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A Modest Fantasy #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Tisbury One June 2019

We all have dreams . . . dreams and fantasies . . . and you probably won’t be surprised to hear that, for as long as I can remember, mine have usually been of the erotic, or sexual, variety.

And I’ve been very lucky over the past three decades, to have been able to indulge in, and live-out, many of those fantasies in real life.

They haven’t all been as wildly successful or fulfilling as in my dreams of course
. . . but many of them have!

And certainly one of my earliest fantasies from my early teens, after reading magazine articles and gazing at steamy photos of glamorous and sexy starlets of stage and screen . . . or perhaps of a wilful “model” exposed after some scandalous liaison or “ménage à trois” . . . was that I dreamt of having photos
of my own. Just like that.

Scandalous, erotic, naughty . . . and unashamedly . . . sexy !!!

Well, life has a way of offering opportunities to explore one’s fantasies doesn’t it! And, as my modesty slowly smouldered and, gradually, blazed and . . . eventually . . . exploded into my pages here, suddenly I found myself in a situation where I was able to indulge in my “photo-shoot” fantasy from all those years ago.

It was at Eroticon 2013 . . . my first visit . . . “Oh look”, I said to Hubby “there’s a session on ‘Erotic Photography’ by a John Tisbury. I know your Polaroids are fun, but . . .”

We’d not heard of John before, but from the moment his first photo appeared on the screen behind him, I was transfixed. I wanted to ask him more as his session ended . . . but lost my nerve.

But later in the day, during one of the mid-session breaks, I noticed John pouring himself a coffee . . . so dragging Hubby across the room with me, I strode over to introduce myself . . . and ask if he did private commissions.

Taking Hubby (and myself) totally by surprise, I said to John “I’d like to book a session please . . . Hubby will treat me for my birthday. It’s a special one . . . no, not my 30th.”

So, some weeks later, we spent an absolutely lovely afternoon in John’s wonderful studio, fulfilling yet another of my fantasies! And I enjoyed every minute of it, and every single photo from the session. He really is the loveliest man, and most wonderful photographer one could ever wish to meet.

I felt instantly at ease in his company and absolutely thrilled with the results . . . and if any of you have ever had similar fantasies of indulging in an erotic photo-shoot of your own, I would suggest you visit John’s website and book a session. Right now . . . and I’m sure you will never regret it.

Modesty Ablaze Tisbury Two June 2019

It should be obvious, of course, that the photos above . . . and my Slideshow are from John’s session that day!!!

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Xxx- K

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A Modest Run Rate #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 1

As you may remember, I’ve begun to familiarise myself with the game of cricket over the past year. Especially after being told so many times how skilled I am with bats and balls. And, as we are presently hosting the Cricket World Cup,
I thought I would explain some of the basic rules and procedures necessary for one to enjoy the game to it’s fullest extent.

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 2

Firstly, let’s practice in the nets. I normally prefer mine in black of course, but that would hardly be appropriate apparel . . . and would definitely be considered as un-sportsmanlike behaviour . . . which I always try to avoid.

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 3

However, one’s stance can often be used to upset the bowlers concentration,
and try to put him off his stride . . . referred to as “sledging” !!! Mmm . . .

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 4

Which may have the affect of him bowling a “wide”, which the umpire (that quiet gentleman standing nearby in a hat and white blazer), will signal by making a gesture like this . . . well not exactly like this! (He always keeps his blazer on).

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 5

Or, if he makes a gesture like this, it means the bowler has taken one step too far
. . . and it’s ruled as a “no ball” . . . or a “free hit” to you and me . . . and I always enjoy free-hits!

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 6

And both arms held wide like this, signifies that the bats-person has whacked the ball so hard . . . and I do love whacking balls really, really hard . . . that it has scored a “six” (so obviously, that’s where “six of the best” has come from then!)

By the way, these white-boards-on-wheels that I’m standing in front of, are called Sight Screens and are to help us bats-people see the bowlers balls more clearly . . . they’ve cleverly thought of everything haven’t they!

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 7

So let’s leave the boundary and stroll out into the middle . . . as you can see, the covers are completely off . . . so they are not expecting a “sticky wicket” today.

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 8

But let me tell you . . . once I’ve enjoyed a few overs . . . things may get just a little sticky later on. And I don’t mean if rain stops play!!!

Modesty Ablaze Cricket 9

So there you have it . . . I do hope that my short introduction has given a
better appreciation of what is happening when you hear that wonderful sharp smacking sound . . . of bat on balls . . . whether it is on the local village green, or on this summer’s television screens.

