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Paired Again #BoobDay 238

Paired Again SheLover Boobday 238

My Modestly Paired post here earlier this year with the lovely SheLover has been one of my most visited Boobday posts … and I’ve had numerous requests since then for more.

So … this is another photo from that same Double Domme session at my favourite Chambers for you all to enjoy. Which I’m sure you will!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 230 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – December 2021 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter December 2021

Hello everyone … and welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast and Newsletter for December 2021 … my monthly round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.

One of my mid-month Members Videos in November wasOral Feast and Feeling it Grow which featured more from a fun and very passionate evening with Lavender Lover. And I received a flurry of messages soon after that posting … to ask for more videos of my impressive and talented lover.

So this month’s first featured film … is actually from that same evening … as I continued with my oral feasting on Lavenders lovely and impressive cock. So … completely unedited and with every suck as it happened … I hope you will all enjoy Part Two of that amazing feasting as much as I obviously did!!!

Now … my private Members pages here, often allow me to share much more “candid” moments than I can possibly share at any of my other Clips sites. And this month’s Photo Gallery certainly features some very “candid” photos indeed … and is especially for one of my earliest members Paul, who requested more of my “water” fun content.

You can probably guess that by “water fun” he doesn’t mean “splashing about on the beach”. … his request was for sporty fun of a completely different kind. … I’m sure you know what I mean. Perhaps if enough of you tell me that you’d enjoy more of this type of content I will upload the videos from where these screen-shots were taken.

So I hope you will all enjoy these first updates for the month … and do send me some requests of your own as well … because … as I always say … the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send in your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them. 


Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday Posts

Now … my Boobday Fridays postings are always popular … and once again during November, I added a new Boobday picture every week.
So you might like to revisit Blue Nails, Modest Parapet, Un-bra’d and last Friday’s Black Collar … and tell me which one was your particular favourite. >>> Read more >>>


Taking Mistresses Strap-On Part Two

I’d been a little worried that my “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” video that I’d added to my Make Love Not Porn pages in October … may not have been to everyone’s liking. … But I was absolutely thrilled to receive lots of messages asking to see how that session continued … that I simply had to uploadPart Twoof that Fun Pegging to my … over 90 videos now … in my Make Love Not Porn collection. Perhaps I should add more of my Femdom videos there too … what do you think ???.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Lost In Lust sucking two cocks

I submitted two posts to Wicked Wednesday during the month. …Modestly Lost in Lustand A Modest Panty Line … are both excerpts from my soon to be published “Modestly Unleashed” Ebook.
It will be Part Eight of my Diaries of a London Hotwifeseries which I’m hoping to have available at my Amazon and Gumroad pages in the New Year. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Causeway Revisited 2021

I love posting to Sinful Sunday every week if I possibly can … and my favourite in November was my Causeway Revisited … half way through the month … because it gave me the opportunity to share more of my “nude in public” fun from my summer holiday last August. And if you enjoy revisiting those special places with me too … then do watch this space as I still have lots more to share. >>> Read more >>>


So thank you all once again, for continuing to support me here at my Pour Me A Glass pages … I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Summer Stroll … #sinfulsunday

It’s been so, so cold in London today … so I’ve been thinking back to the summer strolls I enjoyed on “my beach” in August.

So if, like me, you’d like to be feeling more warmth this Sinful Sunday just tap on the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest in Black #BoobDay 237

Modesty Ablaze Black Collar Boobday 237

What do you think of my new Black Collar? I really love it … but this morning I’m struggling to think of anything that I can wear it with!!!

All suggestions welcomed …

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be perfectly happy to link to your own posts directly from my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 230 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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A Modest Panty-Line #KOTW

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It had been over three years since Vince had first visited from the Paris office. His boyish good looks and stylish demeanour had me swooning even before I heard him speak with that lovely, so lovely, French accent.

It had been my task to introduce him around the office and begin arranging his first client briefings and meetings. And within two days the CEO decided to add the organisation of his diary to my already busy workload.

