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Modest Red Boots #sinfulsunday

I always find that the important thing about a new pair of boots . . . is that one must break-them-in slowly!

One step at a time . . . just gently pushing and flexing . . .

. . . and applying a little pressure . . . and weight . . . to one’s sole and heels . . .
before I feel really comfortable and know I will enjoy wearing them again
and again!!!

And I’m sure you will discover lots more sole-ful images at this week’s
Sinful
Sunday, by gently prodding the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

 

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Rimba Bondage Belt” @UberKinky

Whilst it’s always fun to simply handcuff one’s submissive’s wrists together, or perhaps attach their arms to a fixed frame or St Andrews Cross, there are often times when I want them to be more mobile. To be able to lead them around and have unhindered access to their bum or back in one moment . . . and then spin them around to have some fun pinching nipples and, of course, whatever else is available . . . the next!

And this Rimba Bondage Belt and Handcuff set, from my favourite on-line Kink store Uberkinky, is ideal for those exact moments.

The Rimba Bondage Belt arrived quite modestly packaged in just a zip-lock plastic bag with a cardboard insert with one photograph and the manufacturers logo. (Delivered in a discreet manilla postal jiffy bag of course).

But the strong leather manufacture and simple design need no other explanation or packaging as the purpose and intention of the belt is perfectly obvious.

The belt itself is 2 inches wide and made from high quality Black Leather with stitched edging and a large chrome buckle firmly attached with two chrome rivets. It comes in two sizes, to fit Small to Medium waist, or Medium to Large. Each side of the belt has a large chrome D-ring attached (again with double chrome rivet attachments) to which the wrist cuffs are attached with chrome carabiners-clips.

Also made from strong black leather, the wrist cuffs have the 1¼ inch wide, and 12 inch long leather tongue attached to the 2 inch wide bands themselves with 4 strong chrome rivets. Once again the buckle is a strong chrome fixing, as is the D-ring which, with it’s carabiner clip, attaches one to each side of the belt.

For it’s first use, I was able to attach it quickly and easily to my submissives belt, which after my firm instruction, he had already buckled himself up into.

And it certainly does what it is intended to, as I began our session. The D-rings on the cuffs are large enough to allow rope and other attachments to be clipped on as well . . . as my willing (always willing!) submissive soon found out. I had him attached quite differently to how he would normally be restrained and that in itself led to heightened levels of intensity. I sometimes worry if I have a subs arms stretched up above his head, or cuffed behind his back for too long a time. But . . . apparently this arms-by-the-side restraint is much more comfortable. Even if my administrations to his back . . . and front . . . were far less so.

So I am delighted with this latest addition to my sessioning equipment and can highly recommend this Rimba Bondage Belt and Handcuff set from Uberkinky. And don’t forget there are many more Bondage items and accessories available at their Bondage Gear page >here<.

The Rimba Bondage Belt with Hand Cuffs:
Modesty Rating:
9 out of 10
Pros: Easy to put the belt on and quickly clip ones submissive’s wrist cuffs to the waist band.
Cons: I think the wrist cuffs would benefit from another D-ring on the other side of the cuff, near the buckle, to make additional fixtures/restraint easier.
Material: Good quality black leather with chrome metal finishing and D-ring attachments.
Measurements: Belt sizes of Small to Medium Size to fit 75 – 90cm; or Medium to Large Size to fit 90 – 105cm. Main belt width of 2 inches. The Wrist Cuffs are just under 12 inches long and 1¼ inch wide.
Colour: Black.
Waterproof: No.
After-care: As with normal leather products they should be cleaned with a damp cloth and dried immediately afterwards.
Supplier Product Link: The Rimba Bondage Belt with Hand Cuffs
Additional Supplier Links: Uberkinky Bondage Gear
The Modesty Video Review:
To possibly follow, so just let me know if you are interested!

Additional links: UberKinky at Twitter  . . . and I really do recommend you browse the UberKinky Essential Guides for wonderfully comprehensive information on all things Kink!!!

The Rimba Bondage Belt with Hand Cuffs set was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modestly Marked #sinfulsunday

Even for one of the more extreme requests I’m asked during one of my sessions

. . . I always like to add a little fun and humour!

I think of it as leaving . . . as well as my marks . . . my own modest signature!!!

