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Elust 179 – November 2024

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Cover image courtesy of Countess Diamond.

I am so thrilled to have my recentA Naughty Surpriseposting, included within the Erotic Non-Fiction Category of the latest edition of Elust … the monthly online compilation of sex-positive articles from the blogging community from all around the world.

So … Welcome to Elust 179


Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.


Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire – 10 Years Of Submission

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins


Awakening Your Inner Essence, Barefoot Sub, Carman Fox, Countess Diamond, Elizabeth, Femina Viva, Fern River Cub, Kristina J, Lexi Rose, Liz X, Modesty Ablaze, Morgan Destera, Of Sex and Love, Oz Bigdownunder, Pleasure Me Now, Ramone Quides, Sex Toy DB, Sex Worker Search, Sydney Screams, Tantric Sexual Healing, The History of BDSM, Thornhill Digital


Elust Sex Blogs

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest Livestock #sinfulsunday

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“Go on then” I smirked, as we paused our afternoon stroll along the coastal path, “I know you’re dying to tell me what your guidebook says”.

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“Well it says they’re not just ‘cows’” Hubby replied triumphantly. “They’re actually ‘Shetland Cattle’ which have been introduced to the peninsula here, especially to help with the Nature Reserve’s land-management plan”.
“They help with meadow conservation and scrub and bramble control because they’re a really hardy breed, used to living in exposed locations with low-quality grazing”, he continued.

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“And that nearest brown and white one” he carried on, “is the bull called ‘Arwell’ who’s recently sired some new calves which the Reserve is really excited about”.

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“Well … don’t you start getting ideas and ‘excited’ yourself …” I told him. “You’ve had me standing here so long the sun’s gone down, and I’m getting cold now! And … it’s still a long walk back to the car park!!!”.

But I must admit it was a lovely walk, and I’m very happy to be able to add it to the “Livestock” category at my #naughtyscavengerhunt pages >here< … which I’ve just this morning reminded Hubby he has still to catch-up on repairing some of the broken links lost in our 2022 breakdown.

But in the meantime, I’m sure you’ll be able to discover lots of other exposures at this week’s Sinful Sunday by clicking on the lovely sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modest Coffee Time #boobday 367

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Boobday Friday and Coffee is obviously a recurring theme for me … but you don’t mind that do you?

And at least today’s #boobday Friday posting does feature a different cup from previous offerings!!!!

Do let me know if you would like me to post some of your own Boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 360 BoobDays now,
you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Looking Back #sinfulsunday

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As I mentioned in my #boobday posting on Friday, this time of year seems to be all misty grey and gloomy skies, and early evening darkness.

So, right now, I’m looking back to much warmer nights on my balcony this past July … and to previous summer holiday fun times … and counting the months until I can be back there again!

But for now I shall be searching for some more recent warming Sinful Sunday fun by tapping on the lovely lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Cone #boobday 366

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The festive season is almost upon us isn’t it … and as well as misty grey and gloomy skies … that generally means lots of cones.

So I thought I would share mine with you for today’s #boobday Friday posting … quite different from all the different shapes and sizes I mentioned back in 2017 … but I hope will still bring you giggles and smiles!!!

Do let me know if you would like me to post some of your own Boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 360 BoobDays now,
you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Welcoming #sinfulsunday

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“I suspect you probably assumed that a Dungeon would be a dark and sinister place didn’t you?”

“But actually, I normally prefer to transform mine into a fun and enlightening environment … especially when it’s one’s first time being strapped into my chair!”

However … if dark and sinister really is more your thing … just tap the Sinful fun lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Favourite Petals #boobday 365

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We all love flowers don’t we … and I know I’ve posted lots and lots of Bougainvillea photos here on my blog before … but it is my very favourite petal.

And I’m sure you won’t mind seeing yet more for today’s #boobday Friday will you???

Do let me know if you would like me to post some of your own Boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 360 BoobDays now,
you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Lapping #sinfulsunday

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I’m hoping we’ll be able to spend a little more time travelling in 2025. But my favourite beach … and it’s gentle, warm lapping waters … will certainly take some beating!!!

For more explorations and joyous Sinful fun this weekend, firmly lap at the sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest Sports Bra #boobday 364

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As you’ll probably be aware, I don’t often wear a bra. Unless of course, I’m out and about and involved in some outdoor-sporty activity, where clothing is actually required.

And then I will just pull on my Black Sports Bra … which I thought would be appropriate for today’s #boobday Friday!

Do let me know if you would like me to post some of your own Boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 360 BoobDays now,
you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Bottom #sinfulsunday

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We are away “exploring” this weekend so this is a quick, impromptu, “Thank You” for a gentleman who left a comment on my Boobday post on Friday, asking to see “more of” my bottom.

So quickly grabbing my fav hotel-room tassled-wrap this morning, I thought I would show him just that.

I do have a thing for Tassles of course!!

For more Sinful fun this weekend, firmly rub the sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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