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Modesty Ablaze “A Modest Workout – Part One” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces A Modest Workout

If you’ve watched some of my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn before, you will probably already know that I do love most forms of sexy fun and adventure. And they do say, don’t they, that having an intense sexy orgasm can be just like running a mini-marathon.

Well this lover in particular always gives me such a powerful, engulfing, exhausting time, that it’s rather like the most demanding physical workout one could possibly imagine.

And that is why I’ve called this, my latest film at Make Love Not Porn, “A Modest Workout”.


Perhaps I should have called it “A Modestly Exhausting Workout” . . . because after a lovely playful sucking and fingering start, you will see just what I mean as our fun quickly builds to an exhausting climax.

Modesty Ablaze with a massive mouthful of lovely cock.

But I wasn’t too exhausted … because after a short winding down, a refreshing glass of wine and a bit of a relaxing chat … we started all over again. But that will be for Part Two of our fun, exhausting, evening.

Now, as always, you can view my introduction to “A Modest Workout Part One” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

A Modest Workout Part One  is my 77th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Modest Workout Part One with tags such as:

#blissful #blowjob #clitastic #gushing #happy #hotelroom #ilubeu #intense #intimate #latenight #loud #messy #passionate #playful #polyamorous #ravenous #safersex #samsung #sony #spirited #succulent #wetime #yes!yes!yes! #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Re-A-Pier-ance #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Pier 1

Long before I was able to fly, summer-time meant exciting days-out to the seaside, and ice-creams on the Pier.

Modesty Ablaze Pier 2

Sitting at the end of the boardwalk and gazing out to sea, dreaming of distant exotic lands … and beaches … far beyond.

Modesty Ablaze Pier 3

Sadly, on my recent seaside staycation, the ice-cream parlour was locked-down and the coffee bar closed.

Modesty Ablaze Pier 4

But it was still lovely to sit and listen to the water lapping below, the sounds of the keep-fit classes behind me, and the fishermen casting their lines over the end of the pier, in front of me.

Because there is something quite enchanting, and comforting, about a pier beside the seaside isn’t there?

For lots of other enchanting memories, just “tap” the lips below at this week’s Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – I do already have several other a-pier-ances, here and here for my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages, so I thought I would add this particular
Pier to my Exposé Vŭ memories.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modest Red Tassles #Boobday Friday

Do you like these? … I do and I occasionally wear them when I go out clubbing.

Well, not just these, I normally wear my stockings and suspenders as well.

But they often don’t stay on very long … and you can probably imagine why,
can’t you???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modestly Wishing … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Wishing Beach

Oh how I wish I was back here on my favourite beach … on my favourite island … in my favourite attire !!!

Instead of the cold wind and rain of an October Sunday here in London.

But I’m sure to find some warming Sinful fun from the luscious lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – October 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass October 2020

Hello, everyone and welcome to my October Newsletter … already !!! The past few weeks in particular just seemed to have flown by.

For me that’s probably because after such a wonderful holiday away on my favourite idyllic island, I’ve been quickly brought back down to earth having to return to all the normal routines of home.

I know I was incredibly lucky to have been able to get away for a summer break when so many others have not been so fortunate. But I hope that some of the holiday photos and videos which I will be sharing here at my Pour Me A Glass Members Pages in the coming months, will at least put a smile on faces and bring a few moments of joy.

I would also like to welcome all of the new Pour Me A Glass Members who joined during August and September … I really do appreciate your support … and hope you will enjoy my pages here.

As I said, I will have some brand new “first-view” videos and photos posted here soon, but my first video for October is actually from two summers ago … and I am posting it to fulfill a “special request” from Jay who recently asked me about “showers”. Now he wasn’t meaning the sort of “Shower” which I added for you here two weeks ago. No, he was meaning “showers” of a completely different sort … I’m sure you know what-sort he means!

Anyway, I did email Jay some links and an explanation of why his exact request might not be appropriate here. But as he replied back so nicely … and because I always like to do my very best to fulfill my members special requests … I thought my “Holiday Relief Compilation” might give some relieving enjoyment for him as well. And, of course, for all of you who may similarly enjoy the sound of running water !!!


