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Pour Me More – Sept. 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Holiday Shower 2020

Several of you asked about the header photo from my first Pour Me A Glass Members post of the month last week.

And, when I first started my Members pages, I promised that as well as posting photos and videos from my Mistressing Sessions, and my Swinging Fun adventures, I would also be sharing lots of personal candid moments, pictures and film clips with no filters, no re-touching, no pretences, no “breathy, over-acted voices” and no “creative editing”.

Just the real me having fun and being just who I am … with all the lumps and bumps of the “mature” lady that I am.

So my first members-update video for this month is exactly that. From the wonderful summer holiday that I am just back from … after a long day at the beach … washing off the suntan lotion, sand and sea-salt before preparing to head out for an evening meal.

So, I hope you will all enjoy spending some time in the shower with me !!!


Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Back Cover

Now lots of you have been asking for some time for more audio readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries E-books, so I’m happy to say that whilst sitting on my holiday balcony one afternoon enjoying some afternoon shade … and of course a chilled glass of wine … I recorded a short reading from one of the Chapters from Modesty Unmasked. Do let me know if you enjoy listening and I will try to add some more in future updates.


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modestly Keyed #sinfulsunday #polaroidspast

Modesty Ablaze Keyed - 1986

Looking back … to 1986 in this case … always reminds me of just how far we’ve travelled and how much has changed.

Modesty Ablaze Keyed - 2020

Yet the important, simple, personal things … that should really, really matter … haven’t changed at all.

Looking back should always remind one of the important things to cherish when looking forward.

For many more important personal thoughts to cherish,
kiss the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past

Be Proud of Who You Were . . . and Be Proud of Who
You Have Become!

Join me at #polaroidspast and my Polaroids Past slideshow.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Feathered #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Feathered

To use … or to be used on … feathers can be wonderfully erotic and arousing. Don’t you think ???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – September 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter September 202

Yes my Pour Me A Glass Newsletter is rather late this month.


But if you are one of my Pour Me A Glass Members you will know from an email you should have received in mid-August, that I was going to be away on my favourite island vacation until the second week of September.

And … in fact … I actually recorded the accompanying Audio (see below) for this post whilst sat on my holiday balcony enjoying a lovely glass of rosé, (of course), on the last day of what was a truly magical break away from the hustle and bustle of London.


But the good news is that although this September posting is late, I do have lots and lots of photo and video fun to share over the coming weeks and months.
 And I hope you will enjoy viewing them as much as I enjoyed filming them.


But my first exclusive members video for the month is Part Two of my “Making Love on the Telephone” clip … which I simply had to post after receiving so many lovely emails asking for “more”.


Now, when I was recording the audio for this post on my balcony, I said that I hadn’t yet decided on the photos for September’s picture Gallery. I did say that I might include some first-view photos from our holiday … or instead use some different photos from my archives.

In the end I decided to go for the latter option as Hubby pointed out that August’s picture gallery had featured some naked-on-the-beach photos from last year’s holiday, so he suggested it would be better to have some content of a different nature. And, besides which, he hadn’t had the time to sort through the hundreds of new photos from this years trip (but don’t worry, I am insisting he just gets on with that and files them all promptly !!!)


As I have been away, and without wifi, for the best part of the month, I am not including a review of my most popular posts during August (as I simply haven’t had the time since my return to check). However you will be able to scroll through the “Recent Posts” list from the side-bar to the right and catch-up on any that you may have missed.


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Grecian Stairs No.8 … #sinfulsunday

A few months ago it seemed that, for the first time in eight years, I woudn’t be climbing my favourite Grecian stairs this summer.

And even when Hubby suddenly exclaimed “they’re open … I’ve booked … pack your flip-flops … we’re going!” I was a little unsure.

But I’m so glad we went. They were so, so happy to welcome us back and … as you can probably tell … I was so, so happy to be back.

And it was simply the loveliest, most wonderful, best time ever !!!

For lots of other wonderful and fun times just “tap” the lips below at this week’s Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – It’s become a tradition for me to climb these stairs to my favourite restaurant here for the past eight years, and I hope to be able to keep adding each visit to my Exposé Vŭ pages for many years to come.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modest Holiday Wine #Boobday Friday

Everything always tastes better when one is on holiday … and I don’t just mean the wine!!!

And I’m so, so glad that we managed to savour those tastes once again. Cheers !!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Proudly Non-Monochromatic … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Monochromatic

Sometimes a picture is worth a thousand words !!!

Make of it what-you-will … but lest there be any mis-understanding of my intention … one’s right to one’s sexuality, love and lifestyle should be
the holiest commandment of all.

Believers or non … respect, rejoice and celebrate this Sunday below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Groyned … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 1

“No that’s groin … it’s a different spelling completely!” Hubby said rather impatiently. “These are Groynes. They’re here to stop the waves washing
the beach away.”
“I know the sort of groin you’re thinking of !!!” he said as I walked down
a little further towards the water.

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 2

“Well there’s no sand here to wash away anyway” I complained. “I don’t like stoney beaches.”
“And it’s too windy as well” I went on. “Just imagine being up there on the Pier. One would probably be blown over the side”.

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 3

“I know it’s not like our normal summer beach” he said. “But you said you fancied some seaside fun so you will just have to make-do won’t you.
Come on I’ll give you a leg-up to climb over it.”

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 4

“I’d much rather be climbing over my sort of groin!” I told him.
“I’m sure it would be much more comfortable to sit down upon!”

For more climbing and groining at this week’s Sinful Sunday,
just “tap” the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

As uncomfortable as my groyning was, I can at least add “Groynes” as a location to my Scavenger Hunt collection.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Framed #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Framed

Normally I’m the one in control of the lock and keys … but at this week’s Wicked Wednesday it’s me behind bars!!!

View more of this week’s Framing by turning the Wicked Wednesday
button below.

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Xxx- K

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A Modest Lighthouse … #sinfulsunday

A Modest Lighthouse 1

“It’s not very big is it” Hubby said as we reached the end of the path on the hill.

A Modest Lighthouse 2

“Well size isn’t everything!” I replied. “I thought you of all people
would know that!”

“It can be seen for 4 nautical miles” he continued, “and it is still
a working light.” he read from his guidebook.

A Modest Lighthouse 3

“Oooh … you know me, I do love anything nautical” I told him.

“Apparently” he continued, “there used to be a second light further
down the hill and when both lights were aligned the fishermen would
know the tide was high enough to bring their boats up on to the beach.”
“Let’s go round the back and see if there’s any further information inside”.

A Modest Lighthouse 4

“No it’s locked” I told him. “And anyway it’s all very well for you to want to continue exploring, but it’s rather windy and chilly up here for me.
Let’s go back down the hill for that glass of Savvy you promised me!”

I’m sure there will be lots more enlightening fun at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Just switch on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

I did, of course, claim my glass of wine (or two or three) back down in the town … and am also happy to claim “Lighthouse” for my Scavenger Hunt collection as well. Cheers !!!

Xxx – K

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