I’m sure you will find lots more marks of different kinds at this week’s
Sinful Sunday by tapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Request #Boobday Friday

I seem to be receiving more and more suggestions these days about what I should wear on my pages here . . . although some of those suggestions are more practical than others of course! LOL!!!

But “that red and black with the big collars and the zip at the front”, has obviously been glimpsed from one of my previous posts so . . . to fulfill a special request . . . I popped it on again last night, especially to share here at Boobday Friday for that particular gentleman in question.

And of course for anyone else visiting Boobday Friday because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Sex Bondage Kit” from pinkbob.com

Whatever ones thoughts on the merits of the Fifty Shades phenomenon, there is no denying that it certainly  brought the subject of BDSM out of the “shadows” and into the mainstream. And with the second film in the series about to be released here in the UK, it is sure to arouse yet more interest again.

So I was pleasantly surprised when a quite substantial Sex Bondage Starters Kit arrived in my mailbox recently. Not that I’m a “starter” of course . . . if you’ve been visiting me here over the past few years you will know how much I enjoy my BDSM-side . . . but it’s always nice to experiment with new and different play-things. Particularly when those playthings are from PinkB.O.B., the manufacturer of my all-time favourite Rechargeable Wand Vibrator The Lust (see my review from October).

The Sex Bondage Kit is from PinkBob’s reasonably new Master Kink range and contains eight different items (at an amazing price) which is sure to provide lots of fun, and lots of adventures, whether you are indeed a “starter” or, a more “experienceed” kinkster.

Now, I firstly wanted to say that all of the items here appear to have been made in China. But don’t you dare throw up your hands in disgust and tell me that that must mean “low quality”, because that is far from the case! The quality, and strength, of all of the items here (and YES I have already tested all of them in more than one session) is actually very impressive.

All the actual measurements of each item are available from the manufacturers Amazon page links below (in my normal Specifications Panel), so I won’t list them again all individually, but my favourite item is the Black Mini Flogger.  It is just the perfect weight and size for some close-up and personal (I’m sure you know where) flogging. The handle is just over 4 inches in length and about ¾ inch diameter and fits perfectly in ones hand. It is very light and comfortable to hold, and the fifteen thin leather strands (each just over ½ inch wide) make for a lovely stinging sensations when “in use”. I have used it now on several occasions over the past few weeks and it has become one of the first items I reach for from my “Mistress Cabinet” when I am packing for a new session. In other words, it can make more of an impression than you might at first think . . . but equally makes an ideal first-impact-toy for kinky bedroom foreplay as well.

As in fact, do all the items included in the Master Kink Bondage Kit. And, as I mentioned, the kit price is just amazing when you consider it includes The Flogger, two Wrist Cuffs (with a detachable chain link), a quite lovely Black Leather Mask, a Breathable Ball Gag (which I have already previously reviewed in May 2016), a strong Black Bondage Rope, Nipple Clamps, a Black Leather Collar and a Black Leash (which can clip onto either the Collar itself, or the Wrist Cuffs).

And, a nice touch as well, is the inclusion of a small fold-out leaflet of the “Master Kink Official Guide to Bondage” . . . although I would have liked more information to have been included with each item on material details and after-care.

As well as the eight items included in the Bondage Kit itself, Master Kink (which seems more appropriate for me to use in this context rather than PinkB.O.B.) also sent me a Hog Tie Restraint, a thicker Black Leather Collar & Chain Leash, and some Chain Nipple Clamps.

If you’ve never used Hog Tie Restraints before I can assure you they are certainly lots of fun. The soft faux fur material, and velcro fastening, make them easy and comfortable to apply. They really are ideal for some naughty bedroom fun and perfectly safe to use.

As are the Chain Nipple Clamps which are rubber tipped and non-piercing and non-abrasive, and have a sliding catch for adjustable “pressure”, but still easily and quickly removed. So you get all the pleasure and arousal of nipple play without any lasting  pain.

And finally, that thick Black Leather Collar and it’s Chain Leash. With it’s main leather neck strap of 2 ¼ inches wide and attached thinner restraining strap (1 ¼ inch wide and chrome buckle and double rivet holes) it is adjustable from 12 to 17 ½ inches. It has a strong chrome D-ring attachment at the front to which one can attach the supplied Chain Leash. The leash itself is 31 inches long so ideal for leading ones submissive around the Dungeon, (or as I did last week, on a Fetish-Club night out).

