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Modest Rules & Punishment #sinfulsunday

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Originally posted for Kink of the Week around the beginning of 2022, but subsequently lost from my pages here during my “semi-retirement”. (See Modestly Returning from April 2024).

You may be surprised when I tell you that I’ve always believed in following “the rules” … I was brought up a good Catholic girl after all. So ones conduct and adhering to the principles and codes of acceptable behaviour was ingrained, and in my younger years at least, unquestioned.

As was the notion that should one stray, chastisement and punishment was always bound to follow … in some form or another.

And so of course, it was almost second-nature for me to carry those principles forward as part of my Mistress Modesty persona.

And yet, such is the incongruous nature of the world of kink and fetish that one often finds oneself in, that “punishment” turns out to be a much sought after … and most enjoyable of passions … for all of those involved!!!

So my rule today is to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by smacking the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Garden Shade #boobday 376

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Happy, warming #boobday memories from this past summer lounging on our garden patio.

Oh how I wish I could be out there, enjoying some warming-sun right now!!!

And please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Why – Questions Asked?

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Re-published in January 2025, (from my original post in August of 2019), as part of my, then regular, #Wicked Wednesday and #Food4Thought blog-site memes (both sadly now retired). But as I still receive occasional email questions such as “what motivates you to keep blogging”, I thought it relevant to re-post here once again.

This week’s theme at Food 4 Thought Friday asks “The Why of Blogging” and in particular, “What is it that compels you to write?”

I have posted before . . . in July 2014 actually . . . on how Modesty Ablaze first came about in my Past, Present and Why I Blog” Wicked Wednesday post. But as to the how’s and why’s of continuing to post???

Well . . . I suppose it is partly because my pages here allow me to indulge my exhibitionist streak . . . though in “real life” I am actually quite shy and reserved.

But it is also because, despite often worrying that people will surely get bored with my constant “holiday snaps”, I do get so many emails from people asking for more.

No I don’t mean, just asking for more naked photos . . . I mean asking more about my lifestyle, my “kinks”, my experiences . . . and my thoughts on all sorts of relationship or personal issues.

And I often feel guilty that I just can’t seem to find the time these days, to answer all of those messages personally.

So . . . being a more “visual” person, rather than being able to easily communicate my thoughts in words . . . I hope that my occasional photo-posts here express my core belief that above all else, we should always be true to ourselves . . . and always be just who we want to be !!!

And so that is what “compels” me to keep posting . . . as often as time allows . . . here at Modesty Ablaze.

For more Core beliefs, at this week’s Wicked Wednesday, and more Why’s
at Food For Thought Friday simply click on the buttons below.

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Xxx- K

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Mistresses Cock Watch #sinfulsunday

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“Yes, it is a swatch watch actually!” I told him as I tightened the strap around his shaft. “And I’m going to activate the stop-watch to time how long it stays on before you drop-it”.

“Perhaps if you try to concentrate on what sort of reward may be in store, then you may be able to hold it on for longer”!!!

And I hope you will all take the time to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by stroking the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Boobday Shower Trio #boobday 375

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For last Friday’s #boobday posting I shared a photo of myself and my lovely friend SheLover.

And … what could be better than the two of us enjoying some sexy-soapy-fun you may have asked?

Well … being joined by the equally lovely HeLover as well of course!!!

And if you use the Search Button here on my site and type-in HeLover … you may well find several more occasions that he’s joined us for some 3-some fun as well!!!

Don’t forget to let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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New Year’s Morning #sinfulsunday

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I think it’s been sometime since I last celebrated a New Years morning with a proper toast!

And as it was … surprisingly … mild this New Year’s morning, I thought I’d pop out into the garden and do it again!!!

Especially as this weekend’s prompt at Sinful Sunday just happens to be “Good Morning” … so take a sip from the lovely lips below to view some other morning celebrations!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Boobday Shower Duo #boobday 374

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Two weeks ago I enjoyed a solo #boobday shower. But for today’s #boobday Friday I thought I’d share that same shower with my beautiful friend, the wonderful SheLover!!!

She’s been featured here on my blog many, many times before of course … including recently showing off her Full Denim Jacket.

But on numerous occasions previously such as the Lovely Support … and Boobday Duo.

And if you use the Search Button here on my site and type-in SheLover … you’ll find many more fun occasions as well!!!

Do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Virginial #sinfulsunday

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As I mentioned in my #boobday posting yesterday, I’m a “virgin cruiser” … but Hubby and I are, surprisingly, thoroughly enjoying our new experiences!!!

Especially returning to our cabin each day to find a new, and wonderfully creative, towel arrangement waiting for us at the foot of our bed.

For lots more sinfully fun arrangements at this week’s Sinful Sunday, just kiss the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Boobday Camel #boobday 373

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One of the fun discoveries of being “virgin cruisers” … has been returning to our cabin each day to find fresh and folded towels, in a different arrangement every day!!!

And today’s morrocan camel seemed just perfect for a #boobday Friday post … don’t you think?

And do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Purplexed #sinfulsunday

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“Mmm … now let me see. What shall I do with this lovely canvas???” I teased, as I slid my hand over his smooth bottom!!!

For lots more possible “questions and answers” at this week’s Sinful Sunday, gently stroke the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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