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Modest Rules & Punishment #sinfulsunday

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Originally posted for Kink of the Week around the beginning of 2022, but subsequently lost from my pages here during my “semi-retirement”. (See Modestly Returning from April 2024).

You may be surprised when I tell you that I’ve always believed in following “the rules” … I was brought up a good Catholic girl after all. So ones conduct and adhering to the principles and codes of acceptable behaviour was ingrained, and in my younger years at least, unquestioned.

As was the notion that should one stray, chastisement and punishment was always bound to follow … in some form or another.

And so of course, it was almost second-nature for me to carry those principles forward as part of my Mistress Modesty persona.

And yet, such is the incongruous nature of the world of kink and fetish that one often finds oneself in, that “punishment” turns out to be a much sought after … and most enjoyable of passions … for all of those involved!!!

So my rule today is to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by smacking the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Elust 181 – January 2025

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Cover image courtesy of Angelica Noi.Photography by Chris Nutt.

I am delighted to have my recentModest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10posting, included within the Erotic Non-Fiction Category of the latest edition of Elust … the monthly online compilation of sex-positive articles from the blogging community from all around the world.


So … Welcome to Elust 181

Cover image courtesy of  Angelica Noi. Photography by Chris Nutt.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

If you have a post included, please re-post the latest edition on your own blog, ideally with your own unique comments next to each link, or a paragraph for each category and/or write your own introduction.

For SEO purposes, non-identical re-posts of Elust are much better for search ranking, and it’s more appealing for readers.

Here’s an Example of Elust 180 published by Sextoy DB with unique comments for each post.

Click here to Subscribe to email updates if you’d like to receive Elust as an email once per month.

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Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Come-In (Part 2)

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 5

Peach Kisser, Mid-Flight Hospitality

Simone Francis, Fetish Secretary

Ambyr Leigh, My Terrible Date Fucked Me Bareback In The Backseat Of His Car

Schey Place Books, The Story So Far

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Natalie Hepburn, Surviving a Dead Bedroom

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Erotism and the Transcendence of the Ego

Blogging

Miss Ruby Reviews, A Decade in the Sex Toy Industry

Erotic Non Fiction

Modesty Ablaze, Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The alchemy of surrender and activation

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast Marchosias

Oh Joy Sex Toy, The Uberrime Fantasy by Hien Pham

Sydney Screams, FemmeFunn Klio Vibrator Review

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cara Sutra, How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

Sex Work

Lady Ava Sheridon, The Application Process; and why yours might be unsuccessful

Kristina J, Authenticity and Connection: The Art of Being Real in Sex Work

Princess Kaz, Dommes – Carving Out You-Time

Miss Kim Rub, Leather Fetishist Domme

Sex Worker Search, Are Sex Workers Welcome on Bluesky?

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humour

History of BDSM, “People Who Like Kinky Sex Are Just Bad In Bed”: Evie Magazine and the Raw Milkmaid Dress


Ambyr Leigh, Awakening Your Inner Essence, Cara Sutra, Fern River Cub, History of BDSM, Jerusalem Mortimer, Kristina J, Lady Ava Sheridon, Miss Kim Rub, Miss Ruby Reviews, Modesty Ablaze, Morgan Destera, Natalie Hepburn, Oh Joy Sex Toy, Peach Kisser, Princess Kaz, Schey Place Books, Sex Worker Search, Simone Francis, Sydney Screams, Tantric Sexual Healing


Elust Sex Blogs

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Garden Shade #boobday 376

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Happy, warming #boobday memories from this past summer lounging on our garden patio.

Oh how I wish I could be out there, enjoying some warming-sun right now!!!

And please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members – Mid-January 2025 #PMAGW Update

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Hello everybody … and welcome to my Mid-Month Members Update for … January 2025.

It was absolutely wonderful to receive so many lovely emails and messages following my January post and videos. And especially thrilling for me to hear that so many of you find my “candid” approach … and openness … is so enjoyable and so much fun to watch.