As I’ve mentioned already, all of these items are available at quite amazing prices from Master Kink’s Amazon pages from the links below. I don’t think they ship internationally, but if you live within the US, I highly recommend you make Master Kink your first-stop Fetish shop!!!

The Sex Bondage Kit from Master Kink:
Modesty Rating:
8 out of 10
Pros: Well made and strongly manufactured. Amazingly priced for my North American readers.
Cons: Minimal individual product information supplied (though some measurements etc are listed on the buy-links below).
Supplier Product Links:
The Sex Bondage Kit

Chain Nipple Clamps

Black Collar Leash with Chain
Hog Tie Restraint Kit
The Modesty Video Review(s):
To possibly follow, so just let me know if you are interested!

Additional links: PinkB.O.B. at Instagram  . . . and I also recommend you browse the PinkB.O.B. Blog for helpful hints and tips!!!

The Sex Bondage Kit, Chain Nipple Clamps, Black Collar Leash with Chain and the Hog-Tie Restraint System  were all sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

 

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Modestly Polished #sinfulsunday

The difficulty with owning so many pairs of shoes . . . is finding the time to
keep them all clean and freshly polished.

But I am quite lucky in that regard . . . why, only today, I had another willing submissive begging to help with a personal “shine and polish” . . . and,
you know me, I am always willing to oblige.

For lots more Sinful polish this Sunday, simply kneel down and . . .
respectfully . . . lick the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Stepping Out #sinfulsunday

I recently mentioned how excited I’d been to discover this lovely pair of shoes at a charity shop. Well last night I stepped-out in them for the very first time.

And I’m delighted to say they were very well received . . . in fact, I was told they made an immediate, and lasting, impression!!!

There are bound to be lots more people to be found stepping out by prodding the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Thrifty #sinfulsunday

You might be surprised to know that my biggest fetish is for . . . shoes !!!

Yes, I do so LOVE shoes . . . and, over the past few years I’ve probably collected, and been “tributed”, enough pairs of shoes to make over a years
worth of Sinful Sunday posts.

But . . . in this age of austerity, and responsible management of one’s finances . . . I am always conscious of being careful, and thrifty, about my fetish.

So, I was delighted when I recently came across this lovely pair of shoes at my local charity shop for just an amazing . . . £10 !!!

And, as I strut across the dungeon floor for my latest session, I just know that I will be wondering just who did they last belong to, where were they last worn? and . . . what exactly happened on the last occasion they were used??? 

Stamp, gently, on the Sinful lips below for more questions . . . and answers
this Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Zado Leather Chastity Belt” @UberKinky

I’ve always been intrigued by chastity devices . . . not for me silly (heavens no,
I never could !!!) . . . Male Chastity Devices I mean !

A lot of that intrigue has been from just the visual point-of-view as I do enjoy looking at the various ways male genitalia can be caged and locked and restrained. But, of course, I also enjoy the psychological side of being in physical control of that genitalia. In control of not just the wearers arousal, and sexual availability, but of their very manhood. All of the subs who have asked me over the past 18 months or so, to be their keyholder, have told me that it is that constant reminder of being under the control of a Mistress that is the reason they so desire to wear one. Which, of course, is just what I love to hear!!!

And the first place I always instruct them to look for the device of their choice, is my favourite on-line Kink shop, Uberkinky.

Now, I have reviewed one of the Uberkinky Chastity Devices before . . . See my video review from March 2015 . . . but a change of style is always fun isn’t it, so following a new enquiry recently I thought I would ask the lovely UberKinky-people for the Zado Leather Chastity Belt instead.

It arrived in quite a large, glossy cardboard box actually . . . I mean once I took it out of the discreet, plain manilla Jiffy-postal bag, that is. “Very nicely packaged” I thought, and the picture of the male-model on the front and back was very nice as well!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt is made from strong black leather and certainly looks, and feels, much more substantial than the previous devices I have seen. As you will see from my accompanying photos it is, as the name states, a Belt and Pouch arrangement rather than a cage-type attachment. And, because it is so different, I rather liked it.

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt also comes with a very impressive, and quite heavy little metal padlock, and three keys and, as you can probably imagine, I was quite keen to strap my willing assistant into his restraint.

