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Modestly Released #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned a few weeks ago . . . I do love my White Lace.

But, after a long day at the office, it is so lovely to unclip and release myself!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, there will be lots more lovely boobies being released . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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White Lace #Boobday Friday

I do love lace! It makes one feel . . . well you know . . . lady-like.
And I do love this particular white lace.

I may not wear it often, but when I do it does make me feel nice!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, you will feel nice too, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modest thoughts #eroticon 2017

I attended my first Eroticon in 2013 and had enjoyed it so much that I was positive I’d be there a year later. But that following year, and in fact every year since, fate had intervened and I’d always been abroad. So imagine my despair when the Eroticon 2017 dates were first announced, and I discovered it was on the same weekend as a very important, pre-planned family event.

But excuses were made, plans were changed, “disappointments” and awkward questions were dodged and diverted . . . as I was so determined to journey to Camden Town for at least one day!

And so I did . . . and I had such a lovely time!!!

I’m not a writer . . . and I don’t even consider modestyablaze to be a “blog” as such . . . but I just hope that my occasional posts will make anyone who comes across them smile, or perhaps even laugh a little . . .  because I always try to approach everything I do with a sense of fun and adventure.

And, with fun and adventure uppermost in my mind, the most important thing I got once again from Eroticon this year, is that sense of “community” . . . that feeling that there ARE actually so many other people out there who share similar sex-positive, body-positive values and one’s individual rights to choose (about everything!!!)

And so to my one day, the Saturday, at Eroticon . . .

Highlights? Well the whole day was a highlight, from Sarah Brynn Holliday’s session on “Blogging as Feminism and Social Justice” right through to the “Steel and Stilettos Fitness Masterclass” with the gorgeous JetSet Jasmine and King Noire (which I felt I just had to attend after the amazing array of luncheon options sponsored by Chaturbate).

And in-between . . . having previously giggled and laughed-in-agreement all the way through both of Girl On The Net’s two books, I giggled and laughed-in-agreement all the way through her wonderfully inspirational “Pitching 101: learn to sell your ideas”. (Whispered quote from Hubby halfway through GOTN’s presentation “she’s the only other woman, apart from you, I’ve ever heard that can say so many words without pausing for breath!”).

Oh . . . and I simply must mention the lovely Pixie and Andrew in their KinkCraft Workshop for their unwavering patience in instructing me how to make a collar, knot by knot. (Was I the last to finish???)

Oh . . . and browsing the wonderful sponsor stalls at break time. Meeting the entirely lovely William from Doxy (STILL the best . . . and more on that soon!!!), swooning over my new blue Dildo from Ceramic Pleasures, feeling the pulsing, tingling #QueenBee from HotOctopuss, and marvelling at all those sparkly coloured creations from Godemiche . . . and, of course, the very different and intriguing Ruby Glow.

And, as I said, experiencing that wonderful sense of “community” from the Friday evening “Meet and Greet”, and “Saturday Night Social” . . . and all the wonderfully friendly and inspirational people there.

If you were there, you will know what I mean . . . if you weren’t then book now for Eroticon 2018 !!!

This week’s theme at Marie’s Wicked Wednesday, is “Meetings” and I’m sure there will be many more “meetings” to attend from tapping the button below!

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Xxx – K

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From the Bottom of my Heart #wickedwednesday

I always enjoy wishing people fun and laughter . . . and lots of  love . . .
every day of the year of course!!!

But as the theme at this weeks Wicked Wednesday is “Valentines”
I just couldn’t resist the opportunity to wish you all, from the bottom of my heart, an especially happy and loving Valentines 2017.

And if you kiss the lovely Marie’s button below, I’m sure there will be lots of other fun and loving Valentines Wishes to enjoy this Wicked Wednesday!

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Xxx – K

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Modest Xmas Kisses #wickedwednesday

This year has simply flashed by – no pun intended! Just a blur of Fun Fridays, Saucy Saturdays, Sinful Sundays and, of course, Wicked Wednesdays
. . . and much much more!

And as this will probably be my last post before Christmas, I just wanted to send you all my Best Wishes . . . and biggest Christmas Kisses (where-ever you’d like them!) . .  . for the coming weekend.

I hope you all have a wonderful, loving, peaceful and joyful Christmas.

Raise a glass with me (your own special glass if you have one – you know, the one with your name on!!!) . . . and share some love and fun and joyful giggles with all of your nearest and dearests.

Now . . . I simply must dash-off to continue hanging my decorations and making my preparations for the 25th.

But if you tap on the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday button below, you’re sure to find many more Festive Preparations for the weekend!

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P.S. The above photo is for everyone who asked to see the “whole picture” after my Boobday Friday post last week.

Xxx – K

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A Winter Warmer #wickedwednesday

Goodness it’s been unseasonably warm these past few days for this time of year.

So much so that I built-up quite a sweat on my run this morning . . . and just had to stop for a few, modest, moments to cool down.

And though most of the leaves in the park have now fallen, I found this lovely splash of red to cheer me up, before setting off again for the office.

