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You need not beg #wickedwednesday

TrussedSteelAbrasivePaddleYou need not beg . . . to make me !!!
To make me use my Steel Paddle.
You need not beg . . . but you must bow!!!
To feel it’s scraping swipes across your bottom now!!!

We had a lovely time at London Alternative Market on Sunday and, of course, I just had to make some purchases from the wonderful TrussedUK. One of which was the Stainless Steel Abrasive Paddle above . . . or
the “cheese grater” as it is  now, not-so-affectionately known,
by my No.1 submissive!!!

But after it’s first use last night it seemed so fitting for the “Make Me” theme at this weeks  #wickedwednesday. Curious to find out about more “Make Me’s”???  Then simply swipe the Wicked Wednesday button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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How to . . . dress appropriately #wickedwednesday

In my teens I was always being chastised for “not dressing appropriately” . . .
so, of course, that always made me want to find something even more inappropriate to wear!!!

InappOneFinalSo imagine my delight when I recently discovered the wonderful Inappropriately Dressed website . . . and it’s amazing collection of sexy and revealing Lingerie, Corsets, Hosiery . . . and, of course, the most interesting for me . . . outrageously Sexy Clubwear!!!

InappTwoFinalAs you can see above and below, I’ve already bought several outfits. This montage is from just two Fridays ago trying to decide what to wear for our visit to Torture Garden that evening. Can you guess which one I went for in the end?

InappThreeSo, if like me, you can never have too many dresses or body-stockings in your wardrobe, I would certainly recommend you browsing the pages of Inappropriately Dressed . . . they have a huge range of items and accessories to choose from and I know I will certainly be returning for more!!!

You can also find even more from the Inappropriately Dressed range >here< or from their Facebook page >here<.

For more appropriate, or possibly inappropriate, “How To’s” this Wicked Wednesday, simply click the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

Oh, and P.S. – If you’d like to see more photographs of a particular outfit just let me know and I will see what I can do !!!

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Cane Spanking #sinfulsunday

Swish! – “You’re making me sinfully late for this weeks Sinful Sunday” – Swish! – And you know what happens when I get cross, don’t you!!!” – Swish!

CaneSwishIt’s been SUCH a busy week . . . including a wonderful #wink and after-show Q&A on Friday evening . . . and a fun and enlightening Mistress Workshop at the lovely  @KimClubRUB  on Saturday.

And, of course, I just had to put some of those Mistress tips into action last night
. . . so I’m very late with my sinfulness this Sunday . . . Swish!!!

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So . . . with a Cupping Smack . . . someone just had to be a little red-cheeked for my lateness, didn’t they!

So . . . Swish!!! . . . just time for one more Smack!!! . . . before I swish over to see all the other people being Sinful this Sunday from smacking the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Teasing #sinfulsunday

I’d never wish to be described as a cock teaser . . . but when holding my flogger!

Modesty Ablaze Teasing at Sinful Sunday

I do quite enjoy administering this sort of “cock-teasing” . . . and I know that on this occasion, my newest-submissive certainly enjoyed it as well.

You can find lots more teasing of the senses, at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday from stroking (or flogging) the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Back Pages . . . #wickedwednesday

This week’s Wicked Wednesday theme is “Looking Back” and, of course,
I just couldn’t resist “looking back” with one of my Polaroids Past photographs from 1982.

But, I really, really, really don’t want to bore you all . . . so, if you are growing tired of faded, old (and hairy!) photographs from my Back Pages . . . please look away now!!!

My Modest Apron 1983

This picture is especially for the lovely She Lover . . . a picture of me modestly modelling my apron in my “brand-new kitchen” in 1983!!!

You are sure to find lots more people Looking Back by gently tapping on Marie’s button below!

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Xxx – K

 

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First Times? . . . Keep having them!!! #wickedwednesday

MistressModestyRedWheelThis week’s Wicked Wednesday theme is “First Times” . . . remembering one’s first-time experiences in love, lust and sexual adventures.

