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Modest Rules & Punishment #sinfulsunday

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Originally posted for Kink of the Week around the beginning of 2022, but subsequently lost from my pages here during my “semi-retirement”. (See Modestly Returning from April 2024).

You may be surprised when I tell you that I’ve always believed in following “the rules” … I was brought up a good Catholic girl after all. So ones conduct and adhering to the principles and codes of acceptable behaviour was ingrained, and in my younger years at least, unquestioned.

As was the notion that should one stray, chastisement and punishment was always bound to follow … in some form or another.

And so of course, it was almost second-nature for me to carry those principles forward as part of my Mistress Modesty persona.

And yet, such is the incongruous nature of the world of kink and fetish that one often finds oneself in, that “punishment” turns out to be a much sought after … and most enjoyable of passions … for all of those involved!!!

So my rule today is to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by smacking the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Mistresses Cock Watch #sinfulsunday

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“Yes, it is a swatch watch actually!” I told him as I tightened the strap around his shaft. “And I’m going to activate the stop-watch to time how long it stays on before you drop-it”.

“Perhaps if you try to concentrate on what sort of reward may be in store, then you may be able to hold it on for longer”!!!

And I hope you will all take the time to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by stroking the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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New Year’s Morning #sinfulsunday

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I think it’s been sometime since I last celebrated a New Years morning with a proper toast!

And as it was … surprisingly … mild this New Year’s morning, I thought I’d pop out into the garden and do it again!!!

Especially as this weekend’s prompt at Sinful Sunday just happens to be “Good Morning” … so take a sip from the lovely lips below to view some other morning celebrations!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modestly Virginial #sinfulsunday

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As I mentioned in my #boobday posting yesterday, I’m a “virgin cruiser” … but Hubby and I are, surprisingly, thoroughly enjoying our new experiences!!!

Especially returning to our cabin each day to find a new, and wonderfully creative, towel arrangement waiting for us at the foot of our bed.

For lots more sinfully fun arrangements at this week’s Sinful Sunday, just kiss the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modestly Purplexed #sinfulsunday

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“Mmm … now let me see. What shall I do with this lovely canvas???” I teased, as I slid my hand over his smooth bottom!!!

For lots more possible “questions and answers” at this week’s Sinful Sunday, gently stroke the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modest Expectations #sinfulsunday

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My “Colour Filters” #sinfulsunday prompt last week, brought back some fun memories from a fun session at my favourite London Dungeon a couple of years ago.

Memorable because my Sissy Submissive that day, had requested receiving one of my strap-on dildos … something he’d not previously experienced before.

And re-playing the video from that session, reminded me just how much he really enjoyed it … much more so than he’d expected to!!!

For more possibly, unexpected fun, at this week’s Sinful Sunday, slowly push on the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Pour Me A Glass Members – December 2024 #PMAGW Update

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My main first-view PMAG Members Video for December is “Caning Two Subs” … in response to several requests for more of my Mistress Modesty Caning content.

Now although I am NEVER particularly extreme in the application of my, several, canes … and certainly could never carry-out a heavy “judicial” caning … I do admit to actually enjoying building the intensity as I become more “warmed-up” myself. Particularly if my submissive subject is clearly enjoying his beating. And what could be more fun than one lovely, quickly reddening bottom in front of me? … Why TWO of course!!!

And you will quickly see my … and their … obvious enjoyment as I begin with my warming Slapper, and then Riding Crop … before bringing out my favourite, Brazilian Cane!!!

And … my second first-view video for December is … “The Main Squeeze – Part 2”, and those among you who may have been following me for some time, will probably be familiar with that title before. Because, it is actually from one of my most popular … but very long … videos at my MakeLoveNotPorn profile. But this “directors cut” version is one of several shorter edits from that particular evening, which feature some more candid moments that were not actually included in that MLNP video.

If you are one of my Telegram Channel followers, you will have already seen “Part 1” of the “directors cut” and this video follows on directly from where that one left off!!!

Or, perhaps you would prefer something from my Nude-in-Public, Me-Time Playtime, Body Worship … or Cigar Smoking Fetish adventures. Because, as I’ve mentioned here before, I have years and years worth of videos in my archives … AND … I always enjoy fulfilling members special requests whenever I can. So … the choice is yours … just ask !!!