Of course I put my clothes back on silly . . . but I think if you tap on the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday button below, you’ll find lots more
Winter Warmth this Wednesday!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest Necklace #Boobday Friday

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I do love choosing which beads to wear of a morning before I leave for the office
. . . and often I wish I could leave wearing . . . nothing else!!!

A big morning thank you to the lovely John Tisbury for taking this photo of me in my favourite necklace for this week at  Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Love Bites” new video @makelovenotporn.tv

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One of the things I enjoy about meeting new friends is discovering new, different, and fun experiences. We all have different desires, different fetishes and different things that excite and arouse us. And I always find that discovering . . . and sharing . . . those different experiences with new friends can be so fulfilling and enjoyable.

And that’s exactly what makes all of the #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv so relevant and such fun . . . because it’s real-life emotions and pleasures shared with real-life people!!!

And “Love Bites”, my newest video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is a perfect example of that because my new young friend surprised me by begging me to indulge his passion for “Love Bites” – and not in a place where you would normally think that love bites would be . . . !!!

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. . . because, you see, he wanted me to give him love bites . . . down there!!! . . . if you know whereabouts I mean.

I wasn’t really sure I would be able to indulge him in his desires at first . . . at least not as “hard” as he seemed to want them. But he does have such a “lovely package” that I just couldn’t resist! And despite my initial reservations, I quickly began to really enjoy myself . . . and his lovely “package” . . . as I think will be obvious from this fun video!

You can view my introduction to “Love Bites” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as I mention at the end of my introduction, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. (AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

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There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Love Bites” is my 32nd video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you get as much fun . . . and excitement . . . and wonder . . . from viewing “Love Bites” as my new friend and I,
rather obviously, had making it!!!

Xxx – K

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A Modest Cleavage #Boobday Friday

modestyablazecleavageI often envy the lovely cleavage’s on display each #Boobday Friday and wish that I was better endowed in that area.

But then I remember . . . that this is me, this is how . . . and who I am.
And after all that is, quite simply, what Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, is all about, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Anus Interruptus #sinfulsunday

I always like to explore whenever I am away on holiday . . . and when I was told that the highest mountain on the island was Mount Ainos I just had to investigate. Especially as the locals always seemed to pronounce it as . . . well, you know,
like ones . . . bottom!!!

“Apparently the road is very narrow and very twisty, and remember it’s my first day in the car” said an obviously worried Hubby.
“But darling it sound’s like a perfect ‘Mountain Scavenger Hunt’ spot” I winked and cajoled in reply.
And as we rose higher and higher up the mountain, the view was certainly spectacular . . . but very, very windy when we finally pulled into a car parking area near the summit.

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So windy in fact that I had to lean back and steady myself against the sign.

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“Just look at the view” I shouted to Hubby above the wind. “Isn’t it beautiful!”
“Yes, it’s fantastic” he shouted back . . . even though he was facing in completely the wrong direction!

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“Come round in front of me then!” I yelled to him as I turned around to face into the wind to give him a better view of the valley below.

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“Come on then” I said, “I can see two other cars on the road below, let’s go up to the top before they get here!”

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But, as I turned away, there was another sudden gust of wind and I felt my sarong almost blown completely off me. The fabric had come undone on my left shoulder!!! Luckily the other had held fast and I caught it under my arm and then managed to wrap it back round me as we struggled back to the car.
“Drive me down to the far end, before those other cars arrive, and I’ll try to tie it back together somehow!”

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Once he’d re-parked, Hubby got out to stand by the drivers side window to shield me from view should another car pull into the car park . . . finding it all a great joke as I struggled with my knots.
He had his head inside the car and was still laughing and making fun of me when suddenly out of the corner of my eye I saw a cloud of dust above the boulders in front of us, accompanied by first a rumbling sound . . . then a strange ringing . . . like a discordant bell of some sort. Then within seconds I was horrified to see scores of shapes bounding over the rocks coming straight towards us.
“Get in the car!!!” I screamed. “We’re in a stampede!!!”

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But Hubby had heard, and seen them as well, and was already scrambling in through the door as what seemed like hundreds of goats streamed past us on either side of the car.

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As we recovered our composure . . . and I’d pulled my torn sarong up over my
chest . . . we noticed a goat herder walking along the road at the side of the
car park scattering food of some sort into the ditch.

And, as the occupants of those other two cars I’d spotted on the road below us, pulled into the car park and jumped out with their own cameras, we decided it was an appropriate moment to set off back down the hill to find a quieter spot for me to try to re-dress.

I’m sure there will be lots more dressing and undressing fun at this week’s
Sinful Sunday from clicking the lips below!

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Xxx – K

And as I’d almost inadvertently had my own flag flown at the top of Mount . . .
I still giggle every time I say it . . . Ainos . . . I would like to add this as a “Mountain” notch to Pieces of Jade’s, fun Scavenger Hunt meme.

And, if you are interested, you can discover lots more of my Scavenger Hunt submissions at current Scavenger Hunt page or visit my
Scavenger Slideshow!!!   

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Xxxx – K

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