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Modestly Thrifty #sinfulsunday

You might be surprised to know that my biggest fetish is for . . . shoes !!!

Yes, I do so LOVE shoes . . . and, over the past few years I’ve probably collected, and been “tributed”, enough pairs of shoes to make over a years
worth of Sinful Sunday posts.

But . . . in this age of austerity, and responsible management of one’s finances . . . I am always conscious of being careful, and thrifty, about my fetish.

So, I was delighted when I recently came across this lovely pair of shoes at my local charity shop for just an amazing . . . £10 !!!

And, as I strut across the dungeon floor for my latest session, I just know that I will be wondering just who did they last belong to, where were they last worn? and . . . what exactly happened on the last occasion they were used??? 

Stamp, gently, on the Sinful lips below for more questions . . . and answers
this Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Rope Panties #sinfulsunday

Such a naughty . . . knotty night . . . and nice marks and memories to awake to this Sinful Sunday morning!

And I simply loved my modest rope panties courtesy of Lover No.14 . . . and
I mean both the knotting-on and the knotting-off!!!

See who else has been Sinful this Sunday from caressing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Zado Leather Chastity Belt” @UberKinky

I’ve always been intrigued by chastity devices . . . not for me silly (heavens no,
I never could !!!) . . . Male Chastity Devices I mean !

A lot of that intrigue has been from just the visual point-of-view as I do enjoy looking at the various ways male genitalia can be caged and locked and restrained. But, of course, I also enjoy the psychological side of being in physical control of that genitalia. In control of not just the wearers arousal, and sexual availability, but of their very manhood. All of the subs who have asked me over the past 18 months or so, to be their keyholder, have told me that it is that constant reminder of being under the control of a Mistress that is the reason they so desire to wear one. Which, of course, is just what I love to hear!!!

And the first place I always instruct them to look for the device of their choice, is my favourite on-line Kink shop, Uberkinky.

Now, I have reviewed one of the Uberkinky Chastity Devices before . . . See my video review from March 2015 . . . but a change of style is always fun isn’t it, so following a new enquiry recently I thought I would ask the lovely UberKinky-people for the Zado Leather Chastity Belt instead.

It arrived in quite a large, glossy cardboard box actually . . . I mean once I took it out of the discreet, plain manilla Jiffy-postal bag, that is. “Very nicely packaged” I thought, and the picture of the male-model on the front and back was very nice as well!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt is made from strong black leather and certainly looks, and feels, much more substantial than the previous devices I have seen. As you will see from my accompanying photos it is, as the name states, a Belt and Pouch arrangement rather than a cage-type attachment. And, because it is so different, I rather liked it.

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt also comes with a very impressive, and quite heavy little metal padlock, and three keys and, as you can probably imagine, I was quite keen to strap my willing assistant into his restraint.

The leather waist straps are 2 inches wide at the back and side, and padded with a foam lining for comfort and to prevent chafing against the skin. They circle around the subs waist with narrower 1 inch “tongues” which slide into a flap on each side of the top part of the pouch. The belt fits a waist size of between 39 to 55 inches . . . and although my sub doesn’t look quite as “fit” as the model on the box, I was quite happy with the result when I strapped him in!

Each left and right-hand tongue has fixing slots, spaced about 1 inch apart, which fit over a metal d-ring attached to the top of the pouch. This pouch, made up of thinner (half-inch wide) strips of leather forms a small basket-type design with narrow gaps of about ¾ inch square which allows our subjects skin to “breathe”. It is fixed to the straps with firm chrome rivets which attach to the back of the belt in a harness type design, running between the subs legs and joined at the back with a fixed d-ring type construction. I think it looks quite nice, pulling tightly between the bum cheeks, and adding to the overall “bondage” type element of the device.

As I mentioned, the padlock itself, is quite strong and clips over the front d-ring once each belt has been tightened and slotted in place over that d-ring. I’m told that the belt is “fairly comfortable” to wear, but it clearly does need to be pulled quite tightly, so as not to allow things to fall or squirm out of that pouch at the bottom or sides.

