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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – April 2021 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass of Wine Podcast for April 2021

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for April 2021 … with a round-up of my most popular posts over the past month … AND news of this months Members Video and Photo Gallery.


I’d like to welcome several new Pour Me A Glass Members who have joined me here in the past few weeks … and I’m happy to say that an upgrade to the PMAG section of my “Modest Server” … something technical I’m told, not one of my Submissives … not only means that the videos should play more quickly than before, but also that I’m able to keep more of the previous Members Videos live and available to view for longer than previously. Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for back-links to view.  

So … onto my first Members Video for the month which is especially for Sally who requested “another video with one of your special Lovers”.

In fact Sally actually asked for a video featuring one Lover in particular … whom she has seen in several of my #Real World Sex videos on my Make Love Not Porn profile. I think she has a bit of a “thing” for him actually … and you know me … I’m always willing to share !!!

And watching it all over again did bring back such lovely memories … and you will be able see just which Lover it is in April’s first Video. So I hope you will enjoy it as much as I … rather obviously … did !!!

This months Members Photo Gallery is to answer a question I’m often asked about whether or not I ever “double-session” with another FemDom dominatrix … and as you will see from these photos … I occasionally do !!!

Now as I always say, I have lots and lots of videos and photos in my archives, so just let me know what sort of fun you would most like me to share. The choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.


So … looking back at my most popular posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com …


Modesty Ablaze 200th Boobday Friday

I was happy to once again to be able to post a Boobday Friday post each week during the month . … starting with aGift Nettingphoto of a lovely Bodystocking I received from my Wishlist.
But a rather special post for me was for the second Friday of the month, when I actually celebrated my 200th Boobday posting since my very first Boobday in September 2015.
I’m not sure that I will be able to manage another 200 photos of my boobies in the future … but I will, of course, keep trying if you’d like me to !!
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Mouth Open Wide Eyes Tightly Shut

I posted two Wicked Wednesday postings during the month … Mouth Open, Eyes Shut and Modestly MILF … which both featured extracts from my “Modesty Ablaze London Hotwife Diaries” … of which I hope to have a new edition published on my Amazon, Gumroad and Etsy pages later on in the year. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Architecture

I’m always in awe of the beautiful photos that I see on Sinful Sunday each week … and whilst I could never hope to match the creativity and artistry of many of them … I was rather proud of Hubby’s Architecture photograph for the last Sunday of March.


>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Exposure at 4Thoughts for Fiction

I don’t manage to join-in with May More’s 4 Thoughts or Fiction meme as often as I’d like to …

But I simply couldn’t resist the “Exposed” theme during the month with my Modest Exposure posting.


>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Lunchtime Garage Quickie

And for my final post of the month I was happy to add another Real World Sex video to my Make Love Not Porn collection. MyMe-Time Lunchtime Quickie in the Garage was actually filmed during our first lock-down last year … but I didn’t really think it was appropriate to release it back then. But then recently I thought, well why not? It was, after all, just a little bit of much-needed, enjoyable, self-indulgent fun … like all of my videos at Make Love Not Porn are!!! >>> Read more>>>


So thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For almost two now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Mirrored Doorway #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Mirrored Door

Goodness it’s like playing Spin-the-Bottle isn’t it? … I mean this week’s Sinful Sunday!!! But instead of removing an item of clothing, one has to find a photo to fit the words where the spin stops.

Well my spin stopped at “Doorways” and “Mirrors” but … I still just couldn’t stop myself … bad habits you see!!!

For more Spinning Right Round this Sinful Sunday, simply spin
on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Breakfast Bun #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Breakfast Bun

I can’t think of many things more enjoyable, on a sleepy Good Friday morning, than a Hot Cross Bun in bed.

Well perhaps one or two things … hopefully that will come when one has to clean-up the crumbs!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Me-Time Garage Quickie"

Welcome to the “Back Seat of my Car” … I’m sitting here because I want to tell you about my latest “Real World Sex” video at Make Love Not Porn.


