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Modest Sculptures #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned several #Boobday Fridays ago, I do like to set Hubby specific tasks whilst we are on holiday. Just to keep his mind from wandering! It helps with his concentration and mindfulness . . . and also with his patience. (Though he wasn’t always able to maintain that as much as I would have liked!)

And I’m sure there will be even more tests of his concentration and patience at today’s Boobday Friday. Because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match

If you have visited me here occasionally before, you will know how much fun I have in my regular evenings with one of my younger lovers.

So my curiousity . . .  and attention . . . was immediately drawn by the “More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match” article I was recently sent (see below), and which I find myself nodding along in agreement to, as I read. Not to mention becoming aroused all over again at so many pleasant memories!


Well, okay, it is partially about the sex.

Times, are changing. LGBTQ rights are making progress and younger women are dating men on television. Consider Alicia Florrick’s one-night stand with her campaign manager (gasp, a double-whammy) from the ever popular legal drama, “The Good Wife”.

For the rest of us mid-life mortals still biting our lips every time a pretty young (male) thing walks by, you hereby have scientific and actual permission to go after what you want.

Or, at least, 5 reasons worth considering, if satisfaction and happiness are something you’ve been taught to just deny, deny, deny.

But, everyone needs to start somewhere.

  1. Lasting Longer
    For all you newbies and monogamy converts, there’s something in it for you: those dates and encounters that start casually between an older women and younger man are much more likely to end up turning into a lasting relationship. While “4ever” may not be quite forever, there’s a greater chance, according to studies for the symbiotic affinity younger men have for older women to transform the connection into a long-term relationship.
  2. Millennial Men Are Setting a New Standard
    It’s not just women’s social status, attitudes and expectations that are changing alongside their newfound power and professionalism. It’s also the status of younger guys. There is a lot more flexibility and younger men are more likely to be “open-minded” – and this doesn’t only have to do with their youth. It’s also because millennials, as a group, tend to be more self-reliant, highly educated and entrepreneurial. So if she’s dating a millennial man, he’s more like “young money”.
  3. The Tables Have Turned
    Usually, older women who date younger men are painted as desperate to cling on to a notion of youth that’s long passed them. Or else, they’re just closet-dominatrixes. After all, popular culture has a Maddona-Whore complex in the age of the 2010s for a reason, okay? But, now, it’s younger men who are actively attracted to older women, specifically singling them out as potential dating material – and are more than willing to take commitment to the next level with them. And it’s not because they have mommy issues, either. It’s because older women in this day and age tend to be financially and emotionally stable.
  4. Baggage Check – It’s no secret: older men tend to have baggage – and masks for hiding the baggage. The baggage is usually a couple of (failed) marriages, losses in life, emotional stagnation, teenagers and alimony. And their masks have been perfected over a century. Younger guys are not only less likely to have accumulated these fodder-for-a-therapist issues, they’re also less likely to internalize them so deeply or have it affect them as intensely as older men. Seriously though, younger guys have a greater tendency to roll with the punches – for now. So make hay while the sunshines.
  1. Older Women Make Younger Men Feel…Sexy! Another myth we’re turning inside out, folks: it’s actually younger men who end up feeling way sexier in a relationship with older women. See, older women who are confident enough are confident enough to go for younger guys. They don’t need a man, they want a man. They’ve lived with their beautiful bodies for long enough to know what they’re capable of, what their best features are and why they should respect themselves. Which means they’re more willing and able to tell their younger male counterparts how sexy they find their bodies, or their minds, or their voices. It’s often the younger man that will blush and feel shy and yet delighted at the genuine attention and care an older woman showers him with.

What’s the Big Deal, Anyway?

As an older woman, you’re likely to encounter many “boy toy” comments. And they’ll mostly come from other older men or (particularly judgemental) younger women. This happens because these groups feel threatened.

So consider this spin: you’re so in charge of your own desires, it actually threatens others who secretly want what you want but are “too afraid”  to go and get it.