Plus: My new Telegram Channel: – As I mentioned above, I also have a separate PMAG Telegram Members channel, where I am able to post even more personalised, and more frequent and “individualised” clips. So if you have the Telegram app on your phone or laptop, just let me know within the “Ask Me A Question” panel on the form at the foot of the Members page, and I will email more details of also joining me there … or message me from the form on myContactpage if you prefer!!!

And this month’s Photo Gallery is especially for Sally who messaged me during the month to tell me how much she had missed my postings during my “semi-retirement”… and especially my Mistressing FemDom photos. So this gallery is from one of my London Dungeon Archives photo shoots.

And, as always, do let me know if there are any particular themes, or photo opportunity settings you would like to ask me about for future gallery updates because … as you all know … my PMAG Members page does allow me to share much more “candid” videos and photos than I can post on my other pages here!!!

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full. And I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.


If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

Xxx – K

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Modestly “Red” #sinfulsunday

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In this month’s “Colour Filters” introduction, Molly mentioned that it was first used way back in 2015.

So … I searched back through my archives … and sure enough there lurked my green-filtered photo of a rather fun item I’d been sent for one of my “Toy Reviews” which I was doing quite regularly at that time.

Goodness knows why I chose green as my colour choice back then … it’s never been a colour I’ve particularly liked.

But … RED … now that’s a colour far more to my liking!!!

To visit more fun colours at this week’s Sinful Sunday click on the lovely sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modesty Ablaze “Mistresses Sensory Testing Experiment – Part 4” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

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Ever since I uploaded my first “Mistresses Sensory Testing Experiment” video at my Make Love Not Porn pages, I’ve been receiving emails and messages asking for more.

And if you’ve viewed the first three clips from our fun session … you’ll know that SubbyBoy has the most remarkable Prince Albert piercing on his very impressive … and wonderfully firm and lengthy cock.

I’d always been intrigued by just how sensitive such a long, warm, cock could be, so I’d started our session by blind-folding SubbyBoy and rubbing various items over the length … and head … of his cock, and instructing him to guess … from the texture and feel against his skin … what each item could be.

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And … as you will already know if you’ve seen those three videos … I got rather carried away with holding and squeezing, and slapping his lovely cock and intriguing nipple piercings.

You can view my introduction to this video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

Sensory Testing Experiment Part 4 2

Mistresses Sensory Testing Experiment – Part 4  is my 104th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Mistresses Sensory Testing Experiment – Part 4 with tags such as:

#playful #Brititsh #inthedungeon #kinky #impactful #pierced #spanking

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my One Hundred and Four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modesty Ablaze “Holiday Hotel Foot Job for Subby1” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

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If you’ve been following my blog pages for any length of time …. You will know that I do absolutely LOVE having my feet massaged.

And when I’m away on holiday I always make sure that one of Subby1’s first … and essential … duties, is to get me nice and relaxed with a soothing foot massage every day.

And my latest video at my Make Love Not Porn pages is from a recent holiday away … not here on my summer holiday island … but from a short weekend break that I made him treat me to over the June Bank Holiday weekend.

So as I relaxed on our Hotel bed having returned from a busy day’s shopping … I lay down to catch-up on the days news on my phone, whilst I made Subby1 begin to knead and squeeze, and caress and stroke my weary soles and toes and ankles.

But as I lay there on my tummy enjoying my massage … I could sense from Subby’s sighs and gasps … that he was beginning to get a little excited with his touches … and the view of my naked bottom in front of him. And especially so as I began to reach back and kick at his cock and balls with one free foot as he squeezed and massaged the other..

Holiday Foot Job 1

I always enjoy knowing my instructions … and my body … have made him aroused of course. So I encouraged him to lean forward and kiss my bottom and to …. bury his face between my cheeks.

So what started as a naked foot massage soon turned into … well, you’ll just have to watch the video to see … !!!

You can view my introduction to this video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

Holiday Foot Job Two

Holiday Hotel Foot Job for Subby1  is my 103rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Holiday Hotel Foot Job for Subby1 with tags such as:

#playful #Brititsh #married #hotel #footjob #impactful #roleplay

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my One Hundred and Three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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