But, as you will already know if you’ve read my previous mentions of him in my The Journey, Arrivals & Departures and The Balcony Ebooks here, my initial upset at being given this unwanted responsibility was soon swayed by the young Frenchman’s wit and charm. And it wasn’t long after his first brief stay in London, before our relationship developed into more … much more.

The next two years of his regular visits back and forth between London and Paris always meant at least two or three wonderfully passionate “after work” evenings at the company apartment that was always his for the duration of his stays.

But being a passionate lover wasn’t his only talent and within three years he’d risen up the ranks in the company to quickly become Director of European Operations and his visits became less frequent and for just for a few days at a time. I was no longer in charge of his diary of course, but he’d always call to give me prior notice of his next visit so that I could pre-arrange an “evening out”.

So I was surprised when he breezed into the office on Wednesday morning asking if an office could be arranged for the next two days.

“You didn’t call” I said, resisting my urge to want to jump up and give him a welcoming embrace, despite the fact that he was giving his normal peck on each cheek and vigorous hand shakes and flourishing gestures, to everyone else in the office.

When he did turn back to speak to me, there wasn’t even a hint of apology as he shrugged and said “It’s been all last minute, they want me to do two urgent meetings”.

“Well it would have been nice to know in advance …” I was annoyed at myself for being annoyed, and letting him see that I was.

He leant forward with his hands on my desk smiling broadly but saying nothing. He knew he didn’t have to. “I’m sure I’ll be able to arrange a desk for you” I told him.

“Thank you my darling” he grinned, “I’ll be back at noon, see you then”.

It wasn’t difficult to book-out one of the meeting rooms, especially as it was for him, and only for two days. Two days … but what about the two nights? He’d always given me warning before, always told me how much he wanted to see me, to spend time in my arms again.

He didn’t return for the rest of the day, and didn’t return my text to say I’d blocked-out an office for him for both days. I felt like a spurned school girl as I kept checking my phone for the rest of the afternoon … and even on the journey home.

Hubby’s assertions that I was over-reacting didn’t help, and his suggestion that I should just ask him in the morning about his plans for that evening, made me even more annoyed. He’d always been the one to ask me in the past. To tease and entice me. I shouldn’t have to be the one doing the chasing.

But ….

I’ve never been one for short skirts in the office, at least not as short as many of the other girls. They were mostly younger … and more able to carry off shorter lengths and different styles than I. But as I readied for the morning commute I’d already made up mind to remind him of what he’d missed the previous night … or what he could still enjoy for the evening ahead.

I chose my favourite white blouse and tweed skirt, mid-length but loose and flirty enough to show a glimpse of the black band of my hold-ups if I tried. And I intended to try.

My long coat, and black panties, would make my bus journey into the office safe and respectable, but I planned to lose both once I arrived.

He was already in when I arrived. I could see him sitting at the desk through the blinds, on the phone and scribbling notes on the pad in front of him.

He was still on the phone when I returned from the coffee machine. I paused at the door to furtively unbutton the top three buttons on my blouse. I don’t really have a cleavage to show off, but I knew he would be able to tell I was without a bra. I knew because I’d practiced at home … and in the restroom after I’d arrived.

I closed the door behind me and walked across to his desk. He looked up and smiled a greeting, still in conversation, but pausing as I leaned forward to put his coffee on top of his writing pad. I could tell from the pause in his voice, and the excited smile, that he had seen what I’d wanted him to see.

I stepped back to the meeting table and pulled one of the chairs out and away from the desk, to sit down with my back to the blinds of the glass partition to the corridor beyond, but directly facing him. I leaned back in the chair, opening my legs and sliding back the hem of my skirt. I’d practiced this at home too, and knew that having removed my panties in the restroom earlier, he would again be seeing what I wanted him to see.

He was speaking quickly in French so I couldn’t tell to whom, nor the nature of the conversation, but I could tell he was bringing it to an abrupt end.

“You are a very naughty lady” he laughed as he stood and walked to the table, sitting down in the chair across from me. I knew anyone looking in from the corridor would see only my back and him sitting opposite me.

“You’ve always told me that was what you like about me” I smiled, leaning back further in the chair …

(to be continued if you ask me nicely)!!!


