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Modestly Superstitious #Boobday

I’m not normally superstitious . . . but I am really excited and looking forward
to some new fun shortly. For the moment though, I’m keeping my cards
close to my chest . . . but hopefully more will be revealed soon.

Until then I’m sure there will be more revealing chests at today’s
Boobday Friday, because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

For more Boobday reflections, this and every Friday, simply click on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match

If you have visited me here occasionally before, you will know how much fun I have in my regular evenings with one of my younger lovers.

So my curiousity . . .  and attention . . . was immediately drawn by the “More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match” article I was recently sent (see below), and which I find myself nodding along in agreement to, as I read. Not to mention becoming aroused all over again at so many pleasant memories!


Well, okay, it is partially about the sex.

Times, are changing. LGBTQ rights are making progress and younger women are dating men on television. Consider Alicia Florrick’s one-night stand with her campaign manager (gasp, a double-whammy) from the ever popular legal drama, “The Good Wife”.

For the rest of us mid-life mortals still biting our lips every time a pretty young (male) thing walks by, you hereby have scientific and actual permission to go after what you want.

Or, at least, 5 reasons worth considering, if satisfaction and happiness are something you’ve been taught to just deny, deny, deny.

But, everyone needs to start somewhere.

  1. Lasting Longer
    For all you newbies and monogamy converts, there’s something in it for you: those dates and encounters that start casually between an older women and younger man are much more likely to end up turning into a lasting relationship. While “4ever” may not be quite forever, there’s a greater chance, according to studies for the symbiotic affinity younger men have for older women to transform the connection into a long-term relationship.
  2. Millennial Men Are Setting a New Standard
    It’s not just women’s social status, attitudes and expectations that are changing alongside their newfound power and professionalism. It’s also the status of younger guys. There is a lot more flexibility and younger men are more likely to be “open-minded” – and this doesn’t only have to do with their youth. It’s also because millennials, as a group, tend to be more self-reliant, highly educated and entrepreneurial. So if she’s dating a millennial man, he’s more like “young money”.
  3. The Tables Have Turned
    Usually, older women who date younger men are painted as desperate to cling on to a notion of youth that’s long passed them. Or else, they’re just closet-dominatrixes. After all, popular culture has a Maddona-Whore complex in the age of the 2010s for a reason, okay? But, now, it’s younger men who are actively attracted to older women, specifically singling them out as potential dating material – and are more than willing to take commitment to the next level with them. And it’s not because they have mommy issues, either. It’s because older women in this day and age tend to be financially and emotionally stable.
  4. Baggage Check – It’s no secret: older men tend to have baggage – and masks for hiding the baggage. The baggage is usually a couple of (failed) marriages, losses in life, emotional stagnation, teenagers and alimony. And their masks have been perfected over a century. Younger guys are not only less likely to have accumulated these fodder-for-a-therapist issues, they’re also less likely to internalize them so deeply or have it affect them as intensely as older men. Seriously though, younger guys have a greater tendency to roll with the punches – for now. So make hay while the sunshines.
  1. Older Women Make Younger Men Feel…Sexy! Another myth we’re turning inside out, folks: it’s actually younger men who end up feeling way sexier in a relationship with older women. See, older women who are confident enough are confident enough to go for younger guys. They don’t need a man, they want a man. They’ve lived with their beautiful bodies for long enough to know what they’re capable of, what their best features are and why they should respect themselves. Which means they’re more willing and able to tell their younger male counterparts how sexy they find their bodies, or their minds, or their voices. It’s often the younger man that will blush and feel shy and yet delighted at the genuine attention and care an older woman showers him with.

What’s the Big Deal, Anyway?

As an older woman, you’re likely to encounter many “boy toy” comments. And they’ll mostly come from other older men or (particularly judgemental) younger women. This happens because these groups feel threatened.

So consider this spin: you’re so in charge of your own desires, it actually threatens others who secretly want what you want but are “too afraid”  to go and get it.

Let that really sit for a moment. Now, if you’re feeling more mischievous and inspired than ever before, head online to Milf Area, gather a few close girlfriends and head to a local clubbing event dressed to the nines or chat up that cutie in the gym.

After all, what is that all those younger guys are saying?
“YOLO”: You only live once, right?


I am so happy to enter into such a fun collaboration with Milf Area because . . . as I mentioned in my opening paragraph . . .  I find myself nodding along in agreement with much of the above. With the rider of course that, as with ANY relationship, the key factor should always be open and honest communication between both (or in my case, all) parties involved. For as long as one’s desires, intentions and expectations are clear good, and fun things, normally happen!!!

