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Pour Me Again August 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pussy Laid Bare Video Cover

Yes I am posting my second bonus Pour Me A Glass Members video a little earlier than normal this month.

But after myPour Me More posting last week, I received so many emails and DMs asking for an update on the waxing appointment that I’d talked about in that video, that I felt it was only fair that I should show you how it now looks just as soon as I could.

And, as often happens when I’m filming what is supposed to be a short “update” video, I got so carried away feeling my newly “Laid Bare” status that I just had to reach for my favourite wand. Just to relieve my tension you understand!

Well, I’m sure you’ll see what I mean when you push the Play button above!!!

So … if you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And once again thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full. I really do hope you will enjoy and have fun watching each of this month’s clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – I’ve been reading my monthly newsletter out aloud for over a year now and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so if you are still not tired of my voice, just click on the play arrow below.

Xxx – K

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Modest Exhibitions #KOTW and Naughty Peeks #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Exhibitionist 1

People are often surprised when I say that I’m actually very shy by nature … especially when finding myself in new situations, or when meeting people for
the first time.

But I’ve always been interested in those things that normal society tells us are “naughty” or “taboo” … or “weird” or “kinky”. I suppose one could say that I have always had a secret rebel within.

So … losing myself in being Modesty here, has allowed me to cast-off those natural inhibitions and to have some wonderfully fun, and totally empowering times … indulging myself in many of those naughty and taboo experiences that some people may say I shouldn’t.

And one of those rebellious stirrings from within that Modesty seems to just love to indulge, is an exhibitionist streak that always thrills … and often tingles.

Modesty Ablaze Exhibitionist 2

And exhibitionism just happens to be the current theme at Kink Of The Week.

So … steps or stairs, hills or hollows, inside or out … as long as I’m sure that I won’t upset or offend … my philosophy has always been to never take things too seriously and to always try to make everything fun … fun for me and fun for those around me.

For more Exhibitionist stirrings … or Naughty Peeks simply swipe at the KOTW lips and Wicked Wednesday Rainbow below.

Kink of the Week
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Xxx- K

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A Modest Necessarium … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Latrine1

“It means ‘behind the dormitory’ … and it was the Latrine for the Monks to use”
I explained in my best tour-guide voice.

Modesty Ablaze Latrine2

“Of course it had drains! The gutter would have run down the middle here
… one would just have to crouch with feet either side!”

Modesty Ablaze Latrine3

“Yes, I’m sure they would have had to open their robes like this!” I said.
“They couldn’t have just ‘lifted them a bit’ … they’d get them all wet down the front and around the ankles, silly!!!”

There’s bound to be lots of other fun explorations at this week’s Sinful Sunday, just “tap” the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

As I already have Public Toilets” as a location at my Scavenger Hunt collection I thought I would add this, rather older discovery, to
my Exposé Vŭ pages instead.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More August 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Hair Issues Cover

During the past few months of lock-down, I’ve been posting a video-diary of my “Hair Dressing Issues” at my Fans and Pour Me A Glass Members pages. And as my lady-garden grew and grew, I asked for votes from you all on whether I should remain “Hair” … or “Bare” ???

Well, the majority of the messages I received was that “Bare” was the most popular preference, and I have to say that was my preference as well.

So this short video, filmed on the last day of July on the morning of my first waxing appointment since March, will be the last of my “Hair” postings.

But … if you ask me nicely … my next update will feature my newly “Laid Bare” status. And how I got rather carried away with my return to nude-and-smooth!!!

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And thank you once again for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full. I really do hope you will enjoy and have fun watching each of this month’s clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – I’ve been reading my monthly newsletter out aloud for over a year now and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so if you are still not tired of my voice, just click on the play arrow below.

Xxx – K

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Oh I Do Love To Be … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Beach Hut 1

Oh I do love to be beside the seaside … I do love to be beside the Sea !!!

Modesty Beach Hut 2

Even when it’s not my usual Seaside at this time of the year . . .

Modesty Ablaze Beach Hut 3

I decided I still just had to be … Beside The Sea !!!

To see what other Gleeful fun has been going-on this weekend, just tap the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

I did hear the gentleman above me on the promenade, commenting on the colourful “Beach Huts” below as he and his friend walked by, so I’m certainly happy to be able to add them to my Scavenger Hunt collection.

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – August 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Newsletter August 2020

Tomorrow we will be into August … and the beginning of the end of Summer … a summer which it seems like we’ve never actually had.


So for my members pages for August, I’m thinking back to glorious … real summer’s in the past …and some of the wonderful fun I had in those nicer, simpler, times.


And my first Members Video for the month is from a lovely surprise evening several summers ago with one of my very special friends.


In fact it was such a surprise that it was filmed on my phone … so it is rather jumpy and blurry at times … but I actually think that the grainy-ness adds to the “intimacy” and special “loving” nature of our fun.


But tell me what think … because there is more of our fun if you would like to view it.


And I thought I would continue the theme of … “summers past” … for this month’s Photo Gallery, with some never-seen-before … “naked-on-the-beach” photos from my holiday-fun archives.


So … I hope you all will enjoy these photos, and the video … because seeing them again, certainly brought back happy memories for me.


And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month Update Posts during August … because I do have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!


So some of my most read posts during July were:

The first Sinful Sunday prompt for July was all about finding or creating an image of one’s favourite movie.

Now I must confess that I haven’t actually watched Quentin’s film … I much prefer to make my own … so obviously I couldn’t say it is a favourite.

