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Modestly Sheer #Boobday Friday


Despite what you may think, I don’t always like to have my nipples in full view.

So this lovely black top is one of my favourite club-wear items . . . just to preserve my Modesty you understand!!!

And if you tap Hyacinth’s #boobday logo below, you are sure to see lots more modestly displayed boobs today, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modestly Spiked #sinfulsunday

“Looking Up” is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday, but . . .


. . . things may not be “looking up” for everyone within my crasp . . . depending, of course, on how “upward” one grows during the evening!!!

Experience more upward trends this Sunday by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modest Date Night #sinfulsunday

I’m just on my way out for a Sinful Saturday date night this evening,
and I always hope to make an impression . . . from the moment I arrive . . .


. . . to the moment I leave !!!


. . . and, of course, for all of the moments in-between !!!

See who else is having Sinful fun this weekend by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modest Jewels #sinfulsunday


It has been such a sinfully busy week . . . well two weeks actually . . . and yes,
the evidence will possibly be posted here soon-ish. LOL!
And I am just rushing out again this morning for more!!!

But I thought I would pause to show you the modest jewels I have just put on for my journey. I’m sure they will be appreciated . . . and sinfully removed . . . later on this afternoon!!!

And I am also sure that you will be able to appreciate lots and lots more
sinful toys and accessories at this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently
touching the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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The Modesty Ablaze Valentine’s Day Bulletin No.2

Last week I mentioned in my Fantasy Bulletin No.1, that I would keep on at you about Valentine’s Day! So this is Bulletin No.2 to remind you to take advantage of a wonderful opportunity to give a little love to that person (or persons!) that have a special place in your life . . . or perhaps the person(s) you would like to have a special place in your life.

It’s the perfect time to be able to use a little imagination and perhaps suggest something different, or “spicy” for your relationship, that you might ordinarily feel a little awkward or shy about.

After all, Valentine’s is normally considered by most people to be fun and frivolous . . . extravagant and silly . . . racy and sexy! Just the ideal excuse to say “well it is Valentine’s, it is just a bit of fun!” even if that red latex cat-suit, or those fur-lined bondage handcuffs . . . or red riding crop . . . is something you’ve actually always wanted to try!!!

And just to help guide you in the right direction . . . and encourage you to be just a little Valentine’s-outrageous and fun-naughty . . . I highly recommend that you browse my favourite first-stop-shops for all things fun, fetish and sexy, below.

So in no particular order, something for the weekend sir or madam?


From Belle De Soir . . . a wonderful selection of both sexy silky lingerie and super sexy toys at some of the most reasonable prices I think you’ll find all across the world-wide web.

I just love their Gracya range of Corsets, Thongs and Suspender Belts

Or to set your evening really throbbing, why not try my favourite Doxy Wand Massager or, if you’re feeling even more adventurous the new Doxy Skittle!!!

And, if you use the Val5off Discount Code before February 15th, you’ll be able to claim a 5% reduction on most of the lovely items throughout their shop.


Or . . . if latex and lace, or pvc and pleasure is more what you have in mind . . . then Honour Clothing is a must visit on your Valentinian travels!

Because they have some of the most lovely creations that I have ever slid myself into.

Including the Glamour Corselette which you may have seen on these very pages before, or how about the simply fabulous Chimera Basque which always brings me lots and lots of compliments whenever I wear it out and about.

I have a wardrobe full of Honour, from basques to boots and bras to blindfolds . . . and everything feels so stylish and so, so sexily naughty!!!


And speaking of naughty . . . then if you really, really want to try something really, really naughty and really, really kinky . . . then you must stop by Uberkinky.

Because as they say . . . for them “It’s Not a Fetish, it’s a Way of Life” and trust me they really mean it!!!

If you’ve visited me here often . . . or perhaps visited me in person LOL!!! . . . then you will have seen lots and lots of Uberkinky items.

So if this Valentine’s you’d like to add some real kink to your relationship, from Bondage Wear to Bondage Gear, from Collars to Cock Rings, from Vibrators for her to Vibrators for him, from Front to Rear . . . Uberkinky is truly out there!!!

Or, if I’ve left you feeling that all of the above is perhaps just little extreme . . . and you would prefer something a little more mainstream . . . may I suggest the largest online shop of all.

love-2433-300x225Because at Lovehoney you simply can’t go wrong . . . there is something within for everyone. And, I have to say, that whilst they may not seem as “specialised”, or “bespoke” to the naked eye as the shops I’ve mentioned above, in terms of service and delivery, they are second to none.