This month’s Photo Gallery is also to fulfill a special request … this time for DK who asked to see “more of your Mistress outfits”. These are new photos, unseen anywhere else just yet … so let me know if you would like me to add more from the same session.

And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month Update Posts in the coming weeks … because I do have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!



So … some of my most read posts during September were:

I’ve been so happy to get back to posting some regular “Boobday Friday” posts again.

I am still regularly asked for new postings of my … well … my boobies obviously. And it’s always flattering to have so many of you asking to keep seeing them … so … I managed three postings during the month.A Holiday Wine, Modestly Feathered and … just last Friday … Modest Seatbelts.
AND … you’ll be happy to know … that I’ve returned from my holidays with lots more to post in the coming weeks. >>> Read more >>>


And speaking of my holidays, it has become a tradition over the past eight summers for me to have a photo taken on my favourite Grecian Stairs. But with so many cancellations and restrictions I thought that I wasn’t going to get there at all this year. Thankfully though we did make it, and I think my delight is evident from the smile on my face … at my Sinful Sunday post shortly after I arrived back home.. >>> Read more >>>


Another of my holiday traditions has been to always film an introductory video … on my favourite beach … about my latest Real World Sex film to be published at my Make Love Not Porn pages.

It was really … really … hot as I sat describing my new film Stand To Attention Part 5 – The Doxy Finale. But at least I was able to quickly jump up as soon as I’d finished my explanations … and walk down to the water for a cooling dip. >>> Read more >>>


It was fun to remember some of my previous Make Love Not Porn videos, in myModest Mornings post near the end of the month … for the current Kink of The Week theme about “morning sex”. Now I like sex at any time of the day … but morning playtime fun is a often a bit different isn’t it ? I think so anyway!
>>> Read more >>>


And being different was quite obvious in my Modestly Keyedpost at Sinful Sunday two weeks ago as I re-created one of my “Polaroids Past” photographs from 1986.

>>> Read more>>>


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Banana A Day Holiday Me-Time Fun” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Banana A Day Intro

I know that I was really really fortunate to have been able to get away once again, to my favourite Grecian holiday island this summer, and film lots and lots of fun photos and videos.


But as Hubby was sorting through those new videos on our return, he reminded me that we still had one “playtime” video from LAST summer that we hadn’t actually uploaded to my pages at Make Love Not Porn.


Well … I’m sure you will agree … that we couldn’t start uploading videos from THIS Summer’s holiday, when we hadn’t finished the sequence of LAST summer’s fun, now could we???.


Now, whenever I go away on holiday I always pack my favourite vibrators and lots of lube. And last summer I insisted that Hubby make sure he had his video camera charged at all times so that we could have a video diary of all of our fun.
 And, of course, part of that fun is having at least one play-time session a day!


On this particular day it was unusually windy and rainy outside, so I lay back on our bed with a selection of my toys.
 But, as you will see, I was feeling so horny so quickly, that I ended up using just the one. And as I’ve called this video “A Banana A Day” I think you can probably tell the shape and colour of the one that I chose.


Modesty Ablaze A Banana A Day

Now, as always, you can view my introduction to “A Banana A Day” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<..

A Banana A Day  is my 76th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Banana A Day with tags such as:

#holiday #blissful #chatty #communicative #frenzied #giggly #ilubeu #intense #joyful #loud #passionate #playful #ravenous #sensual #sony #spirited #succulent #yes!yes!yes!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Vane … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Weather Vane

“Well, it doesn’t look like a Weather Vane to me,” I said to Hubby as we paused during our walk along the promenade. “It looks more like a Victorian Bus Stop!”

Modesty Ablaze Weather Vane 2

“The Weather Vane bit is on the top” Hubby replied. “It’s actually a Weather Kiosk and has been here since the 1930’s.”
“It’s staffed by weather volunteers” he went on. “And they record the wind, temperature and tides every day”.