“A Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” was actually filmed last summer … before our island-vacation … but with everything going on in the world at the time, I didn’t really think it was appropriate to upload it to my Make Love Not Porn pages at that particular moment.

But looking back through my archives these past few weeks I actually thought … well “why not ???” It was, after all, just a little bit of much-needed, enjoyable, indulgent fun. 
And that is simply what my videos are all about … just trying to have some enjoyable, sometimes silly, sometimes self-indulgent … but always for me at least, relieving “Real World” fun moments.

So I hope you will feel the same, and enjoy it too. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

Modesty Ablaze in the backseat of her car.

You can view my introduction to “Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage  is my 84th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #blissful #clitastic #intense #intimate #joyful #married #metime #quickie #relaxing #sensual #toytime
#vanlife #wand-erful

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Architecture #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Ruined Architecture

I know I’ve mentioned here before … as far back as 2014 … how I’ve always felt something special, about ancient buildings and architecture.


For me they have a special style or beauty that I just don’t feel about modern-day architecture … even if as here, centuries of wars and the ravages of weather have taken their toll.

To view many more exposing images this Sinful Sunday, simply click
on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – As I already have Ruins” and “Historical Places” in my
Naughty Scavenger Hunt collection, I shall add this latest adventure to
my Exposé Vŭ memories below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modestly Steeled #Boobday Friday

Modest Boobday Stainless Steel Ring

I’m presently steeling myself against further delays and disappointments … wishing and praying that my favourite Chambers can re-open on schedule.

In the meantime this lovely Stainless Steel Ring and Restraint Bar I received for review recently has proved very useful in my morning workouts, as I try to rebuild the strength and co-ordination in my spanking arm and palms.

Oh, and of course, I do like the feel of steel brushing across my … bits!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Yet Again – March Members Update No.2 #PMAGW

Mistress Modesty Dispensing Her Champagne

My second mid-month update film for March, follows on directly from myMistresses CBT and Champagne Tease earlier in the month … as so many of you requested to see how that session had continued. And, of course, whether I was able to compose myself enough to be able to actually dispense the champagne that my Submissive was so desperate for!!!


Well … after topping-up with several more glasses, interspersed with more tapping and slapping of his cock and balls … I was finally ready !!!


So … I hope you will enjoy Dispensing Mistresses Champagne as much as he, very obviously, did.


Thank you once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full … as you will see in the video, I never waste a drop!!!

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modest Patterns #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Patterns 1

As I mentioned in my Boobday Friday post this week, in all the years we’ve been visiting our beach we’ve never had to buy an umbrella. We’d usually find one left behind from previous holiday-makers the week before.

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Patterns 2

But last summer was different … in so many ways … and it was clear that there had been few visitors on the beach before us.

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Patterns 3

We found just one, wedged between some rocks at the far end of the beach, tattered and torn. Perhaps it was even a relic from the summer before? But it still opened … and made for some lovely patterns in the mid-day sun!

For many more Sinful Patterns this Sinful Sunday, gently rub the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Shadowed #Boobday Friday

Modestly Shadowed Boobday Friday

In all the years we’ve been visiting our beach we’ve never had to buy an umbrella. We’d usually find one left behind from previous holiday-makers the week before. But last summer was different … in so many ways … and it was clear that there had been few visitors on the beach before us.

We found just one, wedged between some rocks at the far end of the beach, tattered and torn. Perhaps it was even a relic from the summer before? But it still opened … and made for some lovely patterns in the mid-day sun!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Another – March Members Update #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Mid Month Update March 2021

My first Pour Me A Glass Members mid-month update for March is “Mistresses CBT and Champagne Tease” … because when I asked for your preferred requests at the beginning of the month, “more FemDom please” was … by the slimmest majority … your most favoured suggestion. And, as some of you requested more “showers please”, I thought I would combine the two !!!


However … as you might be able to tell from the ending of the video … things didn’t go quite to plan. At least not initially. So if you would like to see “Part Two” when I was able to completely fulfill my Subs request, then do let me know in the comments box below.


Because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

Pour Modesty Ablaze A Glass of Wine

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