As I’m sure you will discover as you begin browsing their aisles, their product range just goes on for miles and miles.

There is something for every taste and every desire . . . with lots of little helpful reviews and extensive product details for every item that sparks your interest.

And, speaking of sparks, if you can’t start making some sparks of your own from the options above, I shall be very disappointed!

I’m expecting you to report back!!!

But in the meantime . . . until Bulletin No.3 . . . bye, bye for now!!!

Xxx – K



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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle” @Uberkinky


One can never have too many Paddles . . . so I am always looking for new shapes and sizes . . . and new additions to my collection!

And I am delighted to say that the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle which arrived recently from my favourite Fetish Shop Uberkinky has quickly become my current favourite!!!

Now it looks just like a ping-pong or table-tennis bat doesn’t it . . . but let me tell you it is so, so much more stylish-looking and, of course, far more useful!!!

ModestyAblazePaddleTwoIt is made of black-leather with four lovely silver studs connecting the circular paddle itself to the handle. Don’t worry, the studs are closed on both sides so it is perfectly safe to use without fear of scratching or scraping with bare, unprotected bits of metal! (Yes, yes, I KNOW some of you actually like that don’t you!!!)

But anyway . . . as I was saying . . . those silver studs attach the paddle to the strong, re-inforced handle. It is easy to grip, and easy to hold and even during quite forceful, and pro-longed spanking, I find it extremely comfortable to use. The handle is 7 inches long and one-and-a-half inches deep to hold in the palm of one’s hand and, as I say, very comfortable to use . . . certainly more comfortable than my Leather Slapper Paddle  (which I still, never-the-less, LOVE by-the-way!!!).

ModestyAblazePaddleEdgeBut it is the paddle itself which is the part of the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle that I really, really love. It is made from a stiff, very slightly textured leather. And although I’m describing it as being “stiff” (about 5mm in thickness), it does have a wonderful “give and springyness” on impact that both I, and the subs I have so far used the Paddle on, really enjoy. And with it’s lovely shape and diameter of five-and-a-half inches, the paddle leaves a gorgeously consistent rosey-red blush.

And it is that lovely shape that makes it so wonderful to use. The light weight of the paddle and it’s perfect size, just gives one so much control, both in the intensity of the impact and, more delightfully, in one’s aim. Because, unlike some of my other larger or heavier paddles, I have been able to use this Fetish Fantasy Paddle with quite a wide variety of spanking positions, techniques . . . and places of impact.

Such as??? Well, apart from the obvious . . . those lovely bum cheeks that look so spankable when bending my sub over my knee . . . I’ve found this paddle delightfully useful when grabbing a subs balls and twisting them round to present themselves as an inviting, pouting, package for some nice ball-spanking.

Or . . . pulling and stretching his cock to present his bobbling head for some fun swiping with short, sharp, swats until he can take no more.

Or . . . strapping him down onto his stomach across my bench, completely ignoring his bottom and instead smacking the soles of his feet with fast-fast-slow smacks . . . from one foot to the other, and then back again.

Or . . .  making him kneel, blindfolded of course, at my feet . . . instructing him to hold the palm of one hand flat out in front of his body and the other reaching backwards behind him, whilst I walk slowly around him alternating my smacks from one palm to the other . . .  with increasingly regular, and evermore intense, whacks across his bum cheeks.

ModestyAblazePaddleHeldNow, normally, I would use my paddles as a prelude . . . a warming-up toy . . . just to begin a spanking session, with my more “intense” canes or whips to follow. But, actually I’ve found that I’ve been able to use my Fetish Fantasy Paddle with such variety that, on a number of occasions recently, it’s been perfect to use throughout a whole impact session without the need for any other implements at all.

It may not be sufficient for subs who enjoy more extreme forms of punishment, but for me a successful session is one where both participants feel the fun and satisfaction . . . and in that respect the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle has been just perfect for me!

Oh, and to make it even more perfect for me, I just have to mention the string looped through the end of the handle which makes it so easy to tidily hang-away in my wardrobe after use . . . though I somehow think it won’t be hanging there for more than a few days at a time!!!

