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Pour Me Again – Nov. 2020 #PMAGW

Nipple Weights for Subby Boy Cover

My second mid-month PMAGW update for November, is especially for Freda who emailed shortly after my Pour Me More posting earlier in the month to remind me that I hadn’t posted any of my Femdom fun for sometime!

So, “Nipple Weights & Dick Slaps for Subby Boy” is especially for her, but I hope you will all enjoy it too. I know I … and Subby Boy of course … certainly enjoyed our pinching and pulling, and slapping, fun.

So let me know your thoughts, or if you have any special requests of your own, from the comments box below or by emailing me directly if you prefer. I haven’t yet decided on the content for my next Pour Me A Glass Members update … and I have lots, and lots, in my archives … so you just never know!


And thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Causeway Revisited #sinfulsunday

Modest Causeway 2020 1

“Well at least it’s not quite as scorching hot as the last time you made me walk all the way across!” I said to Hubby as we neared the halfway point.

Modest Causeway 2020 2

“And it’s not so busy with other walkers either.” he replied.

Modest Causeway 2020 3

“Well that’s probably because it’s so bloody windy!” I said.

Modest Causeway 2020 4

“But do hurry up please … I can hear some other people coming now and you stand-out like a sore-thumb with that camera!” I hissed.

Modest Causeway 2020 5

“I know they may have cameras too … but they’re just taking photos of the view … and they never seem to take such a long, LONG time like you do !!!”

For many more Sinful views this Sunday, just snap
the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – As we had already visited this particular Causeway, at my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages before, I thought I would add this particular
Sunday-stroll to my Exposé Vŭ memories.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modest Reflections #Boobday Friday

Modesty Boobday 2740

I’ve always had a thing about Mirrors … sometimes I like what I see
and long to linger?

Modesty Bum Day 2740

But sometimes not … and I just have to quickly turn-around and look away!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Holiday Playtime – Part 2 – with Bob” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Holiday playtime 2020 Part 2

I always like to have at least one Playtime session a day when I’m on holiday … or maybe two or three!!!

And having become quite worked-up on our apartment sofa earlier, with my new Thrusting Pulsing Dildo, I decided that I needed to cool down and seek a little more comfort.

So I retired to the bedroom … with the air-conditioning on full … and two of my favourite toys to lie-back and relax with.

Because … although that big dildo had been fun, and different … I’m really a clitty girl at heart and at that particular moment, I really really needed to cum!

So although this video is quite noisy … and quite quick … I hope you will enjoy joining my satisfying, pink bob, me-time fun.

Modesty Ablaze PinkBob fun 1

You can view my introduction to the video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

Holiday Playtime – Part 2 – with Pink Bob  is my 79th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Holiday Playtime – Part 2 – with Pink Bob with tags such as:

#afternoon #clitastic #giggly #happy #holiday #ilubeu #joyful #loud #married #metime #dildo #toytime #vacationtime #orgasmic

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Just Landed #sinfulsunday

Modesty Just Landed Sinful Sunday 1

I was so happy … after all the disappointments and cancellations … to finally arrive at our summer holiday apartment, that I simply had to …

Modesty Ablaze Just Landed Sinful 2

… just throw off all my clothes and savour that first wonderful moment on our lovely balcony.

Even before the unpacking … even before that first glass of wine … so you can tell just how desperate I was !!!

To unpack this week’s Sinful Sunday just kiss the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Garnished #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Garnished Boobs

I always think it’s fun to add a little garnish to things … don’t you?

Especially when they feel, and smell, so fresh and calming!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – Nov. 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Shower Cleaning Slave Cover

I started my Pour Me A Glass Members Page here several years ago, as a special space for my most regular and long-standing followers. A space where I could share exclusive first-view videos and photos of recent fun times … or content that was perhaps “too candid”, or not “appropriate”, for my other spaces on the web.

And I mentioned in my early PMAG postings, that I would welcome suggestions for the type of content and photos that members would most like to see.

Well … I was very quickly overwhelmed with requests for all sorts of “custom-content” … a lot of which has been lots of fun for me to fulfill in my PMAGOW Members postings since.

Some of your requests have, of course, not really been my-sort-of-thing … but I am always thrilled with how respectful and understanding you have all been to my responses and replies.

So … this month’s first update definitely falls into the “too candid” category … but is one of the most-often requested themes, particularly since my Holiday Relief Compilation video at the beginning of October. It seems that so many of you like the sound of running water lol!!!

