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Ménage Ablaze #wickedwednesday

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nage à trois ? . . . some people may think it’s just plain greedy.

Well . . . I prefer to think of it as just spreading the love!!!

nage à trois is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday . . .  and if you tap on the Button below I’m sure you’ll discover lots more about three-somes
and more-somes!

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Xxx – K

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Open Monogamy and Modesty Ablaze? #wickedwednesday

ModestyAblazeMonogamyToday I’m “opening-up” to this weeks prompt of “monogamy” at Wicked Wednesday . . .  the popular definition of which (from Marie’s source) is: “Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time . . .”

Opening-up because, If you’ve visited me here before, you might be surprised to hear me say that I have been in a completely . . . and wonderfully fulfilling . . . monogamous relationship for over 33 years (31 of them married).

Monogamous? . . . How??? . . . when, from almost the very beginning of those 33 years, I have indulged in “extra-marital partnerships” with lots and lots of different lovers, many of whom I still regularly meet with . . . and many of whom have become wonderful friends as well as wonderful lovers.

Now I know that many people may describe the partnership I share with my Lover No.1, as an “open relationship” and completely the opposite of a monogamous relationship. But I would disagree . . .

Because . . . for me at least . . . I would define monogamy very simply as sharing absolutely everything with one special person.

And by “absolutely everything” I mean every emotion, every desire, every touch, every sensation, every want . . . and every need . . . completely and exclusively with someone in your life that you just know you would never want to be without.

So, whilst my own relationship may not match that “only-one-partner” of the conventional definition of Monogamy. . . for me, my “only-one-partner” makes for a truly Monogamous Modesty Ablaze.

And as with everything in life, I believe that every description and every convention, should have a different and entirely individual meaning for all of us.

We should all be happy to be who we are . . . and not what the conventions of society would have us be!!!

You can read lots of other thoughts on Monogamy this Wednesday by tapping the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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Two’s Company, Three’s . . . #wickedwednesday

Mmm . . . TWO is nice company . . .

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ModestyThree3Marie’s  Wicked Wednesday is three years old this week, and I’m sure you will find lots more people helping Marie celebrate Naughty Number Three’s from licking the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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“Steamy Kisses” #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

ModestyAblazeSteamierKissesI had such a wonderful night of “Passionate Kisses” with Lover No.50 on our first evening together, that I just couldn’t wait to arrange another meeting. And I was so thrilled when he said he felt the same way! And that second meeting . . . on International Happiness Day . . .  was even more passionate than the first!

Starting with a steamy, soapy shower together, this is the longest of any of my MLNP videos . . . fifty minutes long in fact! But it was all so lovely that I just didn’t want to leave anything out. With multiple orgasms from all three of us (yes Hubby comes out from behind the camera on several occasions) I think the wonderful, fun, #realworldsex we all enjoyed, will be obvious throughout our Steamy Kisses“.

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The latest “MakeCheekyLove” post on the MakeLoveNotPorn-blog previews “Steamy Kisses” as:

“Modesty Ablaze’s longest MLNP submission to date starts out with some #showertime fun. Because, as we’re sure Modesty knows, getting someone nice and slippery in the shower also provides great lubrication for some steamy #handy action! Things then heat up on the bed between her and Lover No. 50, with hubby filming the entire rendezvous. He eventually joins in, much to everyone’s delight, leading to a menage-a-trois filled with giggles, orgasms, and a raw candidness that’s incredibly real, hot and mesmerizing to watch.”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Steamy Kisses”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Steamy Kisses” is my seventeenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my seventeen #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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Nominations are open for the Top Sex Bloggers of 2014

Modesty Ablaze CuffedDoes October make you feel blue, bored, blasé . . . with the fun of your summer holiday already a fading, distant memory . . . and are thoughts of the pressure and chaos of Christmas already crossing your mind? 

Well here’s an ideal opportunity for some exciting and titillating distraction and enjoyment . . . not one, but two, Top Sex Bloggers of 2014 Nomination Websites for you to peruse and investigate!!!

Every year both Kinkly and Between My Sheets offer their readers the opportunity to nominate their favourite on-line reading, most sexciting, most sexformative, most-visited bookmarks in their browser.

