play with, during my own sessions, are my own. Items I have collected myself for home playtime with my No.1 submissive . . . because playtime fun always starts at home!

So I was thrilled to receive the Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag in the post . . . though I did see an immediate look of apprehension in No.1’s eyes as I unpacked it and dangled it before him.

But I’m happy to report that he soon felt better when I passed it to him to look at, and feel, for himself. I think because the ball itself has 10 small breathing holes, and being made from an ABS Plastic type material, it is actually quite light and smooth. (Unlike some of the harder rubber and wooden balls we’d come across in our “travels”). The leatherette-type straps are quite light as well, and also reasonably flexible . . . so he felt that perhaps it wouldn’t be quite so restrictive after all . . . and soon succumbed to my command (see below!).

ModestyAblazeFaceGagThe ball itself is approximately 2 inches in diameter and slides along a short (4”), thin strap which slots through the ball itself. This strap is then attached via light D-ring connectors to the main strap. Made from a patent-leather type material, the buckle end is almost six inches long, whilst the strap-end (with 9 holes for the fixing) is just over double that length. That means the ball gag and strap has an adjustable fit of between 14” to 21”.

The strap is 1” wide and approximately 4mm thick and . . . according to No.1 . . . is quite comfortable once attached. Although, of course . . . I am the one to do the attaching . . . I did briefly try it on myself (for the purpose of this review only of course!) and he is right, I found it quite easy to breath and experienced no unpleasant taste or discomfort.

But, as I said, I am the one to do the attaching, and I have now done so on several occasions at home . . . and also quite recently with another of my subs, in-session.

Which brings me to the very necessary subject of cleaning! Because, although the Master Kink Breathable Ball-Gag is very nicely packaged in a quite strong and stylish shiny-gloss box, there is very little product information on the box itself . . . and nothing about the best method of cleaning (the ball particularly). I always clean all my toys with anti-bacterial wipes, and hot soapy water, both before and after use and, so far at least, that has had no discernible negative impact on the ball itself. But I would have liked a little more specific information on that aspect.

However, that aside, this Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag is proving to be a wonderful and fun addition to my kink-box. And, if you are just beginning to explore some kinky fun at home . . . or even if, like me, you are expanding your horizons in your journey through Kink . . . I think this is an ideal starting point.

As is . . . The Master Kink Bondage Rope.

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If you have been visiting me here for some time, you will know how much I love rope play. Not actually doing the binding, or rigging itself, but . . . for the times when I switch roles and allow myself to be bound and played with.

This doesn’t happen very often of course . . . I have to be in the right sort of mood . . . and then only with my “very” good friend and rope expert Lover No.14.
But I just love the feel of rope being wound closely, and tightly, around my naked body. There is something so sensual and arousing about that total sense of submission to the will of someone you completely trust! As I say, it doesn’t happen very often, but when it does happen next, I will definitely be requesting this soft and sensual cotton rope to be the first thing wrapping around me.

It is almost 33ft in length and quite soft to the touch . . . so once again . . . perfect for beginning one’s experimentation with rope and bondage play. I’ve only played briefly with it once so far . . . and not yet with Lover No.14. But we do have a meeting planned very soon, so I shall be reporting back to you here, on just how The Master Kink Bondage Rope actually feels in practice!!!

So, as I said at the beginning of this post, I do so love discovering new people . . . and new companies . . . and I certainly do recommend you follow my links below and discover more about Pink B.O.B. and Master Kink for yourself!!!:

The Breathable Ball Gag:
Modesty Rating:
 9 out of 10
Pros: Tactile feel. Air-holes for safe use and reasonably comfortable and easy to attach . . . and detach!!
Cons: None to report just yet.
Ball Material: ABS Plastic.
Strap Material: Leatherette/Patent Leather and Nickel Free Metal D-rings.
Measurements: Ball Diameter 2 inches; Strap Width 1 inch, Buckle and Strap adjusts to fit between 14 to 21 inches.
Noise: Allows just the occasional wimper or squeal!!!
Colour: Black.
Batteries: None for the Ball Gag, but you may need some for your other toys once the strap is in place!
Waterproof: Probably, but do not submerge with your submissive attached!!!
After-care: Obviously always wash with hot soapy water after, and before, use. (I use anti-bacterial wipes as well!).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow if you are interested!