My sub qualified that “fairly comfortable” statement by saying that after several hours of wear, the thinner edges of the pouch occasionally did rub against his scrotum. “Good”, I replied, “that reminds you of your position then doesn’t it?”

In both looks and restraint then, I rather liked this first test of the Zado Leather Chastity Belt in action. However, a further hour or so after that “rubbing” moan came a more pressing . . . and I had to admit . . . a more realistic complaint. He “desperately needed a pee”!!!

Now, with the other devices I had already commissioned, toilet necessities were entirely possible (after a little practice and adjustment for “aim and direction”) through the bars, or small opening at the end of the cage or cylinder. And, of course, those designs don’t have an under-and-between-the-legs strap for when the wearer needs a “number 2”.

After a quick re-consideration and inspection of the front of the pouch, and some forced adjustment of the enclosed penis in an attempt to position it between the gaps of the basket-strapping, we both concluded that the result would be too hit-and-miss . . . and too messy. So a quick, temporary, release was necessary. This rather annoying interruption also made me realise that prolonged wear of The Zado Leather Chastity Belt would not be possible, not only because of toiletry necessity, but also because the leather would not be suitable for normal showering or bathing.

So I would have to, disappointingly, say The Zado Leather Chastity Belt is for me not practically suitable for prolonged enforced “chastity” in the traditional sense . . . for the usual requests I occasionally receive from new submissives wishing to be “locked in mistresses control for weeks and weeks”.

However, all is not lost for this belt, because what I can attest to is that it does make for the perfect Cuckholding-Chastity belt . . . which I have already put to successful use during several recent liaisons (for which video evidence may follow in the coming weeks!)

So if Cuckholding is your thing, then this Zado Leather Chastity Belt is absolutely ideal !!!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt:
Modesty Rating:
6 out of 10
Pros: Nice bondage-style G-string appearance. Waist-adjustable so not reliant on scrotum-size, and therefore doesn’t fall off!!!
Cons: Does not allow easy “toilet / ablutions” access.
Material: Good quality Leather with chrome metal finishing and D-ring fasteners. Substantial metal lock and keys.
Measurements: Adjustable belt to fit waist size 39 to 55 inches.
Weight:
Reasonably light to wear.
Colour: Black.
Waterproof: No.
After-care: After-use cleaning with anti-bacterial wipes. Long term occasional after-care as for standard leather products.
Supplier Product Link: The Zado Leather Chastity Belt
Additional Supplier Links: Male Chastity Devices
The Modesty Video Review:
To possibly follow if you are interested!

Additional links: UberKinky at Twitter  . . . and I really do recommend you browse the UberKinky Essential Guides for wonderfully comprehensive information on all things Kink!!!

The Zado Leather Chastity Belt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modestly Stained #sinful sunday

It’s just been so busy, busy, busy recently . . . but not too busy to indulge in some Sinful Staining late last night!!!

I’m sure there will be many more Sinful stains this Sunday from spanking (responsibly and with due care of course!) at the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Intent #sinfulsunday

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“I always have only the best intentions . . . for both of us!!!”

“Yes Mistress” he answered, kneeling in front of me.

For more Sinful intent this Sunday kneel and kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt from @UberKinky

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We all enjoy having new additions to our wardrobes occasionally don’t we . . . well, actually not just occasionally for me, I enjoy new additions all the time!!!

Because new clothes always make one feel special, and sexy . . . and this lovely new Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt certainly makes me feel like that, and has quickly become one of my favourites when opening my wardrobe for a kinky evening out.

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It arrived from my favourite on-line Kink store, Uberkinky, a few weeks ago and I was instantly captivated by the naughty, open-back look . . . and feel . . . as I slid it on.   It felt just lovely, sexy and clingy without being tight or uncomfortable. In fact the fit was absolutely perfect and the front zip fastening makes it so quick and simple to put on . . . and to take off  LOL!!!

The double-stitched shiny PVC waistband is 2¼ inches wide and adds a stylish look to the trim, whilst the skirt itself is made from that lovely polyester-spandex-type material which seems to just stretch and cling in all the right places, complimenting one’s curves rather than squeezing them tightly and making my bumps too obvious. I like wearing tight rubber and latex, but often feel my curves are being pushed and squeezed out of shape. But this skirt just feels so comfortable and shapely to wear and I’ve always, ALWAYS got such lovely comments whenever I’ve worn it.

