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June 3, 2020 · 9:24 am

Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – June 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass Newsletter June

Well, I don’t know about you, but being on Lock-down has made it hard to know exactly what day it is lately.


But it is actually the beginning of June and that means it’s time for my Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter and review of my past 4 weeks here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com.

I’d like to start by welcoming all my new subscribers, and to say “thank you”, for all of your feedback from last month … and for lots … and lots … of suggestions for this months posts.


And those suggestions have been pretty much a 50 / 50 split … with some requests for more videos with some of my lovers … OR … for clips from one of my Dungeon Sessions. 


So I thought I’d make this months first video, one that features a bit of both of those things … from a fun evening some years ago … in one of my favourite dungeons. 


Beginning with a wonderful orgasm, pausing for a short popcorn break, before continuing with some rather unusual rope-work … and another convulsing climax … you’ll just have to watch, it to see exactly what I mean by “unusual” and “convulsing”.

And I thought I’d continue the dungeon theme for this month’s Photo Gallery … but from a much more recent session … and a completely different scenario and completely different co-participant. (Oh, and one of my most popular, and regularly requested, outfits!!!
)

So … I hope you all will enjoy these photos … and the video … and do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see in July !!!

So some of my most popular posts during May were:

I had two new #realworldsex videos at my Make Love Not Porn profile during May. The first was “69 Modest Oral Moments” to celebrate my 69th video on Make Love Not Porn … 69 being my favourite number of course !!! And then, at the end of the month, I published my 70th video there “Toe-Nails Submission and Appreciation” which re-called more sexy holiday fun from last summer. >>> Read more >>>

Modesty Ablaze Holidays

I was also reminded of “Summer” when the prompt for Food For Thought in the middle of the month, was all about “Holidays” … so I added a 69-picture, Photo Gallery of some of my own favourite holiday moments on my “Modest Holidays” posting.
>>> Read more >>>

Modesty Ablaze huge Strap-On Dildo

For my first Sinful Sunday of the month … “Modestly Packed” … I featured a, rather large, strap-on dildo I’d been sent for review by a new American sex-toy company called “Cloud 9” … whom I recommend you check-out as they actually have a Sale on selected items at the moment. >>> Read more >>>

Modesty Ablaze Plugged

And speaking of “toys” … I’d discovered something on one of my afternoon strolls, which looked … at first glance … rather like a large butt-plug. See for yourself at “Modestly Plugged” and let me know what you think? >>> Read more >>>

Modesty Ablaze Shutters 1982

If you’ve been following my blog pages here for a while, you will know about my Polaroids Past pages … where I occasionally re-pose and re-create some of my Polaroid photos from more than 30 years ago. So my last post of the month was “Modestly Shuttered” where I re-posed a photo from way back in 1982. >>> Read more>>>

So, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full. And do let me know your thoughts on this month’s Exclusive new clips and photos . . . from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by messaging directly to my email address if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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May 31, 2020 · 10:11 am

Modestly Shuttered #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Shuttered Greece 1982

It’s usually lots of fun trying to recreate poses from our #polaroidspast archives
. . . particularly from our lovely Grecian holiday adventures!

Modesty Ablaze Shuttered 2020

But whilst our attempt this morning did bring back wonderful memories . . .
it has also left me yearning even more for simpler times . . . just like 1982.

For more simple, happy, thoughts this weekend, kiss the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past

Be Proud of Who You Were . . . and Be Proud of Who
You Have Become!

Join me at #polaroidspast and my Polaroids Past slideshow.

Xxx – K

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May 28, 2020 · 2:43 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Toe-Nails Submission” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Introduces "Toe-nails Submission" real world sex video

I’m really longing for summer at the moment . . . as I’m sure we all are !!!

So it’s been lots of fun remembering back to our summer holidays last year and re-living some of our daytime, and our evening-time, fun and exciting moments.


And my newest #realworldsex video at Make Love Not Porn is from one morning when we’d awoken to a rainstorm, which meant an unusual “morning-in” at our apartment, instead of breakfast down on the beach as we would normally do.


So . . . after enjoying Subby’s morning coffee . . . I decided to make the best of the unexpected time indoors, and paint my nails.


But, when Subby moaned that he’d wished I’d painted my toe nails in the same “sexy” red as my finger nails, I decided to punish his disrespect by painting his nails as well!!!

AND that I’d make him go out to the beach . . . and the taverna later . . . with his blue nails for all to clearly see.

Modesty Ablaze Blue Toe-Nails

AND . . . beginning to warm to my fun . . . I then decided to wrap his cock and balls together with some sticky tape!!!

But, as often happens, I then began to get a little carried-away with my wrapping and ended-up turning the tape into a pair of panties instead . . . crotch-less panties, so that I could punish him further with some hard slaps on his . . . well you know where I mean I’m sure!!!