The Master Kink Bondage Rope:
Modesty Rating:
 7 out of 10 (though yet to be tested fully).
Pros: Soft and just the right thickness for beginners-play!
Cons: Yet to be tested fully.
Material: Cotton.
Measurements: Length 33 feet; Diameter 1/3 inch.
Colour: Black.
After-care: Machine washable (in mesh laundry bag).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Master Kink Bondage Rope
The Modesty Video Review: I think there may be one coming within the next month! LOL!!!

 

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Additional links: Pink B.O.B. at Twitter ; Pink B.O.B at Instagram . . . and I also do recommend you browse the lovely Pink B.O.B. blog pages for Helpful Hints, Tips and Tricks, and How-To-Guides!!!

The Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag and Bondage Rope were sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Laying the table #sinfulsunday

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Laying the table for the final #mistressmodestyablaze session of the month
. . . and a very sinful session it was too.

And if you . . . gently and responsibly please . . . smack the lips below, I’m sure you will discover lots more sinful sessions this Sunday!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Fetish Wail of a Sale @UberKinky

MistressModestyTableIf you’ve joined me here before you will know how impressed I always am with the Fetish Wear and Impact and Bondage items I have ordered from my favourite fetish store, Uberkinky.

UberkinkyRestraintsAnd . . . of course . . . if you have joined me at one of my dungeon sessions over the past year, you will have no-doubt experienced some of those Impact and Bondage items at first-hand! LOL!!!

And . . . you are sure to have told me just how much you enjoyed the experience!!!

UberkinkyDildosIn my view Uberkinky –  “it’s not a fetish it’s a way of life” – offers simply the best quality, and best customer service of any of the (numerous) on-line suppliers I have dealt with over the past few years.

Their products are always well made, packaged tidily and discreetly, and delivered quickly.

AND . . . as you will have no doubt gathered from my post title . . . they are currently offering some exciting savings on their already wonderfully reasonable prices.

UberkinkyDeliveryAND . . . are also offering FREE Royal Mail 24 delivery when you order items over £20 in total.

UberkinkyVibratorsI can’t recommend Uberkinky enough and I encourage you . . . no, actually COMMAND you . . . to visit them now, quickly and without fail!!!

There is more information on some of their most popular categories from the links in this post . . . and, of course . . . if you’d like to invite me to join you in trying them out, you just simply have to ask and I will consult my dungeon-diary!!!

UberkinkyMachinesHave fun . . . Kinky fun . . . at Uberkinky.

And if you’d like to read more about my thoughts on some of the items I, along with some of my submissives, have recently “tested” . . . you can do so by clicking the images below.

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Thanks and kisses to Vinylman1 for my “Mistress Modesty Ablaze Table” picture above.

Xxx – Mistress Modesty Ablaze

 

 

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How to . . . dress appropriately #wickedwednesday

In my teens I was always being chastised for “not dressing appropriately” . . .
so, of course, that always made me want to find something even more inappropriate to wear!!!

InappOneFinalSo imagine my delight when I recently discovered the wonderful Inappropriately Dressed website . . . and it’s amazing collection of sexy and revealing Lingerie, Corsets, Hosiery . . . and, of course, the most interesting for me . . . outrageously Sexy Clubwear!!!

InappTwoFinalAs you can see above and below, I’ve already bought several outfits. This montage is from just two Fridays ago trying to decide what to wear for our visit to Torture Garden that evening. Can you guess which one I went for in the end?

InappThreeSo, if like me, you can never have too many dresses or body-stockings in your wardrobe, I would certainly recommend you browsing the pages of Inappropriately Dressed . . . they have a huge range of items and accessories to choose from and I know I will certainly be returning for more!!!

You can also find even more from the Inappropriately Dressed range >here< or from their Facebook page >here<.

For more appropriate, or possibly inappropriate, “How To’s” this Wicked Wednesday, simply click the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

Oh, and P.S. – If you’d like to see more photographs of a particular outfit just let me know and I will see what I can do !!!

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