There will probably be lots more whacking sights and sounds, to be found at
this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently smacking the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – I don’t think there is a “Cricket Pitch” category at
Jade’s fun Scavenger Hunt pages just yet, so I’m hoping that this may
start something new.

There are lots more of my Scavenger Hunt excursions at my
Listings page . . . where there are now over 120 different locations.
Most of which are on my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Hunt pages

Xxx – K

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Modest Landmarks to Laugh at #wickedwednesday #F4TFriday

Modesty Ablaze Curtains 1988
Modesty Ablaze Curtains – 1988

This week’s prompt of “Laughter” at Wicked Wednesday . . . and of “Landmarks” at Food For Thought Friday . . . just seem to fit so well together that I couldn’t resist re-posting my thoughts from a previous Wicked Wednesday post a few years ago.

I’ve always thought it’s important to be able to laugh at oneself from time-to-time, and I always try to not take things too seriously. And memories from many of those landmark moments often bring giggles and laughter.

So, recalling personal landmarks from my Modesty Ablaze timeline over the years:

From my Seventy-Teenies:
Rebelling from Catholic school tie and gymslips by day, to punk rocker by night down in deepest darkest Soho. I will never be old. Meet a boy with strange accent . . . a little older? Just a little. But . . . he works in the bar at the Marquee club in Wardour Street. Free tickets, free drinks at the bar! He likes me! The Clash, Siouxsie, The Damned, The Jam . . . wild times, wild nights. I’ll never grow old!

To my Eighty-Twenties:
I’ll never grow old. Leaving school. New job. Same boy, think he likes me. Summer holidays, island hopping Greek Islands. Different job. Same boy, think I like him. Flying to the bottom half of the world. I’ll never grow old! Returning home. Leaving home. Sinful living, same boy, we like each other. I’m never growing old, in fact I’m feeling younger.

And my Eighty-MidTwenties (almost):
Same boy. He loves me, I love him. White Wedding. Route 66, Everglades, Sunsets over Key West. I’ll never grow old! In fact, I’m feeling younger.

To my Ninety-Twenties:
New home. Same boy. Children. Love them. Suddenly . . . I’m getting older.

And my Two Thousand Thirties:
School run mornings. Back to work. Office affair. Oh God, what’s happening? I’m a wife, a mother, I should be being responsible, I’m not a youngster anymore. What to do? Must stop, can’t stop. Come clean to same boy. He says he knows already! He understands, he loves me. He thinks it’s fun. He doesn’t mind. I love him. I’m never growing old, in fact I’m feeling younger.

Oh suddenly it’s Two Thousand Forties:
Same boy. New job. New affair(s). Oh God. Can’t stop. Never growing old, in fact feeling younger.

And my Two Thousand Mid-Forties:
Same boy. Swinging fun, such fun. Three-somes, Four-somes, More-somes.
Oh God. Can’t stop. Never growing old, in fact feeling even younger.

To my Two Thousand Fifties:
Same boy. More fun, such fun. FemDom, Mistressing, Crops & Canes. Can’t stop. Won’t stop. Too much fun to stop.
I can’t possibly be getting old, in fact I’m feeling younger, ever younger.

To the years flying by to Two Thousand Mid-Fifties:
Same boy. Lots more fun, new friends, more whips & strap-ons. Don’t want to stop. Hoping it won’t stop. Too much fun to stop. Years seem to pass ever quicker . . . but I’m still feeling younger, wanting younger!

Do I have any goals / landmarks still to achieve?

Oooh . . . never to let an opportunity pass by !!!

Modesty Ablaze Curtains 2019
Modesty Ablaze Curtains – 2019

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Xxx- K

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Modestly Yellow #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Yellow Fields 1

“Well, if you want to walk all the way to the end, you’ll have to bring our clothes with you. Roll them up and tuck them under your arm”.

Modesty Ablaze Yellow Fields 2

“Yes they do smell . . . but I don’t really like it. Smells a bit like pee to me!”

Modesty Ablaze Yellow Fields 3

“Oooh . . . it does feel rather nice . . . nice and tingly actually!”

Modesty Ablaze Yellow Fields 4

“Don’t worry about my bits . . . you’re far more likely to get tangled-up than I am . . . especially if you don’t calm down a bit!”

Modesty Ablaze Yellow Fields 5

“It’s just as well neither of us suffer from hayfever isn’t it?”

Modesty Ablaze Yellow Fields 6

“It’s just fields of yellow whichever way you look . . . we could get lost!!!”

