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Modest Sporting Moments #F4T

We all enjoy sports of one kind or another don’t we? Even if, like me, one is never likely to become a champion. It is still fun to imagine from time-to-time. You know what I mean . . . to grasp bat and ball(s), to swish and swing a club or racquet, to stride across the green, to grace one’s local football stadium . . .

  • Modesty Ablaze at the Football Stadium

As this week’s theme at Food For Thought is all about “Sports”, I thought it would be fun to share some of my sporty-memories from the past few years.
For lots more Sporting Moments tap the F4T button below.

Food For Thought Friday

Xxx- K

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A Modest Ice-Lolly #sinfulsunday

One of the many fun things I’ve learnt from the past eight years of setting my Modesty Ablaze here, is the wonderfully diverse range of sinfully
fun activities and experiences, that so many of us enjoy.


And over the course of those eight years . . . as I’m sure you can imagine . . .
I’ve had lots and lots of “requests” to share my own photos and videos of all sorts of kinky fun and quirky desires.


Such as . . . sucking on ice-lollies for example !!!

For lots more sinfully kinky fun . . . and quirky desires . . . just tap
the Sinful Sunday lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – March 2020 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter March 2020

Goodness me, it’s March already . . . so it’s time for a brand-new Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter . . . and a look back at some my “social” fun . . . and blog postings here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com . . . over the past four weeks.

Having received so many lovely comments about the January and February exclusive videos of “Wet & Noisy with Lover 19 – Parts One and Two”,
I have just uploaded Part Three !!!

I mean . . . after all your lovely requests . . . I could hardly not include it as my main film for March, now could I ? And yes, there is much more video from this amazing evening, so if you are not getting too bored with all my loud moans and gasps . . . then do let me know if you would like to see Part Four !!!

Now Sally messaged during the month, about how much she enjoys seeing some of the outfits I wear for my Mistressing sessions. So I thought that for my Members Photo Gallery this month, I would add some photos from a fun session last weekend, at my favourite London Chambers.

So I hope you will enjoy both this month’s exclusive main video . . . and the photo-gallery . . . and do keep checking back at my pages here for updates of more exclusive content during the month.

And don’t forget, do let me know your own suggestions for next months Video(s) and Photo Gallery . . . and I will do my best to oblige !!!!!!


Modesty Ablaze Sinfully Spent

Now, I know I’ve been saying it in every issue lately but the past four weeks seem to have been my busiest, socially speaking . . . for a long, long time.
So, once again, it’s been difficult finding the time to keep my blog-postings here up-to-date as much as I would like. Particularly for my Sinful Sundays . . . and you could probably tell from my Modestly Spent post on the last Sunday of the month just how much I enjoyed being able to sit down for a few moments rest .
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The Food For Thought theme of Love Letters, earlier in the month, gave me a chance to reminisce and think back to years and years ago, how Hubby used to refer to the scribbled notes in my personal diaries, as being like letters of “love and lust” as we first embarked on our newly discovered choice of lifestyle-fun.
And it was those, excitedly scribbled-out entries, that eventually turned into my Modesty Ablaze Diaries. >>> Read more >>>


Couples

Which leads nicely into the Couples That Play Together Stay Together posting that I hosted early in the month. Sex therapist and sex blogger Angela Watson listed a number of simple, and sensible, ways in the post about keeping relationships exciting and active. Something which, of course, I believe we should all try to do as often as possible !!! >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Hyacinths

I’m always being asked to keep-up with my Boobday postings (I’m not sure why you all like them so much!), but I’m happy to say that I did manage two this month. The first of which appropriately featured some Hyacinths, whilst my last post of the month was taken with a new Flogger I recently discovered at my favourite chambers. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Caught On A Swing Two

You all know just how much I enjoy having my #RealWorldSex videos on Cindy Gallops MakeLoveNotPorn website. And my newest video there, Caught On A Swing which I uploaded just last week, is a perfect example of how things sometimes don’t go quite to plan in the RealWorld. Especially during some RealWorldSex fun. But, even if it didn’t end quite as I’d hoped it would . . . it was still lots and lots of fun . . . which I hope you will still enjoy. >>> Read more>>>


So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Modest Buds #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Buds

Despite the horrid weather for weeks and weeks, I think Spring may well come early this year . . . at least my buds seem to think so !!!