Then, as also often happens when I’m beginning to enjoy my naughty fun, one thing led to another with, 
in this instance, me laying back on the bed and telling him . . . that I was to be his breakfast!!!

“Toe-nails Submission & Appreciation Fun” is my 70th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Toe-nails Submission & Appreciation Fun” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “Toe-Nails Submission & Appreciation Fun”  is my 70th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Toe-nails Submission & Appreciation Fun” with tags such as:

#blissful / #chatty / #dressy / #frenzied / #giggly / #happy / #impactful / #inthekitchen / #intimate / #joyful / #kinky / #loving / #married / #playful / #rainyday / #relaxing / #roleplay / #selfie / #sony / #spanking / #succulent / #summertime / #vacationtime / #wakeywakey / #yummy !

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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May 23, 2020 · 4:51 pm

Modestly Bare #sinfulsunday

Modestly Bare at the Cliffs

I don’t think I’ve ever had so many emails immediately following one of my posts, as I have over the past two days since my “Holidays” post for Food For Thought . . . all asking about the “wheres and whens”. And asking for more!

And, of course, I always like to say “yes” whenever I’m asked for “more”!

So this photo is from summer 2015, during a long walk around the foot of the cliffs near our apartment on the island.

There are sure to be much more recent photos from the other participants at this week’s Sinful Sunday posts, to be viewed by clicking on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.s. – I already have a post for the “Cliff” category at my Scavenger Hunt pages, but as that was at the top of a cliff, and this was at the bottom, I shall add this photo to my Exposé Vŭ pages.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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May 20, 2020 · 2:00 pm

Modest Holidays #F4T #wickedwednesday

  • A modest stamp
  • The Beach Scavenger Hunt

Oh, how I’m longing for, hoping for, praying for … a holiday this summer.
So, so much !!!


I look forward to it every year of course … but this year even more than ever.


Family holidays were always nice of course … and over 18 years with our two children, we enjoyed some lovely vacations in lovely resorts and locations. Always somewhere different, always different activities …

But then, when our young ones had flown the nest, we had the opportunity … actually the necessity, to book an early summer break … out of school-term time … and at short (one week’s) notice.

No plans, no thoughts, no expectations, we just said to each other “let’s just do something, go somewhere where we can just chill, no responsibilities, no phones, no emails, just to relax … just for ourselves”.


So we walked into our local Travel Agents and said exactly that … “and we’d like to leave next Saturday”.

I’ll never forget it … the young lady looked up and said “well we specialise more in long-haul, adventure holidays, safaris … that sort of thing!”

Hubby said, “ok, we’d just thought we’d ask, we’ll try the other place around the corner!” (This was when there were still three Travel Agents in our high street).


“Well … wait a moment, take a seat.” she said. “Have you ever been to ……
(an island in Greece)?” she asked.


“Not that particular island” Hubby replied. “But we’d love too, we’ll take it thanks, won’t we K?”, he looked across at me and we both burst out laughing … both thinking back to our very first holiday together thirty-eight years ago.

Some things are just meant to be aren’t they!!! Because it was simply magical.

Not just the fact that our question took us back to Greece. Not just because it took us to that particular island. Not just because it took us to that particular, out-of-the-way, isolated, spot on that particular island. Not just because of the beautiful places we discovered, the wonderful tiny tavernas, the lovely welcoming local people we met.

Just because … well … because you can’t really explain magic can you?


And … as boring as it may sound … we’ve returned to that exact same spot,
every summer, ever since.


So that is why … as I said … I’m hoping, praying that I can add more special moments to my holiday memories above!!!

This week’s theme at Food For Thought is “Holidays”, which of course got me remembering … and then … Wicked Wednesday‘s “Statistics” had me counting all the months and years!!!

For more thoughts just tap the F4T and Wicked Wednesday buttons below.

Food For Thought Friday
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Xxx- K

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May 10, 2020 · 9:19 am

Modestly Plugged #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 1

“Look at this” I said to Hubby, during our afternoon stroll yesterday.
“It’s like a giant Butt Plug isn’t it”.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 2

“It’s quite warm from the sun” I said as I sat astride it. “Warm and quite
smooth actually.”


Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 3

“Ooh . . . one could get quite worked-up riding it” I teased him.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 4


“I know we can’t stay all day!” I said as he started to get nervous about other walkers approaching along the path.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 5

“It would be rather fun to have something like this in our back garden though,
don’t you think?” I teased him further.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 6

“Yes, yes, I’m coming” I said as he insisted he was going to walk on without me. “Or, at least . . . I’d like to be!!!”

Anyway, I’m sure there will lots of other fun distractions at this week’s
Sinful Sunday, to be enjoyed by pulling at the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.s. I would really like to add our discovery to my Scavenger Hunt collection
. . . but I can’t think of an appropriate category???
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!