But do let me know your thoughts on this particular video, and if you would like to see more, from the comments box below … and you just never know!


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Five Hundred Strokes #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty The London Dominatrix

I discovered Sinful Sunday shortly after setting my alter-ego ablaze, for the first time on-line, early in 2012. But, of course, I was far too shy to join-in back then … until my first Sinful posting in February 2013. But I quickly became addicted and haven’t missed very many Sundays since.

Because it’s been such a lovely stepping-stone for me to discover and explore so many wonderfully exciting and powerful images … and so many wonderful and inspirational people.

So huge kisses and congratulations Molly … to have reached 500 weeks of Sinful Sunday and to have touched and inspired so many people over all those years … is an amazing achievement.

And it is something for which Molly should be rightfully proud … and we should all be gratefully thankful.

So let’s celebrate, and pray (and play) for 500 Hundred MORE,
by kissing the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Masked #Boobday Friday

Modestly Masked Boobday Friday

Today’s Boobday Friday is especially for the lovely Elliott who sent me several wonderfully coloured face-masks during the week.

I do love my masks of course, but I wanted to model my new favourite for him … and as I know he enjoy’s my Boob-days … I thought this would be the perfect way to say “Thank You” !!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – November 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze PMAG November 2020

Hello everyone, welcome to my Pour Me A Glass Newsletter for November.

It’s probably quite obvious from the title of my Newsletters here, and from the content of lots of my postings here at Modesty Ablaze, that I’m rather partial to a glass of wine … or three .. or four!!!

But I do try to manage my wine-intake responsibly … and to counter it’s impact … by exercising as regularly as I can. And, no I don’t mean just the sort of exercising that you may think from my usual videos here.

I mean regular walking and running … and resistance training with my weights and bands … which I even take away on holiday with me.

So, for my first Members Video for November … and as a complete change from my usual “Themes” here … I thought I would share some of my morning “Squats and Stretches” routine from my Holiday Balcony.

I should warn you though that, even early in the morning, it was uncomfortably hot and sticky … so I had to do all my exercising completely naked. I’m sure you won’t mind though will you?

Last month’s Photo Gallery of some new photos taken during one of my Mistressing weekends away, was very popular with lots of you asking for more. So this month’s Gallery has more photos from that session. I really enjoyed myself in such lovely surroundings … so I hope you will enjoy these new photos, which haven’t been shared anywhere else just yet.

And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month update posts in the coming weeks … because I have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!archives !!!



So … some of my most read posts during October were:

Modesty Ablaze introduces A Modest Workout

Now, I submitted two more videos to my favourite on-line streaming site during October. By favourite, I mean of course, Cindy Gallop’s fabulous Make Love Not Porn. The first wasA Modest Workoutfeaturing some exhausting … and passionate … fun with one of my “fittest” Lovers from last year. And then just last week I uploaded the first of my Play-Time videos from this summer, Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Me-Time, and you can probably tell from the rather long title, just what that video features!
>>> Read more >>>


Twice Barred with SheLover

I’m always receiving requests for more “Boobday Friday” posts, so I was delighted to be able to post FOUR “Boobdays” during October. Red Tassles, Bougainvillea, Modestly Fanning and finally, Twice Barred which had some two-for-one fun with my lovely friend SheLover.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze applying lipstick

One of my most viewed posts during the month wasn’t of my boobs though … it was actually of my lips, when I explained about my Lipstick Techniques for a Wicked Wednesday posting early in the month.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty reading from Modesty Unmasked Ebook

Now as I’ve mentioned before, I don’t actually like hearing the sound of my own voice. But I continue reading my newsletters here each month because so many of you keep asking me to do so. And I’ve also had lots of requests to add some audio-readings from my Ebooks. So my A Friday Quickie with Deeposting, features a few minutes of me reading from a chapter of my “Modesty Unmasked” diary of a few years ago. There is more from that recording … so if you ask me nicely, I may upload it some time during November.!
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze sitting on the Pier topless

I’m sure you all know how much I enjoy my Exposé Vŭ Scavenger Hunt photo-outings … and I had such a lot of fun … and thrills … posing for my Sinful Sunday Modest Re-Appearance photos on the Pier, that I am really happy that it was one of my “most-viewed” posts of the month !!! >>> Read more>>>


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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