The above is an excerpt from a Chapter from “Modesty Unleashed”, the eighth of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” Ebooks which is soon to be published at my Amazon, Gumroad, Fun Store and Etsy pages.

The current theme at Kink of the Week is VPN (Virtual Panty Line) but, on this occasion I certainly didn’t have one of those …


However, for lots of other different-than-normal moments, I suggest you visit this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, by clicking on the lovely rainbow button below!

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As is always the case in my Modesty Ablaze Diaries editions, the names of all of my “friends” here have been changed for the purpose of maintaining anonymity!

Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Taking Mistresses Strap On Part 2

A few weeks ago I uploaded one of my Femdom Role-Play videos to my profile at Make Love Not Porn … after I’d received several emails asking if I had any “pegging” content to share there.

Well of course I do have lots of “Strap-On” videos from my “Mistressing Sessions” … so I thought it would be fun to add one of them, “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” which featured “SubbyBoy” who, as well as being one of my favourite Submissive play-partners, also loves receiving a good old fashioned pegging.

And I’m delighted to say that I soon received a number of emails asking to see more of that session … and how “far” … that particular Strap-On actually went.

So … I’ve just uploaded “Part Two” of our fun which will show just how far, and how intense, our play-time actually was!

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt2 One

Now as I mentioned in my introduction to “Part One”, I suppose you could say that some of my language in the video is rather aggressive and forceful. But my teasing humiliation is just how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions, because it adds to the intensity of his emotions and enjoyment.

And I think you will be able to see just how much he’s enjoying himself, when you watch the video.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two”  is my 92nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt.2 Two

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety Two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modest Tease & Denial … #sinfulsunday

Modest Tease and Denial Sinful Sunday

“So let’s just see shall we. It could be double-the-pleasure couldn’t it!!!”

For lot’s more Teasing Pleasure this Sinful Sunday just squeeze and pinch the lovely lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Unbra’d #BoobDay 236

Modestly Unbra'd Boobday #236

I don’t often wear one, but when I do … oh the relief, and release, at the end of the day when I can finally unclip myself and take it off.

And then it’s just a question of waiting for those unsightly marks to fade … so that I can feel my, normal, unrestrained self again!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be perfectly happy to link to your own posts directly from my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 230 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – November 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Oral Feast Cover

Not one, but two Members Videos for my first mid-month Pour Me A Glass Members update for November.

The first of which is for a new PMAG Member Rosie who has been catching-up on my previous “Lavender Lover” videos here and has asked to see more of my fun with him.

So “Oral Feast – Feeling it Grow” carries on with our fun evening … after I’d had a little time to recover from the amazing finger-fucking cum he’d just given me, of course … when I felt I should spoil him with some attention of my own. And, as you will see, I just love licking and sucking on him and feeling him grow harder and harder in my mouth!

Oh, and speaking of new members, I am now selecting one lucky new subscriber each month and sending them a code for a one month’s free subscription to one of my other Fans sites to which I post almost daily-updates of “catch- up” short preview clips and photo excerpts from my fun-archives over the past decade. So … apart from all the other fun benefits for Subscribers, that is now even more reason to join me here at my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members pages.

And, for my second mid-month update video for November? … Well, that is something completely different because I always give my accompanying holiday submissive lots, and lots, of different Submissive Tasks every day on my Summer Holidays … and mopping up my holiday balcony is just one of them. Naked of course! See for yourself by clicking on the cover below from the link in the Members page!!!

Pathetic Dick Mopping Mistresses Balcony

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from November by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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Causeway Revisited 2021 #sinfulsunday

Modest Causeway 21 1

It’s always windy on the Causeway of course … but this year Hubby complained it was so windy he could hardly hold the camera still!

Modest Causeway 21 2

At least that was his excuse for taking so long between each click.

Modest Causeway 21 3

But despite it always being windy, I simply love strolling out to the Monument each year!

Modest Causeway 21 4

And just enjoying the cooling wind blowing in from the water … and admiring the lovely view!

Fingers crossed we will be able to return once again next year!

To enjoy more lovely views being shared at this week’s Sinful Sunday just kiss on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

I added my first visit in 2016 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but simply have to add this year’s to my other favourites at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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