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Modest Sporting Moments #F4T

We all enjoy sports of one kind or another don’t we? Even if, like me, one is never likely to become a champion. It is still fun to imagine from time-to-time. You know what I mean . . . to grasp bat and ball(s), to swish and swing a club or racquet, to stride across the green, to grace one’s local football stadium . . .

  • Modesty Ablaze at the Football Stadium

As this week’s theme at Food For Thought is all about “Sports”, I thought it would be fun to share some of my sporty-memories from the past few years.
For lots more Sporting Moments tap the F4T button below.

Food For Thought Friday

Xxx- K

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A Modest Ice-Lolly #sinfulsunday

One of the many fun things I’ve learnt from the past eight years of setting my Modesty Ablaze here, is the wonderfully diverse range of sinfully
fun activities and experiences, that so many of us enjoy.


And over the course of those eight years . . . as I’m sure you can imagine . . .
I’ve had lots and lots of “requests” to share my own photos and videos of all sorts of kinky fun and quirky desires.


Such as . . . sucking on ice-lollies for example !!!

For lots more sinfully kinky fun . . . and quirky desires . . . just tap
the Sinful Sunday lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Another … February #PMAGW

Mistresses Holiday Shower

February is a short month . . . and I already know from my appointments book, that it’s going to be even busier than ever.

So I thought I would quickly add a Pour Me A Glass Members Update today whilst I have some spare moments. And this post is especially for Kevin who requested “more holiday nakedness” !!!

And although it’s not out on the beach Kevin, it’s still from my lovely holiday last summer . . . and it’s definitely “naked fun” . . . so hopefully you will enjoy!!!

So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy all of this month’s new clips and photos still to come.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – February 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze February 20 Pour Me A Glass Members photo.

Well, I don’t know about you, but the first few weeks of the year just flew-by for me . . . and it’s time already for a review of some of my January fun. And to tell you about my new, exclusive, Pour Me A Glass Members first video and photo-gallery for February.

Now it’s always lovely to receive nice comments about the videos and photos on my Members page . . . but I must say I’ve never had so many wonderful, and gushing comments before, as I received about January’s Wet & Noisy with Lover 19. I’m so glad you all enjoyed it . . . and, yes of course I’m delighted to post Part Two of that amazing evening, as this months exclusive first video.

And I say “first” because you all seemed to ALSO enjoy the other two videos I posted during the month . . . A Really, Really Quick Cum and An Impromptu ( well, I don’t like to swear out loud . . . but I’m sure you can guess what sort of “Impromptu” I mean).

So, anyway, yes I promise I will post some more of those “really-loud” videos (as one of you called them), during the cumming month as well.

For my Members Photo Gallery this month, I thought I would make a change from my “naked on the beach gallery” of January, and come back indoors for some kinky “plastic-suckers” fun, that I so enjoyed with Lover No. 14 some years ago now.

They have never been posted before as Hubby was concerned the low hotel room lighting wasn’t very clear. But it was lots of fun . . . and I’ve always rather like them, so let me know what YOU think !!!

So I hope you will enjoy both this exclusive video . . . and the photo-gallery . . . and do keep checking back at my pages here for updates of more exclusive content during the month.

And don’t forget that I always enjoying receiving your requests asking for particular themes or fetishes, so don’t be too shy to ask !!!


Modesty Ablaze Mixing Holiday Cocktails

So . . . looking back on my postings here during January . . . I had two new #realworldsex videos published on my Make Love Not Porn profile.
I have previously uploaded exclusive excerpts from the first one, Mixing A Special Holiday Cocktail, to my Pour Me A Glass Members page
in November.
So I knew from some of the messages I received then, that our naughty fun would be enjoyed by more than just Hubby and I.

And the second Make Love Not Porn film, Dragons Tail Pt3, has already been very popular there – which is always nice to know. >>> Read more >>> or
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Modesty Ablaze sinfully Shadowy

My first Sinful Sunday of January was “Modestly Shadowy”. Which, because of our freezing weather here in London at the time, had me longing for the wonderful warm, relaxing evenings of my summer holiday balcony.
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Making Modesty Ablaze Appointments

I’ve mentioned on lots of occasions recently, just how busy things have been over the past year, and my “Trying to Manage My Modest Appointments” posting, was a brief opportunity to reflect and relax with a gift of a rather nice bottle of champagne.
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Modestly Blushed at Boobday Friday

I said last month that I’d been neglecting my Boobday postings … and I’m sad to say that I only managed one during January. But “Modesty Blushed” did at least illustrate one of the reasons I have been so busy. And, as one gentleman mentioned, it is a rather . . . “Nipple-licious” . . . picture I think.
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Modesty Ablaze Polaroids Past

My last post of the month was a very special one for me, as the lovely Marie Rebel celebrated 400 posts of her Wicked Wednesday meme.
And, as I mentioned in my “Modest Wicked Wednesdays Past” it was a specific posting on her meme in 2014 that prompted me to start my “Polaroids Past” photo gallery. And I’m hoping to still be joining all the other wonderful bloggers, posting to Marie’s page for the next 400 !!! >>> Read more >>>


So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Modest #wickedwednesday’s Past

Modesty Ablaze Polaroids Past sauna
Modesty Ablaze – Hot tub – 1988

I’ve never been very good at numbers, and as some of you may have noticed,
I got my numbering wrong again for last Wednesday’s Wicked posting.
It wasn’t the 400th edition of Marie’s Wicked Wednesday then at all,
it was the 399th!!!

