Modestly Immersed #sinfulsunday

Whenever the sun comes out like it has today, I always feel like completely immersing myself in . . . naked . . . summer fun.

You know what I mean I’m sure . . . feeling warm ripples swirling all around!

Feeling the warmth of the sun caressing one’s skin . . .

Whilst taking care not to get too many rays on sensitive bits of course!

But just wanting to float away . . . completely relaxed and care-free.

But, sadly, these photos aren’t from today . . . rather they are from our wonderful Mediterranean vacation last summer!

So days like today just leave me looking forward even more, to immersing myself once again in those lovely relaxing waters.

But, in the meantime, to take my mind off things, I shall just have to immerse myself in this week’s Sinful Sunday by slapping the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

P.S. But remembering those pictures above, I suddenly realised they would be ideal for the “Underwater” category at Jades Scavenger Hunt pages.
And don’t forget, there are lots of other Scavenger Hunt immersions at
my Scavenger Listings page . . . and now 100 different locations on
my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K

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A Modest Easter #Boobday Friday

I was kept busy last night decorating the Easter Tree for the arrival of all the nieces and nephews this afternoon . . . and just couldn’t resist playing with some of the decorations myself.

Some of my playful fun simply wouldn’t be appropriate for this Good Friday,
but I thought this . . . first photo . . . might!

For more Easter treats this good, Good Friday, I suggest you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday because . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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A Modest Cove #polaroidspast

Modesty Ablaze – Rangiputa Cove – 1981

I’ve always enjoyed being at one with nature, even in 1981 . . . although I was obviously a little more “modest” way back then!!!

Quiet strolls along a beach, feeling the sand between my toes, the rippling of waves at the water’s edge and, of course, a cooling breeze on my . . . skin!!!

So when I learnt that “Nature” was this week’s theme at Marie’s
Wicked Wednesday, I just couldn’t resist dipping back into my
#polaroidspast nature-trails collection.

And I’m sure you will find many more nature-trails and tales from tapping
the button below!

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Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past
Be Proud of Who You Were . . . and Be Proud of Who
You Have Become!

Join me at my #polaroidspast slideshow.

Xxx – K

 

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Modestly Muffled #sinfulsunday

Sometimes one has to improvise . . . especially when you’ve forgotten
to pack your ball-gag!!!

But I’m sure you will find lots more people, being far more expressive, this
Sinful Sunday, by pinwheeling over the tender lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modestly Released #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned a few weeks ago . . . I do love my White Lace.

But, after a long day at the office, it is so lovely to unclip and release myself!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, there will be lots more lovely boobies being released . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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“Autumn Leaves” #sinfulsunday

Yes I know it’s now officially Spring . . . but for me, Autumn is actually my favourite time of year. And as those first leaves start to fall I’m always reminded of that beautifully haunting Eva Cassidy song “Autumn Leaves”.

So when I learned that this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday was to choose a photo “inspired by a Song Title”, my morning stroll in the woods last autumn, immediately sprang to mind.

Because, not only is “Autumn Leaves” one of my favourite songs,
but Eva’s story is one of the most inspirational I have ever come across. Especially poignant and inspirational for me for so many reasons . . . I really do urge you to take some time to view that video . . . I am sure you will find it as moving and motivational as I do.

And, of course, you can view all the other song titles at this week’s
Sinful Sunday, by rustling over the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modest Lubrications @Lubezilla

They say Great Sex is made from Great Communication . . . and whilst that’s certainly always been true for me, I would like to add another line to that mantra . . . “great sex is made even greater by great lubrication”.

Because as I’ve found as I’ve “matured” over the past few years, I really do need more lubrication than I used to. It’s just a natural consequence of growing a little older of course. The desire is still there . . . but as our bodies change, particularly through menopause, we produce less natural juices don’t we.

If you’re a regular visitor here you will know that I’ve been happily non-monogamous for a long, long time. (And I stress the happily . . . and long
. . . LOL!!!!) And in the earlier years of our open-relationship lifestyle I was actually very naïve about lubricants. And possibly even quite dismissive . . . as I simply didn’t ever seem to need any additional wetness.

The only time I would ever think about lube was during swingers evenings when, of course, it was a mandatory accessory . . . but as I say, I was naïve and yes, I will admit, probably uninterested.

What changed my mind? Well . . . nature changed my body . . . and my body changed my mind. So, over the past few years lubrication has been a new, and necessary accessory to my lifestyle.

And as it became more “necessary” . . . So it became much more important for me to think more about exactly what it was that was being spread on to my personal bits.

