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A Modest Afterglow #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty's Afterglow 1

It’s not about the impact … not about the pain … it’s always about the afterwards.

Some of my submissives describe it as the “coming-down” … or falling into “sub-space”. But I call it my “afterglow” … that smoothing, soothing, calming of the skin they feel from the gentle rubbing of my palms across their bottom.

And … they almost always ask me for more … sometimes lots more !!!

Mistress Modesty's Afterglow 2

For lots more about the importance of Aftercare at this week’s
Wicked Wednesday gently rub the rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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Modestly Jiggling #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Insertion 1

“Yes … as you’re asking … I have got longer. Much, much longer!!!”

Mistress Modesty Insertion 2

“But I haven’t fully inserted this one yet. I’ve only just begun … so let’s see how you feel about it once I really start jiggling shall we !!!”

For lots more fun beginnings … and endings … this Sinful Sunday, just push on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Ps: I know that if you are one of my Pour Me A Glass Members you will have already seen this image from my latest Members Video upload. But as this week’s theme-prompt at Sinful Sunday was “something beginning with J”, I just couldn’t resist using it again here as well.

Xxx – K

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In a Modest Light #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Backlit with Fan

Be sure to visit this week’s Sinful Sunday for much more enlightening photos and images, by clicking on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Causeway Revisited #sinfulsunday

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“Well at least it’s not quite as scorching hot as the last time you made me walk all the way across!” I said to Hubby as we neared the halfway point.

Modest Causeway 2020 2

“And it’s not so busy with other walkers either.” he replied.

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“Well that’s probably because it’s so bloody windy!” I said.

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“But do hurry up please … I can hear some other people coming now and you stand-out like a sore-thumb with that camera!” I hissed.

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“I know they may have cameras too … but they’re just taking photos of the view … and they never seem to take such a long, LONG time like you do !!!”

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Sinful Sunday

P.S. – As we had already visited this particular Causeway, at my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages before, I thought I would add this particular
Sunday-stroll to my Exposé Vŭ memories.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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A Modest Trust #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Trussed Wicked Wednesday

“Oh … Trust … I thought you meant you wanted to be TRUSSED-up!!!”

“But yes you can Trust me to let you go again. I’ll be back in an hour or so.”

“Just don’t keep pulling and tugging though … because you’ll only make the knots tighter … and with these nails of mine, I might not be able to easily untie you then!!!”

So … you’ll just have to be patient and Trust me won’t you!!!

For more Trust-ing experiences at this week’s Wicked Wednesday
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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Holiday Playtime – Part 2 – with Bob” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Holiday playtime 2020 Part 2

I always like to have at least one Playtime session a day when I’m on holiday … or maybe two or three!!!

And having become quite worked-up on our apartment sofa earlier, with my new Thrusting Pulsing Dildo, I decided that I needed to cool down and seek a little more comfort.

So I retired to the bedroom … with the air-conditioning on full … and two of my favourite toys to lie-back and relax with.

Because … although that big dildo had been fun, and different … I’m really a clitty girl at heart and at that particular moment, I really really needed to cum!

So although this video is quite noisy … and quite quick … I hope you will enjoy joining my satisfying, pink bob, me-time fun.

Modesty Ablaze PinkBob fun 1

You can view my introduction to the video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

Holiday Playtime – Part 2 – with Pink Bob  is my 79th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Holiday Playtime – Part 2 – with Pink Bob with tags such as:

#afternoon #clitastic #giggly #happy #holiday #ilubeu #joyful #loud #married #metime #dildo #toytime #vacationtime #orgasmic

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Just Landed #sinfulsunday

Modesty Just Landed Sinful Sunday 1

I was so happy … after all the disappointments and cancellations … to finally arrive at our summer holiday apartment, that I simply had to …

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… just throw off all my clothes and savour that first wonderful moment on our lovely balcony.

Even before the unpacking … even before that first glass of wine … so you can tell just how desperate I was !!!

To unpack this week’s Sinful Sunday just kiss the lips below.

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Xxx – K

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Five Hundred Strokes #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty The London Dominatrix

I discovered Sinful Sunday shortly after setting my alter-ego ablaze, for the first time on-line, early in 2012. But, of course, I was far too shy to join-in back then … until my first Sinful posting in February 2013. But I quickly became addicted and haven’t missed very many Sundays since.

Because it’s been such a lovely stepping-stone for me to discover and explore so many wonderfully exciting and powerful images … and so many wonderful and inspirational people.

So huge kisses and congratulations Molly … to have reached 500 weeks of Sinful Sunday and to have touched and inspired so many people over all those years … is an amazing achievement.

And it is something for which Molly should be rightfully proud … and we should all be gratefully thankful.

So let’s celebrate, and pray (and play) for 500 Hundred MORE,
by kissing the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Turn-ons #wickedwednesday

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This week’s prompt at the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday asks “What things turn you on and excite you?” And for me the answer to that is easy!

What turns me on the most is knowing that I’m turning someone else on!!!

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So it’s always fun to receive confirmation photos of that “turning-on” effect … such as these lovely photos from one of my favourite bloggers LifeOfElliott.

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And as I’ve always enjoyed waking-up to a “morning glory” … I regularly click-over to him at @of_elliott for some warming tingles to start my day.

Discover lots more “Turn-ons” … and perhaps some “Turn-offs” by clicking on the Wicked Wednesday rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Me-Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Holiday Thrusting Dildo"

Now … as I’ve mentioned on my Make Love Not Porn pages here before … whenever I pack my holiday bags, I always include a selection of my favourite “Me-Time” toys.

That’s because I always feel much more relaxed and horny being on holiday, away from the usual every-day routines and distractions of home.

And on this occasion … as well as my “favourite” toys … I packed this new, very interesting, thrusting and vibrating dildo that had been sent to me a month or so before … but which I’d been unable to find the time to play with!!!

Modesty Ablaze Thrusting Dildo 1

So what better occasion than during a relaxing afternoon in our apartment, after a hot morning out on the beach … where, as you will probably be able to tell, I had caught a little too-much sun … to test out my new toy.

As you can see it has a large suction cup on the base … and there was a small stool available that was just the right height for me to use.

Modesty Ablaze straddles the Thrusting Pulsing Dildo

So, after straddling myself above my new friend, I passed the remote controller to Hubby, and began the fun of trying out those thrusting and pulsing vibrations.

Did it work for me? Well, you’ll just have to view my “Holiday Thrusting And Pulsing Dildo Playtime” to find out won’t you?

You can view my introduction to the video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Playtime”  is my 78th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Playtime” with tags such as:

#afternoon #clitastic #giggly #happy #holiday #ilubeu #joyful #loud #married #metime #dildo #toytime #vacationtime #whoops

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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