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Happy – #realworldsex – Sixty Cindy @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze and Cindy Gallop

One’s life should, of course, always be in one’s own hands.
But along the way there are events . . . people . . . who inspire, embolden, empower . . . reaffirm . . . our journey.

Cindy Gallop @makelovenotporn is one of those people.

And yes Cindy – #sayyourage – “The older we get, the better life gets” !!!
Happy 60th birthday – I shall be raising a glass, and I’m sure you will be too !!!


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Cindy’s inspirational presentation at the TED conference in 2009, had me hanging-on, AND agreeing with, every word. I know just how much difference embracing my sexuality, and sharing every desire, every feeling and every fantasy with my husband has changed, and enhanced, our lives together. And I also know how (even before I’d discovered Cindy’s words and ideas) that I’d often wished that others could share and enjoy the same sort of feelings of fun, and fulfilment, as Hubby and I.


I urge you to view Cindy’s presentation(s) above and visit her MakeLoveNotPorn community from the logo below!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Dragon’s Tail Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

The spanking and Kinky Wartenberg Wheel play ofDragon’s Tail Pt.1 . . . my previous realworld sex video here at my MakeLoveNotPorn pages . . . did of course, lead to much more “intimate” fun as our playtime continued.

Which is why I’ve nick-named this new video . . . “Taking The Dragon”.
It begins with Lover 83 and I having some fun deciding which would be the right size of condom for him to use. But, once he slides it on, our joking and teasing stops, for some lovely slow and gentle passionate teasing of a completely different kind.

As our embracing builds, the “slow and gentle” becomes much more energetic, and turns into the most intense work-out fucking, I’ve had in a long, long time.

And after an exhausting, collapsing climax . . . I just about manage to recover enough to give him some “special” kissing thank you’s . . . just where he enjoys them the most!

You can view my introduction to “Dragon’s Tail Part 2” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Dragon’s Tail Part 2”  is my 64th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Dragon’s Tail Part 2” with tags such as:

BLOWJOB / LOUD / TATTOOED / FACETIME / SUCCLENT / LICKJOB / HANDY / COMMUNICATIVE / ILUBEU / HOTELROOM / GIGGLY / PLAYFUL / CHATTY FRONTDOOR / YES!YES!YES! / ENCORE / CONDOMHOT SAFERSEX

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Dragon’s Tail Pt.1” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

If you’ve viewed my A New Celebration #realworld sex video from my Make Love Not Porn pages you will know how that lovely evening began . . . and the passionate “foreplay” we enjoyed as we explored each other more and more.

Well “Dragon’s Tail Part 1” follows on directly from where “New Celebration” ended . . . after we’d had a little recovery time and some relaxing, winding-down conversation.

And that conversation led to No.83 teasing me that I could smack his bottom if I wished. And with such a lovely smooth bottom . . . how could I resist!!!

Then . . . when 83 brought out his Wartenberg Wheel . . . I really began to enjoy myself. Especially as I was able to trace it round the intriguing shapes of his Dragon Tattoo which looked so appealing on his silky smooth back.

But, of course, it wasn’t only his smooth back that I wanted to enjoy . . . I wanted to have more of those smooth front bits as well . . . so I was soon instructing him to turn over and let me explore. And I hope that you will be able to feel part of those explorations as you watch our fun unfold!

You can view my introduction to “Dragon’s Tail Part 1” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Dragon’s Tail Part 1”  is my 63rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Dragon’s Tail Part 1” with tags such as:

GRINDING / NIPSY / TOYTIME / DRINKRESPONSIBLY / COMMUNICATIVE / CHATTY / HOTELROOM / JOYFUL / HANDSON / KINKY / GIGGLY / TATTOOED

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Oh, and YES . . . there is a “Dragon’s Tail Part 2” . . . where things become even more “intimate” shall we say. I hope to upload that video quite soon, so do keep checking back here regularly for that next update.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Rope Panties Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

One of the nicest things about sharing one’s #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn, is receiving all the lovely messages and feedback from people saying how much they enjoy them.

And . . . not only enjoy them . . . but also telling me that my videos have helped enliven and expand their own sex lives and relationships . . . and made them feel much more at ease about expressing their own sexuality. One shouldn’t feel guilty about sexual preferences or desires . . . as long as they are fun, inclusive . . . and completely consensual.

And . . . of course . . . it’s also nice to receive comments and requests for more of one particular video.