But . . . when you get to my age . . . remembering “first-times” can often be a bit of a blur. Especially as there have been so many first times! LOL!!!

So . . . my advice . . . is to keep having First Times! Try new things, new experiences, new adventures!

I did just that this past weekend! Having a new submissive hire a dungeon, just for me, to worship (and lovingly massage) my feet, to feel my crop, to have me strap them to the Bondage Wheel (wow!!!), and to beg . . .

MistressModestyWheel1. . . for my strap-on!!!

So, as I say, my advice is to Keep Having First Times . . . it’s so much more fun that way!

And I’m sure you’ll find lots more about First Times by slapping on Marie’s button below!

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Xxx – K

 

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A sense of touch #wickedwednesday

Twisted BallsA sense of touch . . . a twist of passion . . . a shock of pain . . . a rush of blood
. . .  a blur of emotions . . . a shout of excitement . . .
the joy of success . . . the sweet smell of release.

All our senses shared . . . all our senses spent.

This week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt is “Senses” . . . and you are are bound to find more senses-shared by clicking on Marie’s button below!

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Xxx – K

 

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Wishing you all a Happy, Fun . . . and Sexy, New Year . . .

2013 really was a marvellous year for me . . . and I hope for you as well . . .

I’d like to thank you all for visiting me here, now over 69,000 visits!!! . . . (you know 69 is my FAVOURITE number) . . . and I’d like to wish you all a Happy, Fun and Sexy, 2014.

. . . here’s hoping we can all start the New Year with a Bang!!!

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I’m looking forward to even more fun in 2014 . . .

Best wishes – Xxx –  Katie

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It’s been a Marvellous Year – Part 4 – Have a loving, fun & sexy Christmas!

As I’ve been mentioning in my previous posts, Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3, it really has been a marvellous year for me, marvellous milestones . . . marvellous moments . . . and marvellous meetings . . . and one of my “Marvellous Mmm’s” was instructing Hubby to book me a session with erotic-photography maestro John Tisbury.

So, marvellous milestone . . . marvellous John Tisbury . . .

ModestyAblazeDarkChairI’d met John at the Eroticon 2013 Conference here in London . . . and so loved his presentation of Erotic Photography that I just had to ask if we could book a private session with him! And, come on be honest, how many of you have often fantasized about having your own, private . . . glamour, erotic, nude . . . call it what you will . . . photo session with a real top-notch professional erotic photographer???

It was an opportunity I just didn’t want to miss . . . and I had a marvellous few hours with the wonderful, charming John at his studios. And afterwards an amazing DVD of images, some of which I would love to share with you here as my way of wishing you all the Happiest, Healthiest, and of course . . . SEXIEST . . . of Christmas and New Years.

Xxx – K

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Oh, and P.S. don’t forget to visit John’s portfolio from the link in my side-bar to the right . . . I recommend you book your own session with John for your own special occasion!!!

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Yes Mistress Fetish & Photography tonight at Hundred Years Gallery

ModestyYesMistressCuffsI’m excited to be visiting an evening of Photography and Fetish at the Hundred Years Gallery in Hoxton here in London tonight . . . November 29th from 6.30 til 9.30 p.m.

It’s the first in a series of collaborations between the art world and the secret world of the Dominatrix and features some wonderful photographs by the lovely Kate Peters.

There will also be a “Deviant Corner” where professional Dominatrix Miss Deviant and some of her colleagues from Madame Caramel’s Erotic Art Collective will be giving demonstrations . . . oohhh can’t wait!!!

The theme of the night is Female Dominance and is open to all. Visit Hundred Years Gallery for much, much more information. I will definitely be there . . . so please come over and say hello . . .

. . . Or possibly even join me later in the evening at the 10th Anniversary of Club Pedestal the “playground for the dominant women and those who worship her” . . . I hope to see you there later this evening!!!

Xxx – K

P.S. The picture of me above with my “Wrist Studs”, is not being exhitibed, but is from a session with the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar link) from earlier this year.

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