Category Archives: BDSM fun

May 7, 2021 · 10:45 am

A Modest 2 Flutes #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Two Flutes Boobday Friday

Would you like to join me for a sip … or two … at Boobday Friday!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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May 5, 2021 · 8:38 pm

Modest Leather #wickedwednesday and #4Thoughts_Fiction and #KOTW

Mistress Modesty loves Leather

New “hobbies” always open-up new experiences and often change one’s perception of certain things, and previously held likes and dislikes don’t they.

And that was certainly the case when I first embarked upon my Femdom fun adventures.

It was obvious that I would need a complete new wardrobe … and accessories. Not that I’ve ever been averse to a new wardrobe of course!!!

Previously the only leather garments in my wardrobe(s) had been “normal” coats and jackets. And, in fact for my first Mistressing outfits my initial choices were all in Latex. I loved the shiny look and feel of the garments as I browsed the racks at both of the shops my Mistressing mentors had recommended.

But although I loved my new outfits, and felt much more in-tune with my new “persona” when I was wearing them, it was actually the purchase of my first accessories that really led to my new love. Leather.

My first two items, a stranded heavy leather flogger and a lovely spanking slapper, just had that smell and feel about them that had me intoxicated in a way I hadn’t experienced with my normal leather coats and jackets.

Perhaps it was that rawness … and knowing the intention of their purpose … that made me want to inhale and savour that smell even more. And to feel the strength and yet caress of that texture against ones skin. Suddenly the clingy and difficult to get into, and out of, sticky latex was pushed to the back of my wardrobe to be replaced by lots, and lots, of new garments in my new Pleasure, my new love … and yes even my new Desire for … Leather !!!

For more thoughts on Pleasure, Desire … and Leather … just visit the current editions of Wicked Wednesday, 4 Thoughts and Kink of The Week … by tapping the buttons below!

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Xxx- K

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May 1, 2021 · 4:45 pm

At my happiest #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Balcony 2020 2695

I am … always at my happiest … standing on this balcony!!!

Amongst the sweet scent of bougainvillea, feeling the warming summer sun upon my skin … and listening to that calming sound of gentle waves rolling in on my favourite beach below.

“I Am” … is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday. Tap the lips below for more!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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April 30, 2021 · 10:55 am

The Last Photo #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze last photo Boobday Friday

Sat forlornly on our balcony on the last day of our holiday last year … waiting for the cab to turn into the driveway and take us to the airport.

Yes, I did put some clothes on for the journey home … though after two wonderful weeks it felt so uncomfortable and unnecessary.

This was the last photo taken on that holiday … I’m still hoping and praying we will have the opportunity to take many more again this year!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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April 28, 2021 · 10:55 am

Modesty Ablaze “A Post-Session Wind Down” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Post-Session Wind Down" video at MakeLoveNotPorn

As some of you will already know, one of my most enjoyable “hobbies”, is my Mistress Modesty Sessioning fun. And I particularly enjoy administering some fun hand-spanking … or perhaps a light caning to the bottoms of my … always willing, spanking-submissives.

And quite often, I enjoy those sessions so much that I find myself becoming quite aroused and sometimes even really, really horny!!!

And that was certainly the case after my most recent spanking session when … having warmed and reddened my happy submissives bottom to his complete satisfaction … I just had to retire to my boudoir and lay back with my favourite Doxy Wand for some complete satisfaction of my own.

Now if you’ve viewed my Doxy Wand in action before … or if you have one of your own … you will know how quickly it can drive one over the edge.

And despite me trying to slow things down and tease myself along more slowly, it wasn’t very long before I completely lost control of my emotions.

You will just have to watch the full video to see exactly what I mean …

Modesty Ablaze and her Doxy Wand in "A Post-Session Wind Down" RealWorldSex video

So I hope you will enjoy my Post-Session Wind Down fun. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

You can view my introduction to “A Post-Session Wind Down” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“A Post-Session Wind Down”  is my 85th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“A Post-Session Wind Down” with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #clitastic #hotelroom #intense #joyful #kinky #loud #married #metime #playful #quickie #samsung #sensual #spirited #toytime #wand-erfull

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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April 24, 2021 · 4:45 pm

Modestly Strapping-in #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 1

“It’s so lovely to hear that you’ve missed me. And there’s simply no need to worry about being a little out of practice …”

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 2

“Because … I rather feel it’s a bit like riding a bike really. One just has to start slowly and build-up a gentle rhythm!”

To discover lots of others strapping-in and saddling-up this Sinful Sunday, just push gently on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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April 23, 2021 · 9:58 am

Modestly Tipped #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Tipped at BoobDay Friday

Shall I ? … or shan’t I ? … wear a bra into the office today???

Well, the answer to that question always depends on what else I have chosen to wear … as I would never wish to cause any discomfort or embarrassment for other colleagues, or co-commuters, that I may encounter during the day!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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April 16, 2021 · 10:50 am

Modest Grips #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday White Grips

You know what it’s like when working in front of a hot oven … one needs some protection to avoid burning one’s … finger-tips!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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April 14, 2021 · 10:30 am

Modesty on Courage #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty holding Chastity Cage

One of the most important, and certainly empowering, things that I have learnt from my Mistressing sessioning is to do with courage.

No … not about my courage … but instead about the courage of many of the people who have contacted, and subsequently, visited me over the past seven years.

Many people wrongly assume that the sort of person who wishes to visit a Female Dominatrix, is in some way abnormal or inferior to the rest of us … and by “rest of us” I mean what is always portrayed in general society as “normal people”.

But in my experience the majority of my visitors … and in the context of this post I don’t want to refer to them as “submissives” … are absolutely normal people, from absolutely normal, everyday backgrounds and walks-of-life.

And through the conversations, discussions, and of course the interactions that always occur around and throughout our meetings, it usually quite quickly becomes clear how much courage these people have needed to accept and acknowledge their desires and their wish to be a little bit “different”. Courage to be able to take that first step to discover themselves in a way that they really feel they can’t share with their immediate loved ones and family … or that would not be “acceptable” among their vocational colleagues, or organisations … because of the stigma and constraints that general society places on us all.

So during our meetings they can be, at least just for the two or three hours of our time together, who they really want to be. To release themselves from the “norms of the everyday” whilst recognising the need that we must all return to and uphold those norms so that others can decide their own paths, their own way, and in their own time. Naturally and equally as it should always be … for all of us.

That takes courage … and understanding … and acceptance.

For more thoughts on ‘Courage’ at this week’s Wicked Wednesday … simply click on the button below!

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Xxx- K

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April 9, 2021 · 10:56 am

Modest Droplets #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday April 9th 2021

I do love a morning shower … just a few moments alone (usually!!!) with my thoughts … to start the day invigorated and refreshed for all that lies ahead.

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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