Xxx – K   

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A Modest 35 #sinfulsunday

Thirty-five today” I said warmly.

“Thirty-five what?” he teased.

Thirty-five years!!!” I repeated. “You’d better not have forgotten!”

“Course not” he tremored.

“All that time together . . . Bound!” I said.

“Tied!” he nodded.

“You’ll be tied alright, if you have forgotten to get me something
very special!” I said.

“Tightly???” he asked.

“Trussed!” I hissed. “Tightly trussed!!!”

“I haven’t forgotten” he laughed. “You’ll just have to wait until tomorrow”.

“Tomorrow!!!” I queried. “It’s today! Why not today???”

“Because . . . because it’s Sunday” he said confidently.

“Well . . . I’d better be impressed!!!” I responded.

“Trust me” he laughed.

“Ok then . . . and here’s to another thirty-five” I said taking his hand.

“Another thirty-five???” he squeezed. “Well you’ll have to slow down a bit
on the trussed then!!!”

See who else is celebrating this Sinful Sunday by squeezing the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modest Date Night #sinfulsunday

I’m just on my way out for a Sinful Saturday date night this evening,
and I always hope to make an impression . . . from the moment I arrive . . .

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. . . to the moment I leave !!!

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. . . and, of course, for all of the moments in-between !!!

See who else is having Sinful fun this weekend by smacking the lips below!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Kisses Part 2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

ModestyAblazeKissesPt2CoverSince my Valentines Kisses video was published at Make Love Not Porn in February, I’ve had lots and lots of emails asking when “Part Two” would be available.

Well, I’m delighted to say that it is finally here . . . Part Two of that fabulous, sexy, exhausting . . . but wonderfully fun evening of just pure, real world sex.
Because that’s what it simply was . . . just a wonderful evening of real and passionate loving . . . and kissing  all over.

And . . . I do mean ALL OVER . . . because I do so love giving, and receiving, those gorgeously deep, sucking . . . and all-consuming . . . passionate kisses that only Lover No. 50 seems to give.

KissesPt2Teaser3Oh and did I mention . . . DEEP . . . and EXHAUSTING ??? . . . well you will just have to watch the video to see EXACTLY how DEEP and EXHAUSTING I mean.

And, don’t forget, if you register at the lovely Make Love Not Porn dot TV website . . . and watch this introductory video from there . . . you will see some exclusive Free Clips from my “Valentines Kisses Part 2” video at the end. It’s FREE to register and you can see Free Clips of not only all my videos there . . . but lots and lots of other fun #realworldsex videos as well.

The MakeLoveNotPorn.tv Make Lingerie Love Not Porn post recently previewed Valentines Kisses Part 2 as:

In part two of Valentine’s Kisses, Modesty and her lover(s) are totally euphoric! Full of extremely deep, passionate kisses, and some very impressive #downtown action, this video proves that more really is the merrier! Especially when you’re queen Modesty and it’s Valentine’s Day!

You can view my short introduction to “Valentines Kisses Part 2” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . . . . and, as I mention in that video, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.

There lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Valentines Kisses Part 2” is my 27th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you will enjoy viewing “Valentines Kisses Part 2” as much as I enjoyed receiving them!!!

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Valentine’s Kisses” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

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Valentines is all about giving lots of loving and lots of kisses isn’t it? Well my BRAND NEW video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv certainly has lots and lots of loving . . . and lots and lots of kisses . . . and I mean lots and lots of very sexy and hot kisses . . . ALL OVER !!!

“Valentines Kisses” . . . Part One . . . (and YES there IS a Part Two because it was such a wonderfully long evening of passion and fun) . . . is from just a few nights ago . . . and it was an absolutely fabulous evening of catching-up with Lover No. 50 for our first playtime of 2016. We hadn’t seen each other since late last year . . . and, as you can imagine, we had lots of catching-up to do.

Now if you have rented either of my previous videos with Lover No. 50 . . . and I certainly hope you have . . . you will know that it’s no co-incidence that they all have the word “kisses” in the title. (“Passionate Kisses” and “Steamy Kisses“) That’s because Lover No.50 is the most passionate kisser I have ever met . . . whichever of my lips he’s kissing me on . . . upstairs . . . or downstairs (if you know what I mean) . . . I just love feeling his lips sliding all over mine !!!

As you will see . . . our evening starts with chilled champagne and gentle kisses . . . and then slowly becomes more and more passionate as we become lost in each others embraces.