There are lots of my previous Scavenger Hunt discoveries at my
Listings page . . . where there are now well over 120 different locations.
Most of which are on my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Hunt pages

Xxx – K

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May 6, 2020 · 11:16 am

Modesty Ablaze “69 Modest Oral Moments” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Modest Oral Moments"

My newest video at my Make Love Not Porn profile is rather special . . . because it’s my 69th . . . which is of course, my favourite number!!!

Now when I submitted my first “modest” video to MLNP in 2013, I thought it would be a one-off, just a bit of self-indulgent fun. But I was pleasantly surprised to soon start receiving emails to my blog page asking for more. And when I told my “special” friends about Make Love Not Porn, I was thrilled when some of them said they would love to join me there as well.


So . . . I have been regularly adding more lovely and fun #realworldsex moments videos ever since.

But I still never imagined I’d have 68 films on my profile there. And, having reached that magical number, I thought I would celebrate with a 69-themed compilation-collection of some of my most wonderful, and engulfing, oral moments over the years.

Modesty Ablaze 69 Oral Moments 1

It’s been hugely fun and sexciting re-watching … and re-living … those fun moments and I hope you will have as much fun watching them too. 
You never know, I might get to add 69 more! But anyway, I certainly hope to keep on having as much fun as I had here !!!

“Modest Oral Moments” is my 69th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

Modesty Ablaze 69 Oral Moments 2

You can view my introduction to “Modest Oral Moments” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

As I said above, “Modest Oral Moments”  is my 69th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Modest Oral Moments” with tags such as:

#bisexual / #celebratory / #chatty / #dressy / #drinkresponsibly / #epic / #facetime / #frontdoor / #giddyup / #giggly / #goingdutch / #handy / #joyful / #lickjob / #messy / #morethemerrier / #selfie / #yes!yes!yes!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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April 25, 2020 · 4:46 pm

Modestly Abandoned 5 #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Abandoned Bed1

“Look!” I said as I called him back during our long walk this morning. “I sometimes think you’re not concentrating when you just race straight-on ahead!”

Modesty Ablaze Abandoned Bed2

“This is dangerous.” I told him. “It could quite easily fall over and cause someone to trip and fall. I think you should call the council on your phone, and report it to the local enforcement officer. It’s causing a public nuisance!”

Modesty Ablaze Abandoned Bed3

“I know they won’t come straight-away! But perhaps you could text them a photo so they know where to find it” I told him. “I’m just trying to be helpful!”

But Hubby felt there might some confusion over the issue of “causing a public-nuisance”, so reluctantly I agreed to just walk on.

Hopefully I can take my mind off it by viewing some Abandonment of a different kind, at this weekends Sinful Sunday, by tapping the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – So . . . even though we didn’t send a photo to the council I have at least added this discovery to my
Abandoned Furniture list at my Exposé Vŭ pages.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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April 24, 2020 · 9:29 am

Modest Gloves #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Blue Gloves

The only gloves I’ve been able to wear lately . . . but this is for all those who have asked for more of my Boobday Friday posts.

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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March 25, 2020 · 10:22 am

Modesty Ablaze “Self Vibing Massage” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces her newest video at Make Love Not Porn

As I mentioned in my two earlier videos from our Summer Holidays last year, I’d instructed Hubby to have his video camera fully charged and ready, for every day . . . and every evening . . . for the whole two weeks of our amazing vacation.


And, I’m so glad that I did . . . because this newest of my videos at Make Love Not Porn, started out as just one of the normal massages that I insist Hubby give me every evening after a day out in the sun. 
Just to make sure I have a complete coating of “after sun lotion” all over . . . and a soothing toning of all my . . . lumps and bumps.


But don’t worry “A Self-Vibing Massage” doesn’t document Hubby’s complete work-over . . . although I was tempted to show you that as it is always wonderfully relaxing.


Instead, the video starts from the point that Hubby’s squeezing hands and fingers began to wander from my cheeks to . . . well you can probably guess where he wanted to reach can’t you?

But I was feeling quite naughty . . . so I decided to tease him by telling him to pass me my vibing toys . . . and making him watch as I pleasured myself with just the sort of massage I suddenly really, really needed.

A Self Vibing Massage One

I did have to pause at one point though . . . because looking over Hubby’s shoulder, I realised we still had the balcony doors wide open. And you know me, I didn’t want to annoy any of our neighbours with unexpected gasps and groans
. . . so I had to instruct Hubby to close the doors and curtains so that I could continue with my play-time fun!!!

“A Self-Vibing Massage” is my 68th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “A Self-Vibing Massage” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “A Self-Vibing Massage”  is my 68th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“A Self-Vibing Massage” with tags such as:

YES!YES!YES! / Satisfyer / ILubeU / handy / yummy / kinky / chatty / hotelroom / vacationtime / D/s / metime / toytime / handson

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Modesty Ablaze Self Vibing Massage 2
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Xxx – K

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