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A Modest Vault-aire … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Vaultaire

I do feel at home in a good Vault … though sadly this one was devoid of wine-racks … but there is just something refreshing about the aire isn’t there?

That feeling of freedom and release … expressing one’s inner rebel … I wonder if you might note the connection !!!

For more enlightenment and fresh-aire, take a sip from this week’s
Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Pinky #wickedwednesday

“Now normally when I begin a session with a new submissive, and I wrap my Chastity Ribbon around such a tiny little pinky as yours, I expect it to stay on.”

“They usually get longer and thicker” I told him, “and leave marks as the straining gets tighter and tighter”.

“But you … I can’t even get to tie the bow before it unravels!” I said with angry frustration. “If it gets any smaller it will practically disappear won’t it!”

“Now get up and go and stand in the corner whilst I ponder whether there’s even any point in continuing!!!”

For much more impressive Pink-ness I’m sure, this Wicked Wednesday, tap the rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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Modestly Excited … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Topless Purple and SissyBoy

“No you may not !!! … I know you’re excited, but we have at least another hour yet, and I have a lot more in mind for you!”

“Perhaps if you’re a good girl … and if I feel that you really deserve it … then
we shall see”.

There is bound to be much more excitable fun at this week’s Sinful Sunday to be discovered from tapping the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Modest Workout – Part One” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces A Modest Workout

If you’ve watched some of my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn before, you will probably already know that I do love most forms of sexy fun and adventure. And they do say, don’t they, that having an intense sexy orgasm can be just like running a mini-marathon.

Well this lover in particular always gives me such a powerful, engulfing, exhausting time, that it’s rather like the most demanding physical workout one could possibly imagine.

And that is why I’ve called this, my latest film at Make Love Not Porn, “A Modest Workout”.


Perhaps I should have called it “A Modestly Exhausting Workout” . . . because after a lovely playful sucking and fingering start, you will see just what I mean as our fun quickly builds to an exhausting climax.

Modesty Ablaze with a massive mouthful of lovely cock.

But I wasn’t too exhausted … because after a short winding down, a refreshing glass of wine and a bit of a relaxing chat … we started all over again. But that will be for Part Two of our fun, exhausting, evening.

Now, as always, you can view my introduction to “A Modest Workout Part One” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

A Modest Workout Part One  is my 77th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Modest Workout Part One with tags such as:

#blissful #blowjob #clitastic #gushing #happy #hotelroom #ilubeu #intense #intimate #latenight #loud #messy #passionate #playful #polyamorous #ravenous #safersex #samsung #sony #spirited #succulent #wetime #yes!yes!yes! #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Lipstick Lips #KOTW #wickedwednesday

Modest Lipstick Lips 1

I do think it’s just so important … to take good care of one’s lips!

After all, it’s probably one of the things that people will remember most
after a first meeting, don’t you think?

Modest Lipstick Lips 2

So I like to keep them smooth and moist … and yes occasionally add a touch of my favourite red lipstick to make them even more kissable … and memorable!!!

For more about Lips and Lipstick at this week’s Kink of the Week, just kiss the luscious red lips below.

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And, as you can imagine, I always make sure to have my lipstick close to hand wherever my travels may take me. Which just happens to be this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday.

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Banana A Day Holiday Me-Time Fun” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Banana A Day Intro

I know that I was really really fortunate to have been able to get away once again, to my favourite Grecian holiday island this summer, and film lots and lots of fun photos and videos.


But as Hubby was sorting through those new videos on our return, he reminded me that we still had one “playtime” video from LAST summer that we hadn’t actually uploaded to my pages at Make Love Not Porn.


Well … I’m sure you will agree … that we couldn’t start uploading videos from THIS Summer’s holiday, when we hadn’t finished the sequence of LAST summer’s fun, now could we???.


Now, whenever I go away on holiday I always pack my favourite vibrators and lots of lube. And last summer I insisted that Hubby make sure he had his video camera charged at all times so that we could have a video diary of all of our fun.
 And, of course, part of that fun is having at least one play-time session a day!


On this particular day it was unusually windy and rainy outside, so I lay back on our bed with a selection of my toys.
 But, as you will see, I was feeling so horny so quickly, that I ended up using just the one. And as I’ve called this video “A Banana A Day” I think you can probably tell the shape and colour of the one that I chose.


Modesty Ablaze A Banana A Day

Now, as always, you can view my introduction to “A Banana A Day” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<..

A Banana A Day  is my 76th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Banana A Day with tags such as:

#holiday #blissful #chatty #communicative #frenzied #giggly #ilubeu #intense #joyful #loud #passionate #playful #ravenous #sensual #sony #spirited #succulent #yes!yes!yes!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Mornings #KOTW #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Morning Glory Kink of the Week

This week at Kink of The Week we are urged to “Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Morning Sex”

Well … I’ve never really been a morning person … my normal daily schedule is to roll over as I awake to Hubby sliding out of bed and then to peacefully doze until he returns with my morning cup of tea, before I have to haul myself up to shower and prepare for the morning commute.