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Like all of the “real world sex” videos you will find at Make Love Not Porn . . . “Valentines Kisses” is just exactly that . . . real world sex exactly as it happened.

There’s no editing . . . or stopping and starting . . . no re-doing of things for different angles . . . no scripting . . . and no doing things that either of us would be uncomfortable with.

I’ve often been told by people that have rented my videos from Make Love Not Porn that watching them has made them feel as though they were actually in the room with us . . . and that is always such a lovely thing to hear . . . because I like to think of my videos with my Lovers as being like video diaries of the evening . . . with lots of fun and laughter, and of course, lots of “real world sex”.

So I hope you will enjoy my “Valentines Kisses” video-diary . . . and . . . if you register at the lovely MakeLoveNotPorn.tv website and watch this introductory video from there . . . you will see some exclusive Free Clips from the video at the end. It’s FREE to register at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv where you can see Free Clips of not only all my videos there . . . but lots and lots of other fun #realworldsex videos as well.

The MakeLoveNotPorn.tv MakeRedHotLoveNotPorn post recently previewed “Valentine’s Kisses” as:

“Modesty celebrates Valentine’s Day with Lover no. 50. Dressed to the nines in a red lace bodysuit, Modesty pours champagne before her and Lover no. 50 completely ravish each other. Giving each other #downtown treats, Modesty looks elated during the entirety of this celebratory V-day sex. Giggly, communicative and multi-orgasmic this video hits all the marks to make this an instant Modesty classic!

You can view my short introduction to “Valentine’s Kisses” by clicking the preview screen above . . . . . . and, as I said earlier, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.

There lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Valentine’s Kisses” is my 25th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you will enjoy watching “Valentine’s Kisses” as much as I enjoyed receiving them!!!

Xxx – K

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Sinful Valentines Kisses #sinfulsunday

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I was lucky enough to have my first Valentine’s Kisses on a very Sinful Friday evening . . . but, of course, I’m always hoping for more!!!

And there will actually be more Valentine’s Kisses from this sinful Friday here tomorrow . . . but in the meantime I’m sure you will find “more” of all sorts of sinful things this Sunday by kissing the Sinful lips below!!!

Sinful SundayXxxx – K

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Ménage Ablaze #wickedwednesday

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nage à trois ? . . . some people may think it’s just plain greedy.

Well . . . I prefer to think of it as just spreading the love!!!

nage à trois is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday . . .  and if you tap on the Button below I’m sure you’ll discover lots more about three-somes
and more-somes!

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Xxx – K

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Open Monogamy and Modesty Ablaze? #wickedwednesday

ModestyAblazeMonogamyToday I’m “opening-up” to this weeks prompt of “monogamy” at Wicked Wednesday . . .  the popular definition of which (from Marie’s source) is: “Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time . . .”

Opening-up because, If you’ve visited me here before, you might be surprised to hear me say that I have been in a completely . . . and wonderfully fulfilling . . . monogamous relationship for over 33 years (31 of them married).

Monogamous? . . . How??? . . . when, from almost the very beginning of those 33 years, I have indulged in “extra-marital partnerships” with lots and lots of different lovers, many of whom I still regularly meet with . . . and many of whom have become wonderful friends as well as wonderful lovers.

Now I know that many people may describe the partnership I share with my Lover No.1, as an “open relationship” and completely the opposite of a monogamous relationship. But I would disagree . . .

Because . . . for me at least . . . I would define monogamy very simply as sharing absolutely everything with one special person.

And by “absolutely everything” I mean every emotion, every desire, every touch, every sensation, every want . . . and every need . . . completely and exclusively with someone in your life that you just know you would never want to be without.

So, whilst my own relationship may not match that “only-one-partner” of the conventional definition of Monogamy. . . for me, my “only-one-partner” makes for a truly Monogamous Modesty Ablaze.

And as with everything in life, I believe that every description and every convention, should have a different and entirely individual meaning for all of us.

We should all be happy to be who we are . . . and not what the conventions of society would have us be!!!

You can read lots of other thoughts on Monogamy this Wednesday by tapping the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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Two’s Company, Three’s . . . #wickedwednesday

Mmm . . . TWO is nice company . . .

ModestyThree1 But . . . THREE can be such fun !!!

ModestyThree2Naughty . . . but Nice Fun . . . and that’s just how I like it!!!

ModestyThree3Marie’s  Wicked Wednesday is three years old this week, and I’m sure you will find lots more people helping Marie celebrate Naughty Number Three’s from licking the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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