Modesty’s High Tea #Boobday Friday

One expects to be served tea and breakfast in bed every morning . . . in fact
I insist upon it!

And, whilst most take “High Tea” in the afternoon or early evening, I prefer mine to start the day.

After all, afternoon’s and evening’s are for a glass of wine . . . or two . . .
aren’t they? And for visiting Hyacinth’s, Boobday Friday whilst I tipple,
because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Highlights @EroticonUK #wickedwednesday

At Eroticon March 2013.

January marked the fifth year of my blog pages here at modestyablaze.com
. . . so it seems only fitting to celebrate my 5th anniversary as part of this week’s Wicked Wednesday theme of “Highlights”.

Especially as early next month (March 4th and 5th) the Eroticon UK conference takes place here in London.

Because attending my first Eroticon back in 2013 was not only a highlight of the past five years, but one of the contributing factors in encouraging me to develop and continue my on-line adventures as Modesty Ablaze.

Up until that point I’d been a shy (modest) wallflower, occasionally posting excerpts from my “lifestyle” diary archives, curious . . . and cautious . . . and wanting to learn more!

Attending that conference not only changed Modesty Ablaze . . . but was empowering and motivational personally on so many different levels as well. Meeting like-minded people, with so many different experiences and adventures, and with such a sharing sense of “community” was simply wonderful.

It was at Eroticon that I learnt about the wondrously fun Scavenger Hunt, discovered Yes, (the world’s greatest lubricant), saw the brilliantly creative photography of John Tisbury, and viewed and listened in awe to an inspirational video-link-address by Cindy Gallop and her amazing #realworldsex vision of MakeLoveNotPorn.

And of course . . . meeting so many wonderfully open and welcoming . . . fellow attendees, (as I mentioned in my post-Eroticon 13 post from March 2013).

So it truly was a highlight of my years as Modesty Ablaze !!!

Now, I’ve . . . rather inconveniently . . . been abroad on vacation on every occasion Eroticon has been held since that first visit. So I am SO looking forward to attending once again this year.

Oh, and – I’m still rather shy of course . . . so if you should see me there . . . please come-up and say hello, because I’d love to hear all about your experiences and highlights too !!!

And if you tap on the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday button below, you’re sure to discover Highlights from other people . . . some of whom I look forward to meeting at EroticonUK 2017!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest Shirt #Boobday Friday

I don’t know about you, but I find something quite sexy about slipping
into someone else’s shirt!

And this morning I’m even tempted to wear it into the office . . . buttoned-up
of course!

But I rather suspect there will be lots of unbuttoned shirts and blouses at Hyacinth’s, Boobday Friday today, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap On Harness” @UberKinky

I find there’s something quite empowering about pulling-on a strap-on! Even before my Mistressing, I had bought one several years earlier . . . for “home-use”. Just for that feeling of being completely and totally in control, reversing the “norm” . . . and you’ll probably know how much I enjoy reversing the norm!

That very first strap-on was actually neither comfortable nor practical and I had to replace it once I began more regular “sessioning”. But I’d never been completely happy with the replacement I’d chosen either . . . sacrificing style for what I thought would be stronger and more likely to stay in the right place once I’d got it on. So I was quite pleased when I received the Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap On Harness from my favourite on-line kink store Uberkinky as, at the very least, I would have an alternative option in my Mistressing wardrobe.

Uberkinky have quite a selection of items in their Strap On Harnesses range, so one is spoilt for choice. But I am delighted to say that the Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap On Harness has immediately become not just an alternative option . . . but the only option . . . for my sessions.

The harness arrived quite modestly packaged inside a clear, sealed, plastic bag. No outer packaging, apart from the plain manilla bubble-wrap lined postal envelope of course! But as soon as one feels the actual leather itself, you immediately feel the quality and strength of manufacture, and no it is not made in China . . . it is actually manufactured in Canada!!!

The cherry colour gives the Aslan a stylish look on it’s own, but it is the fine stitching and strong chrome double-rivets, d-rings and buckles that make this harness stand-out from my previous (and now discarded) strap-on apparel.

 

The design of the front triangular panel, and easily adjustable straps, make the Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap On Harness really quite light, easy to put-on, and extremely comfortable to wear. That front panel has a circular opening for a dildo (not included) and three adjustable straps with strong chrome button studs which unclip, and clip back again, to hold a rubber o-ring to hold your dildo in place.

Just an important note: the Aslan Strap-on Harness doesn’t come with a dildo, but the harness does come with an o-ring already attached, which proved to be a perfect fit for my favourite red “starter” dildo. But I found it quick and easy to replace this with a slightly larger one when up-sizing to my medium or large dildo’s . . . for my more “experienced” submissives.