I do love flattery of course (what woman doesn’t), but to have so many of you say such nice things about my “natural approach and delivery” and my “frankness” and “open-mindedness” … makes me feel so happy and warm and tingly all over. So thank you, thank you …

So, because you wanted to see “more” of how my “Thrusting Holiday Dildo Playtime” continued in my holiday apartment … the first of my update videos here, follows on directly from “Part 1” … with all of that fun appendage’s throbbing and twisting vibrations!

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And … several of you asked for more of my “FemDom Mistressing Dungeon” sessions! So I hope you will enjoy “Part 1” AND “Part 2” of “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-on”, (yes, BOTH of them are featured here). They are from a wonderfully fun session at one of my favourite London Chambers from several years ago.

That session actually lasted a lot longer than the two excerpts here. So if you would like to see even more of the “very compliant” SubbyBoy … and his very impressive “Prince Albert” … then just let me know and I will upload more here for future Members Updates.

And, I have lots more similar videos from my Dungeon sessions, and of course, from my Candid Holiday Fun archives, so just let me know if you’d like to see more.

Or, perhaps you would prefer something from my Nude-in-Public, Me-Time Playtime, Body Worship … or Cigar Smoking Fetish adventures. Because, as I’ve mentioned here before, I have years and years worth of videos in my archives … AND … I always enjoy fulfilling members special requests whenever I can. So … the choice is yours … just ask !!!

And don’t forget your last chance to visit this month’s Photo Gallery which is for all of you who asked for more of my “BBC” Swinging photos content.

Plus: My new Telegram Channel: – I also have a separate PMAG Telegram Members channel, where I am able to post even more personalised, and more frequent and “individualised” clips. So if you have the Telegram app on your phone or laptop, just let me know within the “Ask Me A Question” panel on the form at the foot of the Members page, or from the Form on myContactpage, and I will email more details of also joining me there!!!

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full. And I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.


If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

Xxx – K

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Modestly Why – Questions Asked?

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Re-published in January 2025, (from my original post in August of 2019), as part of my, then regular, #Wicked Wednesday and #Food4Thought blog-site memes (both sadly now retired). But as I still receive occasional email questions such as “what motivates you to keep blogging”, I thought it relevant to re-post here once again.

This week’s theme at Food 4 Thought Friday asks “The Why of Blogging” and in particular, “What is it that compels you to write?”

I have posted before . . . in July 2014 actually . . . on how Modesty Ablaze first came about in my Past, Present and Why I Blog” Wicked Wednesday post. But as to the how’s and why’s of continuing to post???

Well . . . I suppose it is partly because my pages here allow me to indulge my exhibitionist streak . . . though in “real life” I am actually quite shy and reserved.

But it is also because, despite often worrying that people will surely get bored with my constant “holiday snaps”, I do get so many emails from people asking for more.

No I don’t mean, just asking for more naked photos . . . I mean asking more about my lifestyle, my “kinks”, my experiences . . . and my thoughts on all sorts of relationship or personal issues.

And I often feel guilty that I just can’t seem to find the time these days, to answer all of those messages personally.

So . . . being a more “visual” person, rather than being able to easily communicate my thoughts in words . . . I hope that my occasional photo-posts here express my core belief that above all else, we should always be true to ourselves . . . and always be just who we want to be !!!

And so that is what “compels” me to keep posting . . . as often as time allows . . . here at Modesty Ablaze.

For more Core beliefs, at this week’s Wicked Wednesday, and more Why’s
at Food For Thought Friday simply click on the buttons below.

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Xxx- K

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Mistresses Cock Watch #sinfulsunday

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“Yes, it is a swatch watch actually!” I told him as I tightened the strap around his shaft. “And I’m going to activate the stop-watch to time how long it stays on before you drop-it”.