In the first instance(s) of course, I could sense what I liked and what I didn’t. Not from reading the label or asking for a detailed ingredients breakdown as it was about to be applied. After all in the “subdued” lighting of the couples room at Swingers-4-Fun et al, it was hardly the environment or appropriate moment(s) to enquire. But I could “feel” the sticky, tackiness (sic!!!) . . . or smell . . . or taste, the residue or after-burn! So I suddenly decided that I needed to take much more of an interest in lubricants and what they contained or what they were made of. After all, we are all much more careful nowadays of the additives and ingredients in the food we eat, and the deodorants, soaps and shampoo we use . . . so surely we should be just as careful about the personal body-products we use. In fact even more so !!!

Of course it was easy . . . very easy . . . to quickly shun the straight-off-the-supermarket-shelf, seemingly universally popular and well-known brand-name make. You know the one, the one that looks like cough-mixture and has that consistency of a slow-drying glue!

But where to go from there? After all, each of us are different! And each of us react in different ways and different situations. And nowadays there are just so many different sorts and different styles of lubricating options available.

Ok, well perhaps still not, in one’s local supermarket. But certainly on-line!!!

Water-based, silicone based, oil, hybrid . . . lubricants for anal play, naturally organic lubes, flavoured lubes, non-flavoured lubes. And what about all those ingredients, what are Parabens? Glycerins?

So many options and so many questions . . . it can be confusing and overwhelming even just thinking about them. But don’t worry, I’m not going to go into all those sorts of details here . . . you know me, I’m not the most technically-minded at the best of times.

But I don’t have to be . . . and you don’t either . . . because Lubezilla.com has the most incredible, fully-descriptive and comprehensive lists and links for anything and everything to do with lubricants, that I’ve ever come across.

This amazing website at Lubezilla.com is like a wonderfully wicked-pedia online-resource for what seems like almost every brand, and every type of lubricant, one could ever imagine. And browsing their fabulous website you can’t help but be impressed by the detail and research, and the obvious amount of time and effort that has gone into it’s development.

The layout is clear and easy to read and every link and every product seems to have an amazingly detailed description of  lubricant type, size, content, and ingredient-list of just what it’s made from.

AND every item has it’s own 1-minute-plus, descriptive video with product demonstrations and concise information about the particular brand and it’s uses. They are simply fabulous!!!

The Lubezilla 101 section of the site features blog-style postings covering a huge range of interesting and informative stories and helpful hints and answers to all those Frequently Asked Questions that one might have about not just Lubricants, but Condoms, sexual health and best practices.

AND . . . I’m getting all “lubricated” the more I talk about it . . . Lubezilla.com . . . doesn’t just stock lubricants, they also offer an absolutely huge range of Adult Toys and Accessories and an equally large range of Body and Beauty and Sexual Hygiene products.

For my North American readers Lubezilla.com has free delivery on all orders over $50 . . . BUT don’t worry, they do ship internationally as well, and the packaging is discreet and noted as “novelty products”.

As I say, I’ve become quite excited as I’ve been sitting here typing away about Lubezilla.com . . . and I’m sure you will soon be thrilling to learn more about lubrication . . . and more . . . as well.  So I truly urge you to start with their lovely welcoming video by clicking on the link above (or >here< if you’re already too excited to be able to scroll back up the page!!!) I know you won’t be disappointed.

Lubezilla Dot Com:
Modesty Rating:
10 out of 10
Pros: Easy to navigate and superbly comprehensive and informative pages and links.
Cons: I honestly can’t think of any!
Website: Lubezilla.com

Additional links: At Twitter  . . . and I really do recommend you browse their Lubezilla 101 pages for wonderfully comprehensive information and FAQs!!!

There are no affiliate links used within this review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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A Modest Shoe Fetish #sinfulsunday

It’s always exciting whenever I meet someone who share’s my fetish for shoes!

And I enjoy that real sense of sharing even more . . .

When I can tell that my choice of footwear is obviously being appreciated!

In fact it often makes me want to just . . .

Jump for joy . . . up and down . . . and over and over again !!!

I’m sure there will be lots more joyful excitement to be found this
Sinful Sunday, by stomping on the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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White Lace #Boobday Friday

I do love lace! It makes one feel . . . well you know . . . lady-like.
And I do love this particular white lace.

I may not wear it often, but when I do it does make me feel nice!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, you will feel nice too, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Fantasy Wand” @UberKinky

I’ve been curious about electro-play for some time . . . curious because I have often been asked about it by prospective submissives . . . but the only Electro-Stim toy in my Mistresses-box up until now (my Cockshocker) has proved a little too extreme for most of them.

So I was delighted to receive the Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Fantasy Wand from my favourite on-line Kink store, Uberkinky, not only because of it’s description as being “perfect for electro-sex beginners”, but also because it allows hand-held, rather than fixed strap-on, use. There are lots of different electro-stim devices and apparatus at electro sex pages, but from the look and design of the Fantasy Wand, I felt it would be ideal for a little more “sympathetic” control.