And quite appropriately . . . these particular buds are Hyacinths!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

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Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modestly Reading #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze reading A Curious History of Sex

On such a wet and windy Sunday morning, I thought I’d just lounge and lose myself in the pages of my new book which arrived during the week.

I’d so enjoyed the presentation by Kate Lister at Eroticon 17 that I’d immediately subscribed to her “The Curious History of Sex” Unbound page.

After all, it is one of my specialty subjects . . . but as I’m sure you can imagine
. . . I’m always keen to learn more!!!

A Filthy Fanny Chapter at A Curious History of Sex

And you can learn more at Kate’s remarkable Whores of Yore pages
or @WhoresofYore

For many more Sinful Sunday indulgences, kiss the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Another … February #PMAGW

Mistresses Holiday Shower

February is a short month . . . and I already know from my appointments book, that it’s going to be even busier than ever.

So I thought I would quickly add a Pour Me A Glass Members Update today whilst I have some spare moments. And this post is especially for Kevin who requested “more holiday nakedness” !!!

And although it’s not out on the beach Kevin, it’s still from my lovely holiday last summer . . . and it’s definitely “naked fun” . . . so hopefully you will enjoy!!!

So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy all of this month’s new clips and photos still to come.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – February 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze February 20 Pour Me A Glass Members photo.

Well, I don’t know about you, but the first few weeks of the year just flew-by for me . . . and it’s time already for a review of some of my January fun. And to tell you about my new, exclusive, Pour Me A Glass Members first video and photo-gallery for February.

Now it’s always lovely to receive nice comments about the videos and photos on my Members page . . . but I must say I’ve never had so many wonderful, and gushing comments before, as I received about January’s Wet & Noisy with Lover 19. I’m so glad you all enjoyed it . . . and, yes of course I’m delighted to post Part Two of that amazing evening, as this months exclusive first video.

And I say “first” because you all seemed to ALSO enjoy the other two videos I posted during the month . . . A Really, Really Quick Cum and An Impromptu ( well, I don’t like to swear out loud . . . but I’m sure you can guess what sort of “Impromptu” I mean).

So, anyway, yes I promise I will post some more of those “really-loud” videos (as one of you called them), during the cumming month as well.

For my Members Photo Gallery this month, I thought I would make a change from my “naked on the beach gallery” of January, and come back indoors for some kinky “plastic-suckers” fun, that I so enjoyed with Lover No. 14 some years ago now.

They have never been posted before as Hubby was concerned the low hotel room lighting wasn’t very clear. But it was lots of fun . . . and I’ve always rather like them, so let me know what YOU think !!!

So I hope you will enjoy both this exclusive video . . . and the photo-gallery . . . and do keep checking back at my pages here for updates of more exclusive content during the month.

And don’t forget that I always enjoying receiving your requests asking for particular themes or fetishes, so don’t be too shy to ask !!!


Modesty Ablaze Mixing Holiday Cocktails

So . . . looking back on my postings here during January . . . I had two new #realworldsex videos published on my Make Love Not Porn profile.
I have previously uploaded exclusive excerpts from the first one, Mixing A Special Holiday Cocktail, to my Pour Me A Glass Members page
in November.
So I knew from some of the messages I received then, that our naughty fun would be enjoyed by more than just Hubby and I.

