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A Modest Stocking #sinfulsunday

Most of my stockings are black . . . but it’s nice to slide into something
of a different colour, before stepping out for the evening!!!

To see who else is stepping out this Sinful Sunday, just tap on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Formula #wickedwednesday

Probably the question that I have been asked most often over the past two years, and one that I have not added to my  “Questions You Have Asked Me” pages . . . is what “satisfaction” do I get from my Mistressing adventures.

Most people seem to assume that it is just a simple “enjoyment” from administering pain. It is an easy assumption to make, given most people’s view of Domination and Submission, but actually for me nothing could be further from the truth.

Whilst I had always had a fascination for the “fashionista” imagery associated with Fem Dominatrices, I had also long been curious myself about the emotions and desires of both sides of the relationship for those involved. Surely it couldn’t all just be about the giving, and receiving, of pain . . . I knew there had to be more to it than that.

But for many years, it remained just fascination and curiosity . . . until, during a visit to Sh! my favourite women’s shop in London’s Hoxton, I read about an event they were hosting by Madam Caramel, one of London’s most well known dominatrix.

Fortified with lots of glasses of wine, and accompanied by my lovely friend SheLover, I was immediately captivated and entranced by Caramel’s larger than life personality, her wonderful candour . . . and most of all her engaging sense of “fun” as she explained her experiences and views on her role as a Fem Domme.

My curiosity and interest was instantly aroused. I just had to learn more, and soon discovered that the equally legendary, Miss Kim Rub, held Mistress Workshops nearby. I enrolled for one of her Saturday afternoon sessions . . . and a whole new world of understanding, and adventure, suddenly opened-up before me.

Like everything in life, the power of the dominant/submissive relationship, is different for everyone . . . but for me it is much more about the connection, the chemistry of the psychological aspect of the interaction, rather than just the physical.

And most importantly, it has to be fun . . . on both sides . . . for it to work and be enjoyable for me. Every situation has to be completely consensual . . . and have that fun-factor . . . because being able to fulfil another person’s strongest desires and fantasies, and share in their enjoyment of that fulfilment, is what gives me that sense of “satisfaction”.

And even three years on, I am still continually amazed and intrigued at the different requests I receive . . . and the relationships I continue to build with a growing list of eager submissives.

Because of course, domination and submission is not all about impact, and whether I am requested to “stamp-me-vitals”, or am asked for a “firm hand-spanking”, or a “judicial caning”, or perhaps just sit back and receive a 15 minute “foot massage” or “toe-sucking foot worship” . . . there must always be that interaction, that special chemistry.

For more Chemical Reactions . . . gently smack the rainbow button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Nursed #sinfulsunday

“I’ve been feeling under the weather lately. Tired and lethargic” he said.
“Circulation! . . . Probably a lack of exercise and stimulus.” I replied. “Let’s be having a look at you then!”

“Hmm . . . you do seem to have a temperature though!” I said as I began my preliminary examination.

“I suspect too much blood rushing to your . . . um . . . head!!!”

“I think we need to slow down . . . and re-direct some of those red blood cells!”

“Let’s get them moving round a bit . . . wake-up some of those other important places shall we !!!”

“Circulation . . . and stimulation . . . that’s the answer! I’ll soon have you
re-energised and hopping around like a jack-rabbit again!” And, he soon was!!!

And I imagine there will be lots more circulation . . . and stimulation . . . to be discovered at this week’s Sinful Sunday by smacking on the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modest Toys #wickedwednesday

I’ve never been one for Gadgetry . . . but I do love my Toys!

Especially when I know they can give so much pleasure!!!

But as “Gadgets” is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday I’m sure there will be lots more wires being flexed, and buttons being pushed, to be discovered by tapping on the big button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modest Favourites #sinfulsunday

Favourite things . . . we all have them don’t we? And this week’s theme at
Sinful Sunday
seems the perfect opportunity to share three of mine.Starting with my favourite . . . and rightful . . . Position!

And then those special things that no lady can be without . . . Shoes !!!

And my favourite colour?  Well . . . RED of course!
(And as I’m sure you can imagine, there was actually quite a lot more Red
than just my Shoes over the following hour this afternoon).

But having kicked my shoes off, it’s now time to sit down to relax, unwind
and discover lots of other thoughts on my favourite colour at this week’s
Sinful Sunday by stepping gently on the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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A Modest Question #sinfulsunday

“Favourite colour?” I asked, as I always do with a new sub, as we prepared
for his first session during the week.

“Black” he foolishly stammered from his rightful position kneeling before me.

“Wrong answer!!!” I laughed flexing my cane, amazed that he hadn’t
picked-up on the obvious clues.

“MY favourite colour is . . . RED” I exclaimed, emphasising the word ‘red’,
with several swishes of the cane. “And you’ll gratefully accept every bit of red
I give you . . . won’t you???”

And he did . . . in fact he seemed to enjoy all of what I gave so much,
that I wondered if his answer had been cleverer than I’d first assumed!

For more thoughtful Questions and Answers at this week’s Sinful Sunday
just swish, swish, tap on the rather inviting lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Invigorating #sinfulsunday

After a long and difficult week at the office . . . one does need an invigorating work-out occasionally. You know what I mean . . . just to stretch the limbs and energise the muscles . . . and warm the senses. Wouldn’t you agree???

And there is bound to be more warming and energising to be found,
by slapping (responsibly please!) those Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Mown(s) #sinfulsunday

“You’ve already had one beating this weekend . . . so if you don’t want another
you’d better get out there and mow that lawn!” I told him!!!

“Well perhaps if you’d trimmed those edges properly like I told you to,
you wouldn’t have to worry about the neighbours hearing your moans!!!”

For more “outdoor” experiences this Sinful Sunday just tap the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modest Red Ribbon #sinfulsunday

I always like to wrap things up with a tight red ribbon and bow . . .

And the visitor to my chambers last night certainly seemed to appreciate my attention to detail and finishing touches!!!

There’s simply bound-to-be more sinful attention and detail to be discovered this Sunday, by smacking the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modestly Thrifty #sinfulsunday

You might be surprised to know that my biggest fetish is for . . . shoes !!!

Yes, I do so LOVE shoes . . . and, over the past few years I’ve probably collected, and been “tributed”, enough pairs of shoes to make over a years
worth of Sinful Sunday posts.

But . . . in this age of austerity, and responsible management of one’s finances . . . I am always conscious of being careful, and thrifty, about my fetish.

So, I was delighted when I recently came across this lovely pair of shoes at my local charity shop for just an amazing . . . £10 !!!

And, as I strut across the dungeon floor for my latest session, I just know that I will be wondering just who did they last belong to, where were they last worn? and . . . what exactly happened on the last occasion they were used??? 

Stamp, gently, on the Sinful lips below for more questions . . . and answers
this Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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