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Comfortable and easy to hold and use. Lightweight, flexible but firm . . . makes a lovely slapping noise on impact.
Cons: I honestly can’t think of any cons whatsoever!!!
Material: Leather.
Length: From tip-to-tip (bottom of handle to top of the paddle) 13 inches.
Width (Diameter of the paddle): 5.5 inches and 5mm thick.
Handle: 7 inches long, 1.5 inches wide and 8mm thick (grip).
Vibration: A reverberating slapping on contact.
Lubrication: Not required.
Noise: Wonderful slapping sound on impact.
Available Colours: black.
Waterproof: Not for use in the bath or shower.
After-care: Wipe thoroughly with cleaning cloth after use.
Supplier Product Link: Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle
Additional Useful Link: BDSM Paddles
Twitter feed: @UberKinky

ModestyAblazeCarpetBeaterCoverI haven’t had the time . . . or a willing volunteer just yet (hint, hint!!!) . . . to produce a Video Review of the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle, but you can watch several Video Reviews of some of my previous fun Spanking and Bondage Uberkinky items by clicking the title screen above!

The Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx – K


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A Fetish Wail of a Sale @UberKinky

MistressModestyTableIf you’ve joined me here before you will know how impressed I always am with the Fetish Wear and Impact and Bondage items I have ordered from my favourite fetish store, Uberkinky.

UberkinkyRestraintsAnd . . . of course . . . if you have joined me at one of my dungeon sessions over the past year, you will have no-doubt experienced some of those Impact and Bondage items at first-hand! LOL!!!

And . . . you are sure to have told me just how much you enjoyed the experience!!!

UberkinkyDildosIn my view Uberkinky –  “it’s not a fetish it’s a way of life” – offers simply the best quality, and best customer service of any of the (numerous) on-line suppliers I have dealt with over the past few years.

Their products are always well made, packaged tidily and discreetly, and delivered quickly.

AND . . . as you will have no doubt gathered from my post title . . . they are currently offering some exciting savings on their already wonderfully reasonable prices.

UberkinkyDeliveryAND . . . are also offering FREE Royal Mail 24 delivery when you order items over £20 in total.

UberkinkyVibratorsI can’t recommend Uberkinky enough and I encourage you . . . no, actually COMMAND you . . . to visit them now, quickly and without fail!!!

There is more information on some of their most popular categories from the links in this post . . . and, of course . . . if you’d like to invite me to join you in trying them out, you just simply have to ask and I will consult my dungeon-diary!!!

UberkinkyMachinesHave fun . . . Kinky fun . . . at Uberkinky.

And if you’d like to read more about my thoughts on some of the items I, along with some of my submissives, have recently “tested” . . . you can do so by clicking the images below.





Thanks and kisses to Vinylman1 for my “Mistress Modesty Ablaze Table” picture above.

Xxx – Mistress Modesty Ablaze



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At My Feet #sinfulsunday


“Mmm, that’s lovely . . . I just don’t get to put my feet-up often enough,
after a long day at the office.”

“And this is exactly the position I like my slaves to assume
after serving me my wine.”

“Just be careful though . . . don’t knock my chair . . . I wouldn’t want any sudden moves to make me spill even a drop!!!”

I am sure you will discover lot’s more interesting positions this Sinful Sunday from gently tapping the Sinful lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Thanks and kisses to Vinylman1 for my “At My Feet” picture above.

Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-up: HedoVibes#97 & The Leather Slapper Paddle @UberKinky

IMG_3375-e1433881512678Photo courtesy of Carnal Queen

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.











View all my Sex Toy Video Product Reviews >here<!

Xxx – K

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Stained Steel #sinfulsunday

For all you Sinful people who asked for more pictures of my Stainless Steel Abrasive Paddle that I mentioned in Wicked Wednesday during the week.


I’d commanded my Submissive No.1 to buy it for me at last Sunday’s  London Alternative Market from the TrussedUK  stall . . . and I’d been dying to try it out on his bottom all week.

Of course he wasn’t quite so keen . . . but last night I told him
“I’ve waited long enough. Over my knee!!!”

ModestyCheeseGrater2 And to my surprise he actually enjoyed it almost as much as I did. Almost!!!

“Now off you go . . . boiling hot soapy water please. No, not your bottom,
my paddle!!!”

You are sure to discover lots more Sinful Sunday enjoyment from slapping
the Sinful lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

Oh & P.S. – The pretty patterns are still just as clear this morning!!!


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