I’m sure there will be lots more tingling, and possibly tangling, to be found at this week’s Sinful Sunday from smelling the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – As I already have Fields in my Scavenger Hunt listings I have added today’s hike to my Exposé Vŭ pages instead.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modest Photos #F4TFriday

Modesty Ablaze Real Estate Signs 2019

I mentioned in last week’s Food For Thought Friday how I discovered several wonderful websites that inspired me to publish my own life experiences here as Modesty Ablaze.

And one of those websites, Sinful Sunday, instantly appealed with it’s weekly theme of erotic, sexy, photos and images . . . which fits perfectly with this week’s questions at #F4TFriday.

What are your motivations for taking sexy photos?

I suppose I’ve always been a bit of an exhibitionist . . . a quite “shy” one of course . . . but even in the earliest days of our relationship, I would tease Hubby with some flashing fun, or mock-model “poses”.

He quickly started capturing those fun moments with his camera . . . hence my Polaroids Past archives from which I occasionally publish our fun photographic memories here.

Modesty Ablaze Polaroids Past

Who are you taking them for? Who is your primary audience?

We’ve always had fun with taking our photos, so primarily we’ve always taken them for us. But as Modesty Ablaze started to “blossom” . . . and particularly since discovering Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt . . . we found it actually added to our fun to know our photo-flings would, in many cases, (not all !!!), end-up here.

What challenges do you face/overcome when taking such photos? What lengths have you gone to to get “that” shot?

For our Scavenger Hunt photos, I’d say the “challenge” is more about the thrill of actually being naked, or semi-naked, in public. That’s what makes it such fun! One does have to be prepared of course, and sometimes we have stumbled upon a particular location when I haven’t been dressed appropriately and we have then added it to our “must return” list. But Hubby almost always has his small camera with him, and there have been occasions when some of our most fun Scavengers have been quite spontaneous and spur-of-the-moment. (Bikes and Last Post for example).

Modesty Ablaze Bike Rack
Modesty Ablaze Post Box

How did you feel the first time you sent/posted a sexy photo?

Naughty, nervous . . . tingly-thrilling!!!

What are your limits in terms of what you would/wouldn’t show/do in a photo you share?

I try to make everything fun and enjoyable. If it’s not either of those things for me, then I would certainly stop doing it . . . and certainly not share them here or anywhere.

Have there ever been any awkward/embarrassing moments (e.g. getting caught in the act) when taking your photos?

There have been lots of awkward moments in the sense of trying to be sure to not offend other people. Perhaps the most awkward of which was the Abridged crossing as it was very busy that day.

Modesty Ablaze on the Bridge

But my only really embarrassing moment was during my Sunday Stroll on the Heath with my lovely friend She Lover. After several “test snaps” we’d sat down on a bench with our coffee, having just been passed by an elderly couple who seemed to be giving us long, rather disapproving stares, when I suddenly realised I’d forgotten to re-button my blouse.

Modesty Ablaze on Hampstead Heath

So from my point of view, I hope the photos I share will always make people giggle, smile . . . laugh even (with me, or at me I really don’t mind) . . . and hopefully make them feel a little happier than when they arrived!!!

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me a Glass Members . . . Update

Modesty Ablaze Naked Beach Stroll

As I said, in my May news-post, I’m always open to themes and suggestions for my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members content. So, for the gentleman who requested “more holiday snaps”, I have added a short bonus video from last summer strolling along my favourite beach!

I haven’t decided on next month’s content just yet . . . so you still have time to add special requests to the suggestions box, and I will see what I can do.

But, in the meantime, enjoy !!!


As before, if you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, you may log-in with your Members Password details >here< . . . or, there is more information on how to subscribe, >here<.

I realise they may not always be to everyone’s tastes . . . but as I always say . . . as long as it’s fun and completely consensual, I will certainly consider all of your themes and suggestions.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Hat #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Top Hat 1

I don’t often wear hats but I am drawn to unusual, or different, designs. So I enjoyed coming across this rather fun “Top Hat” on a recent excursion.

I’d only just taken off my dress, whilst waiting for Hubby to get his camera ready, when I saw other walkers emerging on the path over his shoulder. Lots and lots of other walkers actually! So I quickly ducked behind the tree, slipped my dress back on, and told Hubby he’d have to catch me up as I strode off ahead of him.

Modesty Ablaze Top Hat 2

Luckily though, the path wasn’t quite so busy later on when we walked back towards the car park . . . so we had time for a more relaxed pose!

To discover what Sinful fun other people have been up to this weekend,
simply tap on the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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A Modest Pumphouse #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Pumphouse 1

“Actually that noise isn’t coming from this Tractor” I said to Hubby.
“It’s from inside that building”.

Modesty Ablaze Pumphouse 2

“Oh look . . . it’s a ‘Pump House’.” I giggled as we neared the doorway.

