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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – May 2021 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Modcast Feet May 2021

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for May 2021 … with a round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Members Video and Photo Gallery.


It was lovely to receive so many messages after publishing both of April’s Members Videos telling me how much you all enjoyed them. 

So … naturally … this month’s first Members Video carries on directly from where Part Two of my “Mistresses Submission” left-off in April. And, as I mentioned then, watching it all over again does bring back such lovely memories!!!

And as life is now … slowly … beginning to return to some normality, I’m hoping to be able to start having similar fun again soon. It can’t come soon enough!!!

April’s Members Photo Gallery from one of my “double-domme-sessions” with another Mistress … was also very popular with you all. So although I don’t have any new photos with that particular lady … I do, of course, have lots and lots of session photos in my archives. So this months Gallery features more fun from my Dungeons!!!

But, as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them … all sensible requests considered.


So … looking back at my most popular posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com …


Modest Droplets

I managed once again to post a Boobday Friday post each week during the month . … beginning with my Modest Breakfast Bun. But my own favourite was Modest Droplets … my second Boobday of the month !!
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Mistress Modesty Wind Down

I was also happy to add another #realworldsex video to my Make Love Not Porn collection in April. A Post-Session Wind Down is actually my 85th video at my favourite movie channel … and illustrated how I often get quite aroused during my Mistressing sessions. You’ll just have to watch the video to see what I mean!!! >>> Read more >>>


Sohimi Wand Massager

I don’t post as many “Product Reviews” as I used to. Because I must confess that I seem to have collected so many vibrators and dildos … and plugs … over the years … that I don’t get as excited by new arrivals as I did before. But the amazing price offers from a new-to-me supplier called Sohimi, inspired me to try their Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager. And as you can tell from my review I was certainly glad that I did. It has become my favourite “portable” wand of the moment.
>>> Read more >>>


Mistress Modesty Courage

I was also glad to join in with the Wicked Wednesday theme of Courage during the month as it gave me the opportunity to rant a little … just a little … about the way that “submission” is normally portrayed in the mainstream.
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Mistress Modesty Strapping-in

But thankfully my final Sinful Sunday post of the month … Modestly Strapping In allowed me to bring some light-hearted fun back to my Modest postings.
And fun is how EVERYTHING should always be … don’t you think !!! >>> Read more>>>


So thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For almost two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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At my happiest #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Balcony 2020 2695

I am … always at my happiest … standing on this balcony!!!

Amongst the sweet scent of bougainvillea, feeling the warming summer sun upon my skin … and listening to that calming sound of gentle waves rolling in on my favourite beach below.

“I Am” … is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday. Tap the lips below for more!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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The Last Photo #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze last photo Boobday Friday

Sat forlornly on our balcony on the last day of our holiday last year … waiting for the cab to turn into the driveway and take us to the airport.

Yes, I did put some clothes on for the journey home … though after two wonderful weeks it felt so uncomfortable and unnecessary.

This was the last photo taken on that holiday … I’m still hoping and praying we will have the opportunity to take many more again this year!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Post-Session Wind Down” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Post-Session Wind Down" video at MakeLoveNotPorn

As some of you will already know, one of my most enjoyable “hobbies”, is my Mistress Modesty Sessioning fun. And I particularly enjoy administering some fun hand-spanking … or perhaps a light caning to the bottoms of my … always willing, spanking-submissives.

And quite often, I enjoy those sessions so much that I find myself becoming quite aroused and sometimes even really, really horny!!!

And that was certainly the case after my most recent spanking session when … having warmed and reddened my happy submissives bottom to his complete satisfaction … I just had to retire to my boudoir and lay back with my favourite Doxy Wand for some complete satisfaction of my own.

Now if you’ve viewed my Doxy Wand in action before … or if you have one of your own … you will know how quickly it can drive one over the edge.

And despite me trying to slow things down and tease myself along more slowly, it wasn’t very long before I completely lost control of my emotions.

You will just have to watch the full video to see exactly what I mean …

Modesty Ablaze and her Doxy Wand in "A Post-Session Wind Down" RealWorldSex video

So I hope you will enjoy my Post-Session Wind Down fun. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

You can view my introduction to “A Post-Session Wind Down” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Post-Session Wind Down  is my 85th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Post-Session Wind Down with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #clitastic #hotelroom #intense #joyful #kinky #loud #married #metime #playful #quickie #samsung #sensual #spirited #toytime #wand-erfull

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Strapping-in #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 1

“It’s so lovely to hear that you’ve missed me. And there’s simply no need to worry about being a little out of practice …”

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 2

“Because … I rather feel it’s a bit like riding a bike really. One just has to start slowly and build-up a gentle rhythm!”

To discover lots of others strapping-in and saddling-up this Sinful Sunday, just push gently on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Tipped #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Tipped at BoobDay Friday

Shall I ? … or shan’t I ? … wear a bra into the office today???

Well, the answer to that question always depends on what else I have chosen to wear … as I would never wish to cause any discomfort or embarrassment for other colleagues, or co-commuters, that I may encounter during the day!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

Boobday Friday Badge

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – April Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Mistresses Submission Cover Part 2

My first Pour Me A Glass Members mid-month update for April is Part Two of my “Mistresses Submission” which I’d posted here on my Members page to fulfill a special request from one of my longest PMAG members, the lovely Sally.
And as several of you messaged to say how much you’d enjoyed the passion, and my obvious enjoyment of our fun, I could hardly not post Part 2 now could I?

I do have more in my archives of this wonderful evening … and in fact lots more in my archives of this amazing Lover … so do let me know if you would like to see more. Or perhaps instead you may prefer some of my Femdom fun, or perhaps more of my Naked Exhibitionism excursions.

Because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past two weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modest Grips #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday White Grips

You know what it’s like when working in front of a hot oven … one needs some protection to avoid burning one’s … finger-tips!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

Boobday Friday Badge

Xxx – K

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Modest Legs Eleven #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Lilo Apr21

Lucky for some? … I’m certainly hoping and praying that my numbers come up again for this summer!!!

Just so I can lay back in the manner I’ve become accustomed to …
and so obviously deserve … and be pushed slowly back and forth
along my favourite beach!!!

I’m sure there will be lots more Pick ‘n Mix, Cups of Tea, Knocks at the Door and Garden Gate to Eye Spy at this week’s Sinful Sunday, by tap, tap, tapping on the Lucky-Lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Droplets #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday April 9th 2021

I do love a morning shower … just a few moments alone (usually!!!) with my thoughts … to start the day invigorated and refreshed for all that lies ahead.

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

Boobday Friday Badge

Xxx – K

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