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If you are a regular visitor here you will know that I have always been interested in erotic fetish and bondage art and photography. But over the past year or so I have gradually discovered that I actually enjoy some of the physical aspects of fetish and bondage as well.

Lover 14 was the first of my lovers to talk quite openly about his interests and experiences in the lifestyle and my curiosity and my own desire was immediately aroused by his encouragement . . . and ever present bag of tricks!

Initially Hubby wasn’t quite so keen to indulge as I was, but after watching and videoing those first few experimental occasions he surprised both of us by becoming more and involved as time went by. And we were soon enjoying our own spanking and bondage sessions at home alone!

At first I was the submissive in my adventures with Lover 14, but I soon found I also enjoyed “switching” and playing the dominatrix role as well. So much so, that after meeting Madame Caramel late last year I instructed Hubby to book the Hoxton Dungeon Suite for an evening . . . and invited Lover 14 as a special guest.

So, late in February, for my Valentines gift, we booked ourselves in . . . and the three of us had an absolutely amazing, and exhausting, fun time!!!

The Dungeon Suite is a little difficult to find, but then “you would expect it to be that way” I chastised Hubby as he struggled with the chattering and confused Satnav directions! However, a quick phone call to the contact number we’d been given quickly resolved our problems.

We were pleasantly surprised to be welcomed by Madame Caramel herself and she gave us a short tour of the rooms . . . and an explanation of some of the quite incredible array of implements and toys.

The suite itself comprises of a “normal” bathroom and small kitchen area with microwave, hob and oven, and a well-stocked fridge . . . and a bedroom with a comfortable double-bed. But it was, of course, the playrooms that we were most interested in!!!

Welcome to The Red Room!!!

Madame described the The Red Room as “Mistresses waiting room” where the submissives should begin their worship and attending to their preparations. We glanced across at the Standing Cage already thinking of possibilities . . . and then with incredulity at the glass cabinet full of clamps, weights, screws and apparatus of all shapes, sizes and materials. The Red Room also has an exciting selection of garments and outfits, from rubber suits, maids outfits and dresses that had me making a mental note to return to browse further!!!

We were then, excitingly, led through to the dungeons Main Room . . . a jaw-dropping panorama of the sort of bondage equipment, whips, chains, restraints and toys, the like of which I had probably imagined, but never expected to see, or touch or feel!!!

Madame explained the “house rules” and the safety aspects of some of the more unfamiliar toys and equipment, pointed out the condom containers (we had brought our own, but “just in case we run-out”) and explained how we must place all the toys we used into a large container so that they may be properly cleaned after our departure. Then with flourishing kisses and farewells . . . we were left to our own devices.

Oh, and what devices!!! . . . there were so many choices it was difficult to know just where to start, but of course, it didn’t take us too long at all . . .

The St. Andrews Cross

I’d often fantasised about a St. Andrews Cross but never thought I’d have the opportunity of trying the real thing. But over the next few hours, all three of us found ourselves strapped in position, for varying lengths of time (LOL!!!) and experiencing the delights (???) of being both master and submissive.

I was chosen to be the first though! Gently teased with soft strokes from canes and paddles . . . feeling the tightness and grip of nipple clamps and weights, and then the rising crescendo of a flogging whip. Before being caressed and stroked . . . and then pumped and pounded . . . to the first of countless orgasms.

After which I needed time to recover the feeling in my arms and legs . . . and what better way to unwind than by sitting on the Queening Box and ordering my submissives to enjoy and share in my relieving relaxation! (And guess who was the first???)

Resting, relaxing and unwinding on the Queening Box . . .

Then it was Lover 14’s turn to be strapped to the Cross so that I could enjoy administering some fun of my own. Of course he coped admirably! By the time we released him I was glowing and tingling almost as much as he was and couldn’t wait to offer myself to be strapped over the whipping bench for the next round of pampering, teasing, spanking and fucking from both of my attentive and willing dommes.

Over the course of the next few hours we indulged in just a tiny few of the available ropes and chains, cuffs and restraints, canes, paddles, whips and masks. We moved from the bench, to bondage chair and then onto the top of the padded cage and suspension frame . . . playing, with various rest and recovery breaks of course, until well into the early hours of the morning, each of us collapsing exhausted but completely satiated.

Until the morning! When, after refreshing and revitalising croissants and juices, we returned to the Main Room for several more hours indulgence and discovering new toys we’d missed the night before.

Browsing one of the racks in the Main Room!!!

And we STILL didn’t even scratch the surface of all the things that are available. Not that everything there was of interest of course! It is always a case of personal preference isn’t it . . . and there were some instruments on display that looked positively scary and definitely not for us.

But if you have even just a passing interest in bondage and fetish you will know that it is often the expectation and the anticipation of trying something new that can be the strongest and most exciting emotion. And just being sensible and respectful of each of our interests and desires . . . and ones “safe words” . . . is the most important point to remember amidst all of the excitement.

Ooohh . . . Spoilt for choice!!!

I hope our pictures will give a flavour of just how much we all enjoyed ourselves . . . (and there will be some more private pictures at my Balcony Members page in the next few days) . . . but there is also a plethora of information on the Dungeon and a complete list of all the equipment and toys, including a floor-plan and Picture Gallery at their excellent website. All the equipment is professionally made, clean and maintained to the highest standard . . . and the sheer number and range of toys and accessories simply has to be seen to be believed.

So, if you’ve ever dreamed about exploring the wilder side of your bondage fantasies, or wondered what it really feels like to be strapped onto a St. Andrews Cross, or locked into a submissives cage . . . or indulge in almost any naughty play you could possibly imagine . . . then I am sure you would love The Hoxton Dungeon Suite. We will definitely be returning . . . just to try all the things we didn’t have the time to experience on this occasion!

There is more information about the Dungeon Suite from the official link below . . . and just so you know . . . I actually ordered Hubby to pay for our booking . . .  so my review is based completely on my own, unbiased, experiences!!!

July 2014 Update: I do now have a new video at MakeLoveNotPorn featuring just some of the fun, and some of the toys, at the Hoxton Dungeon. More information at my MLNP page (just scroll down to Video  No. 10) . . . plus I have a little video teaser >here<!!!

Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
When: February 2014
Pros: The perfect place to actually experience all of your wildest fantasies.
Cons: Completely exhausting!!! (So glad we booked a Friday evening as I couldn’t possibly have worked the next day).
Location: London
Transport: Close to overground rail and London Underground Tube stations. If travelling by car (as we did) you can request a parking permit for close, localised parking.
Official Website: The Hoxton Dungeon Suite

P.S. You can find out more about me at my Mistress Modesty Ablaze page >here<.

Important Rider:  Please play Safely and Responsibly !!!

Xxx – K