But I’m sure I have done my adding-up correctly now, which means it really is the 400th edition this week.

Now 400 editions is a massive landmark in any genre, but in the context of the Sex Blogging Community it is even more so. And Marie’s website will always hold a very special place in my heart, as her’s was one of the very first websites I discovered when I began my own tentative steps into publishing myself here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com, and she has remained a constant source of inspiration ever since.

And, it was a Wicked Wednesday post about Polaroids, in August of 2014, that reminded me of all of my “private” Polaroid Photo Albums hidden-away on the top shelf of our bedroom wardrobe . . . which prompted me to begin my Polaroids Past series.

It was of course a great honour to have Marie subsequently add two of her own lovely photos (see below) to my “Polaroids Past” slide-show collection.

Marie at Polaroids Past
Marie Rebelle’s Splash of Red 2009

So it is always a great joy to visit Wicked Wednesday every week . . . and
I certainly hope to keep doing so for another 400 editions, and more!!!

And I urge you to do the same by pushing the Wicked Wednesday
button below.

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me Mid-January . . . #PMAGW

Goodness we are already almost half way through the first month of 2020.
And I hope you have been having as much fun as I have these first two weeks into the New Year.

Now, I know from all the messages that I received immediately after my Lover No.19 – Part 1 video was added to my “Pour Me A Glass Members” page at the beginning of the month, that you would like to see more. Well, just be patient because good things cum to those who wait don’t you know!!!

But . . . in the meantime . . . lot’s of you have also asked for more of my “holiday fun clips”. So, for my first bonus video of the month I have just added
A Really, Really Quick Holiday 2019 Come.

Enjoy . . . because I certainly did !!!

Once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – And, especially for those of you who keep saying how much you enjoy me reading my newsletters out aloud, just click below:.

Xxx – K

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An Extra-Special Thank You Glass . . . Pour Me A Glass Members #PMAGW

Just three more sleeps until Christmas. So this short post is to say a special heartfelt thank you to all of myPour Me A Glass of Wine Members who have been helping to keep my glass full since the beginning of April this year.

I have, of course, enjoyed all of those glasses, but more importantly it has been truly special receiving such lovely complimentary emails, and hearing that my answers to your questions . . . or even sometimes just my regular postings here at Modesty Ablaze . . . have in some way helped or cheered difficult times and circumstances for some.

And, as lots of you asked for more videos from my summer holidays, I hope this clip of some Beach Watermelon fun will bring more giggles and smiles.

So, once again, thank you for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope that you will enjoy this, and my earlier member’s clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts,
or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading my end-of-month Newsletters out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so –

Xxx – K

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Modest Christmas Wishes #sinfulsunday

Well the past week has been so busy that I’ve probably missed the last post.

And, as much as I dislike those blinking and scrolling E-Xmas-Cards, I shall have to relent and send my cards out digitally this year.

So I’ve just returned from dragging Hubby out this afternoon in the
early evening twilight, to make do with the roadside decorations at
our local park for, my 2019 Christmas Photo Card.
(Actually the same location as my 2017 Christmas post!!!)

Anyway, it’s the thought that counts isn’t it, so I’d like to send my warmest Christmas Wishes . . . and Christmas Kisses wherever you like them the most . . . and hope you all have a loving, sharing, peaceful and FUN Christmas!!!

There’s lots of other Christmas cheer to be enjoyed I’m sure by kissing the Sinful Sunday lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Starred #Boobday Friday


A few busy . . . very busy . . . days (and nights) to come !!!

So sending you all special Seasonal Boobday Kisses here from
Boobday Friday.

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Dragon’s Tail Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

The spanking and Kinky Wartenberg Wheel play ofDragon’s Tail Pt.1 . . . my previous realworld sex video here at my MakeLoveNotPorn pages . . . did of course, lead to much more “intimate” fun as our playtime continued.

Which is why I’ve nick-named this new video . . . “Taking The Dragon”.
It begins with Lover 83 and I having some fun deciding which would be the right size of condom for him to use. But, once he slides it on, our joking and teasing stops, for some lovely slow and gentle passionate teasing of a completely different kind.

As our embracing builds, the “slow and gentle” becomes much more energetic, and turns into the most intense work-out fucking, I’ve had in a long, long time.

And after an exhausting, collapsing climax . . . I just about manage to recover enough to give him some “special” kissing thank you’s . . . just where he enjoys them the most!

You can view my introduction to “Dragon’s Tail Part 2” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Dragon’s Tail Part 2”  is my 64th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Dragon’s Tail Part 2” with tags such as:

BLOWJOB / LOUD / TATTOOED / FACETIME / SUCCLENT / LICKJOB / HANDY / COMMUNICATIVE / ILUBEU / HOTELROOM / GIGGLY / PLAYFUL / CHATTY FRONTDOOR / YES!YES!YES! / ENCORE / CONDOMHOT SAFERSEX

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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