Modesty Ablaze Weather Vane 3

“What !!!” I exclaimed. “You mean you’ve let me stand here like this whilst there’s actually someone sat inside!!!”
“And look, there’s a bus pulling in now anyway!!!” I hissed as I quickly stepped away in case the driver thought we were getting on.

Modesty Ablaze Weather Vane 4

“I suppose we’d better look like we’re interested in all this information” I told him as the bus pulled away and I had calmed down a bit.

Thankfully, the volunteers must have left for the day as nobody came out to start explaining all the charts and numbers in person.

But for more forecasts and reports this Sinful Sunday,
dial-in from the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

I’m not sure if there is a Weather Vane, or Weather Kiosk, Scavenger Hunt location just yet, but I’m rather hoping my meteorological investigations
won’t be in vain.

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again – Sept. 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Making Love on the Phone Part 3 Cover

It has been so lovely over the past two weeks, to have received so many wonderful emails about my “Making Love on the Telephone” videos at my Pour Me A Glass Members page in August and at the beginning of this month.

Initially I’d been a little concerned about the graininess and blurry picture quality, as the impromptu video was filmed on my mobile phone instead of Hubby’s usual camera. But having received so many messages asking for “more”, I added “Part Two” for my September Newsletter post and have been simply thrilled at how many of you have emailed to say how much you’ve enjoyed the intimacy and softness of our love-making.

It’s always nice of course, to receive flattering comments about my photos and film clips, but I don’t think I’ve ever received so many nice words since I began my special Pour Me A Glass Members pages in April of last year.

So I’m delighted to add “Part Three” of our lovely evening to this Members Update, and yes there could be a “Part Four”.

I’m also delighted to welcome several new Pour Me A Glass Members who have joined over the past few weeks … so I will keep the links to my previous Members videos active on the page for longer than is normally possible, so that you may enjoy some back-browsing!


Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Back Cover

As I mentioned two weeks ago, lots of you have been asking for some time for more audio readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries E-books, so I’m happy to say that whilst sitting on my holiday balcony one afternoon enjoying some afternoon shade … and of course a chilled glass of wine … I recorded a short reading from one of the Chapters from Modesty Unmasked. Do let me know if you enjoy listening and I will try to add some more in future updates.


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modest Seatbelts #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Topless Seatbelt

“Seat-belts are compulsory” had said the hire-car man. And, of course, when one is driving abroad, it is most important to act responsibly and follow the rule of law. Even when it’s uncomfortably hot inside and out!!!

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Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.5 – Doxy Finale” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Stand To Attention Part 5"

If you’ve been following me here at Modesty Ablaze for the last few years … you will know that it’s been something of a holiday tradition for me to 
introduce my latest #realworldsex video from this very beach.


So … “Stand To Attention Part Five – The Doxy Finale” follows on directly from my head-banging orgasmic exertions with Lover No. 83 at the end of Part Four.


And as I lay back on the Dungeon Bed to recover from those exertions, No.83 thoughtfully pours me a relaxing glass of Champagne and I tease him that perhaps it’s now time for me to give him the spanking that he’d requested, before I’d gotten so carried away playing with his rather impressive erection.


But then No.83 picks up the Doxy Wand that I’d planned to torment HIM with, during his spanking …

Modesty Ablaze and the Doxy Finale

And as so often happens when I’m still aroused and still feeling horny … and I hear the wonderful buzz of that Doxy … I just have to lay back, spread my legs wide and 
well, I’m sure you can imagine what happened next and YES it was very, very noisy.
 You’ll just have to rent the video to see … won’t you!!!

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 5” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

Standing To Attention – Part 5 – Doxy Finale  is my 75th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 5 – Doxy Finale with tags such as:

#afternoon #blissful #chatty #clitastic #communicative #condomhot #drinkresponsibly #ilubeu #intense #inthedungeon #intimate #joyful #longterm #loud #married #morethemerrier #passionate #playful #polyamourous #sensual #sony #succulent #toytime #vibrato #wand-erful #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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