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Modestly Frilled #sinfulsunday #LiFE

Modesty Ablaze Frilled Red Knickers

I’m normally more for lace than frills. But I was thrilled with these frills when a gentleman friend gifted me them some time ago!

And as he reminded me of them recently, I thought it would be nice to model them again for him here this Sinful Sunday !!!

See who else is thrilling this Sinful weekend, by tapping the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

And why not add some sinful lingerie moments of your own at Violet’s lovely, luxurious, lustful meme below.

Lingerie is for everyone

Xxx – K

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Modest Cane Boobs #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Cane Boobs Boobday Friday

I receive lots of requests and posts suggestions of course … but one of the most frequent is for “more Boobday Friday posts please”.

So … as I’ve just begun flexing my cane again … this is
especially for those requesters. Enjoy !!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modest Lingerie #sinfulsunday #LiFE

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Lingerie is lovely … lingerie is luxurious … lingerie is lustful.
At least it is for me!

And it always makes me feel especially Sinful !!!

See who else is feeling Sinful this weekend by tapping the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

And why not add some sinful lingerie moments of your own at Violet’s lovely, luxurious, lustful meme below.

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.3 – Face-Timing” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Attention Part 3

As I mentioned when I told you all about my last Real World Sex video at Make Love Not Porn … Stand To Attention Part 2 … there was lots more to come from my wonderful, intense, session with Lover Number 83 in my favourite London Chambers.


So I’m delighted to say that Part Three … of our “Standing To Attention” fun … has now gone live on my Make Love Not Porn Profile.
 And if you’ve viewed Part Two … and I hope you have … you will know that I had just laid back on the dungeon bed and instructed No.83 to use that lovely tongue of his to worship … and devour me !!!


And those wet, and very passionate, kisses of his soon had me … well both of us actually … wriggling and tingling with desire.

Lover 83 devouring Mistress Modesty's wet pussy

Now sometimes when I’m sessioning with one of my submissives … I may allow them some “face-sitting” body-worship moments. But on those occasions I am almost always fully clothed, and fully in control.


But here I was … so excited and aroused and carried away in the moment … that completely naked, I rolled No.83 over onto his back and sat astride him, riding myself up-and-down on his face in a completely different form of body-worship.

And leaning forward and steadying myself on No.83’s out-stretched legs … it was clear to see that he was, obviously, enjoying the fun just as much as I was.


Our succulent riding continued … with a changing and swapping of positions … until I just had to ask our camera-man to stop for a moment … and fetch me a condom.

“Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-timing” is my 73rd Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 3” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-Timing  is my 73rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-Timing with tags such as:

#afternoon / #bisexual / #blissful / #clitastic / #communicative / #flirty / #frenzied / #giggly / #grinding / #happy / #intense / #inthedungeon / #intimate / #joyful / #kinky / #littleo / #loving / #married / #passionate / #playful / #polyamorous / #ravenous / #roleplay / #seductive / #sensual / #sony / #yes!yes!yes! / #yummy!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – July 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass July

I’m late, I’m late … I know I’m running very late … for my July Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter and review of the past few weeks at my blog pages here at Modesty Ablaze.

And one of the reasons I’m running behind with things, is that as the lock-down restrictions are being eased here in the UK, I’ve been receiving an avalanche of email enquiries and questions … especially over the past 2 weeks!!!

I am quite excited myself that some “fun” things appear to be opening-up again … and hopefully that “fun” will lead to new content on my pages here soon.

But in the meantime my first Members Video for July is especially for Jay who requested a “Strap-On” video from one of my Femdom adventures.

Now I must apologise in advance for some of the language I use in this video … quite unbecoming of a lady I know … but this gentleman’s specific kink, apart from my Strap-On of course, is to be shouted at and verbally abused. Well you know me, as long as it’s fun and completely consensual, I always try to oblige!!!

This month’s photo-gallery is also to fulfill a special request. It is for Vi who said she would really like to see a slide-show of some of my Holiday Me-time fun with one of my favourite toys … so I hope you will all enjoy this selection as well.

And do let me know your own suggestions, for photos and videos, you would like to see during August !!!


So some of my most enjoyed posts during June were:

“Modestly Intense” … my first Sinful Sunday post for the month, where I was remembering a very “Intense, Speechless Moment” from several years ago. >>> Read more >>>


And I was also remembering back to previous lovely times, for my second Sinful Sunday post of the month “Modest Hopeful Horizons” … And I was so flattered when the lovely Tabitha Rayne made it one of her top 5 pics of the week. Tabitha is one of my favourite erotic authors who I always enjoy reading on my holidays away. I really do recommend you check out her wonderful library of books on Amazon.
>>> Read more >>>


My “Modestly Multilingual” post early in the month was prompted by two fun themes of “Magic” and “Body Language” at Wicked Wednesday and Food 4 Thought respectively … and again brought back some lovely, magical memories.
>>> Read more >>>


I had two more Real World Sex videos published at my Make Love Not Porn profile during the month. Stand To Attention and Part Two – The Entrée were from a lovely afternoon shortly before lock-down. And if you enjoy these two videos, there is more still to come !!! >>> Read more >>>


I ended the month with my Modest Floggers contribution to the Kink of the Week theme of floggers … which I thoroughly recommend you visit if you would like to know more about the subject of Impact Play in Kink. >>> Read more>>>


So … once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here and helping me to top me up with a lovely glass of wine occasionally. Well, more than occasionally actually, but if you’re also raising a glass or two occasionally, do remember to drink responsibly won’t you! I wouldn’t want to be encouraging anyone to be behaving irresponsibly … in ANYTHING !!!