Chrome d-rings attach the straps of the belt at each side of the top of  the front panel. At 1” wide these straps are just the perfect width, stable and so comfortable you soon forget they are what is holding “your manhood” in position. The adjustable buckles on each side of the belt means that the harness fits comfortably around one’s hips rather than the waist! There are two slightly thinner (3/4″) straps attached to the bottom of the front panel which run under the crotch and back up to the back-belt. These straps can be worn in either a g-string type arrangement running side-by-side between one’s bum-cheeks, or in a jock-strap style across the cheeks up to the belt. Again they are completely, and easily, adjustable where they attach to the belt, but . . . and this is my only criticism of the Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap-on Harness . . . I would have liked there to have been a small band, or perhaps clip of some kind, to hold the strap together after it slots through the locking d-rings and folds back on itself.

The natural curl of the leather makes the ends of each strap here curl up and away from the body . . . I know I am only talking about an aesthetic “look” that in no-way detracts from the function of this strap-on harness, and that you will probably think I am just being overly anal (excuse the pun!) . . . but “the look of things” is always important to me as well.

So, if you look closely at the pictures to the right you will see that I have attached some tape around the ends just to keep them flat . . . but, as I say, you may think I am just being “anal”.

But really that is my only, only criticism of the wonderful Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap-on Harness . . . and as I mentioned at the beginning of my review . . . this harness has become my favourite and the very first item I pack into my sessioning carry-case!!!

The Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap-on Harness:
Modesty Rating:
9 out of 10
Pros: Wonderfully comfortable. Easy to put-on and quickly adjust to the “best-fit”.
Cons: Side straps curl back up and would benefit from an additional sliding catch to attach back to itself.
Material: Good quality Canadian leather with chrome metal finishing and D-ring attachments.
Measurements: Small Size to fit hips 26-44 inches or Large Size to fit hips 36-56 inches. Main belt width of 1 inch, thinner crotch straps of 3/4 inch.
Dildo opening:
Ring diameter 1.75 inches.
Weight:
0.227kg and light and comfortable to wear.
Colour: Cherry.
Waterproof: No.
After-care: A comprehensive tag is attached from Aslan with easy and sensible cleaning and after-care instructions.
Supplier Product Link: The Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap-on Harness
Additional Supplier Links: Aslan Leather and Uberkinky Strap On Harnesses
The Modesty Video Review:
To possibly follow, so just let me know if you are interested!

Additional links: UberKinky at Twitter  . . . and I really do recommend you browse the UberKinky Essential Guides for wonderfully comprehensive information on all things Kink!!!

The Aslan Leather Cherry Jag Strap-On Harness was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modestly Polished #sinfulsunday

The difficulty with owning so many pairs of shoes . . . is finding the time to
keep them all clean and freshly polished.

But I am quite lucky in that regard . . . why, only today, I had another willing submissive begging to help with a personal “shine and polish” . . . and,
you know me, I am always willing to oblige.

For lots more Sinful polish this Sunday, simply kneel down and . . .
respectfully . . . lick the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Bra-relief #Boobday Friday

Quite often I don’t wear a bra into work at all! But sometimes it is simply
a necessity isn’t it?

But, oh the relief, when I can rush home at the end of the day and
“unclip and release”. Particularly when I look in the mirror and realise that perhaps my newest bra hasn’t quite worn itself in yet!

Still, I generally have someone quite quickly offering to
“massage those strap marks away”!!!

  And I’m sure there will be lots more unclipping and releasing at Hyacinth’s, wonderful Boobday Friday today, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly Stepping Out #sinfulsunday

I recently mentioned how excited I’d been to discover this lovely pair of shoes at a charity shop. Well last night I stepped-out in them for the very first time.

And I’m delighted to say they were very well received . . . in fact, I was told they made an immediate, and lasting, impression!!!

There are bound to be lots more people to be found stepping out by prodding the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Rope Marks #Boobday Friday

I do so love rope . . . I love the feel . . . and I love the marks it leaves!!!

And this is one of my favourite rope photos from a session that I was lucky enough to have with the amazing John Tisbury early in 2013.

He made me feel completely at ease with myself for every photo he took,
and I am so happy to share it here this #Boobday Friday . . .

  Because, as Boobday’s lovely hostess Hyacinth, says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly Thrifty #sinfulsunday

You might be surprised to know that my biggest fetish is for . . . shoes !!!

Yes, I do so LOVE shoes . . . and, over the past few years I’ve probably collected, and been “tributed”, enough pairs of shoes to make over a years
worth of Sinful Sunday posts.

But . . . in this age of austerity, and responsible management of one’s finances . . . I am always conscious of being careful, and thrifty, about my fetish.

So, I was delighted when I recently came across this lovely pair of shoes at my local charity shop for just an amazing . . . £10 !!!

And, as I strut across the dungeon floor for my latest session, I just know that I will be wondering just who did they last belong to, where were they last worn? and . . . what exactly happened on the last occasion they were used??? 

Stamp, gently, on the Sinful lips below for more questions . . . and answers
this Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Bouquet #Boobday Friday

Today is the first Boobday Friday of the year. It’s a little too early in the morning . . . even for me . . . to raise a glass to wish for lots of fun and laughter for the months ahead, so I thought it would be more appropriate to raise a morning, blossoming, bouquet instead.

So here’s hoping that we all have a budding and blooming 2017 . . . full of happiness and love for everyone!!!

Because, as Hyacinth, the lovely hostess of Boobday Friday says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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