The leather waist straps are 2 inches wide at the back and side, and padded with a foam lining for comfort and to prevent chafing against the skin. They circle around the subs waist with narrower 1 inch “tongues” which slide into a flap on each side of the top part of the pouch. The belt fits a waist size of between 39 to 55 inches . . . and although my sub doesn’t look quite as “fit” as the model on the box, I was quite happy with the result when I strapped him in!

Each left and right-hand tongue has fixing slots, spaced about 1 inch apart, which fit over a metal d-ring attached to the top of the pouch. This pouch, made up of thinner (half-inch wide) strips of leather forms a small basket-type design with narrow gaps of about ¾ inch square which allows our subjects skin to “breathe”. It is fixed to the straps with firm chrome rivets which attach to the back of the belt in a harness type design, running between the subs legs and joined at the back with a fixed d-ring type construction. I think it looks quite nice, pulling tightly between the bum cheeks, and adding to the overall “bondage” type element of the device.

As I mentioned, the padlock itself, is quite strong and clips over the front d-ring once each belt has been tightened and slotted in place over that d-ring. I’m told that the belt is “fairly comfortable” to wear, but it clearly does need to be pulled quite tightly, so as not to allow things to fall or squirm out of that pouch at the bottom or sides.

My sub qualified that “fairly comfortable” statement by saying that after several hours of wear, the thinner edges of the pouch occasionally did rub against his scrotum. “Good”, I replied, “that reminds you of your position then doesn’t it?”

In both looks and restraint then, I rather liked this first test of the Zado Leather Chastity Belt in action. However, a further hour or so after that “rubbing” moan came a more pressing . . . and I had to admit . . . a more realistic complaint. He “desperately needed a pee”!!!

Now, with the other devices I had already commissioned, toilet necessities were entirely possible (after a little practice and adjustment for “aim and direction”) through the bars, or small opening at the end of the cage or cylinder. And, of course, those designs don’t have an under-and-between-the-legs strap for when the wearer needs a “number 2”.

After a quick re-consideration and inspection of the front of the pouch, and some forced adjustment of the enclosed penis in an attempt to position it between the gaps of the basket-strapping, we both concluded that the result would be too hit-and-miss . . . and too messy. So a quick, temporary, release was necessary. This rather annoying interruption also made me realise that prolonged wear of The Zado Leather Chastity Belt would not be possible, not only because of toiletry necessity, but also because the leather would not be suitable for normal showering or bathing.

So I would have to, disappointingly, say The Zado Leather Chastity Belt is for me not practically suitable for prolonged enforced “chastity” in the traditional sense . . . for the usual requests I occasionally receive from new submissives wishing to be “locked in mistresses control for weeks and weeks”.

However, all is not lost for this belt, because what I can attest to is that it does make for the perfect Cuckholding-Chastity belt . . . which I have already put to successful use during several recent liaisons (for which video evidence may follow in the coming weeks!)

So if Cuckholding is your thing, then this Zado Leather Chastity Belt is absolutely ideal !!!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt:
Modesty Rating:
6 out of 10
Pros: Nice bondage-style G-string appearance. Waist-adjustable so not reliant on scrotum-size, and therefore doesn’t fall off!!!
Cons: Does not allow easy “toilet / ablutions” access.
Material: Good quality Leather with chrome metal finishing and D-ring fasteners. Substantial metal lock and keys.
Measurements: Adjustable belt to fit waist size 39 to 55 inches.
Weight:
Reasonably light to wear.
Colour: Black.
Waterproof: No.
After-care: After-use cleaning with anti-bacterial wipes. Long term occasional after-care as for standard leather products.
Supplier Product Link: The Zado Leather Chastity Belt
Additional Supplier Links: Male Chastity Devices
The Modesty Video Review:
To possibly follow if you are interested!

Additional links: UberKinky at Twitter  . . . and I really do recommend you browse the UberKinky Essential Guides for wonderfully comprehensive information on all things Kink!!!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modestly Stained #sinful sunday

It’s just been so busy, busy, busy recently . . . but not too busy to indulge in some Sinful Staining late last night!!!

I’m sure there will be many more Sinful stains this Sunday from spanking (responsibly and with due care of course!) at the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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