But so many of my followers have mentioned it to me over the years that, I just couldn’t resist re-creating the poster for Mister Tarantino’s My Name is Modesty

>>> Read more >>>


This July I celebrated Seven Years of sharing lots of #realworldsex movies at Cindy Gallop’s wonderful Make Love Not Porn. So it was fun to have three posts during the month featuring more of my Stand To Attention videos with Lover No.83. And even if my videos there are not to your taste, I’m sure you will find lots of others that are, so I urge you to follow the links from my Make Love Not Porn posts or from the Linky Tool in my side-bar. >>> Read more >>>


I also had fun joining Violet’s “Lingerie is for Everyone” meme for the first time during July with my Modest Lingerie and my Modesty Frilled posts. And if you have a thing for sexy-lingerie, and who doesn’t ??? you should definitely visit, and even join-in for yourself.
>>> Read more >>>


Now, I know I’ve mentioned before … that one of my most popular requests is for more “boobday” postings and although I only managed one of these during the month with my Cane Boobs it was one of my most read. And I will definitely try to find the time for more “boobdays” during August!
>>> Read more >>>


And, as I started this Modcast talking about memories … the Wicked Wednesday and 4Thoughts prompts halfway through the month, had me reminiscing again … about my own
 sexual-awakening and adventures with my Modestly Gazing post looking back even long before Modesty Ablaze was born. >>> Read more>>>


So … once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.4 – The Mounting” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Part 4

If you’ve viewed Parts 1, 2 and 3 of our passionate “Standing To Attention” fore-play fun … and I hope you have … then you will know that what had originally started-out as one of my “Mistressing Sessions” … quickly became much more of a sexually-charged playtime session as I became more and more aroused.


So-much-so that Part Three of our fun, ended with me telling my camera-man to … “fetch me a condom”
.

So Part Four begins with Lover 83 applying himself to that immediate task in hand whilst I reached for my favourite Lubricant … and no, I didn’t on this occasion mean wine!
 I’ve always loved lube, to help things slide easily into place, but as we ladies become more “mature”, it has become even more important than it used to be.


Anyway, as I climbed astride him and No.83 began quite literally rising to the task beneath me, we were both soon enjoying the ride !!!


“For a Sub just asking for a caning … you’ve not done too badly have you?”
I teased him … emphasizing that it’s not very often I become so worked-up during a session, that things turn out like they were now.

Modesty Ablaze Stand To Part 4 one

So, you’ll just have to rent this video from Make Love Not Porn, and join us in our riding and changing of positions … and bed-shaking exertions … to see for yourself, how much fun we were both having!!!

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 4” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

Standing To Attention – Part 4 – The Mounting  is my 74th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 4 – The Mounting with tags such as:

#afternoon #blissful #chatty #communicative #condomhot #frenzied #frombehind #giddyup #giggly #grinding #ilubeu #intense #inthedungeon #joyful #loud #morethemerrier #passionate #playful #polyamorous #ravenous #safersex #sensual #sony #spirited #succulent #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Sins #sinfulsunday

Modest Sinners Sand

Forgive me … for I may have sinned … at least in the view of some!

But I have not been led into temptation. I walk these sands free from evil,
free from trespass, free from coercion, free from guilt … only to wish that
same freedom, power, and glory, to all !!!

For lots more prayers and thoughts, sinful and otherwise, this weekend
just touch the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Seven Years of #realworldsex” @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Seven Years at Make Love Not Porn

It’s July 2020 and that means I’ve now been sharing my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn, for over SEVEN years !!!

Now, of course, I’ve been enjoying Real World Sex fun for a lot longer than seven years, a lot, lot longer … THIRTY-seven years actually. But I’d like to think that my Make Love Not Porn videos collection, in a certain way mirrors the changes and progressions, and different experiences, of those thirty-seven years of open, loving fun.

Starting out … Modestly and nervously … with my first video in 2013, “Modesty’s Toytime”
, and then slowly becoming more open and expressive and confident about sharing more of my different adventures … and different “friends” … and different “interests” … as the years have passed.

I’ve been very lucky that the lifestyle I share with Hubby has given us both the opportunity to meet, and make friends with, some truly lovely people over our thirty-seven years of fun experiences. And very lucky too, that some of the friends I’ve made through our swinging adventures … and more recently, from my Mistressing sessions … have loved joining us in our Make Love Not Porn videos as well.

I’m sure you’ll agree that one should never feel ashamed or embarrassed about one’s sexuality and desires, and we should all be able to fully express and celebrate those things that bring us joy and excitement.

But it takes a really special kind of person to be able to share those views so openly on film. And that’s why I say that I’ve been very lucky to have met so many 
lovely, like-minded people.

And that’s what makes being part of Make Love Not Porn such a fabulous and empowering feeling. Being amongst so many like-minded people celebrating their love … and their pride … and their chosen life-style experiences, in all the wonderful and different ways that makes life loving and truly fulfilling.

So thank you MLNP for the past seven years. I’m hoping that I’ll still be sharing, and still be uploading yet more #realworldsex videos for another seven years to come.

So … spread the love, spread the joy and spread the pride! Enjoy !!!

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Plus #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Frilled #sinfulsunday #LiFE

Modesty Ablaze Frilled Red Knickers

I’m normally more for lace than frills. But I was thrilled with these frills when a gentleman friend gifted me them some time ago!

And as he reminded me of them recently, I thought it would be nice to model them again for him here this Sinful Sunday !!!

See who else is thrilling this Sinful weekend, by tapping the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

And why not add some sinful lingerie moments of your own at Violet’s lovely, luxurious, lustful meme below.

Lingerie is for everyone

Xxx – K

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