Not only is it a great way of passing on a little thanks to some of the people that have entertained and informed you throughout the year . . . or who, perhaps unknowingly, may have given you strength and self-believe in sharing thoughts and experiences similar to your own . . . but I also find it is a wonderful way of discovering yet more interesting and fun erotic people and their blogs!

Blogs and experiences that you may otherwise have never come across . . . blogs and experiences that strike a chord, reinforce feelings and desires that you share . . . blogs and posts that make you laugh out loud in agreement (or sometimes wonder!)

So, I really do recommend that you follow both of the above links . . . because I am sure you will find fun times within.

And fun times, for me, is what life should be all about . . . so go on, click and enjoy.

Oh, and yes, I will feel flattered, and honoured should you wish to mention, or include, www.modestyablaze.com during your travels >here< at Kinkly or >here< Between Rori’s Sheets . . . but most of all, I hope you find fun times!!!

Xxx –  K

Oh, and p.s. – Huge thanks, as always, to the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar) for the picture of me above!

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Mistress Modesty at Make Liberating Love Not Porn.tv

The latest edition of MakeLoveNotPorn.tv features a wonderful mix of liberating MLNP videos from the likes of AllenandtheJean, Cato, Lily Cade, WeMegiddoStyle . . . and yours truly (see below).

Mistress ModestyHaving already rented previous videos from all of the above MLNP-stars I am so looking forward to adding these new entries to my list.

You can find out a little more about my own, completely new, Mistress Modesty video by clicking the picture above or at my Video channel . . . but be prepared, it is rather different from any of my previous MLNP videos . . . but rest assured it really does have a happy (if slightly messy) ending!!!

Don’t forget that it’s free to join the MLNP community and free to view ALL of the MLNP-stars profiles and “Free Peek” clips and introductions . . . including “Free Peeks” of my own intro videos.

Simply click on the mlnp.tv logo immediately below!!!

mlnp.tv LogoP.s. As always I really do love hearing your comments and questions about my videos on MLNP so do please feel free to leave me a message here, or email me direct.

Xxx – K

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A very special edition of Modesty Ablaze at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

Sometimes you can meet someone who you just know will become a very special part of your life. Someone to make you feel instantly at ease, instantly fun to be with and who always makes you feel good about yourself.

My new video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . with my very special friend “She Lover” . . .  illustrates that perfectly. She always makes me happy and always makes me feel relaxed and able to completely let myself go in her company.

ModestySheLoverIntroI felt that connection from our first meeting almost 18 months ago . . . and she has become not just a lover, but a wonderful and very special friend, someone whom I feel I have known forever.

We share the same love of life, shoes, clothes and . . . of course . . . fun. And I  hope you will sense some of that fun and passion from watching us enjoying some loving “girly time” together on this brand-new video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

I love MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . and I love being part of it . . . and I hope my video will pique your interest enough to explore more. To discover and enjoy and feel part of the love shared by people like AllenAndTheJean, Lilly Cade, RedFox, Violet+Rye, Parrot99, Ellabella . . . and more.

It’s free to join the MLNP community and free to view all of the MLNP-stars profiles and “Free Peek” clips and introductions . . . including “Free Peeks” of my “She Lover“ video.

Simply click on the mlnp.tv logo immediately below!!!

mlnp.tv LogoP.s. As always I really do love hearing your comments and questions about my videos on MLNP so do please feel free to leave me a message here, or email me direct.

Xxx – K

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Happy Hump Day with Madam Curator

This weeks edition of the MLNP.tv Happy Hump Day blog features a wonderful video-blog from the delightfully delicious Madam Curator Sarah introducing six brand new #realworldsex video offerings. Two video’s from debutant MLNP-stars Cato and new videos from the adventurous Alex & Anna, lovely and loving Irish couple RedFox, yours-truly Modesty Ablaze and the red-hot Lilly Cade.

But that is not just why I am urging you to watch Sarah’s video at MLNP.tv’s latest post . . . rather it is because I think you will be enthralled and excited, enchanted and intrigued by Sarah’s presence and delivery. Her enthusiasm and belief in the ethos of #realworldsex shines through in her video and I would just love all of you being able to enjoy and share in some of that excitement and enthusiasm as well, (click on her picture below to see exactly what I mean!).