At weekends of course I indulge in a slightly longer lie-in, waiting to be brought that first cup of tea, and breakfast in bed.

But, back in those halcyon days of a few years ago, when we were able to entertain one or other of my lovers with an occasional weekend sleep-over, well that would make for a different sort of waking-up all together.

Then, inevitably, I’d awake to early morning caresses and kisses … from each side of me … and no thoughts or mention of cups of tea whatsoever. At least not for the next hour or so, as we resumed our fun from where we’d exhaustingly finished the night before.

Those wake-ups … such as my Morning Glory or By Morning Light fun … would always start at a much calmer and slower pace than where we’d left off the previous evening. With long warm and lovely kisses, gentle stirrings and strokings, and soft whispers and giggles as we remembered and recounted what had happened “last night”.

And whilst those particular occasions will always bring back special memories, they also characterise “morning sex” for me. Soft and warm, slow and gentle, and in some ways more intimate than other, later-in-the-day liaisons (even with the same lover). Not necessarily more fulfilling, not necessarily more passionate or engulfing … just different.

And different is what makes the world more enjoyable isn’t it !!!

For more thoughts on Morning Sex kiss the luscious red lips below.

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This week’s theme at the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday is Heirlooms.
I know that, strictly speaking, Memories are not exactly Heirlooms, but possibly sort-of ??? Let’s investigate together by tapping the button below.

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.5 – Doxy Finale” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Stand To Attention Part 5"

If you’ve been following me here at Modesty Ablaze for the last few years … you will know that it’s been something of a holiday tradition for me to 
introduce my latest #realworldsex video from this very beach.


So … “Stand To Attention Part Five – The Doxy Finale” follows on directly from my head-banging orgasmic exertions with Lover No. 83 at the end of Part Four.


And as I lay back on the Dungeon Bed to recover from those exertions, No.83 thoughtfully pours me a relaxing glass of Champagne and I tease him that perhaps it’s now time for me to give him the spanking that he’d requested, before I’d gotten so carried away playing with his rather impressive erection.


But then No.83 picks up the Doxy Wand that I’d planned to torment HIM with, during his spanking …

Modesty Ablaze and the Doxy Finale

And as so often happens when I’m still aroused and still feeling horny … and I hear the wonderful buzz of that Doxy … I just have to lay back, spread my legs wide and 
well, I’m sure you can imagine what happened next and YES it was very, very noisy.
 You’ll just have to rent the video to see … won’t you!!!

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 5” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

Standing To Attention – Part 5 – Doxy Finale  is my 75th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 5 – Doxy Finale with tags such as:

#afternoon #blissful #chatty #clitastic #communicative #condomhot #drinkresponsibly #ilubeu #intense #inthedungeon #intimate #joyful #longterm #loud #married #morethemerrier #passionate #playful #polyamourous #sensual #sony #succulent #toytime #vibrato #wand-erful #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Speaking Out of Turn #KOTW #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Speaking 1

“Did you think I wouldn’t hear about your idle gossip??? … You must be sillier than I thought!”

Mistress Modesty Speaking 2

“We Mistresses talk to each other you know … just because it isn’t all over social-media, doesn’t mean I wouldn’t learn of it!!!”

Mistress Modesty Speaking 3

“Mistress Modesty is too-nice and too-lenient” … “Isn’t that what you’ve been saying??? … Bragging how you always leave unmarked and without set-tasks for your next session!”

“Well … we’ll have to see about that now won’t we !!! … I think we shall just stick to this one position for your whole 3 hours today !!!”

“I think you will choose your words more carefully next time … won’t you !!!”

NB: In my rush to pre-schedule this post, (prior to several weeks without WiFi),
I completely mis-read the theme requirements.
So … it turns-out that I am also guilty of “Speaking-out-of-Turn” … however, for more correct forms of Social Speaking, simply swipe at the KOTW lips and Wicked Wednesday Rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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Modest Exercise #KOTW and #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Exercise 1

“If you thought I’d lost my swing during lock-down, you’re in for a big surprise!” I told him as I began to warm to the task in hand.

Mistress Modesty Exercise 2

“It may be my first session back” I said as I began quickening my swings, “but I have been working-out every day to make sure I kept my strength up!”

Mistress Modesty Exercise 3

“And anyway, swiping bare asses like yours is like a sixth-sense to me!” I said
as I really began to enjoy the sounds … and sights … of the increasing
intensity of my flogging!

For more Exercising motivation and Sixth-Sense experiences simply swipe at the KOTW lips and Wicked Wednesday Rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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