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October 19, 2021 · 5:43 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap On"

You may recall that last year I published a series of “Stand To Attention” videos … on my Make Love Not Porn profile … that I’d filmed with Lover 83 at my favourite London Dungeon.

Well those videos certainly generated quite a lot of interest in my “Mistressing hobby” … as I’ve been regularly receiving emails and messages on my social sites ever since, asking for more similar-themed videos from those chambers.

So … as my Femdom Sessions are always based around Role Play and Sensual Teasing Fun … and, as many of the most recent emails I’ve received have been asking if I do any “Pegging or Strap-On” sessions … I thought it would be fun to add “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” to my collection here.

It features my favourite Strap-On Submissive, whom as well as being a lovely play-partner who simply loves receiving, also has a very impressive appendage of his own … which I absolutely love playing with!

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Part 1

Now you may find some of my language rather unbecoming of a “mature lady” such as myself … but as I said, this session is just as much about Role Play and Fun Teasing as it is about my Strap-On-ing … so my language and humiliation-teasing is exactly how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On”  is my 91st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

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It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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October 13, 2021 · 10:30 am

No Modest Regrets #wickedwednesday

Modest No Regrets Wicked Wednesday

We all have regrets don’t we. Things we wish we’d done and didn’t … or things we did and wish we hadn’t … or at least had done differently.

But what I have learnt during my Modest hobbies over the past three decades is not to regret ones adventures, but rather, to learn from them and let the experience(s) shape future situations and choices.

And to try to see the positives in every experience, and with every individual we meet along the way.

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Regrets” … just click the button below for more thoughts and reflections!

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Xxx- K

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September 22, 2021 · 2:28 pm

Modesty at the Movies #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze introduces MakeLoveNotPorn

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.

In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.

So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.

But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!

First posted in December 2013 – It’s Been A Marvellous Year

Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.

So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!

For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!

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Xxx- K

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September 15, 2021 · 8:54 am

Modestly Shameless #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix

This week’s prompt at Wicked Wednesday is “Shameless Promotion” … so, of course, I just couldn’t resist … because, as I’ve mentioned before, Marie’s wonderful meme was one of the prime motivators in me beginning my online journey here as Modesty Ablaze.

And finding a place that gave me weekly editions of a wide range of erotic stories was inspirational in my deciding to share excerpts from the “home” diaries that I’d compiled over the years.

The surprising response I received from those first “words only” blog-posts, motivated me further to “cut-and-paste” selected entries from my diaries into the first “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” with “Part 1 – The Journey” Ebook which I published at Amazon.

I was quite astonished to quickly begin receiving lots of messages asking for more. So, in the years since, I have uploaded a further five diary compilations to my Amazon Kindle collection, and … as downloadable PDFs … to my Gumroad page, where I have also added several more shorter “chapter” excerpts.

And, as the sharing of more of my different, and expanding, “hobbies” on my blog pages here grew and grew … I started to receive an increasing amount of requests for much more “personal” items than just excerpts from my diaries.

Hence … my own Used Clothing range, and mini-blog, at: mistresseslace.com … Used Toys, Perfume and Accessories at my Mistress Modesty’s Fun Store … Poster prints and PDFs at my Etsy page … and lots (over 270 now) of fun videos at Clips4Sale … or fulfilling exclusive video or photo requests and personalised messages at my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members page.

Or of course at my AVN Fans page where for a very “modest” subscription you can enjoy FREE-2-View access of my daily Video and Photo updates.

But wherever or however you may find me, I hope you will enjoy my indulgences … and always leave with a smile and feeling happier than when you first arrived.

Discover more Shameless Promotion at this week’s Wicked Wednesday by tapping the button below!

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Xxx- K

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August 13, 2021 · 9:00 am

Modest Driftwood #BoobDay 222

Modesty Ablaze Favourite Driftwood

Just resting … in my favourite place … on my favourite wood. Driftwood that is!

And a perfect place for a Boobday Friday photo don’t you think?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
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Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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August 11, 2021 · 8:45 am

Modest Silence #wickedwednesday

Modestly Silent CockBox

“My little Cockbox is rather quiet for having such a strong sucking-motor, don’t you think?” I asked.

“And your challenge is to fill it up for me without making a sound … completely silent! Do you understand?”

He failed of course … and I shall probably show you his punishment in a follow-up post here in the future.

But in the meantime you can explore more Silence themes at this week’s Wicked Wednesday by smacking the button below!

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Xxx- K

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August 6, 2021 · 9:58 am

Modest Wood #BoobDay 221

Modesty Ablaze in the Boobday Woods

I mentioned in this week’s Wicked Wednesday how much I love a naked run in the woods.

So I thought it would be fun to add a close-up-peek for Boobday Friday?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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July 30, 2021 · 10:45 am

Modest Cling #BoobDay 220

Modestly Clinging Boobday Friday

I’ve often wrapped-up my Submissives in film … but got carried away at a recent session and instructed my, very willing, attendee to wrap me for the first time. After my exertions for the previous hour or so, it actually felt a bit clammy … but I did enjoy having it peeled off!!!

But before that unwinding, I instructed him to snap the above to share here for a Boobday Friday.

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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July 28, 2021 · 10:16 am

Modestly Digital #wickedwednesday #KOTW & #4Thoughts

Mistress Modesty Digital at Wicked Wednesday

This week’s Wicked Wednesday theme is “Digital” … asking how one feels about living in a digital world.

Now I’m not really very technical and usually struggle with anything to do with technology, but the digital age we live in has certainly helped me “expand upon” all my fun new hobbies. And, has certainly allowed me to meet lots … and lots and lots … of fun people. Such as Vinyl Man1, the lovely gentleman who helped me with some of my earliest photos for my, then new, Mistress Modesty site.

For more Digital thoughts just tap on the Wicked Wednesday Rainbow below.

Oh, and as the current theme at Kink of The Week is “Fucking Machines” I thought that, as I’m wearing my very own Fucking Machine in this photo, it would be appropriate to join-in there too.

And “Bloopers” at 4 Thoughts ??? … well as you might imagine, this red-machine of mine has encountered a few Bloopers over the years!

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Xxx- K

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July 26, 2021 · 10:59 am

Modesty Ablaze “The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "The Teasing Finale"

As you may have expected if you’ve watched my previous video “A Very Naughty Teasing” … and I certainly hope you have … this Finale follows on directly from that Naughty Teasing!

I had been really enjoying teasing Hubby, and chastising and humiliating him, for putting his own pleasure before mine!

But, as I continued with my fingering and gentle smacking of my very, very, wet lips … I was also becoming more and more aroused and really, really, needing to come myself.

So I just had to reach for my lube and vibrating banana dildo … because as much as I love having a real cock inside me … sometimes only I know how I REALLY need to be fucked. Just how deep, how fast, how slow, when to push in … and when to, slowly, pull out.

And this was one of those occasions … when only my self-fucking … favourite smooth vibrating dildo would do!!

Modesty Ablaze self-fucking Banana Vibrator 1

So I hope you will enjoy my teasing and edging … and wanton clenching and twisting … myself to a huge energy-sapping cum as much as I did.

You can view my introduction to “The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020”  is my 90th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“The Teasing Finale – Summer 2020” with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Modesty Ablaze self-fucking Teasing Finale 2

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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