“Perhaps if you try to concentrate on what sort of reward may be in store, then you may be able to hold it on for longer”!!!

And I hope you will all take the time to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by stroking the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Boobday Shower Trio #boobday 375

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For last Friday’s #boobday posting I shared a photo of myself and my lovely friend SheLover.

And … what could be better than the two of us enjoying some sexy-soapy-fun you may have asked?

Well … being joined by the equally lovely HeLover as well of course!!!

And if you use the Search Button here on my site and type-in HeLover … you may well find several more occasions that he’s joined us for some 3-some fun as well!!!

Don’t forget to let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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New Year’s Morning #sinfulsunday

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I think it’s been sometime since I last celebrated a New Years morning with a proper toast!

And as it was … surprisingly … mild this New Year’s morning, I thought I’d pop out into the garden and do it again!!!

Especially as this weekend’s prompt at Sinful Sunday just happens to be “Good Morning” … so take a sip from the lovely lips below to view some other morning celebrations!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Boobday Shower Duo #boobday 374

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Two weeks ago I enjoyed a solo #boobday shower. But for today’s #boobday Friday I thought I’d share that same shower with my beautiful friend, the wonderful SheLover!!!

She’s been featured here on my blog many, many times before of course … including recently showing off her Full Denim Jacket.

But on numerous occasions previously such as the Lovely Support … and Boobday Duo.

And if you use the Search Button here on my site and type-in SheLover … you’ll find many more fun occasions as well!!!

Do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members – January 2025 #PMAGW Update

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Hello my lovelies … I hope you all had a lovely Xmas and New Year, and let’s start 2025 as we hope to go on, with some cheeky fun-and-games shall we!

So for my first Feature Video for the year I’ve chosen a clip from my Holiday Archives … which I’m always asked for more of … and this one is Part 1 of my “Thrusting Holiday Dildo Playtime” from several summers ago. Because whenever I pack my holiday bags, I always include a selection of my favourite “Me-Time” toys. And as well as my “favourite” toys, this time I packed a new thrusting dildo that had been sent to me a month or so before, but which I’d not had the time to play with. So, after a hot morning out on the beach (where, as you will probably be able to tell, I caught a little too-much sun), this seemed the perfect time to test it out …

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Now … I’m often asked questions about how much I enjoy smoking my large Cuban Cigars, and where and why I smoke them. So in my second feature video for the month … “Cigar Mistress Q&A” I printed out some of those questions and had my cameraman (Subby1) read them out to me so that I could answer them in a POV Question and Answer session. Whilst smoking one of my most favourite Hoyo De Monterrey Epicure cigars.

I have lots more similar videos from my Cigar Mistress experiences, and of course, from my Candid Holiday Fun archives, so just let me know if you’d like to see more.

Or, perhaps you would prefer something from my FemDom Dungeon Sessions, Nude-in-Public, Me-Time Playtime, Body Worship … or Swinging fun adventures. Because, as I’ve mentioned here before, I have years and years worth of videos in my archives … AND … I always enjoy fulfilling members special requests whenever I can. So … the choice is yours … just ask !!!

Plus: My new Telegram Channel: – I also have a separate PMAG Telegram Members channel, where I am able to post even more personalised, and more frequent and “individualised” clips. So if you have the Telegram app on your phone or laptop, just let me know within the “Ask Me A Question” panel on the form at the foot of the Members page, or from the Form on myContactpage, and I will email more details of also joining me there!!!

This month’s Photo Gallery is especially for Paul & Sue who asked for more of my “BBC” Swinging photos which I’ve previously shared teasing glimpses of some of them, in my Sinful Sunday posts.

And, as always, do let me know if there are any particular themes, or photo opportunity settings you would like to ask me about for future gallery updates because, as you all know, my PMAG Members page does allow me to share much more “candid” videos and photos than I can post on my other pages here!!!

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full. And I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.


If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

Xxx – K

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