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I just love the whole MakeLoveNotPorn approach to #realworldsex. Simply put, Real people enjoying . . . and sharing . . . their own Real moments of passion, fun and excitement.

From the moment I first saw Cindy Gallop’s (MLNP’s co-founder), inspirational video of her presentation at the Ted Conference . . . and then subsequently read through all of Sarah’s insightful posts at the MLNP.tv blog . . . I have been addicted.

Addicted to Sarah and Cindy’s philosophy and addicted to the way the MLNP-stars present their videos. And it wasn’t too long of course, before I worked up the courage to share some of my own.

It’s free to join the MLNP community and free to view all of the MLNP-stars profiles and “Free Peek” clips and introductions. Hubby and I have already enjoyed videos from several of the couples that Sarah talks about in this week’s edition and will certainly be investigating the new-names she is featuring.

Please do visit and enjoy, and share, the love and excitement . . . just because !!!

 

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Top 100 Sex Blogger nominations are open for this year

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Last October I was absolutely thrilled to have been been included in the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012 at Rori’s Between My Sheets.

I had only been publishing my on-line diary for less than 12 months at the time and although I had already been regularly receiving emails from people telling me how much they had enjoyed reading of my experiences . . . and how in many cases it had helped them in their own personal lives . . . it was a huge surprise, and extremely flattering and humbling to have been included amongst such exciting, entertaining, insightful, interesting and inspirational writers and bloggers.

And to have since personally met and regularly correspond with a number of fellow UK-based people featured on the list has been an even more wonderful experience.

I have always believed that it is incredibly important, and empowering, to be able to share and express ones feelings, thoughts and desires . . . and I don’t mean just “sexual” feelings and experiences, but ALL of our emotions . . . within ones close personal relationships. For me, “communication” is THE single most important factor in any relationship. And ALL of the people on Rori’s list communicate, in one way or another through their blogging, their own ideas, experiences, preferences and beliefs. And it is that open communication, and sharing, that I find so enthralling and interesting . . . and yes often entertaining and arousing . . . that keeps me “following” and re-visiting so many of these people on Rori’s list.

Of course, I would love to be nominated once again this year, but I would also sincerely urge you all to spend some time, if you haven’t already done so, discovering the joys and delights . . . and giggles and gasps . . . from Rori’s complete list from 2012.

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And, once again, you can add your nominations for The Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2013 >here< !

With best wishes – Katie

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Oh, and P.S. – My picture above is by the wonderful John Tisbury (see my side-bar for a link to his portfolio site)

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Modesty Ablaze Bound new video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

My newest video, “Modesty Ablaze Bound & Unbound” for #realworldsex, is now available on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv  !!!
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You can watch my YouTube introduction to the film by clicking the image above.

It is my third video for #realworldsex at Make Love Not Porn.

I’ve always enjoyed a little-bit of light bondage, but it wasn’t until we met Lover No.14 that I was introduced to Rope Play.

I soon found I really enjoy being tightly bound in the ropes and knots and this video starts with No.14 doing just that. I love the feeling of being helpless and completely at his mercy and of course loved the naughty things that he, and Hubby, do to me before and after, I am unbound and released.

I completely lost count of how many orgasms I had, but it was a truly magical evening.

When I am lost in those moments of passion (I call it my “love cocoon”) I am so completely carried away that a herd of wild horses could probably charge through the room and I wouldn’t be able to stop.

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I just seem to get consumed by wave after wave of wonderful orgasms. Even the tips of my fingers and toes seem to tingle and vibrate . . . until eventually I’m drained completely. Everything goes numb and I usually have to roll over onto my side and curl up into a ball (as happened on this occasion), suddenly feeling self-conscious and swearing at Hubby “turn that video off now, that’s enough, just cuddle me please”.

I hope you will enjoy this and do please let me know if you would like us to upload more. You can view my profile on MLNP.tv .

Xxx – Katie

P.s. It’s free to register at MLNP . . . and then you simply pay a minimum fee to “rent” a video for three weeks, so you can watch me over, and over, and over again for less than Lover No.14 paid for that cup of coffee I was enjoying on my Early morning Coffee in Euston post !!!

Oh, and p.p.s. there are lots, and lots, of other wonderful people with their own #realworldsex videos that I’m sure you will enjoy at:

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