And the second Make Love Not Porn film, Dragons Tail Pt3, has already been very popular there – which is always nice to know. >>> Read more >>> or
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Modesty Ablaze sinfully Shadowy

My first Sinful Sunday of January was “Modestly Shadowy”. Which, because of our freezing weather here in London at the time, had me longing for the wonderful warm, relaxing evenings of my summer holiday balcony.
>>> Read more >>>


Making Modesty Ablaze Appointments

I’ve mentioned on lots of occasions recently, just how busy things have been over the past year, and my “Trying to Manage My Modest Appointments” posting, was a brief opportunity to reflect and relax with a gift of a rather nice bottle of champagne.
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Modestly Blushed at Boobday Friday

I said last month that I’d been neglecting my Boobday postings … and I’m sad to say that I only managed one during January. But “Modesty Blushed” did at least illustrate one of the reasons I have been so busy. And, as one gentleman mentioned, it is a rather . . . “Nipple-licious” . . . picture I think.
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Modesty Ablaze Polaroids Past

My last post of the month was a very special one for me, as the lovely Marie Rebel celebrated 400 posts of her Wicked Wednesday meme.
And, as I mentioned in my “Modest Wicked Wednesdays Past” it was a specific posting on her meme in 2014 that prompted me to start my “Polaroids Past” photo gallery. And I’m hoping to still be joining all the other wonderful bloggers, posting to Marie’s page for the next 400 !!! >>> Read more >>>


So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Sexit . . . #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Sexit

One word Verb /vəːb/: . . . “To raise one’s spirits?” . . . Sexit !!!

One word Sinful Sunday – kiss the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest #wickedwednesday’s Past

Modesty Ablaze Polaroids Past sauna
Modesty Ablaze – Hot tub – 1988

I’ve never been very good at numbers, and as some of you may have noticed,
I got my numbering wrong again for last Wednesday’s Wicked posting.
It wasn’t the 400th edition of Marie’s Wicked Wednesday then at all,
it was the 399th!!!

But I’m sure I have done my adding-up correctly now, which means it really is the 400th edition this week.

Now 400 editions is a massive landmark in any genre, but in the context of the Sex Blogging Community it is even more so. And Marie’s website will always hold a very special place in my heart, as her’s was one of the very first websites I discovered when I began my own tentative steps into publishing myself here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com, and she has remained a constant source of inspiration ever since.

And, it was a Wicked Wednesday post about Polaroids, in August of 2014, that reminded me of all of my “private” Polaroid Photo Albums hidden-away on the top shelf of our bedroom wardrobe . . . which prompted me to begin my Polaroids Past series.

It was of course a great honour to have Marie subsequently add two of her own lovely photos (see below) to my “Polaroids Past” slide-show collection.

Marie at Polaroids Past
Marie Rebelle’s Splash of Red 2009

So it is always a great joy to visit Wicked Wednesday every week . . . and
I certainly hope to keep doing so for another 400 editions, and more!!!

And I urge you to do the same by pushing the Wicked Wednesday
button below.

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Dragon’s Tail Pt.3” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Introduces "Dragon's Tail Part 3" at MLNP

I’m delighted to tell you about my latest #realworldsex video at Make Love Not Porn.

It’s from the same evening as my previous two Dragon’s Tail videos with Lover No.83.

And this new video, “Dragon’s Tail Part Three”, follows on directly from the wonderfully energetic . . . but totally exhausting . . . fucking that I’d just enjoyed moments earlier.

It was so exhausting . . . well, probably more so for me . . . that we just laid back on the bed, giggling and chatting, playfully stroking each other as we relaxed.

But it was soon obvious, that my playful stroking, was getting No.83 aroused . . . and erect . . . all over again.

Now I really, really enjoy, giving my lovers special, “encouraging kisses”, and No.83 has such an impressive member that I soon got completely carried away and lost in my enjoyment, until . . . well, you’ll just have to view our fun to see the lovely climax for yourselves.

“Dragon’s Tail Part 3” is my 66th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch this Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Dragon’s Tail Part 3” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I mentioned above, “Dragon’s Tail Part 3”  is my 66th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Dragon’s Tail Part 3” with tags such as:

YUMMY / MESSY / YES!YES!YES! / GUYTIME / DRINKRESPONSIBLY / D/S / COMMUNICATIVE / CHATTY / BLOWJOB / SPANKING / GIGGLY

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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