I’m often asked what I get “from having a blog” and people sometimes look surprised when I reply “It’s helped me feel better about myself”.
And no, I don’t mean that in a vain or boastful way . . . I actually mean that Modesty Ablaze has truly helped me discover and feel more confident about so many things, both physical and emotional, and helped me more easily accept who I am.
Modesty has been a release, and a celebration, of things that previously I may have worried about admitting or acknowledging . . . and certainly about sharing with others! (Even with those nearest and dearest to me).
Sharing in public those concerns that we all have about the way our body changes as we grow older, sharing our desires about what excites us . . . and sharing our experiences and the “interesting” discoveries we make along the way . . . has made me feel stronger and happier and given me a greater sense of self-esteem.
This week’s prompt at Wicked Wednesday is “self image” and how we feel about ourselves. So it seemed the perfect occasion to share my thoughts above on how Modesty Ablaze has contributed to my changes and experiences over the past few years.
And, of course, another very important discovery I have made since I first bared-my-soul (some would say bared-my-all!!!) across the world-wide-web, is the wonderful sense of community and the sense of belonging that has ensued.
I am constantly grateful for all the comments, emails and private messages I receive . . . offering help or advice at some question I may have posed or suggested. Or thanking me for giving strength and acceptance in the course of a statement, or situation, I may have described.
So Modesty has made me happier and more fulfilled . . . I hope she has made some of you feel the same.
See who else is sharing from the Wicked Wednesday button below!!!
Xxx – K
I love your posts, love to see your Scavenger Hunts, love to read about everything you do, so yes, Modesty definitely always leaves me with a smile on my face 🙂
Rebel xox
That is a stunning picture Miss Modesty and like you my blog has been an intricate part of my own self discovery and acceptance of both my body and my kinks
Mollyxxx
We are all winners, then – those that take a great deal of pleasure from your (im)modest images and you for the confidence building and all those virtual hugs 🙂
Love his image, and the words that go with it. Thanks for sharing. xox
You make me feel so confident as well xxxx