But, of course, a lot of those lovely comments are about the look when I turn-around because, this Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt has the most wonderfully naughty open-back to show off one’s bottom. The open-cut shape just seems to perfectly accommodate my cheeks. It’s almost as though that “handmade” feature was in fact made-to-measure . . . but I’m sure that’s just because of the way the material stretches and clings so naturally.

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The skirt arrives with the three removeable straps attached of course. They are secured in place with popper studs on each side of the perfectly hemmed “openness”. The straps are each 1¼ inches wide . . . my “modesty straps” I call them . . . and are spaced equally apart to allow for teasing and tantalising glimpses of lots of one’s bare bottom. And, should you decide to display even more bare skin, as I have on the several occasions I’ve worn them out, the straps are easily and effortlessly detached from their studs.

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I’ve started my evening with the straps on, and then as I’ve become a little more daring (naughty???), I’ve discretely removed them and popped them into my handbag. Perhaps starting out by leaving just the middle one attached . . . and then, later in the evening, removing that one too!

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And I can certainly tell you I’ve then had even more attention . . . and nice comments . . . as the evening has gone on!!!

The whole skirt is so lovely and light, that it can be easily folded and carried in your bag if you’re travelling to a club or event and planning to change on arrival, and you prefer not to wear it on the way there!

The skirt is supplied with a complete spare set of studs, and another thoughtful and lovely touch, are the hanger-loops stitched into the PVC waistband. In fact the quality and whole “feel” of this lovely skirt is just wonderful, and the sizing chart . . . available from the product-link below . . . offers one of the most comprehensive and descriptive size ranges I’ve ever come across.

So, needless to say, I shall definitely be adding more from the Noir Handmade range. And if you are looking for some new stylish, sexy . . . and kinky . . . apparel for yourself, or your kinky partner in fact, . . . I suggest you make the Noir Handmade page at Uberkinky >here< your very next click!!!

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details:
Modesty Rating:
 10 out of 10
Pros: Stylish, sexy, slinky, sexy, kinky. Lovely to feel and wear, curve-hugging but in just the “right” way. Lovely quality stitching. Oh . . . and did I say “sexy”!!!
Cons: I’ve been having too much fun wearing it to notice any.
Material: Polyester Spandex (elastane) skirt with PVC trim and detail.
Sizing: Available from X-Small to 10XL (see the sizing chart from the product link below!).
Colour: Black.
After-care: Handwash separately in cold water.
Supplier Product Link: Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details
More from Noir at Uberkinky: Noir Handmade
The Modesty Video Review: Now you are being naughty! But ask me nicely and you just never know!

 

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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A Modest Fetish #Boobday Friday

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It’s London Fetish Weekend this weekend . . . so I’ll be very busy!
Very, very busy LOL!!!

But as today is  #Boobday Friday I thought I would share one of the outfits that I will be wearing at some point over the next three days and nights.

And if you tap Hyacinth’s #boobday logo below, you are sure to see lots more boobs on display this weekend, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Spiked #sinfulsunday

“Looking Up” is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday, but . . .

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. . . things may not be “looking up” for everyone within my crasp . . . depending, of course, on how “upward” one grows during the evening!!!

Experience more upward trends this Sunday by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Black Leather Flogger from Blackhorses

HeavyFlogger1Some weeks ago I posted a review on the Blackhorses-of-India Brown Leather Flogger FL0021 . . . and . . . as I mentioned, there were several other rather interesting items I received at the same time. All slightly different but all equally wonderful . . . so much so that I decided to review each of them separately . . . one stroke at a time.

And the one I’ve chosen for this post . . . and for my video review >here< is their amazing Black Leather Flogger FL0022.

Like all of the implements I received from Blackhorses . . . the workmanship in this flogger, is simply the best I have ever had the pleasure to hold . . . and use !!!