So . . . to fulfill several requests for more “Rope Play” fun . . . I’m delighted to introduce a “Part 2” of my recent Rope Panties video with Lover No. 14.

And yes, those lovely panties that Lover 14 had made for me in Part One . . . were eventually and slowly pulled off me . . . only for him to decide that he wanted to do some more rope work. This time in the form of a Star-Design
Bikini Top . . . .

But of course his rope play never just ends with knots and ties . . and No. 14 soon had me giggling and gasping . . . especially as he found some very creative uses for my Doxy Massager . . . including some tickling massaging whilst I was laid on my tummy, and then, even some teasing pulsing whilst having me stand to attention in front of him. All ending, as I’m sure you can imagine, in giggling, tingling and convulsing orgasms one after the other.

If you can’t imagine it . . . well . . . you will just have to watch it won’t you ? . . . I’m sure you’ll soon be giggling along with me. And hopefully tingling too !!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Rope Panties Part 2” with Lover No.14,  in their Make Sexy Playtime Love Not Porn edition as:

You can never go wrong with a Modesty Ablaze video! From giggles and playful banter to a seemingly never ending stream of orgasms, her #realworldsex will introduce you to new techniques, help you let your guard down, and ultimately, leave you basking in the glory of a fantastically liberated 50 year old woman (who also happens to be a mother, too)!

I know I always say that my latest #realworldsex video is my new favourite
but I can honestly say that this evening was truly one of my most enjoyable and spontaneously wonderful times I’ve ever enjoyed . . . so I hope you will enjoy and laugh and giggle along with me.

And . . . don’t forget . . . If you watch this introductory video from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn Dot TV – it continues with some free peek clips from Rope Panties Part 2 itself.

It’s free to register at Make Love Not Porn . . . where you will find lots more videos from like-minded people . . . all sharing their own Real World Sex fun and good times.

And “Rope Panties Part Two” is all of those things all over, and over, again . . . and I hope you will enjoy, and giggle-along with us!!!

You can view my introduction to “Rope Panties Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Rope Panties Part Two”  is my 37th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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My Sinful Past @ #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Recovering - 1984

Modesty Ablaze “afterwards” – 1984

Whilst we were browsing through photographs for my #afterrealworldsexselfies post during this past week, Hubby remarked that I’ve always had that sinfully-satisfied look in my eyes immediately “afterwards”.

And to emphasise his point, he pulled out this photo . . .  one of our #polaroidspast collection . . . from one of my “afterwards” from 1984. And in all the years since there have been lots . . . and lots and lots . . . of sinful moments of course!

But it’s fun being sinful sometimes isn’t it . . . and I’m sure that all of you here this Sinful Sunday will look back and giggle and feel good about your own sinful-moments-past.

And, for lots of Sinful moments from the present this Sunday, simply click the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

Oh and P.S. – I get lots of messages from people who say they would love to join-in with #polaroidspast but don’t have any old “polaroids”. But the theme is actually about celebrating how you have become who you are now! Just remembering those wonderful . . . fun . . . and perhaps inspirational moments, from even your recent past, that have brought you to the here and now. So Come-on . . . Dare to Bare . . . Be Proud of Who You have Become!

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Modesty’s all arms & elbows @ #afterrealworldsexselfies No.5

Arms&ElbowsYou know those moments . . . those amazing, all-consuming, seconds in the immediate aftermath!!!

Sometimes I twist and turn and bury myself into the pillows and sheets . . . sometimes I pull my knees up to my tummy into a slowly rocking back and forth fetal cocoon . . . sometimes I’m all thrashing arms and elbows!!!

And then I always need a few minutes to recover . . . when I can’t be touched . . . can’t move . . . can’t speak.

Those wonderful #afterrealworldsex moments that I’m sure we all have in different ways . . . and I thought I would share another of my own here and for the MLNP#afterrealworldsexselfies theme.

Because . . . to quote Madam Curator Sarah from MLNP . . . #afterrealworldsexselfies are:

“a great way to spark a healthy dialogue around sex and to celebrate the fact that #realworldsex isn’t exactly over as soon as everyone’s had their orgasm. We truly believe that the cuddling, eating, showering, or whatever it is that you do after #realworldsex is also part of the fun!”

So why not join in with some #afterrealworldsexselfies of your own. You can find out more at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

It will make me smile (and tingle) if you do !!! – Xxx – K

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**P.S. Oh and don’t miss the exciting NEW MakeLoveNotPorn.tv post updates of some wonderfully fun, and REAL, #realworldsex.

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