Modesty Ablaze Pumphouse 3

“It’s not the sort of pumping you’re thinking” Hubby said as he read the plaque outside. “It was the old Water Pumping Station that serviced the city in the late 1800’s. Let’s take a look.” he said excitedly.

Modesty Ablaze Pumphouse 4

“The Flywheel weighs 16 tonne and used to pump up to 13,600 cubic metres of water per day” he shouted across the viewing gallery.
“I can’t hear you properly over this noise” I shouted back. “But it’s certainly pumping out lots of hot air!”

Modesty Ablaze Pumphouse 5

“Whoo . . . I’ve come over all sticky” I said as I walked round to join him.
“Come on, let’s go back outside, this constant noise is getting unbearable.”

Modesty Ablaze Pumphouse 6

“Gosh, it’s like standing on top of a huge, shuddering, vibrator isn’t it.” I shouted out, “I wouldn’t have been able to control myself being stuck in here all day!!!”

But, as you may remember, I do like getting up-close to big equipment occasionally . . . at least for a little while.

Anyway for more pumping . . . and panting . . . at this week’s Sinful Sunday, just tap the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – I believe there is a “Pump Station” category at Jade’s fun
Scavenger Hunt pages, so I’m hoping to add this recent visit there.

There are more of my Scavenger Hunt visits to remember at my
Listings page . . . where there are now over 120 different locations.
Most of which are on my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Hunt pages

Xxx – K

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Modestly Abandoned 4 #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Barbeque 1

“No we can’t take it home with us!” Hubby laughed. “It probably doesn’t even work. And anyway, it’s far too big!”

Modesty Ablaze Barbeque 2

“But you know how much I love big ones!” I teased. “And it’s all nice and shiny!”

Modesty Ablaze Barbeque 3

“It looks freshly cleaned and well looked after too. I think it’s only just been dumped here you know.”

Modesty Ablaze Barbeque 4

“Oooh . . . this lid is quite heavy. I could have lots more fun than just cooking things with this!!!”

Modesty Ablaze Barbeque 5

“And look at this . . . a new spanking brush!” I giggled as I searched through the shelves underneath.

Modesty Ablaze Barbeque 6

“Perhaps we could wave down a passing van to help get it back to ours.”

For lots more Sinful Abandonment this weekend, simply tap on the
Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – On this occasion, Hubby couldn’t be persuaded, so we carried on
with our walk. But I have at least added our discovery to the
Abandoned Furniture list at my Exposé Vŭ pages.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Pour Me a Glass of Wine . . . April

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me a Glass of Wine April Newsletter

My “Pour Me A Glass of Wine” members page is being updated a few days early for next month as Wi-Fi access may not be possible for the next week or so
. . . and I shall probably be far too “busy” to attend to emails and updates . . . busy having fun of course!!!

So, for that reason, I thought rather than sending out my month-in-review emails as normal, I would add it here as a news post update instead. Less personal I know . . . but hopefully you will understand and forgive my naughtiness. And I’m hoping that my week’s endeavours should give me lots more fun to share with you for next month!

Anyway, back to some Marvellous March memories . . . just in case you may have missed some of them.


And, as is only appropriate for Pour Me A Glass Members, my Wine Tasting moments in the Wine Cave on March 9 brought back wonderful memories . . . because when I picked up a leaflet at our hotel advertising a “Wine Tasting Tour at a nearby Winery”, I just couldn’t resist !!! >>> Read more >>>


A Modest Hook-Up – I’m often asked when a new edition of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries” will be published. Well, I am still working on compiling a follow-up to Modesty Unmasked, but my post on March 26 featured the start of one chapter from that next edition >>> Read more >>>


I always struggle with the photo prompts at Sinful Sunday. But reading Molly’s instructions over again for the March prompt, it suddenly struck me that my Double Domme Session with Mistress Luscious – March 2 – would be perfect! >>> Read more >>>


A new Wishlist !!! – I know that several of you have already been kind enough to gift me something from my new “Dress me as you wish-list” at BrightenMyDay which I absolutely adore. And I’ve also had lots of suggestions for more items that I should add. I will do this as soon as I can, but please be patient, as with all my clothes shopping, I like to browse and take my time!
But yes, I promise I will try to email you photos of my wearing them, just as soon as they are received!!! >>> Read more >>>


So I hope you will enjoy this month’s video clip and photo-gallery.

I realise it may not be to everyone’s tastes . . . but as I always say . . . as long as it’s fun and completely consensual, I will certainly consider your themes and suggestions.

Enjoy . . . and thank you so much once again for spoiling me here . . . and helping me keep my glass full !!!

Xxx – K

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