HeavyFlogger2It has 42 Leather Straps . . . Yes that’s right! 42 !!! . . . made, I’m told, from Indian Buffalo Leather. Each of them are 72mm wide, 3mm thick  and 21 inches in length. I’m not sure exactly how they are secured into the handle . . . as I think the binding trim is more for the look, rather than actually holding them in place . . . but I can tell you, that I have been regularly using this wonderful instrument for three months now without any signs at all of wear and tear. (Well not on the flogger itself of course . . . though the same can’t be said for the backs and bottoms of the subs that I have been using it on!!!) And those lovely 42 straps are still just as firmly and securely attached as they were for my very first session.

HeavyFlogger3The handle itself is made from a solid, varnished wood. It is 8 inches long, one and a half inches in diameter, and 5 inches in circumference. It feels every bit as substantial as it looks . . . and despite feeling quite heavy in the palm of ones hand compared to other floggers I have owned, it is wonderfully comfortable to hold and use. And I think it’s weight and substance actually makes it easier and more comfortable to use for long sessions than any of my other ones.

HeavyFlogger4Blackhorse has apparently been manufacturing equestrian type products . . . such as horses saddles and bridles, halters and harnesses . . . and, I’m quite certain, riding crops and whips . . . LOL !!! . . . since the 1990s. So to diversify into Bondage and Discipline products seems like a marriage made in heaven to me. And the items I have been se nt are certainly heavenly in my mind.

All of the company’s products are handmade and, as I said earlier, the quality and workmanship is simply outstanding.

Now . . . you will probably want to know about the “impact” this particular instrument has made with my submissives when I have used it on them. Well, I always take things slowly and surely . . . building up the tempo of my swinging and swishing to the pace and intensity that I know each particular recipient likes. And no-one is the same. But they all say they like it . . . just as much as I do.

I do love the sound it makes as I swing it through the air . . . and the sound it makes as it strikes the target. And, of course, I love seeing the blushes turning to stripes which apparently can last for several days!

HeavyFlogger5So . . . as you can probably tell . . . I do love this Flogger and I would recommend it, without hesitation, to anyone wishing to add another dimension to their impact play!!!

Now as I mentioned in my previous review, no documentation was supplied with the Flogger so I can’t give you any pricing details, nor specific information about materials. So for the purposes of accuracy my direct questions emailed to Blackhorses, and their emailed answers, were as below:

Q: Can you tell me more about the manufacturing process and materials please. Ie: “handmade”, but in just one factory or do you have more than one production facility? What sort of leather and how is it sourced? And also, my readers normally like to know that products are ethically produced (ie your workers are employed under proper conditions etc. etc.)???
A: We manufacture handmade products by using little help of machine. We using leather and iron hardware and other articles to produce our products. We have our one factory to mainly and some of articles provided by other sources. We are using best Indian buffalo leather for production. Our workers are skilled and experienced.

So, not the most comprehensive of answers, and the website details still seem as they were for my first review . . . but, what can I say other than, I am totally, totally in love with this Black Leather Flogger FL0022, and all of their other wonderful products hanging in my session wardrobe.

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Wonderfully made. Strong, thick leather and solid and substantial real wooden handle.
Cons: None what-so-ever . . . apart from that lack of documentation / information.
Material: Apparently . . . Indian Buffalo Leather and locally-sourced wood.
Measurements: Overall length 29 inches. Handle length 8 inches, circumference 5 inches, diameter at the grip 1 1/2 inches. Leather strands (42 of them), length 21 inches, width 7mm, thickness 3mm.
Noise: A wonderful “swish”, followed by a loud “thwack”.
Colour: Dark brown wooden handle and black leather strands.
Waterproof: No I would think not.
Cleaning: Obviously always wash thoroughly after use. I first wipe with my anti-bacterial cleansers then with warm soapy water and allow to dry, naturally, before next use.
Supplier Product Link: Blackhorses India
The Modesty Video Review: Click on the Cover Picture below, or visit my Toy Review page for some of my previous reviews.

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This Black Leather Flogger FL0022 was sent to me, free-of-charge by Blackhorses,  for an honest and un-biased review.

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The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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So . . . let me begin! #sinfulsunday

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And, tell me . . . how much time did you say we had ???

There is bound to be more Sinful beginnings, middles . . . and ends, to be discovered at this week’s Sinful Sunday from slapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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