Anyway … I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery, and do let me know your thoughts, and suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.
I have lots and lots in my archives … and you never know … your suggestions may just appear on my Members Page soon !!!

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Stairwell #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Nude Stairwells

Is there a word . . . or specific phrase . . . . if one has a kink for Stairwells ???

I ask because . . . and I don’t know why this is . . . but whenever I find myself climbing public stairs, I’m often overcome with a pressing need to take my clothes off without warning!!!

Which on this occasion left Hubby rather annoyed as he’d neglected to have his camera with him, so had to resort to his aging phone.

But I’m sure you will be able to find much better quality photos, and
kinks, this weekend by clicking-on the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.2 – The Entrée” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Introduces Stand To Attention Part 2

Following my Stand To Attention – Part 1 Real World Sex video with Lover 83 at my Make Love Not Porn pages recently, I received lots of questions asking what happened next?

Well … I’m thrilled to say that “Part 2” … of my teasing, flicking, slapping … and gentle kicking fun … has just been released at my Make Love Not Porn profile.


And, as I’m sure you can imagine if you have viewed “Part One”, his very obvious excitement continued to get me very aroused … and very excited too !!!


So much so, that I just had to lie back on the dungeon bed, remove my leather basque and command him to worship my very, very wet and tingling … lady bits.

And he certainly didn’t need a second invitation when I told him that I wanted that worshipping to come from his mouth and tongue, all over my … well, you know just where 
I mean don’t you ???


“Eat me … devour me!” I teased, as I lay back and spread myself wide for him.

And yes, there is much more to come from what turned out to be an amazing domination and submission session … for the BOTH of us.

But one has to keep things in their proper order and sequence, just as they happen. So, I’m commanding you all to watch, enjoy and savour this whole video, before I upload Part Three shortly.

Modesty tapping Lover 83's erect cock

“Standing To Attention – Part 2 – The Entrée” is my 72nd Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 2” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, Standing To Attention – Part 2 – The Entrée  is my 72nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 2 – The Entrée with tags such as:

# afternoon / #chatty / #clitastic / #communicative / #dressy / #flirty / #footsy / #giggly / #happy / #impactful / #intense / #inthedungeon / #intimate / #kinky / #lickjob / #passionate / #playful / #rainyday / #roleplay / #sony / #spirited / #yummy!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Quiet #sinfulsunday

Even though I still had to queue to get in, it was surprisingly quiet for my weekend shop this morning.
Mind you … I was in the wine aisle at 10 a.m. … so probably far too early for sensible-shoppers!!!

You will be able to see what other Sinful Shoppers have been up to this weekend by selecting the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.s. – I already have a post for the Supermarket category at my Scavenger Hunt pages, so I shall add this photo to my Exposé Vŭ pages instead.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Attention

I’m so delighted to tell you all about my newest #realworldsex video at my profile pages on Make Love Not Porn.


Because, after my last meeting with Lover 83 … he had asked if we could meet again at my favourite dungeon … as he really wanted to experience one of my “spanking sessions” that he’d heard all about.


As you will probably already know from some of my previous Make Love Not Porn videos … I do enjoy some kinky-fun from time-to-time … and, of course, I always enjoy fulfilling any special requests or fantasies that my lovers may have.


So when No.83 arrived at my chambers with a lovely bottle of chilled champagne … AND some proper champagne glasses … we sat and sipped and chatted for a while … as I always like to do … to discuss what he would most like to experience from all of the fixtures and accessories at our disposal.

But as I was relaxing and enjoying the wonderful bubbly he had brought me … I noticed the rather large bulge protruding from beneath his pants.

And when I asked him to stand, and present himself before me, I began feeling more and more aroused … and more like reaching for HIM … rather than for my floggers or canes.

Especially when I instructed him to step out of his straining thong !!!

Modesty Ablaze flicking Lover 83's balls.

“Standing To Attention” is my 71st Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “Stand To Attention”  is my 71st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Standing To Attention” with tags such as:

inthedungeon / #afternoon / #chatty / #communicative / #dressy / #drinkresponsibly / #flirty / #footsy / #happy / #joyful / #kinky / #playful / #roleplay / #sensual / #spirited!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Hopeful Horizons #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Hopeful Horizons

Every morning I rise . . . thinking, wishing and hoping . . . for this view.
And praying for new, safe, more peaceful horizons!!!

In the meantime though . . . I shall just brush the Sinful Sunday lips below
. . . for more hopeful and fun distractions.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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