Let that really sit for a moment. Now, if you’re feeling more mischievous and inspired than ever before, head online to Milf Area, gather a few close girlfriends and head to a local clubbing event dressed to the nines or chat up that cutie in the gym.

After all, what is that all those younger guys are saying?
“YOLO”: You only live once, right?


I am so happy to enter into such a fun collaboration with Milf Area because . . . as I mentioned in my opening paragraph . . .  I find myself nodding along in agreement with much of the above. With the rider of course that, as with ANY relationship, the key factor should always be open and honest communication between both (or in my case, all) parties involved. For as long as one’s desires, intentions and expectations are clear good, and fun things, normally happen!!!

Xxx – K   

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A Modest Kneed #sinfulsunday

Sometimes . . . when one’s submissives have purposefully, and willfully, misbehaved . . . there is nothing else for it but a firm, over-the-knee spanking!!!

And, once I’ve finished here, I shall visit this week’s Sinful Sunday, from smacking the lips below, to check-out everyone else’s needs and desires.
Though only . . . as I say . . . once I’ve finished here!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modest Domination #sinfulsunday

After a busy few weeks it was fun to get out and do some flex-ing again!!!

Which rather fits in with the “D” theme at  Sinful Sunday this week, where I’m sure you will find lots more Dominant flexing by slapping on the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Summer Dresses #Boobday Friday

It seems that summer has arrived with high temperatures forecast for the next few days . . . so I’m bringing out my Summer Dresses this morning . . . and thinking about some summer fun to come!

I haven’t quite made my mind up just yet . . . but I am liking the feel of this one
. . . nice and cool and breezy I think!!!

But I shall take a look at this week’s Boobday Friday for some further inspiration . . . because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modest Raindrops #Boobday Friday

After visiting a very Modern Gallery on the River recently, I stepped outside into a torrential down-pour!

“I think they were selling those pac-a-mac rain-capes in the gift-shop” Hubby said. So we dashed back inside to purchase one . . . only to step outside again to find the rain had virtually stopped.
Still, I was actually quite happy with my new purchase . . . in fact I think
I might wear it for my next tate-à-tête session . . . you know for when things get wet-and-slippery!

But in the meantime I thought it quite appropriate apparel for this week’s Boobday Friday because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

  And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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A Modest Screening #Boobday Friday

I generally like to keep my posts here at Modesty Ablaze, fun and frivolous . . . just to make people smile and, hopefully, feel happier than when they arrrived.

However . . . breast-screening is something we should all take seriously . . . especially as we become a little more “mature” (at least in years, if not actions!!!)

So as I passed by this sign in my travels last week, it made me think that it was an entirely appropriate prompt to mention at this week’s Boobday Friday
not only because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

But ALSO because one in eight women are diagnosed with breast-cancer
at some point during their life. But it CAN be treatable if it is diagnosed
early enough. So I urge ALL of you ladies to request a screening with your
GP once every three years. (If you are reading this in the UK, and you are
aged over 50, it is actually free!!!

  And then we can all continue to view different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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A Modest Flight Stop #Boobday Friday

I’ve always loved Zoe’s (Sex Is My New Hobby) wonderful Mile High posts
here at Boobday Friday.

So much so that on a recent flight, I just had to overcome my dislike of aeroplane toilets, and try a Mile High of my own! (A photo-Mile-High silly . . . it was far too cramped in there for the sort of Mile-High you are probably thinking of !!!)

So, I sincerely hope Zoe won’t mind my posting the result here on Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday because . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly Released #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned a few weeks ago . . . I do love my White Lace.

But, after a long day at the office, it is so lovely to unclip and release myself!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, there will be lots more lovely boobies being released . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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White Lace #Boobday Friday

I do love lace! It makes one feel . . . well you know . . . lady-like.
And I do love this particular white lace.

I may not wear it often, but when I do it does make me feel nice!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, you will feel nice too, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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