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Modestly Thrifty #sinfulsunday

You might be surprised to know that my biggest fetish is for . . . shoes !!!

Yes, I do so LOVE shoes . . . and, over the past few years I’ve probably collected, and been “tributed”, enough pairs of shoes to make over a years
worth of Sinful Sunday posts.

But . . . in this age of austerity, and responsible management of one’s finances . . . I am always conscious of being careful, and thrifty, about my fetish.

So, I was delighted when I recently came across this lovely pair of shoes at my local charity shop for just an amazing . . . £10 !!!

And, as I strut across the dungeon floor for my latest session, I just know that I will be wondering just who did they last belong to, where were they last worn? and . . . what exactly happened on the last occasion they were used??? 

Stamp, gently, on the Sinful lips below for more questions . . . and answers
this Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


Filed under BDSM fun, Female Dominatrix, Fetish Fashion, Sinful Sunday

Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Zado Leather Chastity Belt” @UberKinky

I’ve always been intrigued by chastity devices . . . not for me silly (heavens no,
I never could !!!) . . . Male Chastity Devices I mean !

A lot of that intrigue has been from just the visual point-of-view as I do enjoy looking at the various ways male genitalia can be caged and locked and restrained. But, of course, I also enjoy the psychological side of being in physical control of that genitalia. In control of not just the wearers arousal, and sexual availability, but of their very manhood. All of the subs who have asked me over the past 18 months or so, to be their keyholder, have told me that it is that constant reminder of being under the control of a Mistress that is the reason they so desire to wear one. Which, of course, is just what I love to hear!!!

And the first place I always instruct them to look for the device of their choice, is my favourite on-line Kink shop, Uberkinky.

Now, I have reviewed one of the Uberkinky Chastity Devices before . . . See my video review from March 2015 . . . but a change of style is always fun isn’t it, so following a new enquiry recently I thought I would ask the lovely UberKinky-people for the Zado Leather Chastity Belt instead.

It arrived in quite a large, glossy cardboard box actually . . . I mean once I took it out of the discreet, plain manilla Jiffy-postal bag, that is. “Very nicely packaged” I thought, and the picture of the male-model on the front and back was very nice as well!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt is made from strong black leather and certainly looks, and feels, much more substantial than the previous devices I have seen. As you will see from my accompanying photos it is, as the name states, a Belt and Pouch arrangement rather than a cage-type attachment. And, because it is so different, I rather liked it.

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt also comes with a very impressive, and quite heavy little metal padlock, and three keys and, as you can probably imagine, I was quite keen to strap my willing assistant into his restraint.

The leather waist straps are 2 inches wide at the back and side, and padded with a foam lining for comfort and to prevent chafing against the skin. They circle around the subs waist with narrower 1 inch “tongues” which slide into a flap on each side of the top part of the pouch. The belt fits a waist size of between 39 to 55 inches . . . and although my sub doesn’t look quite as “fit” as the model on the box, I was quite happy with the result when I strapped him in!

Each left and right-hand tongue has fixing slots, spaced about 1 inch apart, which fit over a metal d-ring attached to the top of the pouch. This pouch, made up of thinner (half-inch wide) strips of leather forms a small basket-type design with narrow gaps of about ¾ inch square which allows our subjects skin to “breathe”. It is fixed to the straps with firm chrome rivets which attach to the back of the belt in a harness type design, running between the subs legs and joined at the back with a fixed d-ring type construction. I think it looks quite nice, pulling tightly between the bum cheeks, and adding to the overall “bondage” type element of the device.

As I mentioned, the padlock itself, is quite strong and clips over the front d-ring once each belt has been tightened and slotted in place over that d-ring. I’m told that the belt is “fairly comfortable” to wear, but it clearly does need to be pulled quite tightly, so as not to allow things to fall or squirm out of that pouch at the bottom or sides.

My sub qualified that “fairly comfortable” statement by saying that after several hours of wear, the thinner edges of the pouch occasionally did rub against his scrotum. “Good”, I replied, “that reminds you of your position then doesn’t it?”

In both looks and restraint then, I rather liked this first test of the Zado Leather Chastity Belt in action. However, a further hour or so after that “rubbing” moan came a more pressing . . . and I had to admit . . . a more realistic complaint. He “desperately needed a pee”!!!

Now, with the other devices I had already commissioned, toilet necessities were entirely possible (after a little practice and adjustment for “aim and direction”) through the bars, or small opening at the end of the cage or cylinder. And, of course, those designs don’t have an under-and-between-the-legs strap for when the wearer needs a “number 2”.

After a quick re-consideration and inspection of the front of the pouch, and some forced adjustment of the enclosed penis in an attempt to position it between the gaps of the basket-strapping, we both concluded that the result would be too hit-and-miss . . . and too messy. So a quick, temporary, release was necessary. This rather annoying interruption also made me realise that prolonged wear of The Zado Leather Chastity Belt would not be possible, not only because of toiletry necessity, but also because the leather would not be suitable for normal showering or bathing.