The Wand is nicely packaged in a glossy cardboard box with excellent illustrative instructions and tips printed on the reverse and sides. But I must admit that when I first unwrapped the wand from it’s bubble-wrapping, the plastic-moulded shaft itself did feel a little “cheap”. However, once I overcame that initial disappointment, it is light and easy to hold and is certainly simple to operate with a large control button which allows one to cycle through nine different levels of intensity. Each level is indicated by a red LED number which displays at the top of the switch as it changes. The power, or charge, is provided by one normal AA Alkaline battery which slides into a compartment on the base of the handle. The battery is not supplied by-the-way, so you would have to purchase that separately, (or borrow from one of your other battery operated toys, or household items).

The wand itself is just over 6 inches long but is supplied with three different, detachable, heads which screw onto the top of the wand and each gives a slightly different sensation, particularly at the lower intensity settings*. The flat head (30mm square) has five rows of what I would describe as small “spikes” raised above the surface. They are actually very small but give the feeling of “sparking-pinpricks” on contact. The larger cylindrical head (40mm long and around 60mm in circumference at its widest point) gives a more tangible “jolt”, whilst the smaller, rounded head (10mm in diameter) has a more “tingling” sensation. *These three, distinct, sensations are more discernible at the lower intensity settings because, for me at least, if the intensity is set on the higher level of 8 or 9, my own uncontrollable reaction is to pull away immediately on contact . . . without wanting to try and differentiate on the specific sensation! I am obviously an electro-sissy and not capable, in any way, of being on the receiving end!!!

And I know this because I found it quite tricky initially to operate the wand. Not tricky in the sense of turning it on, or selecting the level I wanted to dish-out, but tricky in the actual application . . . because in order to discharge-the-charge, one has to firmly hold the head of the wand against the receivers skin, and not just tap it against the skin as I kept wanting to do. I think the anticipation of imagining that the receiver would immediately “jump” meant that initially I was involuntarily just tapping the head on my sub’s flesh and not holding it down, firmly in place. So, of course, I was pulling the head away far too quickly for it to actually discharge.

But once I mastered my rhythm of application . . . I actually found it quite fun to watch and apply as my “testing-assistant” jumped and exclaimed . . . and described the sensation of each charge. Oh, and there is no need to worry about over-doing the charge, because simply holding down the button for more than a few seconds automatically turns the wand off. I found this a bit tricky to master at first as well, but . . . practice makes perfect!

I did learn rather quickly though, to not touch the “receiving” partner or submissive, with my free hand because that obviously completes an electrical circuit, or contact, and sent a surging jolt right back to me! So be warned, if you are an electro-sissy like me, apply . . . but don’t touch . . .

Uberkinky do say that conductivity can be improved by applying some electro-gel to the receiver’s skin . . . and whilst I haven’t used a specific electro-gel, I have found that applying some normal water-based lube has a similar affect.

Now I realise that real aficionados of electro-stim will probably consider The Uberkinky Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Fantasy Wand as a rather inconsequential toy . . . and I also realise that electro-play will certainly not be for everyone, especially as we all have different levels, or limits, as to what we like or can take. But, after a bit of practice, I’ve actually found it to be quite a lot of fun. And I think the different intensity levels and settings, also make it a useful starting toy for some sexy playtime fun with one’s own partner. It even comes with a small black-out mask to heighten the intensity with the extra-fun element of surprise.

And, in any event, for the sake of comparison and different options, Uberkinky have lots of “other” electric items and accessories available at their Electro Sex page >here<.

The Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Fantasy Wand:
Modesty Rating:
6 out of 10
Pros: Light and easy to hold. 9 different “intensity” levels.
Cons: The heads are a little “fiddily” to screw on at times and I worry about cross-threading after a period of time.
Material: ABS Plastic body and Metal conducting heads.
Measurements: Just over 7 inches with one of the heads attached. (The wand shaft itself is just over 6 inches in length).
Colour: Silver.
Power: One AA Alkaline Battery (not supplied!)
Waterproof: No.
Does not include: Latex, Phthalates
After-care: As with all sex-toy products the shaft and heads should be cleaned with damp cloth and dried immediately after use.
Safety Warning: The included instructions leaflet warns against use for people with various medical conditions such as heart disease, epilepsy, pregnancy, etc. Also should not be used internally!!!
Supplier Product Link: The Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Fantasy Wand
Additional Supplier Links: Uberkinky Electro Sex
The Modesty Video Review:
To possibly follow, so just let me know if you are interested. (P.s. It does already feature in one of my private videos!)

Additional links: UberKinky at Twitter  . . . and I really do recommend you browse the UberKinky Essential Guides for wonderfully comprehensive information on all things Kink!!!

The Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Fantasy Wand was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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