So I would have to, disappointingly, say The Zado Leather Chastity Belt is for me not practically suitable for prolonged enforced “chastity” in the traditional sense . . . for the usual requests I occasionally receive from new submissives wishing to be “locked in mistresses control for weeks and weeks”.

However, all is not lost for this belt, because what I can attest to is that it does make for the perfect Cuckholding-Chastity belt . . . which I have already put to successful use during several recent liaisons (for which video evidence may follow in the coming weeks!)

So if Cuckholding is your thing, then this Zado Leather Chastity Belt is absolutely ideal !!!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt:
Modesty Rating:
6 out of 10
Pros: Nice bondage-style G-string appearance. Waist-adjustable so not reliant on scrotum-size, and therefore doesn’t fall off!!!
Cons: Does not allow easy “toilet / ablutions” access.
Material: Good quality Leather with chrome metal finishing and D-ring fasteners. Substantial metal lock and keys.
Measurements: Adjustable belt to fit waist size 39 to 55 inches.
Reasonably light to wear.
Colour: Black.
Waterproof: No.
After-care: After-use cleaning with anti-bacterial wipes. Long term occasional after-care as for standard leather products.
Supplier Product Link: The Zado Leather Chastity Belt
Additional Supplier Links: Male Chastity Devices
The Modesty Video Review:
To possibly follow if you are interested!

Additional links: UberKinky at Twitter  . . . and I really do recommend you browse the UberKinky Essential Guides for wonderfully comprehensive information on all things Kink!!!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.


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Modestly Stained #sinful sunday

It’s just been so busy, busy, busy recently . . . but not too busy to indulge in some Sinful Staining late last night!!!

I’m sure there will be many more Sinful stains this Sunday from spanking (responsibly and with due care of course!) at the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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A Modest Intent #sinfulsunday


“I always have only the best intentions . . . for both of us!!!”

“Yes Mistress” he answered, kneeling in front of me.

For more Sinful intent this Sunday kneel and kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze “Love Bites” new video @makelovenotporn.tv


One of the things I enjoy about meeting new friends is discovering new, different, and fun experiences. We all have different desires, different fetishes and different things that excite and arouse us. And I always find that discovering . . . and sharing . . . those different experiences with new friends can be so fulfilling and enjoyable.

And that’s exactly what makes all of the #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv so relevant and such fun . . . because it’s real-life emotions and pleasures shared with real-life people!!!

And “Love Bites”, my newest video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is a perfect example of that because my new young friend surprised me by begging me to indulge his passion for “Love Bites” – and not in a place where you would normally think that love bites would be . . . !!!


. . . because, you see, he wanted me to give him love bites . . . down there!!! . . . if you know whereabouts I mean.

I wasn’t really sure I would be able to indulge him in his desires at first . . . at least not as “hard” as he seemed to want them. But he does have such a “lovely package” that I just couldn’t resist! And despite my initial reservations, I quickly began to really enjoy myself . . . and his lovely “package” . . . as I think will be obvious from this fun video!

You can view my introduction to “Love Bites” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as I mention at the end of my introduction, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. (AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

Love Bites MLNP Clip

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Love Bites” is my 32nd video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

I really do hope you get as much fun . . . and excitement . . . and wonder . . . from viewing “Love Bites” as my new friend and I,
rather obviously, had making it!!!

Xxx – K


Filed under #realworldsex at MLNP.tv, Make Love Not Porn, Mistress Modesty Ablaze, sexual empowerment for women

A Modest Flogging #sinfulsunday


Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modestly Red #Boobday Friday


We all have a favourite outfit don’t we? You know . . . one we just have to wear for that “special occasion”.

And although I can’t possibly wear it all day today, I am planning on wearing my favourite red dress out this evening for another “special occasion”.

But then Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, is also always a special occasion,
because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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A Modest Fetish #Boobday Friday


It’s London Fetish Weekend this weekend . . . so I’ll be very busy!
Very, very busy LOL!!!

But as today is  #Boobday Friday I thought I would share one of the outfits that I will be wearing at some point over the next three days and nights.

And if you tap Hyacinth’s #boobday logo below, you are sure to see lots more boobs on display this weekend, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modestly Humble #sinfulsunday


Sometimes one stumbles across something that makes one just want to . . .


Slap ones hands together and . . .


Stamp ones feet . . . in excitement, happiness and joy!

Today was a day just like that . . . and I’m sure there will be lots more exciting happiness and joy to be found this Sinful Sunday from slapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


Filed under BDSM fun, Female Dominatrix, Fetish Fashion, Mistress Modesty Ablaze, Sinful Sunday

Modestly Spiked #sinfulsunday

“Looking Up” is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday, but . . .


. . . things may not be “looking up” for everyone within my crasp . . . depending, of course, on how “upward” one grows during the evening!!!

Experience more upward trends this Sunday by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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